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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by GoodFaith: 3:23pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
tshtsh:Dude " building wealth and attaining financial freedom is a very slow process "-- hard Building wealth have opportunity Cost what are you giving up for a better tomorrow agreed with You Edo state I use bus, keke and Bolt I left home over 37 years ago. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Nobody: 3:29pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
People's mothers are dying everyday while still being stuck in Nigeria. People will always die! 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by lendahand(m): 3:30pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
tshtsh:so what's the essence of the pomp and show?? That's the fake lifestyle that guy was talking about... |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ifakiland(m): 3:31pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:thats why you need to japa with correct visa and paper.....illegal immigration isnt japa, its a crime. 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by fetrillion(m): 3:32pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: The op is uninformed. This write-up should not even be centered on UK because you can hardly survive in UK illegally. If you even find yourself in Scotland,you are dead.Because without your brb ,you can't do anything meaningful. 98 percent of employer here would ask you for your sharecode/Write to work validity visa. The op should have focused more on US,CANADA. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ifakiland(m): 3:33pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:so your relative na illegal immigrant? that your relative problem....nobody said you cant visit home cos you japa na your relative no get valid visa. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by fykes(m): 3:36pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: I don't know where you people live in UK...5k pounds is nothing if you work as a PM in London even some care workers make 5k in a month |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by fykes(m): 3:38pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
fetrillion:I marvel at the boldness of ignorance on this forum. Peeps just pick up their lousy phones to boldly type about societies they know nothing about and then seek to pass it off as veritable even to other people with first hand experience. Duh |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by GoodFaith: 3:38pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
tshtsh: People move for better life U are not narrow minded for having paper before u moved to Canada- smart move You thinking all Nigerians have the same opportunity like U is not correct from illegal to legal 90% of Nigerians Please don't tell me about Canada because I know better. Canada is my second home from my present third home I felt I could do better in my present home than Canada when I moved out of Canada and Yes I have done better Canada is a better place compared to 28 years ago for black regarding jobs opportunities. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by folake4u(f): 3:42pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Sweetvie: Lmao. Na your brother oh. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by lendahand(m): 3:42pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
GoodFaith:why do I have headache reading your English?? To think you're in Canada is even more worrisome... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by fykes(m): 3:46pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
alphabbey1: No cap wetin you no know...free care sponsorship plenty here. Especially auxillary care. Infact one is currently ongoing in Reading as this morning |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by GoodFaith: 3:47pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
lendahand:Sorry, I haven't lived in Canada for over 28 years now. I knew I could do better in other country. I moved had PR I moved out and I have done better now. Canada was great and Canada is a different place today compared to 28 years ago |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Rebelutionary: 3:56pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
kingsleyLAF07:There are no "Positives" or "Negatives", there are only REALITIES!. The thing with Nigerians is anytime one presents an alternate reality we harshly discountenance it or we zoom into the "it is not my portion" zone. To broaden the conversation of what @sukkot is saying; there are lessons to be learnt on both realities and if only we would consider objectively both sides of the coin we will better guide our life choices! I remember when Pastor (Dr) Emmanuel Olumide did that explosive series on this Japa thing and people said the same thing you are saying that he was painting it all doom and gloom! Hmmm...dont we have Nigerians in this category that the OP raised being offloaded back to Nigeria? Maybe if they had been more informed, maybe they wouldn't take the illegal route and find themselves in the unfortunate situation they now find themselves. Truth be told not every person who japa (legally) has business doing so. 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by GoodFaith: 4:00pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Rebelutionary:Like u said there are "Positives" or "Negative" some become successful why other failed. life is a chance, hard work, some common sense and God. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Celepope: 4:05pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
I have been on Nairaland for quite awhile and this dude Sukkot is one of the most pitiful people I’ve ever come across on this forum. He always sound depressed I guess it’s owing to his failure in his sojourn abroad. People that behave this way are mostly people that were either deported or were miserable and feel the system rigged them out. We have millions of people doing well abroad but he only chooses the stories of those not doing well to fuel his frustration. God forbid I have this kind of people around me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by juman(m): 4:05pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Dont travel abroad if you are doing well at home. Its only good for sapa people. It tough to make money in abroad. Recently I often use uber in the night. I discussed with the drivers how far. They said in any day they desire good money, they have to drive for fourteen to sixteen hours that day. They said money from eight hours drive is only enough to pay bills. Abroad is tough. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by fiyi: 4:07pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Sweetvie: 4:09pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
folake4u:How he take be my brother Na Yoruba guy? |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by KaptainAfrika: 4:18pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
That's why you have Whatsapp Video...don't let your mum swear for you. Besides if you can make a case to your employer, you may be able to visit. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by SIRTee15: 4:19pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: I think u need to heed your won advice. Leave abroad people alone. Leave those who wants to seek greener pasture elsewhere alone. Live your own life in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by BluelightHotel: 4:24pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
I’m sure that your parents will always want you to be happy lol,you can’t lose your parents and lose your money too..so there’s no point going back only to start suffering few weeks later.imo. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by UnfairLife7(m): 4:38pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:Lol Maybe you should tell that to millions of unemployed graduates roaming the streets daily. Only a dumb ass will listen to you and your likes. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by folake4u(f): 4:46pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Sweetvie: He fit be na. 🤣🤣🤣 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by afroxyz: 5:05pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
10 to 15 years to settle, buy house? Please ask them how they went - if their visa is legit or what jobs they are doing. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Sweetvie: 5:26pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
folake4u:I hear o 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ednut1(m): 5:26pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
tshtsh:even me i left my 05 camry in 9ja for a relative , used it when I went to Nigeria last year and some people were telling me the same thing you are saying lol. Here self I bought the cheapest car in the Toyota dealership which was camry, some people were telling me I should have gone for benz or bmw. I was like nawa o🤣🤣. You go see someone earning 70k a year and buying 2022 benz wahala 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ednut1(m): 5:32pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Celepope:he probably hasn’t left Nigeria or he failed in the abroad despite been born there so can’t stand people coming to succeed in same place |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Vadese1: 5:52pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Even if you come back to Nigeria to be with your sick mom without money, The journey is useless. Is better one stay back in UK to fight your way out and prepare a better leaving for siblings. The hospital and the medical team will take care of the mother back home if cash is available |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ishilove: 6:59pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:Lmao! Sukkot, I thought you have repented from this your bad mouth?? 🤣🤣 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ishilove: 7:09pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
lendahand:Guy... 😂😂😅 |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by armyofone(m): 8:01pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
Don't you think living life independently is good? Too much emotional tie is something that is stiff to us black people ? He is abroad pursuing life maybe with wifey and kids. Why worry about the parents in Nigeria ? If he is taking care of them, what else do you want him to do ? So he shouldn't grow up at some point and fly away ? Sukkot- Sukkot - Sukkot, how many times did I call you ? 1 Like 1 Share |
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