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Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nonexisting1: 9:20pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
My father is a simp and too nice to vaginarians. He is also very extravagant with money. Recently, the old man has been admiring me. I am the exact person he had wanted to be but I guess it's too late for him now. My stinginess and my zero tolerance for vaginarians and their shenanigans are on another level. Cheers to all the gentlemen like me jare. 22 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Chibuzoripob: 9:21pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by tnerro1(m): 9:22pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
He smoked and drank, that’s the reason I don’t drink or smoke 13 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by illicit(m): 9:22pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
My dad died at 50 I pray to live longer 12 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by fergie001: 9:23pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Just too quiet for my liking. 5 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by DaveOnuoha92(m): 9:23pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Growing up in those days. My father was like a demigod in the house. He never speaks to us except through my mother. And before she then convince him to pay stuffs for us, it takes above a month to sort em out. I thank God for grace and mercy upon my life; I have 3kids and has never shown those horrific childhood experiences to my loved ones. Currently, they’re getting the best childhood experience of their lives by having moments for conversations I never had; and I’ll always make sure the bond never dies. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by FitCorper: 9:23pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
SultanOfPuna:Just don’t try too hard to appear tough. Handle your woman with respect and tolerance and watch how she respects you wholeheartedly, some go even ready fight their parents because of you. 3 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Fujiyama: 9:23pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Hmm... |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by valiju: 9:23pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Chores not been done or not done properly is the major mental torment any man can go through ..Maybe you are just lucky to have a wife or kids that can do it properly most time. Skyview01: 2 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Deeprooted: 9:24pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Polygamy. I'm not doing that sh!t. It tears family apart and the father end up not being loved much coz everyone sees him as "general father". I loved my dad nonetheless! It hurts me to see how unappreciated he was. He died and willed everything to me. I showed him all the love while he was alive. Rest on Dad. 22 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by geoworldedu: 9:26pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Hezzyluv:Same here, just that I still couldn't change it. 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by MrHighSea: 9:28pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Being too religious. + women matters. Lost him 2 wks ago. 19 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by kkins25(m): 9:29pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
He didn't value the wife who's going through hell to see him succeed until he was in a mess... Didn't waste the opportunity to nag.. nag nag and nag... Poor at finanace.. wasted lots of resources. He may have been the head, but his wife was the backbone of the family. He is quick to insult, but can't stomach a taste of his own medicine. Having been a victim, i also developed the habit. Working on it though.. 15 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by sacajawea: 9:30pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
SultanOfPuna:Okay. Simp to who? Your mum? |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by QueenDima47(f): 9:30pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Mine is too kind to a fault 😠 2 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Igbokwechika101(m): 9:31pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
My father is a good man.he doesn't like noise.he pray always. 4 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by sacajawea: 9:31pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Nairas2dollars:You are a Mad fellow... You are not sane 8 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Myer(m): 9:33pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Skyview01: This is great. My dad is a great man, very responsible and honorable man. He was however self-righteous and this affected his parenting and so much and created a gulf between us. By God's grace that is being settled and will end in testimony. He taught us religion instead of leading us to personal encounter with Christ. By God's grace I hope to lead my children to have a personal encounter with God and be filled with the Holy Spirit. This is my heartiest heart cry and so help me God. It is such a beautiful sight to see young kids and teens who have personal relationship with God. They excel in virtually all they do and know how God leads them through life. 15 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by BabaCommander: 9:33pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
He married very late. I was born when he was already in his 60s... imagine that.. I married at 25, and I'm done with child bearing at 33. I would probably be a grandpa before 60. 2 He always worries about everything. I think he was probably suffering from anxiety disorders without knowing it. Poor guy! RIP Dad. I'm not comfortable about the country of ours, and I do believe that there's no remedy for her woes. But I ain't worried tbh. Besides putting concrete plans in place, I have got Christ Jesus the Son of God. So I know I will be good regardless of what becomes of Nigeria. 22 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Lawalemi(m): 9:33pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Being extremely harsh on children 8 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by tosyne2much(m): 9:34pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
He tolerates bullshits a lot even when he should voice out and rebuke it and this makes him vulnerable I'm the exact opposite 7 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by debbydams(f): 9:42pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Skyview01:anger . Finding it hard to forgive 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Lamanii22(f): 9:44pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
My parents generally used to shout I think I inherited that lol 😂 can’t stop shouting 6 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nemesis0147(m): 9:44pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
My father too show love outside. The man will be paying neighbors school fees before paying ours sometimes. He too trust which was very bad for him as a politician. Stubborn too….hardly takes advice. Na stubbornness end him last last . 7 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by beyondPen(m): 9:46pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
735i: Same here. Mine was too nice that if you put water in his mouth and tell him to stay there before you come back it will still be there. I notice i took the trait and i was cheated for long time until i said never again 6 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by OnionBandit(f): 9:46pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
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Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by yewit37486: 9:48pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Nice thread Skyview01. 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by 22o62021: 9:49pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
His non chalant attitude towards money He is poor and he doesn't care to add to the one he has so far he sees food to eat. Telling me to go ND marry I reject it now 7 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by obinna58(m): 9:49pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
I changed it already, drinking problem 6 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by beejay85: 9:52pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Skyview01:I would rather rap my head around what my father did right effortlessly that am currently struggling to get right 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by AlphaHakimi: 9:52pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Children are like hot metal, the way you shape them is the way they turn out in future( at least 90%of the time). Most fathers were harsh because they wanted their kids to turn out well. That does not mean they felt hatred for their wife or kids, they wanted to get it right. I still advise anyone reading this, don't be soft with your kids especially during their formative years. Be firm and strong, that way you will raise children with home training. Do you know that some of the negative things you don't do today is basically because you have home training?? This is why a dysfunctional family(family without a father or mother) is a menace to the society. I love my dad because he made me into a real man. No womanizing, no drinking, no smoking, follow all men with goodwill. Shalom 23 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
yewit37486: Thank you. 3 Likes |
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