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Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Immarocks(f): 4:16pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Aonkuuse: Really never heard about this....msurgh an'gior |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by harmony75: 4:20pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
I can understand how you feel bc I have noticed it in some family! last born siblings are always over pampered and these makes them useless to even the aged parents! May God bless every first born 🙏 |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 4:21pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
i only followed the title but really you are advising parents to avoid favouritism. are you sure it is favouritism or did not your father not take you out only at one point? it is the turn of your younger brother. when you think of it, you are going to become jealous lecoeur: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Wahabfuture: 4:26pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Speak for yourself, I have children and I love them equally, I learnt from my mother mistake. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Wahabfuture: 4:28pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
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Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 4:36pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
a kid i think e no know say na so jealousy dey start. and he is not telling us all the story. maybe his brother behaved properly than him Wahabfuture: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by stuffs2002: 4:37pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
jaxxy: It is evil for a parent to prefaere a child to others. You have no idea how much damage it is for a developing mind to cope with such evil of not being like due to no fault of theirs. Even if a parent loves one more than others, he should never show it. It seems you are a beneficiary of such unfair treatments in a home which is why you justify such an evil thing 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by MikaSoko(m): 4:49pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
It has happened in the Holy Book. You are not the first. Take heart |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by jaxxy(m): 4:52pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
stuffs2002: it is human, it is only evil if they do not care for or love the others. preference is always there some only hide it better than others. Also if u hate ur siblings because they are a favourite u are evil. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Aonkuuse(m): 5:08pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Msugh kpishii, kwagh er ga ga'a an'gom Immarocks: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Westerhoffe(m): 5:20pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
RevenuesBoost: And some will not even hide it. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by bummyla(m): 5:28pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
I found out after secondary school that my parents were giving my elder brother 5k monthly as pocket money as a boarder, while they were giving me N30 only for a whole term! N10 for each month! Hunger wan kill me for school! All begging fell on deaf ears. With N700 monthly my mates were the biggest boys in school, imagine having N5k monthly. They did not apologized when I confronted them, Dad got angry and told me off. My Mum, the only human being that have arrested me with policemen. Now I am working and supporting everybody generously, Now I an their best child! Make money! Forgive them for the sake of Jesus Christ Only! 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by themanderon: 5:30pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Ain't it funny the one he liked least was now the one that was there for him till the end. This is the nature of man. We tend to hate that which might be of future benefit to us yet like that which may not serve us well in future. My parents had a couple of us both boys and girls but they never showed much favouritism even though myself and my direct elder sis had a special place in my mum's heart being the youngest amongst them. It is inevitable that parents must have that particular child which is dearest to them but they should not show it. Even our God had a special spot for Abraham, David, Jacob etc. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Evestar200(f): 5:53pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Nackzy:Most Parents always love the ones that give them money. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Evestar200(f): 6:01pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Lol Parents always loved some kids more than others. My Mom loved all his four boys more than me his only Girl but today, I'm the only one taking care of her. Nobody to take care of her If I don't buy foodstuffs and Send her money. I'm the only one doing everything for her now. 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 6:05pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
fake story. the gap big oo. what is the age gap between you and your elder brother? maybe you dey spend anyhow bummyla: 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 6:06pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
another fake story. how can you tell then that she loved the boys more than you. maybe she was fond of them Evestar200: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 6:15pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Wahabfuture:Yeah and you're miserable Mofo hunting for who to troll on the net. Get a life |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by lecoeur(m): 6:17pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
frog12:Oh we've heard you frog, I think you should get a life not coming here to fool around. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by frog12: 6:22pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
you can tell us the truth lecoeur: |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Annahh(f): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
The truth is that it didn't start now, it started many many years ago, even during the time of Isaac and Rebecca, we are human beings, parents will always have that one child they love more than the others, even God prefer some people more than others. So my dear just chest am. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Evestar200(f): 6:53pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
frog12:Thanks Mr fake story |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by linearity: 7:05pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
lecoeur: I guess you met to say bias against…..which is the opposite of bias towards. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by 4KNGOATS(m): 9:23pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Rich4god:Mumu talk |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by stuffs2002: 9:46pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
jaxxy: Your hypocrissy stinks. It is evil to show preferences for some children over other as that affects the development of a young mind. It is natural for any person (young or old) to show resentment against any kind of unfair treatment. You are only supporting an evil act because you were probably a beneficiary of such unfair treatment. That your parents ran an appathaeid kind of parenting does not mean appathaeid is not evil or should be encouraged. 4 Likes |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by jaxxy(m): 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
stuffs2002: I have not been anyone's favourite atleast not in my family cos I'm.like a rebel bt I've been favourite to friends and bosses which I never asked for or cared about either. Being a favourite means nothing to me. I prefer to be accepted as normal based on my actions and character. However I do understand the concept of favouritism and I know some people are drawn to such justvlike some people love the idea of a best friend. I don't really keep friends or have a best friends. I know what it means to feel another gets favoured by a parent and I have been in such position all my life bt it doesn't get to me cos I can be a loner by nature and cos I have seen the different reasons people show favouritism which I explained in my 1st post. However that doesn't make me hate those who get favored more than me. I'm not insecure or hateful. What is urs will be urs. Do u justifying resentment towards ur siblings or others because they were favored only shows ur real character who h is jealousy and hate which u allow to consume u. Let bad vibes go. I have also been in positions were I liked o e person more than another. it could be in a relationship or group bt I may not show it like some other person will. It is human to have a favourite bt it is bad to show it I will agree only with that. same way it is human to be jealous or feel resentment bt it is evil to allow it change and control u yo hate. |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Immarocks(f): 10:07pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Aonkuuse: Itiyor er Aonkwasi ...shining? |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Aonkuuse(m): 10:23pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Itiyam er Aondoakula, itiyor ka a na? Immarocks: 1 Like |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Antai123(m): 10:48pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
CallTheCops:Please how do I create one? |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Immarocks(f): 10:58pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Aonkuuse: Mnénà shin kutim |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by TheGift: 12:28am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Your last sentence is a very important message to the present and future parents. Please don’t take what he said to heart. It might not even be as deep as you think. Also , be careful not to become like the elder brother of the prodigal Son, who felt he deserved more love. Is Father was just not loving Him as he expected and or wanted . Your Father most likely appreciates you, even though he may want to add one or two other features to your personality. That is His own problem, don’t take it personal, and don’t force yourself to be what you are not to thine own self be true, God bless |
Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Feggie3: 4:49am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Chetas81:love you 😍 1 Like |
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