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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Nobody: 1:50pm On Oct 04, 2023

If it's not madness and lack of self worth. The lady is in a relationship but you still want to die there. Can you respect yourself and move on.

She saw a desperate thirsty perv. Lol If you had moved on, you won't chop billings.

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 2:00pm On Oct 04, 2023

Persephone1:
Lol what part pained you most? Calling out your bullshit or the SEX STARVED PERVERT? The later would hurt most no doubt

Shameless you say? Yet you are dying on a veejay that belongs to a Nigerian lady! THAT VEEJAY WILL NEVER BE YOURS BRO.

Don't DIE ehn

Sex starved? Lmao 🤣🤣 you're having a laugh! I get sex when I want it lil sis, don't try to act smart, y'all broke Naija girls ain't got nothing more to offer than your smelly puna and if I have to give you a dime of my money there must be something I gain from you. No free money for y'all lmao grin

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Nobody: 2:03pm On Oct 04, 2023

Westchester:
Sex starved? Lmao 🤣🤣 you're having a laugh! I get sex when I want it lil sis, don't try to act smart, y'all broke Naija girls ain't got nothing more to offer than your smelly puna and if I have to give you a dime of my money there must be something I gain from you. No free money for y'all lmao

Now you are starting to mistake me for your mom and sisters If they don't add any value to the lives of their men good for them sorry for you.

Respect yourself and move on sex starved perve!

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 2:07pm On Oct 04, 2023

Persephone1:
Now you are starting to mistake me for your mom and sisters If they don't add any value to the lives of their men good for them sorry for you.

Respect yourself and move on sex starved perve!

Same thing y'all brainless bimbos always say as excuse, it's always how you haven't met all the girls to conclude or how it's only your mom and sisters whereas in reality almost all of you are the same. I'm so sure that even you talking has nothing to offer a man apart from opening those smelly thing, tueh 🤮

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 04, 2023

Westchester:
Same thing y'all brainless bimbos always say as excuse, it's always how you haven't met all the girls to conclude or how it's only your mom and sisters whereas in reality almost all of you are the same. I'm so sure that even you talking has nothing to offer a man apart from opening those smelly thing, tueh 🤮

Yawnnnnnn okay okay cunt juice filled brain perv! Time to move on now before you start reading my responses as sexual advances.

Have fun!

Ps: I didn't read your post!

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 2:13pm On Oct 04, 2023

Persephone1:
Yawnnnnnn okay okay cunt juice filled brain perv! Time to move on now before you start reading my responses as sexual advances.

Have fun!

Ps: I didn't read your post!

Well I've put you brainless bimbo in your place so you have no other option than to move on with your delusion and foolery grin

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Nobody: 2:17pm On Oct 04, 2023

Ode ni bobo yii sha

Put who in place? With your wack English and over typed tales?

You really mistake me for one who gives a fvck about your existence!

Lol . Good thing to note that Perse exchange means a lot to you though! In your warped mind you have conquered Persephone? . How old are you again?

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 3:07pm On Oct 04, 2023

Persephone1:
Ode ni bobo yii sha

Put who in place? With your wack English and over typed tales?

You really mistake me for one who gives a fvck about your existence!

Lol . Good thing to note that Perse exchange means a lot to you though! In your warped mind you have conquered Persephone? . How old are you again?

If all Nigerian men were like me, jobless and unintelligent bimbos like you will either starve or find something meaningful doing to pay for your lifestyle, it's a pity there are many simps out there who Keeps making you leeches feel like y'all have an opinion lmao 🤣
Bimbo

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Wawelexy(m): 3:54pm On Oct 04, 2023

1Sharon:
You gullible sha.

This isn't about being gullible, let her conscience judge her if she's lieing. I will rather loose 20k than take a risk and later realise she's saying the truth...

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by 1Sharon(f): 4:00pm On Oct 04, 2023

Wawelexy:
This isn't about being gullible, let her conscience judge her if she's lieing. I will rather loose 20k than take a risk and later realise she's saying the truth...

If she's telling the truth she should send receipts and invoices.

Even with that, OP is still not obliged to help her.

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Wawelexy(m): 4:53pm On Oct 04, 2023

1Sharon:
If she's telling the truth she should send receipts and invoices.

Even with that, OP is still not obliged to help her.

@ your first paragraph, I support that too

Your last paragraph, you are also right, helping one another in times of trouble is what makes this world habitable, that's if you are capable of rendering such help tho.

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:23pm On Oct 04, 2023

Westchester:
I don’t feel like it my brother
Nigerian girls na scam. Give me kpekus you say you get boyfriend but now you dey ask me for 20k as maga wey i be na

I gave a lady 50K without seeing her. It's just simply good to be good to people in need of you feel to do so. I'm not bragging but trying to pass a message. I've equally given a guy 140K recently, all these people promised to return the money till date they havent and I don't stress it, I've learnt to accommodate human short comings.

Help with what you can afford to lose and let the lady be, you want to be with someone who wants to be with you, pussy go tire you ooo, hmmm.

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Gerrard59(m): 5:00am On Oct 05, 2023

Westchester:
I didn't give her a dime as I no be mugu na
These girls thinks men are fools, just chatted one yesterday, haven't talked to her for a long time only for her to tell to help her run one girl 5k like say she give me money Keep for her somewhere. As I tell her it's too early to be demanding such from someone that you haven't talked to or seen for more than a year now, she said ordinary 5k I can't help her with, she stopped replying my msg, I just deleted the fool immediately.

It is a major reason I don't chat with ladies in Nigeria. I am afraid of billing. I grew up with the mentality that every money must be worked for. No free lunch. I can be in a platonic relationship with a lady and even go on outings on my pocket. But e get limit, and at my discretion. Also, I know that genuine desire cannot be negotiated. If I want sex, I will state it explicitly, and I pay my escorts good money. If I don't want sex but an ordinary friendship, I am ready for it. Just don't ask me for money, else you have to work for it.

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Gerrard59(m): 5:16am On Oct 05, 2023

Yusufisraelj:
I gave a lady 50K without seeing her. It's just simply good to be good to people in need of you feel to do so. I'm not bragging but trying to pass a message. I've equally given a guy 140K recently, all these people promised to return the money till date they havent and I don't stress it, I've learnt to accommodate human short comings.

Help with what you can afford to lose and let the lady be, you want to be with someone who wants to be with you, pussy go tire you ooo, hmmm.

That is not how things should be. People should be honest. You should demand honesty from people. This is one of the reasons it is hard to do business with Nigerians and why the country is a low-trust society.

Yet every Friday and Sunday, road go block because say dem dey go mosque and church. undecided

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:27am On Oct 05, 2023*

Gerrard59:
That is not how things should be. People should be honest. You should demand honesty from people. This is one of the reasons it is hard to do business with Nigerians and why the country is a low-trust society.

Yet every Friday and Sunday, road go block because say dem dey go mosque and church.

My brother people can say things to garner sympathy, not to condone thier actions but it is what it is. I've learnt to deal with people at any level.

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Re: I Need Advice Urgently by seguno2: 7:36am On Oct 05, 2023

Gerrard59:
That is not how things should be. People should be honest. You should demand honesty from people. This is one of the reasons it is hard to do business with Nigerians and why the country is a low-trust society.

Yet every Friday and Sunday, road go block because say dem dey go mosque and church.

Hmm.
Truth is really bitter.

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 1:16pm On Oct 05, 2023

Yusufisraelj:
I gave a lady 50K without seeing her. It's just simply good to be good to people in need of you feel to do so. I'm not bragging but trying to pass a message. I've equally given a guy 140K recently, all these people promised to return the money till date they havent and I don't stress it, I've learnt to accommodate human short comings.

Help with what you can afford to lose and let the lady be, you want to be with someone who wants to be with you, pussy go tire you ooo, hmmm.

I’ve solved some little problems for the said girl in the past even when she was feeling sick I bought All the drugs she needed. Why does she have to keep telling me about her boyfriend but when she needs help she comes to me who isn’t gaining anything from her?

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:29pm On Oct 05, 2023

Westchester:
I’ve solved some little problems for the said girl in the past even when she was feeling sick I bought All the drugs she needed. Why does she have to keep telling me about her boyfriend but when she needs help she comes to me who isn’t gaining anything from her?

You gave room for that to happen. This dictum speak truth in this case: Nobody can put you in a position you've not allowed them to.

Define the relationship, if she's not okay with it, stop here from visiting or communicating with you, but taking undue advantage doesn't always end up well. Peace!

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Westchester(op): 2:27pm On Oct 05, 2023

Yusufisraelj:
You gave room for that to happen. This dictum speak truth in this case: Nobody can put you in a position you've not allowed them to.

Define the relationship, if she's not okay with it, stop here from visiting or communicating with you, but taking undue advantage doesn't always end up well. Peace!

I’ve texted her like two times since then and she didn’t reply, meaning she just wanted to be friends with me for the things she will be gaining

Re: I Need Advice Urgently by Yusufisraelj(m): 5:27pm On Oct 05, 2023

Westchester:
I’ve texted her like two times since then and she didn’t reply, meaning she just wanted to be friends with me for the things she will be gaining

You know what to do bro....

Opportunistic people are dangerous.

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