Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

Reminderz:
he might be communicating to you indirectly that he likes you, and not the perf...so he doesn't want to come direct, so in case you accuse him, he can easily exonerate himself... in order words, he wants to have a taste of you... I guess you're a lady, he fit use perf level take enter you, and before you know, you're a married man's side chic...

he might just like the perf you're wearing and nothing attached but if that's really the case, he would have given you the money to buy it for him if he's really serious about the "perf" and not you... Lol abi e wan talk say e nor know where dem dey sell perf? Op nor lie, you sef like am abi? No be why you volunteer to give am the money or buy him the perf? Lol, you should have asked for the money to get it for him as well..

qtx:

That man is up to something. It may not look like it now, but one day you will come back and start looking for this comment to say, and he said it o. B kiafu.

Bidmaster:
Your story no clear, why not tell him the name of the perfume so he can get it by himself instead There's something you are not telling us.

mikeapollo:


Just tell him the name and maker of the perfume, let him go get it or he gives you the money to buy for him
Giving him perfume could signal that you are interested in close relationship/friendship with him, hence any other thing can follow, including dating and sleeping with him.

Bigchristo:
Just say it openly that you like the man and he likes you too , otherwise you won’t be seeking our advice to say no or write the name of the perfume for him to buy it by himself, as I am I can’t directly tell anyone the name of my perfume and the person can not actually know the name because I wear like 3 or 4 perfumes I don’t want to smell the same way with someone else, even if me and my wife is stepping out for event I spray like 5 because she will definitely like to spray my perfume to differentiate between me n she while we are out I use multiple scent 😂🤭

Nor be my fault I too like to smell nice

Bigchristo:
Just say it openly that you like the man and he likes you too , otherwise you won’t be seeking our advice to say no or write the name of the perfume for him to buy it by himself, as I am I can’t directly tell anyone the name of my perfume and the person can not actually know the name because I wear like 3 or 4 perfumes I don’t want to smell the same way with someone else, even if me and my wife is stepping out for event I spray like 5 because she will definitely like to spray my perfume to differentiate between me n she while we are out I use multiple scent 😂🤭

Nor be my fault I too like to smell nice

Ijaya123:
What I do not understand is why exactly do you owe him a perfume?
If he wants one, tell him the name of the perfume so he can go and get it himself

michlins:
Why is it difficult for people to say no. Like, I will not buy you this because I don't want to

Honestly some issues are none issues

SonofGod231:
If it's nothing "Hugo Boss" then forget it.
You can't be buying some Muslim oil for a married chap.

Jewessgratitud3:


Is Hugo boss the only men's perfume you know? Ok but that's not what I got him

Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

Persephone1:
Imagine wearing the same smell with your colleague at work and a married man at that...it can't be me . To make matter worse when asked why you smell the same, he will respond that you got it for him. Arrrrrgggghhhhhh so suggestive too intimate!

The married man is definitely clueless or he's just being intentionally mischievous

Jewessgratitud3:


Like him? No way!

He's always taxing me because I do some small businesses at work that pases through his table. So he's always like I should settle him and all that and truly I've never settled him since I Ve been doing that bizness. Thats why I said let me just do it for him.

Wetin I want take married man do?

Puss360:
Lol.. It's not right... Perfumes, deodorant and other cologne sometimes appeals to the sense of smell....
Infact in some cases, we can be so used to someone's body scent that we can actually tell when the person is closeby....
So now, most times, women buys a particular perfume for their husband coz they like the smell and want their husband to smell that way...
When a man is married and you gift him a perfume, it's not bad, but if confronted how will u explain that u don't want the man to smell the way you like?
Give him something platonic not something indirectly connected to emotions

Jewessgratitud3:


Hmm .. now that I already bought it 🤔 🤔 🤔. I'll just avoid using it on days I go there.

Jewessgratitud3:


Hmm .. now that I already bought it 🤔 🤔 🤔. I'll just avoid using it on days I go there.

Jewessgratitud3:


I don't go there everyday. Just once in a week. So there's no way we are going to be twinning with the perf besides I have other fragrances so I can always wear something different any day I'm going there.

1Sharon:
Why would a man want to smell like a woman.

1Sharon:
Why would a man want to smell like a woman.

Very good question That man is mischievous

ireke:


What nonsense is this? The perfume no get name? Abi dem no dey sell am for open market?

Just give him the name and where you bought it. Don't put your hands into wetin no concern you. Like someone said, he may just be using style to enter you without implicating himself, and I totally agree. If your eye no dey there, please give him the name of the perfume and where he can buy it. Further discussions about the issue will only complicate things for you.

Persephone1:

Very good question That man is mischievous

Bintabisiriyu2:
Hi Jewessgratitud3 ive messaged u it's about something important

Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?