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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Cowbell521: Just cos your father the wise one, left your mother and called her names, doesn't automatically apply to other mothers okay? Know when to stop playing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:30pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by CedarHoldings: 3:36pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Because wife too like to salaye |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by bonnyhope: 3:46pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
MySexyMoni: Na wao!! Na do or die be this o |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by phemmyfour: 3:47pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
theInfinity:Most times , women undergo different changes in physique after birth and the man struggles to come to terms with the reality that once known attractive figure 8 has lost shape |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Amumaigwe: 3:49pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Cowbell521: After confirming that the children are actually his. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by IamOrei(m): 3:50pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Nwodosis: Nope.....u are wrong |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by MySexyMoni(f): 3:50pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by bonnyhope: 3:51pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
talented321: You are just using this word ",love" up and down Love fades with time |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Emeskhalifa(m): 3:53pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Nwodosis: You've said it all. The love and attention shift to the kids leaving the man stranded and all alone to himself. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by lexrichy(m): 3:53pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
talented321:you've said it all |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Hassanmaye(m): 3:58pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Omuuvwie:Truthfully men get easily bored that's why God allow us polygamy 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Hassanmaye(m): 3:59pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:100% 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by ConquerorK: 4:00pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:What stops men is time and household responsibility Time: men mostly have to stay longer at work to provide for the family so when they return home they're usually tired and can't make time to bound with children as much as the mothers do Household responsibility: there's two major angle to this 1. It's in the aspect of collecting foods and other benefits from parents. Children feel loved when someone gives them something especially food and other eatables. Mothers are the ones directly cooking and feeding the children so the children naturally grow more attached 2. There needs to be a iron hand in the house. Mothers are soft to their children hence father's are tasked to be rigid so the child does not become spoilt. Mothers care, fathers correct and lead The thing is fathers love their children just as much as mothers do but cannot show it because of the responsibility they have to carry, also fathers need to care for everyone equally else someone will feel left out. Mothers on the other hand mostly prioritize their children over their husband and care more about the children so the husband is left out and over time a gap is created In the end, it's no one's fault but a balance needs to be made in parenting |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by spiceadole: 4:06pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
theInfinity: Who sweet names and petting epp? I have my children and make my own money. Bliss |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by correctguy101(m): 4:07pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
10thTenthMan: Bless you brother... What can we say? The spirit could be willing, but the body is damn weak. Only a serious sense of responsibility can save most men and women from their foolishness of not understanding that people must age. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Ghoxt: 4:08pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Did you consider the change in the woman's behavior as well before making such concision? |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by LAW2577: 4:09pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Some housewives don't respect their husbands anymore, monetary or financial issues, wives attention shift to their children, neglecting their husbands and husband finding solace in side_chicks. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by frog12: 4:11pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
you are very funny there's one woman I dey look at now. it's like her face dey change within 2 years of marriage. no longer attractive like before. she con dey use her hairstyle to make self look like before. it's the reality. phemmyfour: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by nedu2000(m): 4:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
It is actually the other way round |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Phraences: 4:14pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
bukatyne: They got married to further their lineage. Most people marry nowadays because society demands it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Phraences: 4:17pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: And not all women have money to go for breast lift, vaginal rejuvenation surgery etc. Childbirth is really hard on a woman. A godfearing man who loves his wife will not cheat. He will see beyond the physical. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Munzy14(m): 4:25pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
mariahAngel:Couples must take eachother first... Kids will grow to find their destiny path. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by redirect(m): 4:29pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
the problem is that must of them married because of lust of the flesh |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Phraences: 4:31pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
chocboi78: This is the honest truth. I see some testimonies from women who have been praying to settle down. Then all of a sudden someone proposes, maybe an old friend or someone they just met, and in three months they are married. Did you marry him because of love or because you are running out of time? Did he marry her because of love or because he feels it is time to settle down and birth the next generation? That’s why inability to conceive can destroy a marriage in Nigeria. If you never marry at a certain âge in this society you are a failure. If you don marry and you never conceive after some time you be failure. So people unknowingly imprison themselves because of society. However, men are lucky. Society has given them the power to cheat and not be held accountable so for a short time they can be free from the marital prison while the woman is shackled with taking care of the children and having to be a good wife and mother. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Emma1Oj(m): 4:36pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:ko si respect rara. Y u carry fight come na..? My name isn't Tinubu oo or related to him o. Na beating remain make u beat me like dis oo. Tank God I'm not close to u if not dis will be anoda naira Marley. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by georgee(m): 4:36pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:Go and ask mothers why they are quick to peronalise their kids when talking to the husband Ahh.. Omo mi daaa(Where is my child) Ahhh.. Ki lo shey omo mi (What happened to my child) The husband go just dey look like.. Is he in the right house.. Women put emotions into every damn thing that's why God made us men head of the family 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Dancebreaker: 4:37pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
bukatyne:Lol. In this era that people marry to tick the box, achieve status expected by society or get security na im you dey mention love? Wetin concern love for this matter, bikonu? If the man nor careful, the child she dey shower with love fit be another man pikin sef. Marriage na scam these days. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by maasoap(m): 4:40pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
bukatyne:Lol. You think the answer is that simple. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Babastrong(m): 4:42pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
I
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ALHAMDULILLAH. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by maasoap(m): 4:42pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Nazgul:Circumstances surrounding cheating in marriages are diverse, sometimes "genuine love" is not enough to prevent it. |
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Change Towards Their Wives After Having Kids by Dancebreaker: 4:43pm On Sep 27, 2023 |
Phraences:That na old story. That was before hook-up, Insta, X, Tinder and all that. Today, guys need a lesson in cheating from their wives. |
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