She's not disturbing you now or you want her to adapt to your poverty mentally state. Leave her alone let her enjoy the wealth of her family

😅😂

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

Wife is not used to been broke.
Take her to marriage counselors who will explain the marriage vows you took together.
Especially "for Richer for poorer " part

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

exactly what my x wife use to do and when it was telling more on me I had to call t quit with her immediately I cannot allow any woman kill me at my prime


my bro if e no dey okay for you anymore abeg tell m make she dey go oh

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

U should be ashamed of yourself for real 3K in this regime to cook and you're feeling like Jagaban on it

If I was to be her, I would've left you in that God forsaken marriage long ago

omo this thing can kee a man eh . so sorry
but you have to call her family and let them know . pour out your mind please

Well she married down. What can we advise now that'll change anything. Just make sure you're the only one training your children I.e. school fees and all, whatever the siblings want to do for their Ada is up to them.

dominique:
The kind of whiny cry babies we have as men today ehn! Tufia! Marry a poor girl, he'll come and whine that she and her family wants to kill him with billings. Oya marry a rich girl, he will come and whine that her family is taking over his responsibility and making him feel less than a man. What exactly do you men want?

Now oga op, you gave your wife 3k to cook food for yourself, herself and 2 kids as per magician wey she be. What kind of food is 3k supposed to cook? Should she starve because she's married to you when she knows she has a financially comfortable family that can bail her out? Would you have preferred if she had gone

to her ex, or one toaster eyeing her on the streets for support? You should be happy you're married to a woman from a comfortable supportive family.

this ur words sha no be lie

Nigeria vs IMF relationship.

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

Bro, I totally understand u. Here's my advise. Since her brothers aren't insulting u, welcome d help, deep down u know u need it. Use it as an opportunity to save more n achieve your dreams. Allow them do d spending, but continue to talk to your wife n condemn her attitude... But deep down WORK HARDER

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

Alaye is feeling oppressed in his semi-rented house

Baba na ur Cross be that, everything with advantages also comes with its own disadvantages sir..

Baba u re just a mere sperms donor but do not reason am, na so destiny write ur story...

Everybody get wetin hin dey battle with, me sef get my own..

BUT THE DAY U STOP READING MEANING TO ALL THESE THINGS AND INSTEAD TAKE CARE OF UR SELF VERY WELL AND ALSO HAVE A REASONABLE SAVINGS FOR UR FUTURE INSTEAD OF BUYING AN EXPENSIVE GIFT THAT WOULD STILL NOT BE APPRECIATED, THAT IS THE DAY U LIBERATE URSEF FROM MENTALLY IMPOSED SLAVERY SIR

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

My brother all I see here is u nagging for nothing, she doesn't insult u, she still take the 3k without nagging u out of ur home, only what she did is to ask from her family, what is if they don't have, maybe u are the only source of income to both families, she will still find a way to give to her brothers, if some of them will not come and live with u, baba relax and enjoy ur marriage, is both side ok, na one family una be

Carry your cross


Rich family is different to

. POOR family

.oga stop complaining.

slimjohn2k5:
U wanted a rich kid, u got one. Bros hustle hard 3k not fit cook pot of soup.

That N3K for feeding two grown adults and two children worsened his nagging and lamentations. He should be humble and have a solid plan to improve his finances. Those people helping him and his wife will not be there forever o.

Sorry bro, you know her character before marriage.

She doesn't respect you or should I say you have not earned her respect. I am surprised how you earned her love. Hope you nor do beyond your means to marry her.

You need to speak with her. If God allow her hear word she would change. But be ready for that change to take a while....patience bro

Ballzproblem2:
seems like she came from well to do family, she's not use to "that kind lifestyle".


you knew what you signed up for

well there two things here , you either stop trying or you up your game .

You have said it all

When you married her,you knew the family, now you are complaining

Either keep quiet or up your game

But my suggestions are or is

1... whenever you are with the brothers or family and they gift her anything, just jokingly tell them,imo I don leave una to dey treat am as una want, as i no get to up my game...

2.. man to man, approach them if your business ain't bringing in more, be like, my brother in law, abeg make una help me so i can be able to take proper and better care of una sister

3.. let them open the shop for their sister, just zero your mind and mind your business, buy what you can afford and leave the rest


Thanks

Dogalmighty17:
In this economy you are sending a woman 3k to cook? To cook what exactly? Is she to also use the lizards in your compound? I think you should be arrested for attempted murder.

Shame no even catch you sef. 3k🤣😂😂😊🤣🤣🤣😅😂.

close your mouth...so,he should go and thief because he don't...not every time person dey have for money

This kind family I want 🥸

Na wa ooo



The only useful thing about you in that marriage to her is your PENIS, use it judiciously and thank me later


You never dated a girl from a wealthy family before you got married to this one. Worst still she is the only daughter.

It is a normal thing, take heart and get use to it.

My wife is from a very wealthy family and also the last born and only child.

They are other ways you can gain control and respect, seek and you shall find it.

Baba you don go marry
Big bouncing baby girl be that
Wether you like it or not
Your wife will always talk to her immediate family members.
Na you make you just behave well beforehand she report you join.......
Even Bible say, naan go comot from his own Papa house go look for WOMAN
Woman no dey ever leave their parents except the wicked ones...
Baba enjoy and live with that

Meat..1k
Rice...1k
Oil...1k


Bros hustle ooh e get why

You knew her before marriage, you knew shes above your standard, you only have to learn to accept the insults that comes with it. Its a way of life for her, she didnt mean to hurt you. People who are raised with luxury dont know how to manage.

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

What's dis one saying

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

I use above 10k for a decent pot of soup only me and my spouse. So 3k is small. Besides why buy a wrist watch of 85k when you have no money. Don't compete with people that have money. It's not surprising that she didn't appreciate it. Please manage her.

Reminderz:

it's you, I would rather fight terrorists in Israel than waste my time conversing with you...

God bless you for this. That wîtch is the most annoying human being on earth. Her goal in life is to critic anything and everything. No MAN will EVER stay with her, I swear it.

I just ignore her and pass her comments

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

The best I can admonish right now is to keep taking care of her while focusing on yourself/business/career. Cause the signals of insecurities she picks up might keep pushing her off.


This one strong gan

You are upset that she has a family who cares, and that she doesn't have to go on her knees begging you for things and thanking you for giving her some of those things when you have fallen short of her expectations. You would prefer to be her alpha and Omega, the one who can deal ruthlessly with her at his every whim, who maketh and breaketh her.

She's bringing a lot to the table. What isn't there to love about her? You say you can't marry broke ladies, but neither can you handle them when they aren't at your mercy.

There's no pleasing these nairaland men. Just say you're hungry and thirsty for another woman's body, otherwise why would this be an issue? You've seen a broke lady that goes on her knees to thank you when you throw scraps at her and you want her, so now your wife is the bad guy.

Fake story.

I'm currently experiencing this too in my marriage, but mine is not as bad as this. May be, is because my own wife's family are not as rich as you have depicted your in-laws.

Apart from the fact she is a spoilt brat, do you think she actually loves you? If yes, then, there is a way out.
My candid advice is that, don't fight her. When she needs your attention, like talking to you, just ignore and don't go far away from her. Your countenance will signal her that something is not alright in her home. I think that should bring her mind back to you.
However, if she actually loves material life than her marriage, my man, just cool temper.
When you carry proper, you will pay her in the same coin. For now, face your work and hustle more.
Gbam!

Why are you feeling intimidated? Her family is doing what you can't and instead of to be grateful you want her to succumb to poverty just to massage your ego. You need to work on your self esteem

Kajaard:


How is the boldfaced possible?

You bought a car, shipped it and your in-law intercepted it and changed it before arrival. Does this make sense to you?

Re-read the highlighted very and adjust your comment

Lordatkinson:
I'm currently experiencing this too on my marriage, but mine is not as bad as this. May be, is because my own wife's family are not as rich as you have depicted your in-laws.

Apart from the fact she is a spoilt brat, do you think she actually loves you? If yes, then, there is a way out.
My candid advice is that, don't fight her. When she needs your attention, like talking to you, just ignore and don't go far away from her. Your countenance will signal her that something is not alright in her home. I think that should bring her mind back to you.
However, if she actually loves material life than her marriage, my man, just cool temper.
When you carry proper, you will pay her in the same coin. For now, face your work and hustle more.
Gbam!

Worst advice is quoted

You are a grown man, married, and the best advice you can give another man is the silent treatment? When it spirals out of control, and destroys the marriage, you will only be making your place in hell hotter for such needless evil.

Love your wife. If you can't do that, don't expect her to love you.

I suggest you save your money, you mentioned she's from a rich family. Keep saving it the end is divorce.