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Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by olabrinks(f): 5:15pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Reminderz:3k for a family of 4 and you want her to cover his shame? Somebody that comes from a well to do family should deprive her children of good food because of shame? That is not wisdom it’s foolishness. Granted she shouldn’t rub it in her husbands face, but no matter what he will feel inferior because he’s not financially stable. That’s his cross to carry because he knew the lifestyle she lived before they got married. 18 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by eniolorunfe: 5:24pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Smh… Instead of this one to be thanking his God, he is here whining on nairaland. What some people are praying for, you’re complaining about. You marry girl from rich home finish, you want turn am to pauper. God forbid bad thing! 21 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 5:31pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
God... How did we get here?? How did Men become so weak that they can't even control their own home... God.. Why are men of today so weak??.... OP.. Send her back home to be with her brothers until she learns contentment because from the look of things you can't control your marriage. Other than giving a stern warning, you are begging her to stop. If you don't stamp your feet, she will keep taking you for a ride... But come to think of it, did you court before marriage?? Like you saw all these red flags and went ahead to marry her... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 5:32pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
eniolorunfe: So your prayer na to become the wife for your marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Veryfoolishboy: 5:38pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
What work does your wife do? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by eniolorunfe: 5:40pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Kenturkey048: How does the wife’s family helping and supporting her translate to the husband becoming “wife” in the marriage? 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by jesmond3945: 5:47pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
marvellous2222:you didnt date your wife? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 5:52pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
eniolorunfe: Chairman him wife dey bring him legs out to her family. What her family is doing isn't help, It's see finish.... Did you read where he said when he gives her money to cook based on his level, she immediately calls her brothers to complain? Did you also read where he said the gift he bought for her, she doesn't put it on., but always wears the one her brother bought for her? I don't know what support means to you. But what the brothers are doing is not support... It's belittling. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Pootle: 5:54pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
next time when she is asking for funds jus add your own as them get plenty money for them house 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by GboyegaD(m): 5:55pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Tell her how her actions make you feel and ask her what she thinks of a home. This will help you know how you can let her know the limits you can take and if you don't mind, call her folks and let them know you do not appreciate their interference. One quick question, did you notice this trait while you were dating? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 5:56pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
GboyegaD: You think he hasn't asked her all these?? He said he has gotten angry, and also begged her.. But nothing changes... She knows what she is doing |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 6:03pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
olabrinks: So she doesn't know the man she wants to get married to has just 3k for soup before agreeing to marry him.?? Was she forced into the marriage. It isn't unnecessary ego and pride.. It's a man having control over his home.. Let her pack back to be with her brothers if she can't manage with the man she agreed to do for better for worst with... Lastly if the inlaws want to help, they should do that like reasonable people and stop making the husband feel less of a man. I sha blame these men for being very weak and stupid... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by GboyegaD(m): 6:06pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Kenturkey048: Why conclude for them when you are not the one involved? Every couple has their dynamics and if this wasn't settled before marriage, he needs thread with care. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 6:12pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
olabrinks: Why didn't she wait for somebody who's also from a well-to-do family that wouldn't be giving her 3k sometimes to cook? Mind you the husband didn't say he gives her 3k all the time, he said sometimes he gives her 3k, and when he does, she immediately calls her brothers.. The watch he bought for 75k, she doesn't put it on, but the one her brother got is what she puts on.. This thing is a common sense.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 6:13pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
GboyegaD:I didn't conclude for them.. He said it himself.. He said he has begged, he has gotten angry still no changes.. Now tell me, how did I conclude ? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by GboyegaD(m): 6:19pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Kenturkey048: You are right nonetheless, there's more to conversation than begging or getting angry. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by olabrinks(f): 6:27pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Kenturkey048:If he feels less of a man, why is he living in a house that his in laws built? Did this thing start today? He pursued a woman that has more than him, two kids in and suddenly it has become a problem. This is not the time for unnecessary tantrums and pride, work on yourself. As far as the in-laws do not insult or bother you, focus on how to get to the next level. It’s his cross to carry. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:39pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
I don't understand, you expect her to starve or reject gifts and money from her family just to please you? Are you playing🤨 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:22pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
And you're presently living in the house they gave you as wedding present? Common getdifock.....you no get talk at all 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 7:48pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
olabrinks: He didn't pursue a woman that have more than him.. He has more than her..She tends to sort out third parties whenever he lacks.. And she also can't manage what he provides in the days of scarce which is normal in every household.. About the house, I am sure you read where he said it was a wedding gift. When somebody gift you something, it becomes yours. And not theirs. Married people sit together and plan their lives. You don't throw your husband beneath your family.. I am sure her mother planned with her dad that was why they got to where they are today... Growing in marriage is a team process..The said husband isn't even broke.. Because he bought a car for his wife , also gift her a watch worth 75k.. He is only married to an insensitive wife My blame is on all these women with a dick that can't control their homes. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by capnies: 9:05pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
IAM SURPRISED THAT YOU'RE COMPLAINING, I THINK YOU HAVE INFERIORITY COMPLEX, IF YOU ARE WISE YOU WOULD STOP TRYING TO MEASURE UP TO YOUR WIFE'S FAMILY, JUST THANK GOD FOR THE GRACE. SIT WITH YOUR WIFE PLAN A GOOD BUSINESS AND MAKE YOURSELF RICH. THOSE MONEY YOU'RE SPENDING TRYING TO PLEASE HER, PLEASE SEND THEM TO YOUR PARENTS AND SIBLINGS. LIASE WITH HER AND BUILD A MIGHTY HOUSE IN YOUR VILLAGE FOR YOUR PARENTS. YOU WANT TO SHOW YOU'RE THE MAN, MAKING GOD HAVE REGRET BLESSING YOU WITH SUCH A RICH WIFE. KNEEL DOWN AND THANK GOD EVERYDAY AND BEG HIM TO ALLOW THE GRACE TO LAST LONG. BE WISE Some men marry from rich homes but their wife is suffering with them, because the family doesn't care. YOU'RE BLESSED 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Homeboiy: 11:07pm On Oct 17, 2023 |
Your problem is that you are trying to compete with her family. Bros, do your best and leave the rest. Start saving for the rainy day cos what you might experience next will be a shock. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by 1Sharon(f): 4:27am On Oct 18, 2023 |
Kenturkey048: Tell that to men that have taken back engagement rings after their relationship went to shit. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by mrblessed(m): 5:42am On Oct 18, 2023 |
Oga, this might not be the marriage you envisaged, but it's a landmine you knowingly walked into. I don't see this situation changing anytime soon, and your misery and sorrow would likely continue if you don't devise a means to reorient your wife to see that it's her duty to rub her family's wealth on your face. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kenturkey048(m): 5:50am On Oct 18, 2023 |
1Sharon: Engagement ring is not a gift.. It's a covenant of commitment... When commitment is broken , what d you expect.? Please let's not deviate... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 11:10am On Oct 18, 2023 |
you have no problem living in the house gifted to you but you have a problem eating food she cooked with money they sent to their sister, so if your own brother gives you money you cant spend it on your family? the problem is not your wife getting help from her family the problem is you have not accepted her family as your because they care abt her and your family thts why they help, imagine being lucky enough to have helpers who you claim have not disrespected you but still be ungrateful instead of working hard so your family doesnt have to rely on support from them you are busy complaining. you are not pying rent yet struggle to bring 3k for soup and have the audacity to be arrogant and proud marvellous2222: 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by talented321: 12:33pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
As a married woman, you don't have any feeling when ur husband is busy calling his family even because of a minor issue.. Swaelyf: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by talented321: 12:41pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
A married adult call her family every moment even with a less issue is ok by you, right? olabrinks: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by wunmi590(m): 12:57pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
In as much as most of what she's doing is childish by always involving her parent with your private life, I still feel it better she stay within her family instead of going outside to ask stranger for favour... Just talk to her and let her realise what you don't like, I'm sure she will understand... On my own part, I won't even be angry with her, because as she's making me feel less of a man, I will be happy in one side that she's helping me to save my money, by collecting from her parent... My life is so easy 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by LadyPortable(f): 12:59pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
You forgot to add copied. Original story says 5k 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by smasher1(m): 1:01pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222: If she's not complaining, don't complain. Just allow it. We sometimes allow such with ours. I once had a girlfriend that was taking care of me. No big deal if they can afford it. If you feel uncomfortable, work harder and earn more than they have and spend your money. 1 Like |
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