Aonkuuse:
But it's common that mothers like last borns more... Like in Tiv tradition, last Borns are the ones who inherits the mothers property shall....

Anyways, the thing is parents are really funny, my father liked our second born very well.... Do you know why.... Because our second born took the resemblance of our mother... Not because he was well behaved, but because he loves our mother and our second born is just exactly like her...

lecoeur:

Some of you on this platform need to learn how to read and comprehend.

Ahmed0336:

You can't. We've been there.

You can only hide it.

Karlifate:


LMAO! 🤣

Wahabfuture:





That guy is a joke or probably a kid

jaxxy:
if a parent prefers a particular child it doesn't mean they hate the others. it's just a human preference which happens innocently or for a core reason in every human interaction. Aslong as the parent doesn't hate the other children then there's no crime in having a preference.

However it is a crime for a child to hate his/her siblings just because the other is a favourite. That already disqualifies him/her and shows the reason he probably wasn't the favourite.

As for u op continue to love ur family regardless of these imperfections. Ur younger brother accusing ur mom enjoyed preference from ur dad bt now is insecure when it's the other way around with ur mom. He wants to be the favourite that's why. which is childish.

who is the favourite doesn't determine anything about what u will become. what is more Important is who u really are and what u do.

Sometimes parents, bosses, pastors and people in general have favourites to spite another or cause problems btwn siblings or groups not because the favourite person is special in anyway. Do not let them use u for their games.

stuffs2002:


It is evil for a parent to prefaere a child to others. You have no idea how much damage it is for a developing mind to cope with such evil of not being like due to no fault of theirs. Even if a parent loves one more than others, he should never show it.

It seems you are a beneficiary of such unfair treatments in a home which is why you justify such an evil thing

Immarocks:



Really never heard about this....msurgh an'gior

RevenuesBoost:




So right

You'll just know that your siblings are jealous of you even if they pretend to love you.

I'm writing from experience

Nackzy:
My own naa because say my younger brother get money past me

bummyla:
I found out after secondary school that my parents were giving my elder brother 5k monthly as pocket money as a boarder, while they were giving me N30 only for a whole term! N10 for each month! Hunger wan kill me for school! All begging fell on deaf ears. With N700 monthly my mates were the biggest boys in school, imagine having N5k monthly. They did not apologized when I confronted them, Dad got angry and told me off.

My Mum, the only human being that have arrested me with policemen.


Now I am working and supporting everybody generously, Now I an their best child!

Make money! Forgive them for the sake of Jesus Christ Only!

Evestar200:
Lol

Parents always loved some kids more than others.

My Mom loved all his four boys more than me his only Girl but today, I'm the only one taking care of her.

Nobody to take care of her If I don't buy foodstuffs and Send her money.

I'm the only one doing everything for her now.

Wahabfuture:





That guy is a joke or probably a kid

frog12:
a kid i think

e no know say na so jealousy dey start. and he is not telling us all the story. maybe his brother behaved properly than him

lecoeur:

Oh we've heard you frog, I think you should get a life not coming here to fool around.

frog12:
another fake story. how can you tell then that she loved the boys more than you. maybe she was fond of them

lecoeur:
While growing up, sometimes my father takes me out with him and during those times he teaches me certain things that a man should know.
Thing is, something happened I can't recall but that thing made him tell me he preferred my younger brother to me (We are 3 boys tho), I even noticed it because he took him out more and bought things for him. I was this kid that's so quite, reserved and always on my own and he never liked that. On the other note, my brother is very agressive have this agbero type of behaviour lol. My dad fell ill and I took care of him both at home and in the hospital to the point of his death I was with him, I didn't take what he said to heart and he never apologized but I did all that because I loved him very much, I saw him as a hero, even the person that he preferred wasn't interested in taking care of him as much as I was.
I totally forgot about this whole thing until this my younger Bro accused my Mom of been bias towards him which is true but as the first and oldest son I always stand for him whenever that happens because I know how it feels.
Please I urge present and future parents to do better with hiding or avoiding this favourite child thing, it's not really ohk.

Rich4god:
Having a favorite child is nothing special. No matter how much you try to hide it, as a parent, there is that one child that you will love more than the other. It only becomes a problem when you start treating the others badly.

But in all, as a parent just make money and spoil your children so that they wont even notice when you do something special for your favorite child

jaxxy:


it is human, it is only evil if they do not care for or love the others. preference is always there some only hide it better than others.

Also if u hate ur siblings because they are a favourite u are evil.

stuffs2002:


Your hypocrissy stinks.

It is evil to show preferences for some children over other as that affects the development of a young mind. It is natural for any person (young or old) to show resentment against any kind of unfair treatment.

You are only supporting an evil act because you were probably a beneficiary of such unfair treatment. That your parents ran an appathaeid kind of parenting does not mean appathaeid is not evil or should be encouraged.

Aonkuuse:
Msugh kpishii, kwagh er ga ga'a an'gom

Immarocks:


Itiyor er Aonkwasi ...shining?

CallTheCops:
Create a thread

Aonkuuse:
Itiyam er Aondoakula, itiyor ka a na?

Chetas81:
MY MOTHER ALSO DO THE SAME THING WHEN I WAS SMALL, BUT I KEEP THE PRICE FOR HER TILL I DIE, today if I give my father 10k I will give my mother 4k, she can collect the rest from my younger brother SIMPLE AS ABC