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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2023
I bet if you get a remote job tomorrow, next thing is to start hitting on your American boss or client. Mugu! Always reasoning with the 3rd leg. Later you blame village people.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:20pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


That guy is too dull to be a human being.
He should be a remote control or table mat.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 5:29pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Lol. Coming from you?
Everyone knows you are dumb, dude. grin grin
These survey indeed. Such a knucklehead.


Dear pocohantas futuristic children, incase you are reading these someday, ... una mama na verified low thinker undecided undecided

"shameless test" naa for another day

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 5:35pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



Dear pocohantas futuristic children, incase you are reading these someday, ... una mama na verified low thinker undecided undecided

"shameless test" naa for another day

The problem with you is that you are ignorant, persistently and loudly IGNORANT. That is why over the years there is no improvement in your ways and life. Trolling for 7 years!

Your reasoning is why I can't have a male assistant and chose not to have one. You guys are too obsessed with evoking sexual attraction and control from women that you don't even know where to draw the line.

I am sure if you were in my position, you would be stylishly showing your female boss your crotch and receding hairline so that she can fall in love with you. This is a boss/partner you only talk to via Meet and Slack. But you would find away to stalk her on IG. Then she would make PASSES AT YOU and fly into Nigeria to marry you at Ikoyi Registry and take you abroad. The thinking of an average Nigerian male. Very very low thinking...

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 5:50pm On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
I notice comments reduce generally grin grin Hunger no be anybody's mate, Tinubu do this one o grin grin grin Na person wey dey take cool breeze for head go remember say there are Nl female he wan troll or come up with offensive clap back grin grin grin.

No like, if there's one thing we have to thank him for, it's this.

Economic hardship reduced cyberbullying. grin


Who would have thought?
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 5:52pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


The problem with you is that you are ignorant, persistently and loudly IGNORANT. That is why over the years there is no improvement in your ways and life. Trolling for 7 years!

Your reasoning is why I can't have a male assistant and chose not to have one. You guys are too obsessed with evoking sexual attraction and control from women that you don't even know where to draw the line.

I am sure if you were in my position, you would be stylishly showing your female boss your crotch and receding hairline so that she can fall in love with you. This is a boss/partner you only talk to via Meet and Slack. But you would find away to stalk her on IG. Then she would make PASSES AT YOU and fly into Nigeria to marry you at Ikoyi Registry and take you abroad. The thinking of an average Nigerian male. Very very low thinking...



momo undecided ! between you and your brain whu needs assistant pass, naija gurlz and misplaced priority

Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 5:53pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



momo undecided ! between you and your brain whu needs assistant pass, naija gurlz and misplaced priority

Of course my brain needs assistance. It does a lot of brain work. Something you can't relate to. grin


Modified...
Can you see the time and date?
We have our team's game night and I am supposed to join virtually, but I can't. I am not done with work. Make you no think say we are similar... grin grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 6:19pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Of course my brain needs assistance. It does a lot of brain work. Something you can't relate to. grin


Modified...
Can you see the time and date?
We have our team's game night and I am supposed to join virtually, but I can't. I am not done with work. Make you no think say we are similar... grin grin



gbe enu soun ! ordinary remote work if u cum enter UK/US dey work side by side with white nko ... naa ballon da hor grin

e sure say if you marry in the future, you go get assistant wife and assistance mom for your hubby children cos there is nothing you sabi do all by yourself, even child birth you go call for assistance
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 6:23pm On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't have any deal with Nigerian men... I just don't like it when some of them lie about us SA ladies.

I'm just telling it like it is and if you don't believe me and think that I'm making things up, feel free to look for SA ladies dating Nigerian guys on social media and even YouTube... You'll see that most of them are who I said they were.

Personally I once had a friend like that, she only went for guys who were either rich or from rich homes just so she could brag about it and the amount of money they give her... Two of the SA guys dumped her after having children with her even though they financially support their children... She finally settled for a Nigerian guy and she'd always brag of how he's always spending on her... One time she started trash talking SA men and I immediately came for her and that was the end of our friendship... grin grin grin

To her the relationship is more transactional rather than genuine love and there are many more SA ladies like her preying on them jollof brothers just so they could just spend their money without lifting a finger.

She's now a house wife.... So it's not only those Nigerian men who spread lies about SA ladies that I bash, but I also bash those SA ladies who spread lies about SA men.

Even with the thread that I opened on the food section of SA guys trying Nigerian food, one of the guys started mimicking Nigerian guys when his phone rang by claiming it was "one of his [/b]South African slay queens", because such ladies are the kinds of ladies most Nigerian guys go for here[b].
what lie?? .. That your lots are into us?? ... Ok I'd agree that is not generally true but I wouldn't call it false either... Maybe just a minute chunk of SA ladies, maybe just it's just exclusive to a particular, I dunno .. That statement isn't wrong and is not exactly a lie either ... It could have just been overemphasized...


Atleast, you guys are being painted in a good way compared to our madams down here.. That should count for something ...

So just chill, will ya πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— huh .

Who knows if you would eventually end up with one huh😁😁😁 ..

You know my plans are still on motion to smuggle you hehehehe 😁😁😁 ..





At the bolded, that wouldn't be entirely true ... Some guys would definitely be attracted to baddies while some wouldn't .. That's some hasty generalization .. Even down here, some guys prefer the hotty baddest bitches kind of girls while others prefer the good homely Christ loving ones .. It's all about preference.. you can't say that is the only kind of available to Nigerian guys at south Africa ..

If you could do a social experiment on this, do it.. I bet you'd see what I'm talking about ...
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 6:24pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:

gbe enu soun ! ordinary remote work if u cum enter UK/US dey work side by side with white nko ... naa ballor da hor grin

e sure say if you marry in the future, you go get assistant wife and assistance mom for your hubby children cos there is nothing you sabi do all by yourself, even child birth you go call for assistance

even my barrister friend that combines practicing law with freelance no collect assistances .. how much you get poco cheesy


Oh if I enter there, that would be MAGNIFICENT. At least I would be wise enough not to make passes at my boss or colleagues.

I don't always have this time these days, but I am on medication and you are useful for staying awake. Always a willing pet. grin

As for getting assistants, you spend money to make money. Outsource the petty things and focus on what brings in the money. I don't have too much, but I have enough not to hawk a used LCD TV on Nairaland. I simply dispose and buy bigger and better ones. Your uncle Tinubu is doing a good job driving exchange rate up.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 6:28pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:




gbe enu soun ! ordinary remote work if u cum enter UK/US dey work side by side with white nko ... naa ballor da hor grin

e sure say if you marry in the future, you go get assistant wife and assistance mom for your hubby children cos there is nothing you sabi do all by yourself, even child birth you go call for assistance






Haha haha .. she be ole alapa ma shishe ..😁😁😁
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 6:35pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Oh if I enter there, that would be MAGNIFICENT. At least I would be wise enough not to make passes at my boss or colleaghes.

I don't always have this time these days, but I am on medication and you are useful for staying awake. Always a willing pet. grin

As for getting assistants, you spend money to make money. Outsource the petty things and focus on what brings in the money. I don't have too much, but I have enough not to hawk a used LCD TV on Nairaland. I simply dispose and buy bigger and better ones. Your uncle Tinubu is doing a good job driving exchange rate up.



I can't believe you prefer to shalaye compared to just discredit the survey of the day

here is another chance to confuse your futuristic children

Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 6:37pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



I can't believe you prefer to shalaye compared to just discredit the survey .here is another chance to confuse your futuristic children

You have never worked a 9to5 in your life, so you have to rely on Google screenshots. How about you go to career section and ask people who have had day jobs. This isn't driver work or rearing of dogs, Femi. You know nothing of the corporate world. That it is done, doesn't make it acceptable and ethical.

Try and engage your lawyer friend in meaningful discussions. You would be needing his/her services soon.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 6:40pm On Nov 02, 2023
KingCold:
You regularly diss people that live with the disease in 2023? That's rather backward

They do not limit it to HIV. They also diss unmarried women, single mothers, divorced women, people struggling with infertility, persons living with disabilities (albinos, people who use wheelchairs and crutches, and amputees).

A girl living with sickle cell had to leave the forum because they'd constantly use her condition to mock her whenever she posted views they didn't agree with.

Just post something they don't like and the next thing you see is your "affliction" being used against you. grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 6:45pm On Nov 02, 2023
Silentgroper:



Haha haha .. she be ole alapa ma shishe ..😁😁😁


person wey dey inside house 24/7 dey collect PA, instead make she tell us she collect househelp cos she no sabi keep her house

she say she no fit employ man, which man in his rite senses will agree to be washing dirty lingeries and clean the house for a single gurl undecided

person wey kay see finish
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 6:52pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



person wey dey inside house 24/7 dey collect PA, instead make she tell us she collect househelp cos she no sabi keep her house

she say she no fit employ man, which man in his rite senses will agree to be washing dirty lingeries and clean the house for a single gurl undecided

person wey kay see finish
grin grin grin


Even the man no go gree work with am.. cause small time nw, na to dey ask d the nigga make him help am wash plate, clean toilet, run errands and shiity stuff like that...
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 6:55pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


You have never worked a 9to5 in your life, so you have to rely on Google screenshots. How about you go to career section and ask people who have had day jobs. This isn't driver work or rearing of dogs, Femi. You know nothing of the corporate world. That it is done, doesn't make it acceptable and ethical.

Try and engage your lawyer friend in meaningful discussions. You would be needing his/her services soon.


ALOL ! you wey know A-Z of corporate world no be inside bedroom 24/7 you end up, abi you dey wear office suit shuttle betwn kitchen & bedroom.
Stop reasoning like a school drop out, o lo school naw, undecided

boya ko ask around how a survey is drafted, i will wait for you.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 6:57pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



ALOL ! you wey know A-Z of corporate world no be inside bedroom 24/7 you end up, abi yoy dey wey office suit shuttle betwn kitchen & bedroom.
Stop reasoning like a school drop out, o lo school naw, undecided

boya ko ask around how a survey is drafted, i will wait for you.

Look at the time of the pic, I am still working. I am not your gf. One thing that is for sure is that I would get paid. I shuttle everything, the office, the kitchen and the bedroom.

Have you earned up to $10 today?

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 6:59pm On Nov 02, 2023
Silentgroper:
grin grin grin


Even the man no go gree work with am.. cause small time nw, na to dey ask d the nigga make him help am wash plate, clean toilet, run errands and shiity stuff like that...

Lmao!! This is why slow people shouldn't have conversations beyond them. I haven't seen my boss physically since I started this work and somehow you think a VIRTUAL ASSISTANT would clean toilet? People are collaborating and working across continents, yet two NL ding___ think it is strange to have an assistant while working from home. This is why you remain POOR. The world has moved beyond your scope of reasoning. Catch up or suffer!!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by youngsahito(m): 7:07pm On Nov 02, 2023
Farfalla:


Have you ever been to SA? Just curious...
I have my people in ur country.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 7:17pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Look at the time of the pic, I am still working. I am not your gf. One thing that is for sure is that I would get paid. I shuttle everything, the office, the kitchen and the bedroom.

Have you earned up to $10 today?


Poco tbh i don't find you tempt enough to bring it out, that dick measurement will never happen wink
Dem say if pikin get cloth pass elder e no fit get rag pass elder

the more you talk the more i value cookie, naa nonsense dey outside
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 7:18pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



Poco tbh i don't find you tempt enough to bring it out, that dick measurement will never happen wink
Dem say if pikin get cloth pass elder e no fit get rag pass elder

the more you talk the more i value cookie, naa nonsense dey outside

You can't find me tempting enough. We are not in the same class, Femi. This is the closest you can get to me, Nairaland. I would be REPULSED if by any means a man like you finds me attractive. wink

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Evilthoughts: 7:24pm On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


LMFAO. You're definitely hot cakes among the dejected and rejected if not walking ancestors who are nearing their graves grin grin grin. Yes, you're married to our best hookers and skilled manipulators, congrats grin grin. I know it hurts your fragile egos, but the reality stands, the best women of any tribe, race or nationality are with the best that group has the offer. Make peace with reality grin

Shut up useless xenophobic bit*h . The jealousy and hate you have for us will kill you stupid useless idiat. Deny all you want but Naija guys are number one everywhere we go women look for us because we are loving and hardworking.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 7:29pm On Nov 02, 2023
So far your brothers haven't proven me otherwise, so I'll stick to my statement.

There's a difference between going for a bad bitch and a gold digger who's willing to do anything for money.

A lady can be a bad bitch but still make her own money and not prey on certain type of men for money, immediately she does that, she's a certified prostitute and gold digger.

But if your brothers like them SA ladies like, then good for them, they're doing a good job cleaning our streets.... If you want us South Africans to start taking you guys seriously, then you guys better start taking yourselves seriously relationship wise... You can't downgrade yourself and expect people to speak highly of you.

Because we can argue about this all day and all night.
Silentgroper:
what lie?? .. That your lots are into us?? ... Ok I'd agree that is not generally true but I wouldn't call it false either... Maybe just a minute chunk of SA ladies, maybe just it's just exclusive to a particular, I dunno .. That statement isn't wrong and is not exactly a lie either ... It could have just been overemphasized...


Atleast, you guys are being painted in a good way compared to our madams down here.. That should count for something ...

So just chill, will ya πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— huh .

Who knows if you would eventually end up with one huh😁😁😁 ..

You know my plans are still on motion to smuggle you hehehehe 😁😁😁 ..





At the bolded, that wouldn't be entirely true ... Some guys would definitely be attracted to baddies while some wouldn't .. That's some hasty generalization .. Even down here, some guys prefer the hotty baddest bitches kind of girls while others prefer the good homely Christ loving ones .. It's all about preference.. you can't say that is the only kind of available to Nigerian guys at south Africa ..

If you could do a social experiment on this, do it.. I bet you'd see what I'm talking about ...

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 7:36pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


You can't find me tempting enough. We are not in the same class, Femi. This is the closest you can get to me, Nairaland. I would be REPULSED if by any means a man like you finds me attractive. wink


ALOL !! you wey dey raise for okota, pesin go think say naa Otedola prodigal daughter dey talk
You dey go Yaba go buy okirika bra & pant and you think we can't meet, dey play

i wish i can nauseate you more, make you vomit all the fufu & okra you chop make oyinbo see am undecided
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 7:46pm On Nov 02, 2023
reddingtonblack:



ALOL !! you wey dey raise for okota, pesin go think say naa Otedola prodigal daughter dey talk
You dey go Yaba go buy okirika bra & pant and you think we can't meet, dey play

i wish i can nauseate you more, make you vomit all the fufu & okra you chop make oyinbo see am undecided

I am done with work. You are useless to me now. So get back into your cage. Bye!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Evilthoughts: 7:47pm On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


Comprehension is a problem with you,hey? grin. She was smeared with the Nigerian man slur grin. Who ever found that masturbating vid of hers made a brilliant ** call for his or her team by branding the un-identified man (who was supposedly blackmailing her) a Nigerian man grin. That fckd her chances of winning the position as she was branded a degenerate who is not fit to hold such a position in that Province. Mind you she was running in a city where a lot of Nigerian men have been arrested for trafficking young women. So her fate was sealed when the Nigerian man connection was " discovered ".

What type of stupidity is this . Answer the question stupid dunce, how did you people know he is Nigerian? And why is a woman fired for dating a Nigerian? Useless hateful people
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 7:50pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


Lmao!! This is why slow people shouldn't have conversations beyond them. I haven't seen my boss physically since I started this work and somehow you think a VIRTUAL ASSISTANT would clean toilet? People are collaborating and working across continents, yet two NL ding___ think it is strange to have an assistant while working from home. This is why you remain POOR. The world has moved beyond your scope of reasoning. Catch up or suffer!!
A virtual assistant .. no one mentioned a virtual assistant grin grin grin


I felt you would create something like a mini office where you and your assistant would hole up and do your thing ...
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 7:50pm On Nov 02, 2023
BRATISLAVA:


Lol.

Clearly it's a South African woman or Nigerian man behind these threads.

No SA woman is behind the thread. I assure you.

That's clearly the modus operandi of a Nigerian male, who is probably below 26 and has never stepped out of Nigeria (OK, scratch that -- maybe he's been to Cotonou grin).

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 8:04pm On Nov 02, 2023
youngsahito:
I have my people in ur country.

I am not even from SA, but I often hear this "we dominate them", "they're jealous of us" theories from folks who've never stepped out of their own country.

You just hear stories from your folks about them dominating their "lazy" hosts and you didn't find it laughable? grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by reddingtonblack: 8:13pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


I am done with work. You are useless to me now. So get back into your cage. Bye!


even you don't find you useful that why you need an assistant to make up for your inadequacy undecided

boya ko nii horrific nite

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Farfalla(f): 8:14pm On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:

I cringe at the thought that one woman someone allows this knuckledhead pound her raw. You ain't scared of procreating with a dull man??!!

Eish!!!

Ouch...!!

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