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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by immortalmortal: 12:20pm On Oct 20, 2023
Tell him you are not financially buoyant that he should give you money to buy it for him. But I really don't understand what you are asking. You said you have gotten it for him already and you are still asking if you should get it for him
Another thing... You guys would start smelling alike at work. Lol

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by michlins(m): 12:20pm On Oct 20, 2023
Why is it difficult for people to say no. Like, I will not buy you this because I don't want to

Honestly some issues are none issues

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Ijaya123: 12:21pm On Oct 20, 2023
What I do not understand is why exactly do you owe him a perfume?
If he wants one, tell him the name of the perfume so he can go and get it himself

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Angelfrost(m): 12:21pm On Oct 20, 2023
Naija... Everything is subject to judgement and discussion on propriety.

If buying of perfume as a gift requires this level of research and due diligence on appropriateness, I wonder what those who buy shirts, boxers, watches, etc, now do. grin
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by illicit(m): 12:23pm On Oct 20, 2023
1Sharon:
Why would a man want to smell like a woman.

Even if he likes it

Why must he request that she buys it for him, can't he do his shopping?

So if he likes her car, she must buy him one too?

If I were her, I will ask him for the money then I buy it for him

Or what do you think?
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by immortalmortal: 12:24pm On Oct 20, 2023
michlins:
Why is it difficult for people to say no. Like, I will not buy you this because I don't want to

Honestly some issues are none issues


Ladies especially
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Timmi: 12:24pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?


Point of correction, men don’t use perfume but rather cologne.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by immortalmortal: 12:27pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


Like him? No way!

He's always taxing me because I do some small businesses at work that pass through his table. So he's always like I should settle him and all that and truly I've never settled him since I Ve been doing that bizness. Thats why I said let me just do it for him.

Wetin I want take married man do? cheesy

So why are you now asking us? Wetin you want make we tell you?
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by CharleyBright(m): 12:30pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?


It was wrong.
You should have given him money to buy.
Perfum has lasting and captivating effects.
Each times he wears that perfum he will always have u in mind or tell anyone you bought it for him and that will send wrong messages about u.
But if u had given him money to buy it, he wouldn't tell anyone u gave him money to buy parfum.
It saves you trouble and unnecessary talk.
Besides, buying him parfum only give him signal that u have emotions for him.

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by opicgif: 12:31pm On Oct 20, 2023
lol
my dear, you like the man
if you dont like the man
give him money
even people that are stealing money in their offices (not just business)
don't buy gifts for their co-thieves, they give them money!

your relationship with that man isn't normal
its either of 2 things
1) you have given him green light in the past (maybe because of your business). "some" women do this a lot. they flirt with you for favours and when you reciprocate, they act surprised
2) you like him, and want to buy him that perfume, you are just coming here for validation. so let me answer you IT IS WRONG

A man, will not ask you, and insist for a gift of perfume, if
1) he has not received green light or
2) this is sexual assault. if this is the case, tell him NO! and give him money instead
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Bigchristo: 12:34pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

Just say it openly that you like the man and he likes you too , otherwise you won’t be seeking our advice to say no or write the name of the perfume for him to buy it by himself, as I am I can’t directly tell anyone the name of my perfume and the person can not actually know the name because I wear like 3 or 4 perfumes I don’t want to smell the same way with someone else, even if me and my wife is stepping out for event I spray like 5 because she will definitely like to spray my perfume to differentiate between me n she while we are out I use multiple scent 😂🤭

Nor be my fault I too like to smell nice
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by mikeapollo: 12:36pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?


Just tell him the name and maker of the perfume, let him go get it or he gives you the money to buy for him
Giving him perfume could signal that you are interested in close relationship/friendship with him, hence any other thing can follow, including dating and sleeping with him.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Bidmaster(m): 12:37pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

Your story no clear, why not tell him the name of the perfume so he can get it by himself instead There's something you are not telling us.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Ybholy(m): 12:42pm On Oct 20, 2023
Name of the perfume?

Oud edition?

If not , I don’t see any captivating effects of your perfume 😂

Maybe you saw a scene about this on movie and decided to make up a topic
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by qtx(m): 12:42pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

That man is up to something. It may not look like it now, but one day you will come back and start looking for this comment to say, and he said it o. B kiafu.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Rebuke: 12:42pm On Oct 20, 2023
Lol. It's funny how people always seek validation to justify their actions.
If yhu know from yhur own heart yhu yhurself have no hidden interest or intention, what do yhu need our opinions for? Not even minding the fact that yhu have done as yhu pleased already.

Madam perfume.






Dey play, just dey play.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Czsamanie: 12:45pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:

It's a unisex perf but it's a bit on the strong side.
What's the name of this so-called strong perf?

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Freelancerr(m): 12:46pm On Oct 20, 2023
Perf name pls

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by InfinityFabric: 12:49pm On Oct 20, 2023
She's looking for approval to become the man's side chick or second wife, heck, even the only wife.
You know exactly what is happening and what you're doing.

Let the elders rest today, dollar just turned 1000+
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Bintabisiriyu2: 1:10pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:

Can't access the email àccount anymore. Working on it.

Can you say what its about here?

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Mcslize: 1:19pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


Is Hugo boss the only men's perfume you know? Ok but that's not what I got him

What's the name of the perf?
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Justbehave(m): 1:32pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

How many of your single male friends have you gifted perfume. Another woman's husband prick don dey hungry you.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by freeman67: 1:33pm On Oct 20, 2023
You shouldn't be feeling guilty for gifting someone ' who requested for something you could afford to give and you gave out' It also should not bother you in anyway if you are not overthinking it or feeling some kind of way about him.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by jeff1607(m): 1:38pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?



Never gift or recieve a married man anything unless it's platonic . If he so much likes the perfume, let him know the price and the cost of going to get it .

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Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Daxray07(m): 1:42pm On Oct 20, 2023
You and married man dey wear the same perfume for the same office? cheesy

You no go fit explain because there will be lots of evidence!! cheesy
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Eduadolero(f): 1:56pm On Oct 20, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:

Can't access the email àccount anymore. Working on it.

Can you say what its about here?
Dont you think if he could say ut here he would'nt have messaged you?
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Ghozky(m): 2:01pm On Oct 20, 2023
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No place like Nairaland.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by REGINALD001(m): 2:10pm On Oct 20, 2023
Reminderz:
he might be communicating to you indirectly that he likes you, and not the perf...so he doesn't want to come direct, so in case you accuse him, he can easily exonerate himself... in order words, he wants to have a taste of you... I guess you're a lady, he fit use perf level take enter you, and before you know, you're a married man's side chic...

he might just like the perf you're wearing and nothing attached but if that's really the case, he would have given you the money to buy it for him if he's really serious about the "perf" and not you... Lol abi e wan talk say e nor know where dem dey sell perf? Op nor lie, you sef like am abi? No be why you volunteer to give am the money or buy him the perf? Lol, you should have asked for the money to get it for him as well..



Your big head dey your tiny shoulder grin
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Jewessgratitud3: 2:35pm On Oct 20, 2023
Bintabisiriyu2:



😂 😂 😂.. I knew it grin
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by BreconHills(m): 2:48pm On Oct 20, 2023
Persephone1:
Imagine wearing the same smell with your colleague at work and a married man at that...it can't be me grin . To make matter worse when asked why you smell the same, he will respond that you got it for him. Arrrrrgggghhhhhh so suggestive grin too intimate!

The married man is definitely clueless or he's just being intentionally mischievous

Do men wear womens perfume these days?
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:07pm On Oct 20, 2023
Czsamanie:
What's the name of this so-called strong perf?


Mcslize:


What's the name of the perf?

I don't like disclosing my perfume cos I combine different fragrances and make It my personal signature.
Re: Is It Right To Gift A Married Man Perfume? by udy4real(m): 3:08pm On Oct 20, 2023
No big deal dear,I love perfumes and it's the gift I normally request from my colleagues both male and female whenever they travel out on vacation,So everyone knows I love them

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