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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Aareakinwunmi(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023
Metrofox:


Does anyone know what woman want?
We sent someone to find out what women really want, we never see the guy since. Abeg if you see the guy let us know.

Lol...


Last thing I heard about am, he don change gender.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Emperor5(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023
What did women really want
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023
Ukaface u have a mail
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by SeriouslySense(m): 3:22pm On Nov 11, 2023
smiley

I think is she cleans more and don't walk away from mess, it would be better. That would be a good adaptation and indirectly kind and generous.

Sucre7:
You summarized it all with your statement " I can walk away from n mess and he can't. you are dirty and lazy maybe because of your chilbirth or naturally in can't tell since you didn't tell us how you were before giving birth.

You " Darling" Husband doesn't want dirt to overide the house, hence he has to do the cleaning while you ble childbirth.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by alshalz(m): 3:22pm On Nov 11, 2023
Kobojunkie:
How in the world is tha man a poor man? undecided
English language na your mate?
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Nonywendy(m): 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2023
Kobojunkie:
How in the world is tha man a poor man? undecided
Poor man in that context is not financial disability
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by fineberry(m): 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Madam you're saying trash. You're not complaining because you care about him and how he's stressing himself doing the chores but because he no longer has time to cuddle and have fun with you.

Who will cuddle a dirty woman? You wan use dirty kill the man and because he's trying to make his living space clean and habitable for himself you claim he's doing too much. How daft! Some women are very dirty.

Even you know you're dirty because you claim you can overlook a mess in your own living space with a baby around and you want him to also overlook the mess so he can have strength to cuddle you and everywhere will now be oozing like pig house.

Have you ever thought of why he no longer cuddles you? Because no matter how tired a man is sometimes he'll still gather small strength as soon as he sees a clean fresh smelling woman that turns him on but if you can be comfortable with mess around you imagine what your personal hygiene will now be like. I'm sure you'll be like one woman I used to know back then who smells from her hair and armpit down yet she won't allow the man to rest. Always fighting and complaining he's not touching her. You pass near her window the smell that oozes out is nose blinding. Na so she born full house like rat. 7 children. Las las, the man went to rent another room in the same compound just to avoid the pig, she still followed him there and broke the door. I know your type..only make man climb una una Sabi.

Leave the man. No use dirty kill am abeg. Face your baby and nurture him well make oga rest. Some married women especially new Moms need to step up their hygiene game.

Let any pig of a man or woman quote me to say rubbish this Saturday morning. I ready for anybody. I'm not smiling.
grin grin grin grin boss you got me laughing.....na true you talk my brother.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Nonexisting1: 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2023
What do vaginarians really want from us. Onyenweanyi, you promised us men peace if we do your will. The gentleman is doing your will by caring for his family yet peace nwakwanu, ahunweke. This is too much for my gender.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Kobojunkie: 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2023
Nonywendy:
■ Poor man in that context is not financial disability
That much is clear from the context presented by OP.. undecided
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by jaszplus12(m): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2023
Aareakinwunmi:
Isn't that what you women want.
Exactly! And feel entitled to it too! Now she's telling us she wishes he stops, once he stops she will write again and say he's not treating her well and begin to feel he's not caring enough...

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Aareakinwunmi(m): 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2023
jaszplus12:

Exactly! And feel entitled to it too! Now she's telling us she wishes he stops, once he stops she will write again and say he's not treating her well and begin to feel he's not caring enough...

Confused sets

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by LillyandDaisy: 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2023
Give me his number I want to tell him something
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2023
Shes even mad join.


This gender sha are insatiable. You never know what they want
voltron14:
Your head no correct.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
Women are insatiable gender. You never know what they want
Aareakinwunmi:
Isn't that what you women want.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
You never can tell
Lightieness:
Wetin women want sef?

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:33pm On Nov 11, 2023
Olodo, by the word "poor" doesnt literally mean broke. Just a saying to pity him
Kobojunkie:
How in the world is tha man a poor man? undecided

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Ten06(m): 3:33pm On Nov 11, 2023
When will this gender stop complaining. You do problem, you don't do problem.
If you don't want him to be doing the house chores just back your baby and do them before he return from his work
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by grandstar(m): 3:38pm On Nov 11, 2023
Rubyjade

You're worrying over nothing. That behavior is second nature to him.

I have a 51year old relation. If he comes to your house, he starts cleaning up the place without you asking. Work you've been planning to do for weeks has been taken care of in minutes.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by tfelicityk(m): 3:38pm On Nov 11, 2023
Are you telling us how lazy or grateful you are or what?

When you gave birth to the children you mentioned above who does those things you said your husband is doing now?

It is better you breast feeds the baby for one year.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Levels1(m): 3:43pm On Nov 11, 2023
Rubyjade:
From DM


Last last, might not even be the father of the child
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by hairyman(m): 3:51pm On Nov 11, 2023
In other words, you can live in an unkempt environment and leaving things undone but your husband cannot.

That's the crux right there.

Anyway let's start at the beginning.

You see, the first problem here is that you are training your child wrongly.
Babies may have their tiny personalities but they are often what you make them. Correct the tendency to try to either make him sleep in your arms or carrying him around while he sleeps.

That is the basic problem, because babies don't really suckle all the time, after all their tiny stomachs get filled one way or another.

That will free up your time.

Secondly, get things done the moment their doing is needed. I often don't understand, leaving dishes after eating when you can wash them immediately, not cleaning up a spill at once, not sweeping up something on the floor the moment you mess it up rather than leaving it for later.

These little, very annoying quirks of many people's personalities...come back from work, take off your clothes and leave them on the bed, to be put into the laundry basket later, remove your shoes and leave them right there, to be placed on the rack later. Take a pee and leave it to be flushed later. Waiting for our Nigerian water to color your toilet before washing it when you can leisurely do it after a pee with the toilet brush and some detergent.

They add up, make a mess and create a lot of unnecessary future work.

Keeping a house in order is the easiest job on the surface of planet earth if only most people are raised to take care of their mess at once.
Do that and perhaps half of the chores your husband does will disappear.

HE WILL APPRECIATE IT TOO. You guys might be young now and stuffs might be tolerable but if you keep up with mess making, you better watch out.

In the meantime, thank the hell out of him! Let him know that you see and appreciate what he is doing. That will go a long way!

Because going by the available data, the chances of problems occuring in your marriage just went up quite SIGNIFICANTLY!

Present day women may like to extol feminism but the fact is that they will never like to pay bills (ask the ones in the UK why they don't really like white men) and men don't like housechores.

Rubyjade:
From DM

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by TheBillyonaire: 3:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
Obviously they can not afford domestic assistant.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by hayoholla(m): 4:00pm On Nov 11, 2023
Then help him out! I see no point in worrying. Whenever he's busy with house chores, you can join him too, rather leave everything to him. Even during the process of joining him to do house chores, you guys can bond more, the kind of bond you desire.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Houseontherock1: 4:01pm On Nov 11, 2023
Rubyjade:
From DM
Dumbassed stories everywhere
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Bravepenis: 4:04pm On Nov 11, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Madam you're saying trash. You're not complaining because you care about him and how he's stressing himself doing the chores but because he no longer has time to cuddle and have fun with you.

Who will cuddle a dirty woman? You wan use dirty kill the man and because he's trying to make his living space clean and habitable for himself you claim he's doing too much. How daft! Some women are very dirty.

Even you know you're dirty because you claim you can overlook a mess in your own living space with a baby around and you want him to also overlook the mess so he can have strength to cuddle you and everywhere will now be oozing like pig house.

Have you ever thought of why he no longer cuddles you? Because no matter how tired a man is sometimes he'll still gather small strength as soon as he sees a clean fresh smelling woman that turns him on but if you can be comfortable with mess around you imagine what your personal hygiene will now be like. I'm sure you'll be like one woman I used to know back then who smells from her hair and armpit down yet she won't allow the man to rest. Always fighting and complaining he's not touching her. You pass near her window the smell that oozes out is nose blinding. Na so she born full house like rat. 7 children. Las las, the man went to rent another room in the same compound just to avoid the pig, she still followed him there and broke the door. I know your type..only make man climb una una Sabi.

Leave the man. No use dirty kill am abeg. Face your baby and nurture him well make oga rest. Some married women especially new Moms need to step up their hygiene game.

Let any pig of a man or woman quote me to say rubbish this Saturday morning. I ready for anybody. I'm not smiling.

Collect 2 bottle of any liquor of your choice in my name.
Women need to know that real men get erection only with clean and hygienic woman

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by simplyOJ(m): 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2023
voltron14:
Your head no correct.
Nail on the head. She even have the effontary to say, she can walk away from a mess. This type will sit comfortably in the living room with a child's poo on the floor at a corner of same living room.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by CSTRR: 4:08pm On Nov 11, 2023
Hamachi:
:oYou sure say na clear eye abi something follow am.
Have you met my sister?
She is a catch.

Best graduating student na play?
Their children no fit dull.

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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by dawnomike(m): 4:15pm On Nov 11, 2023
Rubyjade:
From DM
it's all a matter of time. Your baby will soon grow up and you can do more at home
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by goldmatrix(m): 4:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
Shut up your mo*th....
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by ResourceMan(m): 4:18pm On Nov 11, 2023
This Could Be The After Effect Of Potent Doses Of kayamata.
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by wonder233: 4:37pm On Nov 11, 2023
Thank you! I safely ignored that frustrated lady.
luminouz:

God bless you for this. Abeg, one werey woman quoted your post. Please don't reply her. She is super frustrated and trying to drag you into meaningless talks. I'm happy that men like you still exist.

The truth is what women scream they want is different from what they need. Your job as a man is to provide leadership and give them what they NEED and not what they WANT. What a woman SAYS and what she DOES are vastly different. ITS UP TO YOU AS A MAN TO FIX THAT.


OR PERISH LIKE A GONG-HO MUDAFUCKER!!!
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Spandau: 4:40pm On Nov 11, 2023
Rubyjade:
From DM

Women! SMH.

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