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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Aareakinwunmi(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Metrofox: Lol... Last thing I heard about am, he don change gender. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Emperor5(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
What did women really want |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 3:19pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Ukaface u have a mail |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by SeriouslySense(m): 3:22pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
I think is she cleans more and don't walk away from mess, it would be better. That would be a good adaptation and indirectly kind and generous. Sucre7: 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by alshalz(m): 3:22pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:English language na your mate? |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Nonywendy(m): 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Poor man in that context is not financial disability |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by fineberry(m): 3:24pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:boss you got me laughing.....na true you talk my brother. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Nonexisting1: 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
What do vaginarians really want from us. Onyenweanyi, you promised us men peace if we do your will. The gentleman is doing your will by caring for his family yet peace nwakwanu, ahunweke. This is too much for my gender. 1 Like
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Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Kobojunkie: 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Nonywendy:That much is clear from the context presented by OP.. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by jaszplus12(m): 3:26pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Aareakinwunmi:Exactly! And feel entitled to it too! Now she's telling us she wishes he stops, once he stops she will write again and say he's not treating her well and begin to feel he's not caring enough... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Aareakinwunmi(m): 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
jaszplus12: Confused sets 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by LillyandDaisy: 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Give me his number I want to tell him something |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:30pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Shes even mad join. This gender sha are insatiable. You never know what they want voltron14: 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Women are insatiable gender. You never know what they want Aareakinwunmi: 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
You never can tell Lightieness: 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Quebec91(m): 3:33pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Olodo, by the word "poor" doesnt literally mean broke. Just a saying to pity him Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Ten06(m): 3:33pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
When will this gender stop complaining. You do problem, you don't do problem. If you don't want him to be doing the house chores just back your baby and do them before he return from his work |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by grandstar(m): 3:38pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Rubyjade You're worrying over nothing. That behavior is second nature to him. I have a 51year old relation. If he comes to your house, he starts cleaning up the place without you asking. Work you've been planning to do for weeks has been taken care of in minutes. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by tfelicityk(m): 3:38pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Are you telling us how lazy or grateful you are or what? When you gave birth to the children you mentioned above who does those things you said your husband is doing now? It is better you breast feeds the baby for one year. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Levels1(m): 3:43pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by hairyman(m): 3:51pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
In other words, you can live in an unkempt environment and leaving things undone but your husband cannot. That's the crux right there. Anyway let's start at the beginning. You see, the first problem here is that you are training your child wrongly. Babies may have their tiny personalities but they are often what you make them. Correct the tendency to try to either make him sleep in your arms or carrying him around while he sleeps. That is the basic problem, because babies don't really suckle all the time, after all their tiny stomachs get filled one way or another. That will free up your time. Secondly, get things done the moment their doing is needed. I often don't understand, leaving dishes after eating when you can wash them immediately, not cleaning up a spill at once, not sweeping up something on the floor the moment you mess it up rather than leaving it for later. These little, very annoying quirks of many people's personalities...come back from work, take off your clothes and leave them on the bed, to be put into the laundry basket later, remove your shoes and leave them right there, to be placed on the rack later. Take a pee and leave it to be flushed later. Waiting for our Nigerian water to color your toilet before washing it when you can leisurely do it after a pee with the toilet brush and some detergent. They add up, make a mess and create a lot of unnecessary future work. Keeping a house in order is the easiest job on the surface of planet earth if only most people are raised to take care of their mess at once. Do that and perhaps half of the chores your husband does will disappear. HE WILL APPRECIATE IT TOO. You guys might be young now and stuffs might be tolerable but if you keep up with mess making, you better watch out. In the meantime, thank the hell out of him! Let him know that you see and appreciate what he is doing. That will go a long way! Because going by the available data, the chances of problems occuring in your marriage just went up quite SIGNIFICANTLY! Present day women may like to extol feminism but the fact is that they will never like to pay bills (ask the ones in the UK why they don't really like white men) and men don't like housechores. Rubyjade: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by TheBillyonaire: 3:52pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Obviously they can not afford domestic assistant. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by hayoholla(m): 4:00pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Then help him out! I see no point in worrying. Whenever he's busy with house chores, you can join him too, rather leave everything to him. Even during the process of joining him to do house chores, you guys can bond more, the kind of bond you desire. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Houseontherock1: 4:01pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Rubyjade:Dumbassed stories everywhere |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Bravepenis: 4:04pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Collect 2 bottle of any liquor of your choice in my name. Women need to know that real men get erection only with clean and hygienic woman 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by simplyOJ(m): 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
voltron14:Nail on the head. She even have the effontary to say, she can walk away from a mess. This type will sit comfortably in the living room with a child's poo on the floor at a corner of same living room. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by CSTRR: 4:08pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Hamachi:Have you met my sister? She is a catch. Best graduating student na play? Their children no fit dull. 1 Like |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by dawnomike(m): 4:15pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Rubyjade:it's all a matter of time. Your baby will soon grow up and you can do more at home |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by goldmatrix(m): 4:16pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Shut up your mo*th.... |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by ResourceMan(m): 4:18pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
This Could Be The After Effect Of Potent Doses Of kayamata. |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by wonder233: 4:37pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Thank you! I safely ignored that frustrated lady. luminouz: |
Re: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by Spandau: 4:40pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Rubyjade: Women! SMH. |
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