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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:01pm On Nov 11, 2023
Mindlog:
Another crap!

She should rather advise the brother to marry a woman in the Country where he resides, make person hear word!

If the brother is a prize, make the women in that country rush am!

I told one here in the UK, you already have the skilled worker visa that is a sure pathway to British citizenship, then he should be open to marrying a lady already here in the UK with her own papers, so none would accuse each other of being in the relationship because of papers.

Same Uncle, who when he was a Masters student was always yabbing that marrying a Nigerian woman and bringing her over to the UK is suicide mission, is now developing cold feet getting into a serious relationship and marrying one from the millions of women from different parts of the world living in the UK.....there is always an excuse! Marry a Nigerian lady based here in the UK....NO, because they are too liberated and there would be "power struggle" in the marriage! Marry an Asian lady, he came up with excuses. Marry a lady from the Caribbean, he said those ones are streets. Oya, marry a Caucasian British whey go gree for you....brother man went mute! cheesy cheesy cheesy

His WhatsApp status, regularly have pictures of a particular Nigerian lady who I guess is based in Delta State based on the taxis I have seen in the background, he is already talking about getting an apartment that is bigger....I still dey observe. cheesy cheesy cheesy


Abeg, get out!!!

Simp-ass mudafucker!!!

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Couldntfigurean: 3:04pm On Nov 11, 2023
sylve11:


I don't think she will ever return to Nigeria again. cool
I don’t think so
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:05pm On Nov 11, 2023
Couldntfigurean:
My uncle took a village girl to the USA as a wife
After staying for years,she made friends with some women who adviced that she divorced him,She sued the man for everything he had and worth,the man died homeless in the streets of America
She told the kids that they are Americans and never lets anybody near or contact the kids

Both families(hers and her husband’s) are waiting for her in Nigeria

Kai, evil woman like Sharon1
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Princewell2012(m): 3:06pm On Nov 11, 2023
Iamzik:


Baba no be atom o. It's a whole package of truth
grin grin angry

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:09pm On Nov 11, 2023
jedisco:


The western culture has influenced our culture for over 400 years. Same reason why you converse in English.

The most 'submissive' woman you'd encounter as a Nigerian man would be a Nigerian woman. If you still think that there is a string of 'submissive women' in other countries waiting to do your bid, then it shows you have not seen an airport.

Lies. A South African and a Tanzanian babe changed that outlook for me. Don't get me started on Eastern Europeans. They have some of the best ladies out there. I will admit I have dated good naija girls because I screen thoroughly but saying not one submissive girl dey outside naija, that means NA YOU NEVER STEP OUTSIDE AIRPORT!!!

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Luckysbab: 3:10pm On Nov 11, 2023
DKM123:
Someone that obviously doesn't have sense herself is the one whose advice grown family men should follow? So she is he one to determine what happens in her brother's family.

It's how you people make every teenager who is jobless and bored at home because they couldn't pass WAEC and have to stay a full year doing nothing until the next WAEC become popular.

There are renowned intellectual and intelligent men and women who give matured advice daily but those ones will never be promoted or shared. It's always the iya basiras and the touts that make front page as advisers to you people.

Create your own forum. ITK

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Juoflife1(f): 3:10pm On Nov 11, 2023
Wetin Una dey marry self?. Marry a good woman and have peace of mind.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by chloride6: 3:13pm On Nov 11, 2023
You can still hear the village in her accent.

You can bring the girl out of the village but you can’t bring the village out of the girl.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Metrofox(m): 3:13pm On Nov 11, 2023
jedisco:


Its the usual talk of insulting 'Nigerian ladies' until they leave the country and go in search of the submissive oyibo.

Keep saying it- the privilege our society bequeaths to Nigerian men would not be replicated in any part of the world.

Oh really? I wonder what the Arabs, Indian and Chinese cultures think of that

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by soccerlite: 3:14pm On Nov 11, 2023
"Marriage is now business"

Rubbish
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Calitoscassius(m): 3:17pm On Nov 11, 2023
descarado:

The way people with low self esteem throw submission around like it's a trophy.
Marriage is no longer partnership but slave and master.
If you have low self esteem, you will value submission from everybody around you including your parents.

The word is not even supposed to cone out of anybody's mouth in this era.

Unless we are in another episode of slave trade which we don't know about.
Aye! Why any man would want to marry a door mat woman for a wife i don't understand, I don't want any woman to be submissive to me, If i am smoking weed, drinking whiskey, night clubbing, working, paying bills, cooking, eating out, cheating. grin i want my wife to do the same with me.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Gerald454: 3:18pm On Nov 11, 2023
I told my brother who is a nurse in the USA to marry a Nigeria girl and take her over, he replied that it will be his worst mistake on earth. He went further to say that 90% of men who have done that in the past regrets it. Personally, I don't know why its like that but I can count many stories of such I have heard.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Calitoscassius(m): 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2023
Larrd! Knows! i don't want a submissive woman. cheesy , if i am drink whiskey, smoke weed, sniff coca, go clubbing, sleep around, go to work, pay bills, rent, buy a car, wear trousers or short, smoke cigars i want my wife or partner to do the same with me. I don't want a dull wife.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Calitoscassius(m): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2023
luminouz:

Abeg, get out!!!

Simp-ass mudafucker!!!
Is this rubbish supposed to make sense? undecided

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2023
luminouz:

Abeg, get out!!!

Simp-ass mudafucker!!!

You little mind convinces you that you are insulting me......I don't take personal what my psychiatric patients say to me, yours is fresh air. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2023
Calitoscassius:
Is this rubbish supposed to make sense? undecided
K
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2023
Mindlog:


You little mind convinces you that you are insulting me......I don't take personal what my psychiatric patients say to me, yours is fresh air. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
No wonder you are fūcked up like your patients.

Pele...wereylog

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by grandstar(m): 3:28pm On Nov 11, 2023
Many women abuse the opportunity but not all.

I would say marry someone you meet over there, itcould be Nigerian or a foreigner and only after you've stayed a while so as to understand the marriage culture there.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by TruthsFM: 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2023
Pure truths from her here

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by tfelicityk(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
Many not accept what she said. She is being factual and entitled to her own opinion.

She speaks the truth...

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
luminouz:

No wonder you are fūcked up like your patients.

Pele...wereylog

Na through wereyiatric I dey take chop, cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by ggood: 3:32pm On Nov 11, 2023
FireUpNow:
My friend who took his wife to the UK is also regretting it oo. Now he wants divorce after 22 yrs in the UK as his life is ruined by his wife.
why can't he lure her back to Nigeria or make her not to return to Uk again
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by ceejay80s(m): 3:32pm On Nov 11, 2023
Truths9ja:
Why I won't allow my brother to bring his wife abroad- Nigerian lady, Arike


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QHw6D1hnJA?si=OXnY7YKcNk5emUq9
I was banned on family section of nairaland for supporting a man,
See what a woman is saying....
Shes telling the truth .. some women of this days are evil, be very careful

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by PINKYandBRAIN: 3:34pm On Nov 11, 2023
angry
Truths9ja:
She talk the truths and nothing but the truths here jare.


PINKY: This Girl's December Money don sure!

BRAIN: It's November! This is the Best Time Women Supports Men Through Contents For Virality of More Magas. If you know, You know - Pinky.

Her Online Hustle Has Been Graced....!

Many Mumu go don full her inbox.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by olancho: 3:40pm On Nov 11, 2023
I thought this only happens to the Igbos alone. This is the best advice anyone can give to her relatives. I know more than 10 ladies that threw their husbands out of the house in the the USA. It mostly happens to those ones that profess love to their wife and all of them were brought in by their husbands. I know a pharmacist who has a company in USA the wife he married from the village divorced him and claimed all he worked for and threw him out of the house. Women are Jezebel. My own sister who was nothing here went to USA and divorced a man that married her and brought her to USA what was her excuse nothing tangible. African women are wicked it is not only Nigerian women that does it.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
Masterito:
I live with my wife in the UK, so does more than 10 friends of mine. Know who you dey marry first.

It doesn't always end with this advice , sometimes some people deviate

It is important not to give self centered, greedy and people who don't have contentment that opportunity.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by FinidiGeorge: 3:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
FireUpNow:
My friend who took his wife to the UK is also regretting it oo. Now he wants divorce after 22 yrs in the UK as his life is ruined by his wife.
Up first world, up green pasture, up japa-ski grin grin grin

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by DKM123: 3:46pm On Nov 11, 2023
Luckysbab:


Create your own forum. ITK


Ozuo! How this your s£nseless statement take correlate. Ewu Gambia.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Firstcitizen: 3:48pm On Nov 11, 2023
Mindlog:
Another crap!

She should rather advise the brother to marry a woman in the Country where he resides, make person hear word!

If the brother is a prize, make the women in that country rush am!

I told one here in the UK, you already have the skilled worker visa that is a sure pathway to British citizenship, then he should be open to marrying a lady already here in the UK with her own papers, so none would accuse each other of being in the relationship because of papers.

Same Uncle, who when he was a Masters student was always yabbing that marrying a Nigerian woman and bringing her over to the UK is suicide mission, is now developing cold feet getting into a serious relationship and marrying one from the millions of women from different parts of the world living in the UK.....there is always an excuse! Marry a Nigerian lady based here in the UK....NO, because they are too liberated and there would be "power struggle" in the marriage! Marry an Asian lady, he came up with excuses. Marry a lady from the Caribbean, he said those ones are streets. Oya, marry a Caucasian British whey go gree for you....brother man went mute! cheesy cheesy cheesy

His WhatsApp status, regularly have pictures of a particular Nigerian lady who I guess is based in Delta State based on the taxis I have seen in the background, he is already talking about getting an apartment that is bigger....I still dey observe. cheesy cheesy cheesy



1.Caribbean women na streets no be lie
2.Naija women na like signing your mental health away to the devil
3.Caucasian women go love you truly but e get expiry date. Just enjoy am while it lasts.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 3:49pm On Nov 11, 2023
Mindlog:


Na through wereyiatric I dey take chop, cheesy cheesy

Lol... nice one
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 3:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
Firstcitizen:


1.Caribbean women na streets no be lie
2.Naija women na like signing your mental health away to the devil
3.Caucasian women go love you truly but e get expiry date. Just enjoy am while it lasts.

So who e go come marry?

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by prettysassygirl(f): 3:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
Me wey one brother come back ,marry carry abroad nko? Wetin I don do the brother?
People would just go online and be yarning nonsense.
There would always be bad and good experiences in all aspects of life, just don't use one bad experience and be a judge.

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