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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gerrard59(m): 5:18am On Sep 30, 2023
anonymous1759:
How many mother’s will allow their son’s to marry a single woman ? That’s where the problem
is coming from

This is another angle. It is the women in the bachelor's life that would object to him marrying a single mother, not necessarily the man.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 6:54am On Sep 30, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:


What a nice view. In fact, you've said well.

May all your sons and sons' sons down the line end up marrying single moms as long as the heaven and earth remain.

Lol.... See vawulence.... She can never say amen....

Only low self esteem niggas, with no game, looking for cheap pvssy, date single mothers.....

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 7:02am On Sep 30, 2023
wink2015:


There is no women that is 100 percent good whether single mother or non single mother.

The most important thing in a relationship is love, understanding, care, perseverance and the fear of God.

There people who married single women and they lived much more happier than if they had married first timer.

U pple will just come and spill fallacy and truck load of horseshít yet be starting it as fact...... are God that can see these so called people's alternate decisions and outcome in the cosmos, for u to say marrying a first timer would have made them less happier than marrying someone with children..

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by elipheleh(m): 7:15am On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
i know men who married single mothers and they live happily. Your experience is not a yardstick or norms to everyone. I can marry a single mother if i find her worthy of a wife. I can aswell marry a single lady if i find her worthy of a woman.

Good. The brother hood needs low self esteem SIMPS like you to marry /cleanup the worthless rejects system

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by okeganiyu(m): 7:54am On Sep 30, 2023
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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Blendy77(f): 8:05am On Sep 30, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:


What a nice view. In fact, you've said well.

May all your sons and sons' sons down the line end up marrying single moms as long as the heaven and earth remain.

My Sons will marry for love and commitment and nothing more. If the love directs them to single mothers so be it. U guys will leave important things in marriage and be chasing shadows and end up marrying the wrong person All the high rate of divorce recorded in recent times shey na single mothers cause am? or the stories of wives killing their husbands n vice versa shey na single mothers cause am? I have been tagged n mentioned over 20 times cos of my opinion and many insulting me as if I send una message grin Make una go marry vir.gin wey go send una to una early grave as if single mothers no be human beings.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by TayusKilzEasyjay(m): 11:01am On Sep 30, 2023
Nicepoker:
try and be a bit civilized. Don't speak like wild men from the woods.

Okwute de speak English
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ekhai(m): 11:22am On Sep 30, 2023
tonicyril:
That is like saying u impregnated ur girlfriend and she born 2 pikins for u but her family came up with wahala and scater ur unionism grin cheesy

But after three years, u and ur girlfriend run go meet for faraway shagamu and continue ur unionism...

So it's still a win win for you,

But imagine Ajax Amsterdam leading Go Ahead Eagles 2:0 and Go Ahead Eagles said they are not continuing again, but same GoAhead Eagles went to FC Utretch with the 2:0 deficit/baggage and continue the match with fc utretch grin grin grin no naa
YOU ARE A PHENOMENON. YOU NAILED IT.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 11:24am On Sep 30, 2023
lonelygem:


I have trailer load of practical experience, the type that would give u goose pimples, but I don't see this platform as a matured one for heart to heart discussion especially for a sensitive topic like this one..

If it becomes a must to date a single mother, ensure you don't loosen up to the extent of taking gift she present to you or eat meals cooked by her, whenever u visit, ensure you buy everything you enjoy around her.

They whip sentiment in a bid to manipulate you. You can never please them and they will always rub it on your face that you are just a father figure..

All the pains caused by their supposed ex.. would be avenged on you. They are fast at painting fake emotions to dominate you.

The children are your when it is time to Mae you render help and assistance, but it is hers when it is time to take the glory.

You are never captured in the history of her survival or that of the children, she wants the entire world to call her a strong woman while you labour in vein nurturing the same kids she constantly and logically teach to disrespect you. The kids adhere strictly and listen to only their mum even in your presence when u see things going wrong.

Single mothers don't really want you no matter how different you may think she is, she only need you to give her helpless kids impression of fatherly love they might lack in their upbringing. She was hurt by someone but she willl constantly bleed on you..

My sincere advice, no matter how sweet a single mother seems to you, she's just a time bomb. A close evil and sweet poison you can't build your future with..

My little piece..

Deep!

Thanks for this piece of advice. cool
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Nicepoker(m): 1:38pm On Sep 30, 2023
TayusKilzEasyjay:


Okwute de speak English
I never ask you to quote me. Attention seeker.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tayorshd87: 1:47pm On Sep 30, 2023
obinna58:

mumu na people like you need to dey chop blow anyhow

Blow from people like who mtheeww

Guess u are hungry of a kind
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 2:41pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jeezuzpick:


Yeah.

130.

You?

When did 13 become 130? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Where is the IQ in saying I need to be married to know women choose wrongly when young and should be held accountable?

Stop chatting shhit boy. Your IQ is low.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:47pm On Sep 30, 2023
Gamesmart:


When did 13 become 130? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Where is the IQ in saying I need to be married to know women choose wrongly when young and should be held accountable?

Stop chatting shhit boy. Your IQ is low.

You're just stupid.

Not my problem, though.

Live with it.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 2:49pm On Sep 30, 2023
elipheleh:


Good. The brother hood needs low self esteem SIMPS like you to marry /cleanup the worthless rejects system

Well said.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 2:51pm On Sep 30, 2023
Blendy77:


My Sons will marry for love and commitment and nothing more. If the love directs them to single mothers so be it. U guys will leave important things in marriage and be chasing shadows and end up marrying the wrong person All the high rate of divorce recorded in recent times shey na single mothers cause am? or the stories of wives killing their husbands n vice versa shey na single mothers cause am? I have been tagged n mentioned over 20 times cos of my opinion and many insulting me as if I send una message grin Make una go marry vir.gin wey go send una to una early grave as if single mothers no be human beings.

Let me pray for your sons.

May all your sons only find and select good, well-behaved and lovely single-mothers of at least 3 kids by other men to marry.

May all your sons only select such women to marry and the women become good wives to them.

May none of your sons ever marry any girl that has not produced for, and is raising a child of, another man.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 2:55pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jeezuzpick:


You're just stupid.

Not my problem, though.

Live with it.

Explain how someone IQ of 130 comes up with such foolish statement after having time to think before talking?

Una go stuuupid, una go dey beat chest say una be Einstein. grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by michael132(m): 3:49pm On Sep 30, 2023
Most are mannerless

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Blendy77(f): 3:58pm On Sep 30, 2023
Gamesmart:


Let me pray for your sons.

May all your sons only find and select good, well-behaved and lovely single-mothers of at least 3 kids by other men to marry.

May all your sons only select such women to marry and the women become good wives to them.

May none of your sons ever marry any girl that has not produced for, and is raising a child of, another man.



Use same energy pray for ur daughters n sisters that if they make mistakes in life with first marriage or they become widow at an early age may they never find love again in life due to ur mentality of single mothers must not remarry in Jesus name amen

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Blendy77(f): 4:01pm On Sep 30, 2023
Nyascobar1414:
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You are a vvoman,don't meddle into the affairs of men..

Advice your son to marry a single mom

You are a man, if life happens to ur daughters n sisters and they find themselves as single mothers either as divorcees or widows at a young age, advise them to remain single all their lives cos u forbid remarriage for single mums.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:14pm On Sep 30, 2023
Gamesmart:


Explain how someone IQ of 130 comes up with such foolish statement after having time to think before talking?

Una go stuuupid, una go dey beat chest say una be Einstein. grin grin grin grin grin grin

You're dumb.

Brain dead.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 4:54pm On Sep 30, 2023
elipheleh:


Good. The brother hood needs low self esteem SIMPS like you to marry /cleanup the worthless rejects system
gliberdash from a keypad worrior grin
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by timmilehin(m): 4:57pm On Sep 30, 2023
This topic sweet. Read it from A-Z. because of experience
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FRANCISTOWN: 6:03pm On Sep 30, 2023
Blendy77:


... and many insulting me as if I send una message grin Make una go marry vir.gin wey go send una to una early grave

3. as if single mothers no be human beings.

Firstly, I've not insulted you.

@the emboldened. I'm sure if a new aircraft is liable to crash. A very used old aircraft is even more liable to crash 10× more sooner and fatal.

Thirdly, who said single moms are not human beings? I'm just saying if I could be served a fresh plate at a party, why opt in for someone else's leftovers?

That's not a king move.

This is my own preference and it doesn't have anything to do with anyone.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FRANCISTOWN: 6:08pm On Sep 30, 2023
advanceDNA:


Lol.... See vawulence.... She can never say amen....

Only low self esteem niggas, with no game, looking for cheap pvssy, date single mothers.....

Isn't it better to be celibate instead of f^cking with a single mom?
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FRANCISTOWN: 6:10pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jeezuzpick:


You don't know anything.

Go and live your life first.

Oya now Albert Einstein, like I've been living your own life all this while.

People Sha dey NL
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 6:12pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
i know men who married single mothers and they live happily. Your experience is not a yardstick or norms to everyone. I can marry a single mother if i find her worthy of a wife. I can aswell marry a single lady if i find her worthy of a woman.

Go and marry single mom biko and let us hear word. As for me i will take heed and never marry a leftover banny. I have standards grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 6:16pm On Sep 30, 2023
Tayorshd87:


Your thinking is myopic or rather because u are not married yet or probably becos u haven't seen a woman you like love and cherish bco6even if she is a single mother u won't still hesitate to do everything to marry her 😊.

You see that word LOVE it will blindfold your eyes

Simp lol. Even bible and proverbs say drink water from your own cistern grin.

Lol e go soon touch you
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 6:25pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jeezuzpick:


Are you married?

If not, keep quiet.


You are as dumb as they come grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Nyascobar1414: 6:41pm On Sep 30, 2023
Eloquency001:


I wish I could be lucky and satisfied with my choice as you are because I'm dating a single mum with a son presently hoping to results into marriage very soon. Though, I'm a Widower with three Children.

simp,you will learn the hard way
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 6:44pm On Sep 30, 2023
NEUDUDE:


Go and marry single mom biko and let us hear word. As for me i will take heed and never marry a leftover banny. I have standards grin
Thank goodness the world doesn't revolve around you🤣
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 6:45pm On Sep 30, 2023
Nyascobar1414:


simp,you will learn the hard way
Lol

A widower with kids shouldn't marry single women with kids? You sure say you dey normal so?
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 6:49pm On Sep 30, 2023
michael132:
Most are mannerless
how many have you seen? Stop making irrational statement.

Only the ones you've seen.

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