lilvicky68:
Are you dating the woman?? If not move on with your life..she no expect you to remain with her forever na..

Benard5050:


She's a family friend but more like aunt to me...

nokspos:
Don't displease yourself to please others. Give her a month notice, if she pays you off or not, find your way out. You have to be selfish to be successful in life. Meanwhile, starting a business with loan is not a good idea, all you need is a washing machine , you won't even need an office at the beginning, just do flyers, meet bankers and corporate guys one on one, do free trial services to build your client base. All the best...

greatcrown:
Are you sure laundry business will sell in that location as you claimed it's a rural area?

I will advise you start on a small scale first while still retaining your current teaching job without going into too much debt.

Depending on performance you may then decide to resign or not to resign.

Benard5050:


It's a rural but d development rate is high currently and currently some institutions is in d verge of moving there

EzegeNdiigbo:
Man what do ya think?



Let's first start from there!!!

Benard5050:
More advice needed guys

AfroKnight:

Do you stay in her house?

Benard5050:


No

AfroKnight:


Then no problem. Her behaviour during your last month will let you know how your relationship with will be after leaving.

25k is not enough for you. You have to think of your future. You have served her, and now I t’s time to move on. Try to make your transition as smooth as possible. Don’t burn bridges.

Benard5050:


How do u mean?




What i mean?




What do you think about your present condition cus with that am gonna give my own pieces of advice's ASAP

Benard5050:


It's a rural but d development rate is high currently and currently some institutions is in d verge of moving there

Benard5050:


She's a family friend but more like aunt to me...

Benard5050:
Pls friends this story is long but I will try my best to summarize it...

After staying at home for 9months after Nysc without a job, a woman who is a family friend told me to come and teach in her school, this was timely as I was getting depressed due to my joblessness...

I relocated to d town which is a rural area, and but with time I adapted. She's has been doing well to me to d extent of even bringing lunch for me every day.

I've been doing this job for 2 years now but there's no significant progress and my life. I'll be 29yrs in a few days from now but still not ok with d way my life is...

I had a plan to get a loan of 200k from family and friends to open a laundry business in the town I'm teaching as d business is not common there and I wish to use d opportunity to explore this.

My great concern is how will my boss react if I resign and she noticed I'm not going home but staying in her then doing laundry business.

She pays me 20k per month for teaching in her school, she even made me V.Principal and increased my salary by 5k of recent.

Guys pls advised me on what to do that will not hurt anyone...

I need to go into business so I can have proper planning for myself and my future.

AKAyomide:
I sincerely the love the way she was opened up to you earlier to avoid playing eith your emotions not even the finance you would you spend in fake and pretend relationship. I wish I were you, I would had forgotten about the existence of her and put my mind in a good frame of mind...
She had saved you for future sorrow bro!

Benard5050:


Is this for this thread or another?

FashionCapital:

Asin ..me self tire ....

I have a friend that run a dry cleaning biz along side teaching .He has employed an helping hand now as the work is too tedious but he still hasn't quite his job. He earns almost the same pay as you ,i guess 24k thereabout ..He bought a washing machine and a pressing iron for a start but now he has a generator and he even furnished his room with both streams of income ..the lesson here is that you should never quit your source for now , no need for loan save and start small when the biz grows employ an helping hand and when it boom no one will tell you to stop and they might just lay you off.

To your question

Make sure you carry the woman along in everything you do. Let her be like a mentor to you but never let her tie you down with employee tactics. Be focus and stand your ground , you can only achieve this when you start small explain to her how you intend to operate both bisiness without letting anyone clash (you must be smart, straight,manly and a little bit charismatic when telling her making it sound like an opinion but not advise ): she might even be your first client who knows. But when you "smell an attitude" kindly withdraw yourself..also plan for negativity make sure you have a financial backup cuz you might end up losing your job but who care when you are focused...
I wish nl add a voice note features ...i hate typing...
Sort and add up other advises .May God continue to pave way for we the legal hustlers, it's not easy out there.....shalom

Benard5050:

Is this for this thread or another?

AKAyomide:

It is for the thread on the subject matter. Thanks!