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Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by odinga1of: 9:20am On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
So, a deeper lifer can't be beautiful? Is that what you meant? Come on!
For your information, they're one of the most decent people, if you don't know.
Why don't u attached a photo let's suggest ways for u?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Draslo(m): 9:45am On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
How do I do that please?
People believe older people are wiser and more experienced. It possibly can't be that bad that you look 25 years older than your age. Are you very tall?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by afadi2410: 11:14am On Sep 28, 2023
Felimax:
Mindset matters a lot in circumstances like yours.
One thing is to look older, another is to feel and act likewise.

Sometimes i tell people my age they don't believe because i don't dress it and look it.
Check your mindset and approach and do the needful to correct it.
You Can't be 30 and look like 50,and still be dressing like you are 20,bro
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by omenuwad(m): 11:17am On Sep 28, 2023
Sometimes genetic make up can be a serious factor why people look older than their age. Apart from being too fat and obsessed which you didn't state here. in case you are fat or obsessed I think first thing first you need to work on your self. You also need to work on your confidence there are few beauty products that can help enhance your looks, don't always believe what people say about you, make friends with people that grew with you together the advantage of this is that you don't necessarily need to tell them your age they already know. Above all pour heart to God when you feel depressed and smile always you are beautiful my dear.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by HanisahZuwy(op): 11:21am On Sep 28, 2023
Draslo:
People believe older people are wiser and more experienced. It possibly can't be that bad that you look 25 years older than your age. Are you very tall?
Yes, I am. I'm 8"4. I'm up to eight feet and some few inches. Is that the reason why?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:24am On Sep 28, 2023
IamPlato:
I thought the post was created by Uyaiin.comparabl I wanted to come and laugh her big head grin grin grin
Mugu. GO GET A LIFE. grin

Ya'll always trying to decipher people's life away from Nairaland. Stay sane, please. undecided
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by soundOsonic: 11:42am On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
I do look older than my age as a man, I am 27 people think I am 32 years old.
When they meet me in person they get my age correctly. I don't know how but when I they see my face in person not pictures they can guess correctly.
It has to do with your attitude, your temperament and energy you give, it will show.
If a 5 years old is wearing your face or in your body, others will know even if that child does nothing.
You should give off energy of people in twenties, talk like them, dress like them, stop wearing older people clothes.
And also loose some weight. I can bet that you are plus size. Go to gym and loose some weight, you will look your age.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Felimax(m): 12:25pm On Sep 28, 2023
afadi2410:
You Can't be 30 and look like 50,and still be dressing like you are 20,bro
I hear you sir! You are very correct.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Ibrahim3307(m): 12:29pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
No, I'm not fat.
is there any chance I can see your picture ?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Khastro(m): 12:54pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
No, I'm not.
If it's not genetic,
I'll advise you to eat lots of antioxidants.
Mix with body massages, similar treatments and recommended exercise.
I think there are health supplements that could help too, talk with the right health care person.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by xest(m): 1:15pm On Sep 28, 2023
Make we see ur pix
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Jamie1000: 2:16pm On Sep 28, 2023
Eat well and exercise well with clean looking fresh and neat skin ... even Fresh sugar Mommy's dey look attractive. [i][/i]
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Paulpak34(m): 2:19pm On Sep 28, 2023
I remember a woman I helped to write statement in our office. When I asked her her age she also told me 26years old. I was really surprised 🙀 what I heard because to me she may be 45years old.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by STEWpid(f): 2:29pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
But people don't see these things. They don't think I'm pretty, beautiful or gorgeous. They all think otherwise. Even family too.
Be your own you.

It is for you to convince yourself.

Leave others to their own fate since you can't change their mindset.

...because you cannot kuku Kee yorsef.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Nacson(m): 4:07pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look
older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
Same here sis, I don tire ooo.
Everyone uses sir for me
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by HanisahZuwy(op): 4:19pm On Sep 28, 2023
Nacson:
Same here sis, I don tire ooo.
Everyone uses sir for me
Honestly. Even people that are far older than you and people that are old enough to born you, will be calling you ma. A man/woman in his fifties will be referring a lady in her twenties with ma.
So, in their minds you're their age mate or older than them.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Rrchrd(m): 6:37pm On Sep 28, 2023
Hmm! I look younger than my age but I like them old,
I'm obsess with older ladies & I might end up marrying one someday.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by ConfidentialDoc: 6:43pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
Is it a generic look in your family or it's just you ?
Some women are just unlucky genetically.
And sometimes it may be due to lifestyle.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Winneygirl(f): 6:48pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
I is.
Use body and face creams with collagen.
St ives skin renewing lotion is a good place to start.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by HanisahZuwy(op): 7:57pm On Sep 28, 2023
ConfidentialDoc:
Is it a generic look in your family or it's just you ?
Some women are just unlucky genetically.
And sometimes it may be due to lifestyle.
It's just me.

And what lifestyle are you talking about please?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by ConfidentialDoc: 8:15pm On Sep 28, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
It's just me.

And what lifestyle are you talking about please?
Habits like alcohol and tobacco use.

If none of the above, I suggest you take recommended dietary and other supplements to combat it

Sometimes a woman needs some subcutaneous fat in the right place. You may also want to add some healthy weight if too skinny
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Slynation(m): 9:04pm On Sep 28, 2023
ibinaboonline:
any man that wants to get married will get married

Your sure about that? Even incredibly ugly men? Disabled men? Notoriously violent men?
Lol...An ugly man with money can marry miss Nigeria...!! Search for the most ugly man on earth, he's currently married...!! 😂

I guess you are missing the main focal point here, if a disabled man wants to get married, he will surely see a wife... Perhaps, you have metrics to measure notoriously violent men, but I know even the most brutal man on earth has a lady by his side...!!
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by kay29000(m): 10:42pm On Sep 28, 2023
tochez24:
Same with me... I'm just 30 years old but most of my gees, friends and mates think I'm way more older than them.

Sometimes when they call me sir sir sir, shake me with two hands and respect me in public i become shy and embarrassed. But i go just bone like bone thugs and harmony 😆

It's just in the gene and there's absolutely nothing we can do about it⚠️
How come you know Bonethugs and you're just 30? Hmm... So you not only look old, you're also an old soul.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by kay29000(m): 10:46pm On Sep 28, 2023
adedayoa2:
Change your mode of dressing if need be, how can you be looking like a woman in her 50's and you're in your 20's? Something is not right.
I have a feeling she's trolling us.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by ibinaboonline: 12:24am On Sep 29, 2023
Okay o.
Slynation:
Lol...An ugly man with money can marry miss Nigeria...!! Search for the most ugly man on earth, he's currently married...!! 😂

I guess you are missing the main focal point here, if a disabled man wants to get married, he will surely see a wife... Perhaps, you have metrics to measure notoriously violent men, but I know even the most brutal man on earth has a lady by his side...!!
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by BrotherInnocent: 3:05pm On Sep 30, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
Can we connect together if you don't mind?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by sexdoll: 7:38pm On Oct 02, 2023
if no man wants to marry, why not try getting a girl to marry you?
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by BRATISLAVA: 2:34am On Jan 04, 2024
optimusprime2:
Your question needs to be streamlined... please address the following questions so you could be advised accordingly.

1: Is it more of a facial feature (you have an older looking face, you have facial wrinkles, you smile less, you wear glasses?)
2: Is it a Physique feature (do you have features in your Physique that depict age, i.e saggy skin, stretch marks, droopy muscles)
3: Grey (Is it hair greying in higher proportion)
4: behaviour ( do you have a behaviour akin to elderly people, are you introverted or extroverted)
5: Health (are you generally in good health)
6: Vocal richness (How do you sound when you talk?)
7: Fashion sense (are you in touch with modern fashion or you are old school)
This was thoughtful, the most thoughtful post on this thread where the op was obfuscating.
Re: I Look So Older Than My Age! Will I Ever Get A Man To Marry Me? by Pat081: 10:43am On Jan 04, 2024
HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 year old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age. Why is it like that? Is there anyone here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.
The Same thing is happening to someone I know too his boss used to go down when she wanted to greet him but do not worry you will see man that will love you that way
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