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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by zenithgroup: 6:08pm On Oct 07, 2023
Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the fastest and easiest way to consistently get laid is to always shoot at girls below your SMV. You can't be a 6 and be chasing a 10, you most likely won't get her. In other words, the uglier she is(i.e the lower her SMV), the easier she'll be to smash.
We keep telling you this things, Stop going for trashy women- They'll drag you down.
Stop making sex ur focus in ur dealing with women. The easiest way to get sex as a man
1, Become the best version of urself.
2, Be at the very top of ur profession.
3, make the money and put urself first in everything.
3, Place no value on sex in ur relationship with opposite sex, Behave and act as if sex is nothing.
5, Always and keep meeting other girls, don't rely on single one.
6, Even after marriage, surround urself with women_Secretary,Pa,accountant all gorgeous damsel.

She'll remain ur slut till you die.

PLS LEARN=Elephant don't bite it's mosquitoes that bites.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:12pm On Oct 07, 2023
zenithgroup:
We keep telling you this things, Stop going for trashy women- They'll drag you down.
Stop making sex ur focus in ur dealing with women. The easiest way to get sex as a man
1, Become the best version of urself.
2, Be at the very top of ur profession.
3, make the money and put urself first in everything.
3, Place no value on sex in ur relationship with opposite sex, Behave and act as if sex is nothing.
5, Always and keep meeting other girls, don't rely on single one.

PLS LEARN=Elephant don't bite it's mosquitoes that bites.
Nice one

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature: 6:17pm On Oct 07, 2023
zenithgroup:
We keep telling you this things, Stop going for trashy women- They'll drag you down.
Stop making sex ur focus in ur dealing with women. The easiest way to get sex as a man
1, Become the best version of urself.
2, Be at the very top of ur profession.
3, make the money and put urself first in everything.
3, Place no value on sex in ur relationship with opposite sex, Behave and act as if sex is nothing.
5, Always and keep meeting other girls, don't rely on single one.

PLS LEARN=Elephant don't bite it's mosquitoes that bites.

Sharp!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by okrikaboi: 6:43pm On Oct 07, 2023
iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...
Suck it up, was in a similar situation so I fcked her lil sister so she came back plus I doubled up. Now I use both of them for sex. She's not your soul mate. Suck it up!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:14pm On Oct 07, 2023
Zabiboy hope you are fine.

Ichidodo, how are you?

I know Ubunja and Martinez39s are in for something huge.

These monikers just keep ringing in my head, so a little shout.

And for the OGs present and absent still keeping the thread alive...kudos. You guys are good.

Pukkalolo, the big chief.

Well done, peeps.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:33pm On Oct 07, 2023
iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...

1. I know that men are hopeless romantics. But we are in a new social system. Learn not to fall in love. If you must, remember the 80/20 principle. Let her love for you be higher than yours and not vice-versa.

2. Don't beg a woman to see reasons with you. The moment you start going back and forth with her, it verifies why she must leave you.

3. Don't invest in dumb women. Don't be blinded by beauty and sex.

4. When she says a STERN NO, please, let her go. Even if you force her to say yes, it will be done out of pity for you. Meanwhile, you're the only one riding the relationship. Probably, to the Sahara desert.

5. Don't try to lead a woman who isn't under your authority. Women that want to be treated as scapegoats shouldn't be obstructed.

6. Don't be romantically merciful. She wouldn't do the same for you. Women are pragmatic with sexual relationships. They know when to detour as the relationship tastes sour.

7. Don't tell her what to do. A woman who loves you will ask you what to do because she sees you as her leader and protector.

8. Telling her to go there, stay here, do that, don't say that, makes her feel like a slave. Women are a conundrum in their raw existence. Factor in a highly neurotic woman who can't sustain her home causes the man many problems.

9. Long distance relationship is a four cardinal sin. Avoid it. The closer you are to any woman, the higher your influence. And vice-versa.

10. There is no way to avoid catching feelings. When she is kind, modest, beautiful, and sensible you will want to jump off the cliff. But don't do that.

Learn to minimize your feelings. Or, hide it. Once she senses this over-the-roof feeling for her she deems herself your idol. Be cautious.

Thanks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kenogidi: 8:09pm On Oct 07, 2023
zenithgroup:
We keep telling you this things, Stop going for trashy women- They'll drag you down.
Stop making sex ur focus in ur dealing with women. The easiest way to get sex as a man
1, Become the best version of urself.
2, Be at the very top of ur profession.
3, make the money and put urself first in everything.
3, Place no value on sex in ur relationship with opposite sex, Behave and act as if sex is nothing.
5, Always and keep meeting other girls, don't rely on single one.
6, Even after marriage, surround urself with women_Secretary,Pa,accountant all gorgeous damsel.

She'll remain ur slut till you die.

PLS LEARN=Elephant don't bite it's mosquitoes that bites.

I never said trashy....low SMV doesn't equal trashy. Secondly, it's impossible to not think about or value sex as a man whether in a relationship or otherwise, you either have low testosterone or you're just deceiving yourself

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontrulee: 9:05pm On Oct 07, 2023
iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...

The one who puts the most resources in the relationship is the one who gets hurt when it goes South.

The signs and clues were there from the beginning:

1. She told you no "serious relationship" that means she's seeing you as an option. You're inconsequential to her.

2. Vibing with a yahoo guy should tell you that she's materialistic and will only monkey branch

3. Accepting to date an online guy who she's never met and treating you like scum is a big red flag.

4. You're hurt because you think you loved the lady.

Ladies don't love a guy.
They're after what benefits them. Play the same cards to them and watch things turn around

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 9:16pm On Oct 07, 2023
Lordfranklin:


In scenarios like that, what are the ways to correct that?



Here is one bitter truth about women:
Women are master PREDENDERS.

Women don't easily lose interest in a guy when they already like a guy.

Yes, you read that right. Infact, if she's interested in you, then she's interested in you. She can't just wake up in the morning and lose interest in a guy.

But here's where the average woman is a master predender.

She most times intentionally PRETENDS she's losing interest in you, just to break down your confidence and make you become desperate for her attention....
Read that again.

This attitude of women is due to insecurity.

Women feel insecure showing interest in a guy because they are scared of showing interest in the wrong guy and getting heartbroken.

But women feel more powerful showing disinterest in a guy even if she likes him.

Why

Because she feels more secure that way. Some women believe showing interest is like giving power to the guy. That's they prefer to show disinterest.

Confusing right

Yes, the female psychology is confusing sometimes.

This happen sometimes in my experience: The woman initially seemed like she's interested. Then, sooner than expected, this woman behaved as though she's losing interest.

Women want to be with a confident strong man.

The strategy of pretending to be losing interest is what women use to separate the men with true confidence from the men who are weak. It's what they use to separate the men who they can easily exploit and tame from those men who CAN'T be easily wrap around their fingers.

How does she knows she's dealing with a guy(weak) that she can easily exploit and tame??

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the weakling is quick to think, "Damn it, she's losing interest in me... Am I doing something wrong?"

Then he tries to spend money on her or tries to treat her nicely to win her interest back. This guy place high value on her pussy and place less value on his time.

If a woman sense that you place high value on her sexual companionship, she's going to toy with your emotions and play manipulative games with you until she gets bored, and she'll dismiss you.

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the guy with true confidenc does NOTHING. He simply just give her SPACE.

This is why it's very important to convey to a woman that value your own time. When a woman feels you have more female option and you are willing to walk away anytime, she's play less manipulative games.

But like I said, when she's pretending to lose interest, the nice guy will freak out and try to fix the situation immediately by doing any nice guy or needy stuff.

But the confident guy simply just give her SPACE and move on like nothing happened. He may contact her maybe weeks later just to see if she's back to her right sense. If she's still misbehaving, he simply just gives her space again, like it's no big deal. No stress.


Many times when you give them SPACE for a while and re-contact them again, they seem to become more receptive. Because now they see that you go no time for crap.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:28pm On Oct 07, 2023
iammolahs:


I don't know, just need to go back to the person I was before I met her... I'm heartbroken and shattered

Understand women nature and protect your sanity una no go hear. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by zenithgroup: 10:51pm On Oct 07, 2023
[quote author=Kenogidi post=126262879]

I never said trashy....low SMV doesn't equal trashy. Secondly, it's impossible to not think about or value sex as a man whether in a relationship or otherwise, you either have low testosterone or you're just deceiving yourself.
_________________________________________________
I put it to you again;
If you're doing very well in life don't ever date low SMV as sexual partners.
For you the relationship look fun cos you're getting sex.

For her it was purely survival instinct, she's paying with the only coin she has to upgrade her level.

In such relationship she has nothing to loss- you're the one at the losing end.

Date a lady(virgin) with character and prospects in life. Dominate and keep her invested in you using her time and intellectual prowess making you a better man.

Sex is nothing bro, if you must do it let it be with someone important to your journey.

She should look forward to you making [love] to her as a way of showing appreciation for her continuous support for ur dreams.

If you're not winning yet, you shouldn't bother urself with women matter.

If you're winning but no woman who genuinely believes in you and willing to give her all for you yet, remains a lone wolf and keep expecting.

Kings don't just have sex with any woman, they made love to the best of women.[/b]

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MegaPlayBoy: 12:24am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:
[s]Dear brothers of the pill, the fastest and easiest way to consistently get laid is to always shoot at girls below your SMV. You can't be a 6 and be chasing a 10, you most likely won't get her. In other words, the uglier she is(i.e the lower her SMV), the easier she'll be to smash.[/s]
Your methods will lead to massive problems down the road for men in the long run
When men who are 8s and 7s start hitting on women who are 4s constantly so as to get it on with them without fail, the women who are 4s delude themselves into thinking that is what they actually deserve and then get alpha widowed when the 8 nopes out of her life and yeets on to the next victim.

What you'll eventually have is a 4 or a group of women who are 4s and yet think they deserves a 9 whilst ignoring the men on her level (5s and 6s)

We all know a 6 will never beat a 9

If I'm not to mince words, this dating strategy is stupid and destructive, for both parties
Find your level. It is the best way to keep things stable

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 8:18am On Oct 08, 2023
Alway Remember You are not Studying the Redpill to Hate Women. If you are doing that you are just shooting your self in the Foot. You are Studying the Redpill so you will understand The Value of Women and how to avoid Their Tricks.


Don’t Go about Hating Women Only Simps Hate Women Be A Man Don’t Be a Simp.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 8:24am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the fastest and easiest way to consistently get laid is to always shoot at girls below your SMV. You can't be a 6 and be chasing a 10, you most likely won't get her. In other words, the uglier she is(i.e the lower her SMV), the easier she'll be to smash.
this is not only a foolish way of thinking it also is a simpish way of thinking 😂😂 Try as you may even girls below your “SMV” will reject you if they don’t find you attractive. You’re trying to assume that because you don’t find those girls attractive or because you think they are ugly they will automatically Like you or fall for you easily Wow 🤣😂😂 Omo 😂🤣 You dey talk like who no get experience Ajeh The worst part is you are degrading yourself going for girls you think are easy 😂🤣 . That’s like a professional chess player being happy he’s playing against amateurs 😂 bruh that’s a weak mentality

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kenogidi: 8:29am On Oct 08, 2023
jayAjoku:
this is not only a foolish way of thinking it also is a simpish way of thinking 😂😂 Try as you may even girls below your “SMV” will reject you if they don’t find you attractive. You’re trying to assume that because you don’t find those girls attractive or because you think they are ugly they will automatically Like you or fall for you easily Wow 🤣😂😂 Omo 😂🤣 You dey talk like who no get experience Ajeh The worst part is you are degrading yourself going for girls you think are easy 😂🤣 . That’s like a professional chess player being happy he’s playing against amateurs 😂 bruh that’s a weak mentality

The fact that even the low SMV girls may not find you attractive to smash goes without saying so I need not state it. Secondly, there's nothing degrading about going for girls one perceives as easy afterall all you want is easy pussy to smash and nothing more. Finally, a professional chess player looking for easy wins must and should always go for amateurs. Get my point bro.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kenogidi: 8:32am On Oct 08, 2023
MegaPlayBoy:

Your methods will lead to massive problems down the road for men in the long run
When men who are 8s and 7s start hitting on women who are 4s constantly so as to get it on with them without fail, the women who are 4s delude themselves into thinking that is what they actually deserve and then get alpha widowed when the 8 nopes out of her life and yeets on to the next victim.

What you'll eventually have is a 4 or a group of women who are 4s and yet think they deserves a 9 whilst ignoring the men on her level (5s and 6s)

We all know a 6 will never beat a 9

If I'm not to mince words, this dating strategy is stupid and destructive, for both parties
Find your level. It is the best way to keep things stable

First off, it's not a dating strategy it's a mating strategy cos all you want is to smash. Secondly the ethics of this strategy may be questionable but my point is that it works like crazy and sincerely how it leaves the low SMV girls afterwards should not really be a player's problem. Don't hate the player hate the game.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 8:33am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:


The fact that even the low SMV girls may not find you attractive to smash goes without saying so I need not state it. Secondly, there's nothing degrading about going for girls one perceives as easy afterall all you want is easy pussy to smash and nothing more. Finally, a professional chess player looking for easy wins must and should always go for amateurs. Get my point bro.
Nah bro playing weaker players weakens your hands that’s like playing against the computer in FIFA on beginner when you are already professional you learn nothing new and you don’t challenge yourself. I get your point but sexual market value is an illusion, but hey who am I to judge we all give ourselves illusion 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 8:34am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:


The fact that even the low SMV girls may not find you attractive to smash goes without saying so I need not state it. Secondly, there's nothing degrading about going for girls one perceives as easy afterall all you want is easy pussy to smash and nothing more. Finally, a professional chess player looking for easy wins must and should always go for amateurs. Get my point bro.
Think in-depth about the saying Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder if you will think about it deeply you will understand a thing or two

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kenogidi: 8:37am On Oct 08, 2023
jayAjoku:
Nah bro playing weaker players weakens your hands that’s like playing against the computer in FIFA on beginner when you are already professional you learn nothing new and you don’t challenge yourself. I get your point but sexual market value is an illusion, but hey who am I to judge we all give ourselves illusion 🤷🏾‍♂️

Bro I swear SMV is real. Again I repeat all you want is to smash no attachments or long term dating plan. Nothing about this strategy will weaken your game. On the contrary, it will strengthen your game with the so called 9s and 10s cos one of the greatest sources of confidence for a player in the game is getting steady pussy(girls) regardless of the SMV of the girls.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 9:07am On Oct 08, 2023
To be frank, there's nothing really wrong in being nice to a girl. The problem is being nice to the girl who has NO interest in you.

Only interested women should enjoy your nice and romantic acts.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 9:12am On Oct 08, 2023
It doesn't matter if she is educated or uneducated. It doesn't matter if she is beautiful or ugly. It doesn't matter if she's from South Africa or Nigeria... It doesn't matter the category she falls into.

Treat all women the same way: don't put any category of women on pedestal.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 9:14am On Oct 08, 2023
If Samson never told Delilah the secret to his strength, they would have live happily ever after together.

Women are always looking to get you to submit to their selfish demand. As long as you stand your ground and refuse to submit, she will stick with you.

But as soon as you submit to her selfish needs, her mission is over; she get bored and move on to another guy to start the process over again

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 9:16am On Oct 08, 2023
If you know more about her than she knows about you, then she'll be more curious about you.

Women love suspense.

See finish is the worse thing to happen to any man. Don't let her EVER know you finish.

Always give her something to wonder about you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jayAjoku(m): 9:35am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:


Bro I swear SMV is real. Again I repeat all you want is to smash no attachments or long term dating plan. Nothing about this strategy will weaken your game. On the contrary, it will strengthen your game with the so called 9s and 10s cos one of the greatest sources of confidence for a player in the game is getting steady pussy(girls) regardless of the SMV of the girls.
no shaking gee

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by zenithgroup: 9:54am On Oct 08, 2023
Kenogidi:


Bro I swear SMV is real. Again I repeat all you want is to smash no attachments or long term dating plan. Nothing about this strategy will weaken your game. On the contrary, it will strengthen your game with the so called 9s and 10s cos one of the greatest sources of confidence for a player in the game is getting steady pussy(girls) regardless of the SMV of the girls.
Steady pussy-really, like it's some award enn!!
It doesn't always play out the way you envisage; don't forget the other party is also a smart player.
Such games harass a champion.

Imagine lionel messi been pussy focus with every woman he encountered.

Imagine c ronaldo having sex with just anything in skirts.

Easiest pathway to downfall.

Once you've made up your mind to stay ontop, you must master your emotions and discipline yourself sexually....Or you'll remain down forever...
This things are not hard for a king it only send message across to all women in ur kingdom that they'll need more than pussy to get your commitment.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Caicedobets(m): 10:15am On Oct 08, 2023
Pukkalolo:




Here is one bitter truth about women:
Women are master PREDENDERS.

Women don't easily lose interest in a guy when they already like a guy.

Yes, you read that right. Infact, if she's interested in you, then she's interested in you. She can't just wake up in the morning and lose interest in a guy.

But here's where the average woman is a master predender.

She most times intentionally PRETENDS she's losing interest in you, just to break down your confidence and make you become desperate for her attention....
Read that again.

This attitude of women is due to insecurity.

Women feel insecure showing interest in a guy because they are scared of showing interest in the wrong guy and getting heartbroken.

But women feel more powerful showing disinterest in a guy even if she likes him.

Why

Because she feels more secure that way. Some women believe showing interest is like giving power to the guy. That's they prefer to show disinterest.

Confusing right

Yes, the female psychology is confusing sometimes.

This happen sometimes in my experience: The woman initially seemed like she's interested. Then, sooner than expected, this woman behaved as though she's losing interest.

Women want to be with a confident strong man.

The strategy of pretending to be losing interest is what women use to separate the men with true confidence from the men who are weak. It's what they use to separate the men who they can easily exploit and tame from those men who CAN'T be easily wrap around their fingers.

How does she knows she's dealing with a guy(weak) that she can easily exploit and tame??

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the weakling is quick to think, "Damn it, she's losing interest in me... Am I doing something wrong?"

Then he tries to spend money on her or tries to treat her nicely to win her interest back. This guy place high value on her pussy and place less value on his time.

If a woman sense that you place high value on her sexual companionship, she's going to toy with your emotions and play manipulative games with you until she gets bored, and she'll dismiss you.

When she PRETENDS to be losing interest, the guy with true confidenc does NOTHING. He simply just give her SPACE.

This is why it's very important to convey to a woman that value your own time. When a woman feels you have more female option and you are willing to walk away anytime, she's play less manipulative games.

But like I said, when she's pretending to lose interest, the nice guy will freak out and try to fix the situation immediately by doing any nice guy or needy stuff.

But the confident guy simply just give her SPACE and move on like nothing happened. He may contact her maybe weeks later just to see if she's back to her right sense. If she's still misbehaving, he simply just gives her space again, like it's no big deal. No stress.


Many times when you give them SPACE for a while and re-contact them again, they seem to become more receptive. Because now they see that you go no time for crap.


I use this approach so we'll and last time I pulled it off the bitch got back to me after a year I stopped texting and tried making it up to me by sending money and bugging my line with calls and asking for my time.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rizzputin(m): 10:21am On Oct 08, 2023
MetalJigsaw:
You're right bro. And alpha male is a dominant male.

A red pilled man also controls the relationship.

An alpha male can not be a simp, because he's dominant.

There is no difference.

This is partially incorrect. Sure, there are similarities between an alpha and a red piller but they are not the same.

There are blue pill & red pill alphas. Will Smith is an example of a a blue pill alpha. Leonardo di carprio is an example of a red pill alpha.


You have to understand that knowing how to handle women is just one aspect of being alpha. A guy can be alpha at his work, job, office, organization, groups of friends, side chìcks and be heavily blue pulled with his wife.

The typical "happy wife, happy life" crew. A lot of gangsters also fall into this category. Very alpha guys with crazy blue pills takes like "her past doesn't matter" Some even go ahead and wife up only fans models & models.

So yeah, that's the big difference between the two

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rizzputin(m): 10:34am On Oct 08, 2023
iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...


A few things for you to consider:

- No point dating a girl you broke up with. Think about it, all these while you were away, she got dug out severally. And now you're back to pick her up


- Even after saying that, I know you might still want to get her back so I'll leave you something. But I have to warn you, you're setting yourself up for failure by doing that. The first thing you want to do is to detach yourself from her. Completely ignore her. She will reach out. Be casual in your replies... set up a meet and fùck her


- The new guy she's dating is in a worse position than you. So don't worry about him or feel pressured.

- Never show or feel pressure about money. In the long run, Game is more important than money. Focus on building yourself

- And lastly, find a new girl

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Badmashii(m): 12:02pm On Oct 08, 2023
Smartb0y:

In very simple grammar.

only send those who send you 🤣

Trying to win people's loyalty is a total waste of time.


The bolded is wrong bro. Mek I shalaye small.

If you send only those that send you without knowing their hidden motive of "sending" you, certainly you are going to be used and dumped.

Secondly,you might need the service or favour of a person who you didn't send in the first place and now based on neccessity you have to "send" him, are you not going to?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 12:05pm On Oct 08, 2023
...if you're interested in a lady, then you should be ready for any question she throws at you. And you should be bold enough to ask her any questions you want.

- Pukkalolo

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 2special(m): 12:30pm On Oct 08, 2023
Pukkalolo:
To be frank, there's nothing really wrong in being nice to a girl. The problem is being nice to the girl who has NO interest in you.

Only interested women should enjoy your nice and romantic acts.
Good afternoon bro.... Great work you're doing but I think you should acknowledge the greeting from caveAdullam up there, this same page.....

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