Magnoliaa:


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TheFinesseKid:
shit packer.

Magnoliaa:


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TheFinesseKid:
shit packer.

Magnoliaa:


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Magnoliaa:


Contact of which admin? The OP - Persephone?

TheFinesseKid:

Magnoliaa:


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hunee:
Admin/moderator/ Class captain. I need to reach out to the person urgently.

TheFinesseKid:
shit packer.

Magnoliaa:


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CuteMike01:
@ Magnoliàa and Persephone

I agree with you, a lot of men embody the rigid traits of society's flawed definition of the ideal man. They can be quite inflexible, robotic and even not really self aware but I know you know you have to approach this topic in an open minded way. Although, I can sense you just want to create an emotional relieve for yourself through this post or perhaps try enlighten those who are here.

TheFinesseKid:
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DSSnairaland:
Smh

Magnoliaa:


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TheFinesseKid:
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Magnoliaa:


You can use the mail supermods button at the bottom of the homepage or tag them directly.

Mynd.44, Domin.ique are the only active ones I see around. Remove the dots from the monikers if you want to tag them. Or better still create a topic, and mention them.

Magnoliaa:


Slacking on duty?


Eish.

DSSnairaland:

Yeah, sincerely .

Magnoliaa:


Now why you mentioned in this, I don't know, but if you want me to take you seriously, let me see an equivalent of your response directed to men at various times when they talk down on Nigerian women.


When you've done so, we may have a conversation.

Magnoliaa:


Now why you mentioned in this, I don't know, but if you want me to take you seriously, let me see an equivalent of your response directed to men at various times when they talk down on Nigerian women.


When you've done so, we may have a conversation.

DSSnairaland:
Smh

Magnoliaa:


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TheFinesseKid:

Persephone1:
Done? Or Tired?

Sometimes I wonder if you people think these mods are bots who just ban people without reading through threads

You make me laugh 😂 🤣 😂

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

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TheFinesseKid:
took you long enough. Was afraid you wouldn't make it to my party. Iya igbe

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