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Simply shift the date if you are not sure you will meet up. You could also inform your wife so you both cancel the intention of a church wedding and go for court marriage which is cheaper. The economy is not going to get better, at least not now, so save as much as you can and cut your coat according to your pocket.

SUPERPACK:
Simply shift the date if you are

i and my woman tried to,but we don't know what the country is going to be..I'm optimistic it will be great,but I just wished I can sort this out once and for all..reason why we cut some things off,just to do this...

SUPERPACK:
Simply shift the date if you are not sure you will meet up. You could also inform your wife so you both cancel the intention of a church wedding and go for court marriage which is cheaper. The economy is not going to get better, at least not now, so save as much as you can and cut your coat according to your pocket.

We are going for registry and her traditional marriage majorly,at her father's compound.and a solemnization of marriage at an orphanage where she grew up,I had to agree due to one or two reasons..with that,I still have to spend in the arrangements..

Its a complex explanation,as I can't be divulging much info here...I want to make my (fiancé) happy to my best ability..

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Wow! Let me try my luck too!

Our Nairaland family, I really need a car, I have an old car (10 years old) but I and my wife would really like a new 2023 electric car. My helpers if you are moved to help us please dm me! I will pray for you 🙏

Tell your in-law to accept what u have now cos everywhere tight and if they want their daughter to still remain in their house, then let them think otherwise.

youngsahito:
Tell your in-law to accept what u have now cos everywhere tight and if they want their daughter to still remain in their house, then let them think otherwise.

I have tried talking to them on my capacity,but they are claiming that is their tradition..I have decided to do my best though..not because of them,but for my woman,whom is a decent girl and understanding person...I don't wish to let her go...finding an intact girl like her is a scarce commodity in this millennium...

Thank you for your input,anyway..

sholikay:
I have tried talking to them on my capacity,but they are claiming that is their tradition..I have decided to do my best though..not because of them,but for my woman,whom is a decent girl and understanding person...I don't wish to let her go...finding an intact girl like her is a scarce commodity in this millennium...

Thank you for your input,anyway..

What are you asking for ?
Where are the pics and invitation ?
Ask to put it on front page

I keep wondering why some people insist on being foolish. You are begging for money to do wedding, not to improve a business or even eat food. What stops you from doing a wedding based on the amount you currently have. Everyone wants to do society wedding and please their inlaws only to crawl back and soak garri after that. If your inlaws insist on doing it the way "everyone else" does it, why not support you or marry her out to the "everyone else" then. You will borrow money for wedding today and maybe tomorrow, you will borrow to buy matress according to your inlaws specifications. Mtchew. People should start prioritizing their needs in this country. I'll rather throw my money inside river Niger than give it to someone to marry wife. Nonsense

sholikay:
I have tried talking to them on my capacity,but they are claiming that is their tradition..I have decided to do my best though..not because of them,but for my woman,whom is a decent girl and understanding person...I don't wish to let her go...finding an intact girl like her is a scarce commodity in this millennium...

Thank you for your input,anyway..

this lady must really be precious to you. All d best bro

rickleye:


What are you asking for ?
Where are the pics and invitation ?
Ask to put it on front page

the iv is below... Though,I don't feel comfortable doing this,but I got no choice...

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Nonexisting1:
I keep wondering why some people insist on being foolish. You are begging for money to do wedding, not to improve a business or even eat food. What stops you from doing a wedding based on the amount you currently have. Everyone wants to do society wedding and please their inlaws only to crawl back and soak garri after that. If your inlaws insist on doing it the way "everyone else" does it, why not support you or marry her out to the "everyone else" then. You will borrow money for wedding today and maybe tomorrow, you will borrow to buy matress according to your inlaws specifications. Mtchew. People should start prioritizing their needs in this country. I'll rather throw my money inside river Niger than give it to someone to marry wife. Nonsense

that's because most people are foolish... they let others direct the affairs of their life... when I saw the title of the thread, I thought it was something serious, never knew it was even for a wedding lol... you never even put wife for house oo... if you never stable, you better remain single and enjoy your life, you want to put yourself into unnecessary pressure because of the wedding... I pity you... that love go soon clear for your eyes when the real work starts...

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sholikay:
My wedding is slated for next month 25th,I need fund to buy some necessary things..I have sorted some i could get with money saved,but inflation didnt help and isn't helping with purchasing of some items...

I'm a structural decorator(house painter)..contract job isn't coming like I envisaged,due to the season..December is our peak season.

I need helpers that could help me achieve this wedding..I don't wish to.postpone it,due to the fear of uncertainty..(more inflation)

I have tried cut out so many things,but there are still important things to get,with funds not being available for now...

I would appreciate your help,nairalanders...

I have to summon courage to come do this here,because of those that would want to query my inability to fund my wedding and provide for my family when married..

I'm not a lazy guy,I'm just building my own Painting business,because I am not comfortable with salary jobs..
Painting brings money and leisure time for me than office job...
My dad taught me the job,I want/wish to build it with my academic knowledge,instead of slaving for someone else..



I don't mind getting loans with lower interest...please help me,naira landers..
Thank you..

Much as I sympathise with you your case is not a life-or-death situation.

I would not advise you to postpone the wedding because things keep getting more expensive everyday instead I would advise that you try and still cut out any expense that is not critical by reducing the scale of the ceremony

Whatever you do just make sure you do not use your buiness capital to do wedding, it takes plenty of money to run a marriage these days therefore you must not jeopadise your business which is the only thing that guarantees you regular income

sholikay:
you talkedbased on your own perception of life..my morals and religion do not permit me to have pre marital sex,or harbor a woman without doing the necessary..

That I don't have money to carter for a decent wedding I want to do,doesn't rule me off as being unfortunate in life or not being able to provide for me and my wife..I always believe that its a lazy man that has no business with marriage..
I am being encouraged by people whom were with nothing when they married their wife and things turned around for them in the long run...
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Oga truth is bitter, no condition is permanent... and besides, don't you know anything apart from the introduction and dowry is just cost imposed on yourself... don't forget, you're asking for funds for wedding... most people don't actually care about what happens in your marriage, but now you are looking for funds to solicit your wedding... not business or anything? don't you know wedding is totally unnecessary in the first place... anything you spent there is nothing but waste of resources take it or not... what matters most is the marriage and how you plan it... you are even asking for loans for wedding... don't do it.. I know there might be some people encouraging you to do that, but trust me, when wahala start, they will be no where to be found... you don't have to impress anyone...

if you don't have money for the wedding now that you can handle comfortably, you better leave it for now and face what's important or better still leave it for another time... it's not a must to do wedding Mr man... you'd rather invest in your marriage and not wedding..

Brandiebird:
Wow! Let me try my luck too!

Our Nairaland family, I really need a car, I have an old car (10 years old) but I and my wife would really like a new 2023 electric car. My helpers if you are moved to help us please dm me! I will pray for you 🙏

Don't be stupid. If you won't help him, simply ignore. If na woman Una go nearly kill unaselves ontop her matter. Bloody hypocrites.

So many things are wrong with us in this part of the world, when things go out of line they put the blame on their families, their pastor's and Imam will tell them that their problems is from their family, Now let take the Case of this young Man as a case study:he has no family to support him financially,who knows if the lady he wants to marry has a job,he is ready to take a loan to marry.he never think there is life after marriage,he is inviting people to come and eat when he has nothing to put on the table.is that not a stupidity? when you can't cut your clothes according to you clothe,where as you can do a parlour introduction with just 10 people in attendance and has a peace of mind Rather than allowed external body to dictate his affairs,I 🙏 you wouldn't regret your actions at the end of it and let me remind you if you think people will give you money after eating your food in the day of the party you are deceiving your self.

sholikay:
My wedding is slated for next month 25th,I need fund to buy some necessary things..I have sorted some i could get with money saved,but inflation didnt help and isn't helping with purchasing of some items...

I'm a structural decorator(house painter)..contract job isn't coming like I envisaged,due to the season..December is our peak season.

I need helpers that could help me achieve this wedding..I don't wish to.postpone it,due to the fear of uncertainty..(more inflation)

I have tried cut out so many things,but there are still important things to get,with funds not being available for now...

I would appreciate your help,nairalanders...

I have to summon courage to come do this here,because of those that would want to query my inability to fund my wedding and provide for my family when married..

I'm not a lazy guy,I'm just building my own Painting business,because I am not comfortable with salary jobs..
Painting brings money and leisure time for me than office job...
My dad taught me the job,I want/wish to build it with my academic knowledge,instead of slaving for someone else..



I don't mind getting loans with lower interest...please help me,naira landers..
Thank you..

Omo bro just postpone the wedding. I just did my wedding 28th of Oct 2023..I spent 6m..choi...its well...just make ur wife understand..

sholikay:

We are going for registry and her traditional marriage majorly,at her father's compound.and a solemnization of marriage at an orphanage where she grew up,I had to agree due to one or two reasons..with that,I still have to spend in the arrangements..

Its a complex explanation,as I can't be divulging much info here...I want to make my (fiancé) happy to my best ability..

Isn't ur wife working?

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TheBTCinvestor:


Omo bro just postpone the wedding. I just did my wedding 28th of Oct 2023..I spent 6m..choi...its well...just make ur wife understand..

I am not even spending ¼ of that...inflation was my major hit...I already had funds I want to use for this,and with little help that will be coming from my parents side,but the inflation with scarcity of jobs wasn't helpful...
Thank you for your input sir...may God bless your new home..

Map1:
So many things are wrong with us in this part of the world, when things go out of line they put the blame on their families, their pastor's and Imam will tell them that their problems is from their family, Now let take the Case of this young Man as a case study:he has no family to support him financially,who knows if the lady he wants to marry has a job,he is ready to take a loan to marry.he never think there is life after marriage,he is inviting people to come and eat when he has nothing to put on the table.is that not a stupidity? when you can't cut your clothes according to you clothe,where as you can do a parlour introduction with just 10 people in attendance and has a peace of mind Rather than allowed external body to dictate his affairs,I 🙏 you wouldn't regret your actions at the end of it and let me remind you if you think people will give you money after eating your food in the day of the party you are deceiving your self.

sir,from onset,I told my parents I don't want an elaborate thing..I am not trying to please anyone by renting big halls,and killing cow....I don't have much crowd coming...but the little thing still needed to get the day done is what inflation has killed...bag of rice that was sold 30+ while planning the wedding,I bought it 50+ when I started getting the bride items....
Wished I had known,I would have gotten some earlier.

Please,for those coming for my head on how I am doing more than myself as regarding this wedding..

There are more reason why the wedding is like this,I can't really expose more online,just because of my fiancé..I didnt planned all these to come solicit for funds for marriage...current situation of the country was my major setback, couple with my recent fall out with my boss that normally gives me contract job...
.however,they are just obstacles and challenges from the devil,so that I can't fulfill this joy....
The wedding is just once in a life time,and I want to do a decent and cost effective one for myself and fiancé..

Some thinks I am doing more than myself,but seriously I am not..

sholikay:
I am not even spending ¼ of that...inflation was my major hit...I already had funds I want to use for this,and with little help that will be coming from my parents side,but the inflation with scarcity of jobs wasn't helpful...
Thank you for your input sir...may God bless your new home..

Thank you for the wishes. I would have supported you buy currently my house rent expires today and I'm looking of house to raise 2.5m to pay landlord. The wedding really drained me. All the best bro

Nonexisting1:
I keep wondering why some people insist on being foolish. You are begging for money to do wedding, not to improve a business or even eat food. What stops you from doing a wedding based on the amount you currently have. Everyone wants to do society wedding and please their inlaws only to crawl back and soak garri after that. If your inlaws insist on doing it the way "everyone else" does it, why not support you or marry her out to the "everyone else" then. You will borrow money for wedding today and maybe tomorrow, you will borrow to buy matress according to your inlaws specifications. Mtchew. People should start prioritizing their needs in this country. I'll rather throw my money inside river Niger than give it to someone to marry wife. Nonsense

Why are u so down and bitter....the bile in ur belly can kill you

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sholikay:
sir,from onset,I told my parents I don't want an elaborate thing..I am not trying to please anyone by renting big halls,and killing cow....I don't have much crowd coming...but the little thing still needed to get the day done is what inflation has killed...bag of rice that was sold 30+ while planning the wedding,I bought it 50+ when I started getting the bride items....
Wished I had known,I would have gotten some earlier.

My brother there's live after marriage,why buying a bag of rice when you can buy half?why printing IV when you can get few of your family members together? you have no excuse to allow people to dictate how to manage your affairs even you parents has no rights to tell you what to do, they can only advise you.

Please who is ready to get married, I want to throw 25million naira wedding then divorce the next day... 😂😂😂

Map1:
My brother there's live after marriage,why buying a bag of rice when you can buy half?why printing IV when you can get few of your family members together? you have no excuse to allow people to dictate how to manage your affairs even you parents has no rights to tell you what to do, they can only advise you.

I bought the rice for my bride list..though I am cutting out some other quantity of the list..I can't reduce for the rice,but reducing in other things,like yam,drinks,vegetable oil...other requirement...
The iv done,was soft copies..no hard copies,and a friend did it for me free..
Thank you for your advise so far..