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Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by godofuck231: 11:19pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
marvellous2222:uou have a tinny pride issue , the type that cant kill a chicken, play along, not that she no longer respects uou outright she just has a class she cant stoop from , if you wanted less uou should have married a village girl wjo hasnt seen a car before , then she would appreciate a benz 200 |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by galadima77(m): 11:49pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Where do you guys get extra space in your mind for all these conditionings? Mental slavery is sickening. In the words of one tonicyril up there... "my life is easy" |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by b0rn2fuck(m): 12:32am On Oct 19, 2023 |
marvellous2222:you be real mumu, the family might even have a business or secret saving that she will have access to part of it, just like the one that happened to one of my in law , her share was around one million early. You think the rich don't guard their daughter, you are lucky ,very lucky, na you go double your hustle as part of your problem already solve . The same I'm trying to my daughter, I don't expect her suffer in any man house. I have to secured her before her move. Don't be mumu man |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by darealez(m): 5:44am On Oct 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Would you prefer he ignored her and workout a rationale that shuts her down to possible realisation and retrace? I see a man who's too big hearted and is making little or no progress for that singular reason. You spank spoilt brats not buy them candies! |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Oluwaseunbandur: 5:45am On Oct 19, 2023 |
A man but this OP no serious, make God bless me with this kind of woman, if I work make I die. Na to turn wife remain , fork ego, na to enjoy this one life I come so |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Kobojunkie: 6:12am On Oct 19, 2023 |
darealez:Please stop glorifying foolishness. If he has strength for such stewpidity, he is better spending it on making sure he has enough money to foot all necessary bills for at least his kids. Abeg, stop glorifying stewpidity. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by tonicyril: 6:55am On Oct 19, 2023 |
Holluwhakemmy:kemi put ur brother in his position...then retalk?? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by WantsandMore: 7:24am On Oct 19, 2023 |
1Sharon:I've more to say, but make we start from there fess |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Princemedico18: 8:15am On Oct 19, 2023 |
[/b]SORRY BROTHERLY. YOU MARRY A MAY BORN WOMAN. THEY HAS A HIGH TASTE. HER BIRTH MONTH MUST BE IN MAY AND URS IS DIFFERENT. IT CAN NEVER MATCH!![b] |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:38am On Oct 19, 2023 |
tonicyril:on a serious note I don't see anything wrong here poverty is not a good thing it is even better she have a family to call instead of her to endure suffering. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by tunize(m): 8:54am On Oct 19, 2023 |
I know what it feels like not having money and you feel someone else is running things for you, your wife might just be this blessing in disguise for you what you both lack is proper communication. Discuss with her let her know how you feel about her not appreciating you well enough and whatever issue you feel like also tackling. Just Maybe the way her brothers are doing the favor is not the best way they should but then you are lucky because you see some rich family they wouldn’t have given a f*ck about you and her or better still they would go as far as removing her from your hand and depriving you from seeing ur kids. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by themanderon: 9:01am On Oct 19, 2023 |
marvellous2222: She is quite immature and not ready for marriage but you have to accept her that way. Did you guys go for counseling at all before marriage? If you did not then try to. You need matured people to counsel both of you. she needs to learn to build up her own life and not run off to mama or big Bros when things ain't going so well. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by tonicyril: 9:06am On Oct 19, 2023 |
Holluwhakemmy: Hear this out. I can afford to lavish 20m in a day, but u can't afford more than five million....does that means u re poverty striken?? Well, na the guy guyman I blame, he don go buy pap for where hin hand no reach basket 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Monaco2(m): 9:13am On Oct 19, 2023 |
marvellous2222: You no kno Wetin God do for u o You dated her b4 marriage so y are u complaining?!? Make she manage with you when she is not used to a managed life?!? She is privileged so don’t feel bad… the only problem I see is the fact that her brothers where planning on opening a business without involving u n him not telling you he is changing d car other than that oboy enjoy ur marriage |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:44am On Oct 19, 2023 |
tonicyril:Yes of course the blame goes to him not the wife because she's from a wealth family she can't adapt to such life of manage manage |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 9:47am On Oct 19, 2023 |
dont forget that this is only his side and do you think a man is more proud than a woman? but you have to know how often they never have to the point of 3k soup that money cant even cook concotion rice complete and there is no woman on this earth that would have a way and let her kids starve the men can say they will survive but those children will only cry to their mother as long as he lives comfortably in the house they gifted them with no problem then he shouldnt be worried about wht her brothers give or dont give her she was their lil sis b4 he ever came into the picture. same as him if he was loaded and saw his sister suffering wouldnt he help her out talented321: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 9:54am On Oct 19, 2023 |
he is trying to compete with her family knowing fully well its impossible, because someone who is using 3k for soup of family of 4 definitely scrapped the car money together just to meet up and funny enough i dont think the wife broke shames him or cares about how broke he is but that arrogant pride in brokenness is hs major problem Chuksy12: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by talented321: 9:54am On Oct 19, 2023 |
If you love ur sister that much why not open her own business for her so that she'll not depend on u for survival anymore, from their she is not calling anybody for cash again. If i'm to be her brother, i would do something tangible for her and the family.. Swaelyf: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Myer(m): 10:04am On Oct 19, 2023 |
marvellous2222: You both need each other. You need to be motivated to be more successful. She needs to learn contentment. She needs to start work or business to know the value of earning money even as little as 50 Naira. She needs to learn that your family with her comes first and her other family is now secondary. Her father needs to know you're her head now. He has handed her over to you in marriage. You all need to know that Christ/Word of God is the head of us all. Thanks for sharing and as you invite Christ to be the head of your families, may your home know Peace, Joy, Wisdom, Honor and Love of God and Love for one another. Proverbs 19:14 Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the Lord. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by BigCowHornn: 11:04am On Oct 19, 2023 |
Marynwachukwu21: Really? You are an igbo girl sef. Most of you don't understand life or our igbo tradition but feel you do. Marynwachukwu21: This was your quote. Let me ask you this questions... 1. How many times in Igbo land have you seen a rich proud man sitting his daughter down, a first daughter too, and advicing her to marry a poor man... even one with good character? 2. How many times have you seen igbo girls marry for love sef talk less of a rich man's first daughter marrying for love. 3. How many rich igbo families welcome a poor man to their table with open arms talk less of giving him their daughter to marry.... a first daughter too! Honestly, i am really surprised that the OP managed to marry the girl and the girl stays. My guess she loves him in some deep way and he was once ok fanatically. If he dares divorce or beat her she is gone for good. And her second husband will be very rich. In igbo land, among the men, na person way get money get mouth. And a man will always look at the financial ability of a suitor before giving out his daughter in marriage Read the op story again. Read the area where he bought a car for his wife and they brought a bigger car for her saying... 'Our Ada cannot be seen riding such car after marriage' I dont' know of you but that statement told me all i needed to know about that girls family. Ada na Title in igbo land. She is very important in any family. The op went and married one that's from a rich family and an only daughter too. That girl is not begging anybody in a billion years. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Marynwachukwu21(f): 11:14am On Oct 19, 2023 |
BigCowHornn:They are few,if the man loves the daughter then the father can offer him a job or give him some advice. He can also make the man rich all because of the daughter |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by scrupulousblog: 11:43am On Oct 19, 2023 |
dominique:The issue here is a LACK OF BALANCE. I will liken this situation to salt and a pot of soup. Too much salt will condemn the soup and too little or no salt will make the soup tasteless. BUT, BUT, the RIGHT AMOUNT of salt will make for a delicious pot of soup. The family of a poor girl should not ask for too much and the family of the rich girl should know when their support is becoming excessive. Let's all be SENSITIVE, and the world will become a better place for us all. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Octobertwentysix(f): 1:33pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Kenturkey048: My question is how can a man who can afford a 75k wristwatch give his wife 3k for food to cook for a family of four in this present economy, this story is somehow. |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Octobertwentysix(f): 1:37pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Swaelyf: Somebody that struggled to give his wife 3k to cook for a family of four is gifting her a 75k wristwatch, how does that even make sense. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by mdan(m): 1:44pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
[qu. How do I handle this? Didn't you see this signs before marriage? [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by descarado: 1:46pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Acidosis:Seconded. Real financial stupidity. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by GetMeRight: 3:45pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Miracle2020:My point is that if he could get her a car worth just 2 million naira, giving her money to prepare food shouldn't be that difficult for him. But who is not short of cash once in a while? |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 4:32pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
he literally said that they are trying to open a business for her yet he is angry that they are not involving him. like bro when they involve you in a business like tht are you not giving them the chance for the see finish yet they are trying to set her up knowing you and youre children will benefit yet you are not satisfied talented321: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 4:38pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
no matter short of cash as long he has a family rainy day money should be kept or forget that he should always have foodstuff its when all these are not available that she would seek help. there is no way they hv and she calls her family. bro 3k for soup in this regime is just not possible no matter hw you manage especially in the city GetMeRight: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by Swaelyf(f): 4:41pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
no support is too much for a mother with kids if it was just her and the husband trust me they wouldnt be that worried abt her scrupulousblog: |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by GetMeRight: 5:32pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Swaelyf: Whether you always keep money for the rainy day or not, there would be those days when you all just have to manage. or forget that he should always have foodstuff its when all these are not available that she would seek help. Nothing bad in reaching out but making it a habit is not good enough. there is no way they hv and she calls her family. bro 3k for soup in this regime is just not possible no matter hw you manage especially in the cityAs long as it is not everyday thing, I don't see something unusual about this if it is once in a while. This is everywhere except the home where money is the least of their problems |
Re: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by talented321: 6:37am On Oct 20, 2023 |
If they can open a business that's the best idea, because i don't expect a married woman or man to be calling his or her family over the least issue, nahh that's is too childish. If they want to open a business for the woman, it has nothing to do with man because our fathers make it so. Woman money is for her self while the man's money is for the family. The man seems like some one who is living comfortable but by living in a building from the wife's family he has lose all the authority and many things.. In time to come he'll understand better.. Swaelyf: |
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