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Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by talk2hb1(m): 11:06pm On Oct 22, 2023
nairamaniac:


Yes, they would express themselves to others rather than you that upset them.
Cos they are too angry to even discuss with the very person that upset them. That usually happens alot.
Then They are Not Silent, if they express themself to others. Guess they are not being listen to by the person who they reported to others.
The TOPIC emphasizes on SILENCE, SILENT PEOPLE. Not on QUIET-PEOPLE.
Okay!

It talks about complete DELIBERATE SILENCE.
Their is nothing like deliberate silence
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Thazard(m): 11:16pm On Oct 22, 2023
4KNGOATS:
Am naturally I silent guy I don't know how to stay long in a conversation. The things I say though are not just for conversation sake I say things needed to be said and once I've driven home my points that's the end of the conversation.i hate beating around the bush,I hate fabricating tales although I like listening to fabricated tales to while away time So conclusively my partner has to talkative,I mean very talkative if we have to be together.
gringringrin Same with me!
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Jacku: 12:50am On Oct 23, 2023
Thanks for sharing this.

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Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Exceed15: 6:31am On Oct 23, 2023
Silence has helped me more sef. It speaks volumes about points have been trying to make. Arguing with a woman is fruitless. Don't allow these wonderful species turn you to a mad man.
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Goldbw122(m): 6:44am On Oct 23, 2023
ATEAMS:
Also state how too much talk can causes see finish.
So true
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by syntekelite(m): 10:22am On Oct 23, 2023
nairamaniac:


Most silent people are cowards and gossips.
Cos those things they don't tell you, would be told by them to third and forth-parties.



Better believe this and know peace.

They are gossips and backstabbers.

They always want to wait for the perfect climax of the issue to express themselves.
When they don't eventually get that climax, they deliberately create the climax.

Some men actually think being More-mean brings them more respect and fear from their partners&friends.

It's just really silly and eventually self-deceiving.

I'm talking from high experience of being at the receiving end in few occasions.

Fyi being silent is different from quiet, There is a big diff and the op was talking about the quiet type of character not the being silent type, being silent is a tactic for whatever purpose the person intends( which are the kind of people you had interactions with). While being quiet is natural for some people cos they were born that way so stop confusing both.. a naturally quiet person has nothing to do with character its just like being an introvert or a glutton so you cant judge such person generally cos good or bad exists in any type of character..
Am naturally quiet mr nairamaniac and i have none of the traits u mentioned above cos me being quiet has been from a kid that even my mom kept telling me i had to change but why i cldnt is cos we are who we are.. a lot of relationships ended cos of that cos once you talk too much am out of your life and i dont gossip in fact everyone tells me their secrets cos they have found out that they will never hear it from anyone else..i hate people who gossip and i broke up with someone close fr jst that reason..
We are quiet doesnt mean we dont talk but we listen more than we talk esp with people who have high intellect, my homies know that once they start talking about girl escapades and irrelevant stuffs am gone..i prefer being alone reading ,playing chess, black jack or poker.. so you got it all wrong..
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by syntekelite(m): 10:38am On Oct 23, 2023
24dro:
Well i speak from my own experience and people i've encounted, most quiet people are mean. Be that as it may, they talk alot once they comfortable around and always willing to help.

You guys are misconstruing the meanings .. being silent for a reason is diff from the quiet type of character,a talkative can be mean so also a glutton that doesnt mean all re mean so you dont need to lump it all 2geda,character is character regardless of psychological traits..
A quiet person cant talk a lot its against their nature so those you encountered aint quiet they might be shy or manipulative reason they talk a lot when comfortable.. i can stay indoors for a week without craving a conversation even my fam jst started getting used to it after decades and fyi am not shy nor introverted.. it just is what it is...
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 11:48am On Oct 23, 2023
syntekelite:


Fyi being silent is different from quiet, There is a big diff and the op was talking about the quiet type of character not the being silent type, being silent is a tactic for whatever purpose the person intends( which are the kind of people you had interactions with). While being quiet is natural for some people cos they were born that way so stop confusing both.. a naturally quiet person has nothing to do with character its just like being an introvert or a glutton so you cant judge such person generally cos good or bad exists in any type of character..
Am naturally quiet mr nairamaniac and i have none of the traits u mentioned above cos me being quiet has been from a kid that even my mom kept telling me i had to change but why i cldnt is cos we are who we are.. a lot of relationships ended cos of that cos once you talk too much am out of your life and i dont gossip in fact everyone tells me their secrets cos they have found out that they will never hear it from anyone else..i hate people who gossip and i broke up with someone close fr jst that reason..
We are quiet doesnt mean we dont talk but we listen more than we talk esp with people who have high intellect, my homies know that once they start talking about girl escapades and irrelevant stuffs am gone..i prefer being alone reading ,playing chess, black jack or poker.. so you got it all wrong..

Your shots went over to bar.


I'm reffering to those that are DELIBERATELY- SILENT over issues just as the OP Refered to.
Being silent entails a conscious effort.
Meaning "even when you are capable of speaking, you chose to deliberately stay silent".

You are reffering to those that are QUIET in Nature or by virtue of Deformity&upbringing.
For sure anyone can be quiet by nature.


Did you hear the Op talk about imbeciles here in this post?

Even in my own quote you requoted, I never used the word "QUIET" in that post.

So Sir, if you are quiet by virtue of upbringing or imbecililty or mental issues, you shouldnt even contribute to this Thread in the first place.
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 6:42pm On Oct 23, 2023
anayolity:


My dear, you see those people who sometimes say they don't carry things on their mind are the worst..... If something happens the first time depends on how serious it is, I'll give it a benefit of doubt, try it again and see.

People don't understand that someone can forget how you slapped them but not what you said to them.

Exactly.
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by syntekelite(m): 1:08pm On Oct 24, 2023
nairamaniac:


Your shots went over to bar.


I'm reffering to those that are DELIBERATELY- SILENT over issues just as the OP Refered to.
Being silent entails a conscious effort.
Meaning "even when you are capable of speaking, you chose to deliberately stay silent".

You are reffering to those that are QUIET in Nature or by virtue of Deformity&upbringing.
For sure anyone can be quiet by nature.


Did you hear the Op talk about imbeciles here in this post?

Even in my own quote you requoted, I never used the word "QUIET" in that post.

So Sir, if you are quiet by virtue of upbringing or imbecililty or mental issues, you shouldnt even contribute to this Thread in the first place.




You say too much without saying nothing... Rest...slowpoke Deformity All cos people are quiet or silent... Mehn stop taking things too personal shuuu!!

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