skj1377:
What kind of poverty is this? When last did I see a cutlass talkless of touch it! Are you living in the village or a farm?

skj1377:
What kind of poverty is this? When last did I see a cutlass talkless of touch it! Are you living in the village or a farm?

Tallesty1:
Naturally I will help him out and we will switch yarns while I do it. I will tell him how good I was at farms back in the days and he will think me a good son inlaw even though I have just set myself up for see finish. They would think I was well brought up but the truth is that I no get money to give them to get a laborer so make I kuku do am.

Bettergoat:
I would like to help but I can't and won't use a cutlass for grass cutting.…

C2Ok:
Why the papa go cut grass when I Dey around😂🫴
So what?
I should take of my shirt and shoes and start cutting grass with him?…. LOOOOL I ain’t Jacob🙃

Nicepoker:
Na every farm dem de use cutlass?

Bettergoat:
I would like to help but I can't and won't use a cutlass for grass cutting.…

Samantha124:
🤣🤣🤣🤣

TenQ:

Except your babe's father is a black American

Samantha124:
Who uses Cutlass to cut grass though? The guy would probably think that the father is mentally ill and run for his life...🤣🤣🤣

TenQ:

You don't have a small herd with an orange tree or guaver tree planted!?
Trust me, these could be very small and not worth the use of a lawn mower

Samantha124:
At home we do have orange and guava trees... But you're talking about grass and not trees.

TenQ:

Under the trees could be grasses fit only to be cut with cutlass

TenQ:

What if you came home and found your own father cutting grass with cutlass, I would you collect the cutlass from him?

TenQ:

But this is what you find him using.

Samantha124:
Okay..😂😂😂

C2Ok:

Yes of course, he’s MY father, i don’t even expect him to pick up any tool when I’m with him, my Babe’s Father is HER Father, Boundaries are Boundaries, we must respect Boundaries in order to preserve our worth and avoid see finish 😉🤝

Bettergoat:
I will stand and be hosting with him.…

Reminderz:
questions you should ask instead?

what's the purpose of the man visiting the girl's parent? introduction?

is it the first time visiting? or subsequent ones? are they expecting him?

if he's there for the purpose of introduction, the girl would have informed her parent of his coming and the time as well, so I don't think the man would be cutting grass by that time... they won't probably be preparing to receive him or welcome with food or drinks.... and even if he happens to be cutting grass, that would be stopped as soon as he arrives...

if he's just visiting without the girl's parent being aware of his coming or even familiar with him, I don't think collecting cutlass would be the next agenda, introduction would be first...

if it's subsequent visiting, the father himself will leave the cutlass to welcome him, and the guy would probably greet and give him something then take his leave... he doesn't need to collect cutlass for anything... and that doesn't determine if he's a good man or not..

if my woman is visiting my family for the first time, (of course, they would know she was coming) and my mom was cooking when she arrived, she's not expected to join her in the kitchen... that's not what she was there for... unless she willingly volunteered.....

Bintabisiriyu2:
It's only poverty that speaks like you, why not gift baba like 200k to buy a brand new mower, or take them out of the village so they won't have to battle with unwanted grass.
If i was the father and you come to help me cut the grass na to sound you hot slap for ignoring your responsibilities. Ewu

TenQ:

Meaning that you shouldn't come a few years down the line for his daughters hand in marriage.

In my culture, you have failed the exam of being responsible and cultured.

If the relationship has no hope of proceeding to something serious, why not!

Bettergoat:
As I don't know how to cut grass with cutlass... What do I do? Punish myself?

TenQ:
This is to complement the topic from.

https://www.nairaland.com/7859913/first-time-visiting-guy-happens
Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do?


The first time you visited your Girlfriend's family house, you both met the Father cutting the grass of their lawn with cutlass.

As a Guy, he what do you think you should do?
a. Collect the cutlass from him and cut the grass for him
b. Greet him and keep on chatting with your girl

As the lady in question
a. Will you be embarrassed if your boyfriend collected the cutlass from your father and help him cut the grass
b. You will both ignore your father at his chore as it isn't your business.


Sometimes you understand the situation better if you flip it around!

cc:
Rocktation, Farano, Dominique

skj1377:
What kind of poverty is this? When last did I see a cutlass talkless of touch it! Are you living in the village or a farm?