1Sharon:


They do that because they are just not on the same wavelength of the western women that they want.

Before leaving Nigeria, most of them had grandiose ideas of women that they would date. Only to travel and become incels.

You're a joke.

Most naija Men avoid westerners because they want someone who is of the same culture. Someone who can instil their culture and values in their potential children.

Most of yll dont reason. Na to just dey type with your brain in your bum.

Where I live here, western women love naija men die. Some westerners even date naija because they knew we are rich in cultural values.

So keep your myopic opinion to yourself.

Masterito:
I live with my wife in the UK, so does more than 10 friends of mine. Know who you dey marry first.

May your love continue to wax stronger
All these guys that are yet to travel outside their state are here typing gibberish.
I keep saying it, know who you marry
So when he or she starts showing you the other side, it won't be strange to you.

jedisco:


So why are Nigerian men not marrying those submissive Asian and Latinos?

Nigerian men prioritise women from the same country who shares similar culture and values. Even most of our parents will always warn against marrying foreigners. They want someone from your tribe and so on. The "passport Bros" are also documenting these facts and I believe our African Bro will join as time goes on.

chloride6:


No one is attacking her for her acccent, but her backward thinking

and what backward thinking did she commit? I do not see ant backwardness to what she says. She is just giving her opinion as how the world has changed when it comes to dating and relationship.

UncleKoboko:

Another crap
That Delta girl jaz must be very strong...

No be only jazz, na R&B.

dominique:


That's a bloody lie! the duty of immigration officials is to check your travel documents not bestow authority on anybody. Husbands call cops on their wives in the almighty abroad and the wives get arrested if the cops confirm that she's indeed the troublemaker. Husbands file for divorce from their wives and get half of her property IF she's the higher income earner. A nairalander had to sell her house to finalise her divorce from her American husband because the courts declared that both their assets must be combined, dissolved and split into two. They were on the same income level but the house belonged to her. She had to come to Nigeria and chill for some months after the divorce stress was over. You unexposed ignorant Nigerians think women are granted some magical powers to deal with their husbands abroad when in reality there are processes their systems follow.

If you're married and by some chance your husband gets to relocate out of the country, would you give him this advice?

Thank God I am talking from experience before you will be there highlighting my comment and shouting that's a bloody lie! madam exposed non ignorant American

What this girl is saying is so understandable...
If you want to marry Yankee guy, use your money to struggle and come Yankee, or ask your father to sell his house and properties and relocate you, meet a guy and marry..
But for a man to struggle, sell his properties, make sacrifices to bring you to Europe and immediately you arrive you turned against him can be frustrating and suicidal...

Any lady a man did not make such huge sacrifice for to relocate can decide to become whatever she likes, the man won't be hurt

Mindlog:


The same UK immigration officers whey me and my family pass through at the airport?

Whoever told you that is bloody lying.

I never said they will not allow you pass oga, read to understand. They allowed me and my family to pass too. It is what the guy told that I am telling u. At Heathrow precisely. Dude straight up asked, is this your husband? On answering in the affirmative, said pomp and plain and clear as day," you are the authority now not him. Back in your country, he is the authority but here, you are the authority."

Exactly

dominique:


In their warped minds, it's only the men that earn money and have assets. The women just do nothing but feed off the man. Such ridiculous mentality to have in 2023.

@bolded 💯💯💯
It pains them that women can be thrown out with just her luggage like it's done in Nigeria and abused women can actually get they help they need unlike here where she's asked to pray and remain submissive.

descarado:

The way people with low self esteem throw submission around like it's a trophy.
Marriage is no longer partnership but slave and master.
If you have low self esteem, you will value submission from everybody around you including your parents.

The word is not even supposed to cone out of anybody's mouth in this era.

Unless we are in another episode of slave trade which we don't know about.

You know nothing about marriage dynamics.

Good day everyone, please I want to know if only one person can fill international passport guarantor form for more than one person eat the same time and the person is your family member that you bear thesame surname

Mindlog:


What is the percentage of local women in that country the guy is hustling graveyard shifts would be attracted to his quality of life?

it depends bro. most people hustling graveyard shifts do it as supplemental income. most people doing graveyard at US Posts have 9-5 jobs but do it cos ÙS post in pensionable & d income helps takes care of tins like care insurance etc.. also nurses, psws make more on graveyards so

koolaid87:


You're a joke.

Most naija Men avoid westerners because they want someone who is of the same culture. Someone who can instil their culture and values in their potential children.

Most of yll dont reason. Na to just dey type with your brain in your bum.

Where I live here, western women love naija men die. Some westerners even date naija because they knew we are rich in cultural values.

So keep your myopic opinion to yourself.

BS. Before leaving Nigeria, alot of them had grandiose ideas about all different kinds of women that would rush them, only to become incels. Many created topics here.

It's not just any Nigerian man those women go for, they need to be rich or handsome.

1Sharon:


BS. Before leaving Nigeria, alot of them had grandiose ideas about all different kinds of women that they would date, only to become incels. Many created topics here.

It's not just any Nigerian man those women go for, they need to be rich or handsome.

Incel? Not when you have that BBC and all thanks to mother nature.

Nigerian KINGS are naturally endowed.

koolaid87:


You're a joke.

Most naija Men avoid westerners because they want someone who is of the same culture. Someone who can instil their culture and values in their potential children.

Most of yll dont reason. Na to just dey type with your brain in your bum.

Where I live here, western women love naija men die. Some westerners even date naija because they knew we are rich in cultural values.

So keep your myopic opinion to yourself.

Nice one. That geh no get sense. She just opened her mouth wah wah like bonga fish.

koolaid87:


Incel? Not when you have that BBC and all thanks to mother nature.

Nigerian KINGS are naturally endowed.

You dey mind the mumu. I no wan talk ni so as not to say I dey put my affairs for NL. If I start story ehn, e go shock you. Nigerian men are highly prized.

Men maltreats their wives here and get away it with , so it's vice versa.

Nigeria as a country favours men while Abroad favours women.

tfelicityk:
Many not accept what she said. She is being factual and entitled to her own opinion.

She speaks the truth...

People don't like truth. .

If una know wetin we dey see 4 this abroad for women hands....
The girl is saying the truth. Those who have ears, let them hear....

mikeapollo:


I disagree. Submission is not slavery. There are very successful career women who are submissive to their husbands. The point is a woman has to know and understand the kind of man that she marries. Once the man is reasonable, ge will value and appreciate the woman more if she is submissive.
It is not only African. It is Iike that in almost every other continent, except probably Europe and and the western world.

Know the meaning of submission first, then come back.

Nothing like submission in our constitution. That's how bad the word it.
People coined and ran with it from the bible especially men.
What a vile word that has caged marriage institutions for years.

Maxcollins042:


You know nothing about marriage dynamics.

Maybe you are the one handling mine for me.

Delusional kids trolling on social media that is afraid to grasps the reality of life facing them and understanding that the early has moved on from the archaic principles obtainable in most Nigerian homes.
These days,anybody can cook. It's no longer the exclusiveness of women as all hands are on deck to make marriage work.
Learn to live with it or don't ever think of getting married.

They will rather run their homes as they run the country.
Shameful and cringe worthy.

Mom007:


I never said they will not allow you pass oga, read to understand. They allowed me and my family to pass too. It is what the guy told that I am telling u. At Heathrow precisely. Dude straight up asked, is this your husband? On answering in the affirmative, said pomp and plain and clear as day," you are the authority now not him. Back in your country, he is the authority but here, you are the authority."

The guy lied to you!

Any immigration officer who tells you that knows he/she can be sued for such words.

Instead of you to advice your brother not to be lazy and unprofessional you are here talking rubbish. This just reflect how professionally lazy Nigerians are abroad. If you ain't skilled in any way, you are simply a slave abroad. Your brother is or intend to become one.

Got the T-shirt!

TheRealestGuy:


So you can't go groceries or food shopping because you're a man?

Wonders shall never cease walahi

Make sure you don't cross Seme border with that woman cos she will show you unbridled shege!

I have my way of doing my own shopping, and I does whenever I feel like, but why should I now behave like her pastor 1 am a business man I don't even have that time going to the market but her pastor is a full time pastor so he have the whole time in the world to do so.
Even I take her her abroad she will not pass her boundry.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram how bro..


Na this one account i de use since..


Abi the name don change and I no notice am..


WTF MAN!

sure?

Mindlog:


The guy lied to you!

Any immigration officer who tells you that knows he/she can be sued for such words.

Na you sabi Mr man. As you can no longer argue that one didn't hear what one heard, you are now saying the guy lied, yet women are kicking their husbands out and getting them sent back often enough to warrant posts like this so who is lying to whom? The lady made her point. I second it. You are free to hold your own opinion ok, just don't try to shove it down my throat.

Mom007:

Na you sabi Mr man. As you can no longer argue that one didn't hear what one heard, you are now saying the guy lied, yet women are kicking their husbands out and getting them sent back often enough to warrant posts like this so who is lying to whom? The lady made her point. I second it. You are free to hold your own opinion ok, just don't try to shove it down my throat.

Yimu.

Mom007:


I never said they will not allow you pass oga, read to understand. They allowed me and my family to pass too. It is what the guy told that I am telling u. At Heathrow precisely. Dude straight up asked, is this your husband? On answering in the affirmative, said pomp and plain and clear as day," you are the authority now not him. Back in your country, he is the authority but here, you are the authority."

There’s no emoji for the face I’m making at this your useless lie.
Just Why?

Tunagee:


She is saying the truth.

yes soo. 100% truths