So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

See the way you are bringing see-finish to yourself just because of someone's money.

Jeon:
See the way you are bringing see-finish to yourself just because of someone's money.

I don't understand, are u saying I should have agreed with it .
This morning a friend of mine asked for about 2k to help complete his registration I gave him should I have said I don't have and given it to a lady that didn't ask because I like her

AwokenVawulence:


I don't understand, are u saying I should have agreed with it .
This morning a friend who f mine askes for about 2k to help complete his registration should I have said I don't have and given it to a lady that didn't ask because I like her

No one is forcing you to spend money on girl and neglect a needy friend. You know how to spend your money ,when to spend your and who you spend money on, so as others .

Jeon:


No one is forcing you to spend money on girl and neglect a needy friend. You know how to spend your money ,when to spend your and who you spend money on, so as others .

Oh Nice opinion

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

Una too Dey worry una set over nothing..

Na dia biz, learn to mind ya biz..

Leave pad people talk and mata..

What ever he gave his is money, he doesn’t owe anybody anything..

Is beta to dash some money out, than borrow to some people who will never pay back..

Make una stop to they get soft heart to this world, you know owe anybody anything..

AwokenVawulence:


I don't understand, are u saying I should have agreed with it .
This morning a friend of mine asked for about 2k to help complete his registration I gave him should I have said I don't have and given it to a lady that didn't ask because I like her

Do whatever you like, but don’t forget this: Even Jesus said the poor will always be their. Avoid carrying poor an needy people mata for head.. U may not end up well if you continue that way..

The best investment na your self..

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

Everything in life is like a game of cards. The more knowledge you have, the better you are at it. The girl you mentioned here is bereft of common-sense and clearly has what is termed "entitlement mentality ". Stay with me.
Now back to the situation. I won't say that friend refusing to lend his friend money is a "bad" person. Why? He made a choice and chose what he thinks is beneficial to him. It all comes down to human nature. Selfishness.
There's a reason why he gave the girl the money and refused to lend his friend whom is in dire need of the money. Because there is something he clearly desires! I'll stop here...

Op, so what do you want us to do now? Tell you sorry? Dey play! Chaiii...

A man would share a stick of cigarette with his friend in the afternoon and proceed to send 20k to a Nigerian girl at night for doing absolutely nothing!

Op, dont be a cry Baby learn how to defend yourself from insult like that, if a girl think she can outtalk you and making you feel bad by dragging you to dirt enter the dirt with her and insult her life. I don't like what I don't like

E be like say dat girl no get common sense na people like them dey tey for market , be like the guy(your friend) the find something for the girl side

Think Real Estate? Think Teewhyhomes!

AwokenVawulence:


I don't understand, are u saying I should have agreed with it .
This morning a friend of mine asked for about 2k to help complete his registration I gave him should I have said I don't have and given it to a lady that didn't ask because I like her

You did not represent your moniker properly. You should have unleashed enough vawulence on them.

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

Why you con dey Shalaye? Na we you expect to fight for you. People like that na to cut iron with iron. My guy if she tell you wetin pain you, you send get more than a thousand words to throw back at her. No time to form gentle man.

Girl way no get sense

Krak:


You did not represent your moniker properly. You should have unleashed enough vawulence on them.

Funny enough, I love peace

Crucialgem:
Op, dont be a cry Baby learn how to defend yourself from insult like that, if a girl think she can outtalk you and making you feel bad by dragging you to dirt enter the dirt with her and insult her life. I don't like what I don't like

I would have done that but I just wanted to have a diplomatic discussion

Jeon:
See the way you are bringing see-finish to yourself just because of someone's money.

Critical thinking skills in the trash.

The brain is very powerful, use it please.

AwokenVawulence:


I don't understand, are u saying I should have agreed with it .
This morning a friend of mine asked for about 2k to help complete his registration I gave him should I have said I don't have and given it to a lady that didn't ask because I like her

You have a sane mindset

You are doing well, never have an opinion that is antithetical to societal development just because a female is involved. Always make your decision devoid of emotions.

The only place I am not happy with you is that you have not developed a thick skin with respect to this type of issues. Don't give a hoot about anyone especially females when they start shaming you for having an independent thought process, show zero emotions in such scenarios. If you keep showing emotions like getting angry you may breakdown and do their bidding which may not be right.

Remember that most ladies are hypocritical, they will support an idea to take resources out of a man but turn around to negate that same idea when the culprit becomes their brother or father.

Remain sane as you have shown today, keep doing the right thing irrespective of shame tactics used by women. Keep it up pal.

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

So babe slap yor face becuzzz u don't supot her....corrrect?....& instead of slappin her face back, u come here askin for moiney.....brother are u ok sir??(no oofencse)

Me?

Believe the words from the mouth (thumbs in this case) of a man? I'd rather chew nails.

Na guys create this entitled girls to be very honest, sometimes I don’t blame this girls but weak senseless men like the one above that have a girl 20k for nothing, while neglecting his fellow guy

He think maybe with that he may access to some crumb of pusse from the girl

How most girls cope this days is that they already have a list of guys they stylishly collect money from to cater for their needs

I was shocked when a close female friend of mine once told me she has a list of guys she randomly send broadcast messages to on her WhatsApp when ever she’s broke, out of 20 guys, 10 must reply within 24 hours, some 10k, 5k, 20k etc

I ask how she does that, she said these are men that are hopeful they I’ll date her, (she’s really pretty)

I just weak for my gender

It's his choice.

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

una funny ooo. Na me get money, if I decide to throw it by the road side, no be una business

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

People like you makes me angry , A girl say such a thing to you and get up and left , no fight but she will receive bad mouth from me in abundant

Cinema4d:

Everything in life is like a game of cards. The more knowledge you have, the better you are at it. The girl you mentioned here is bereft of common-sense and clearly has what is termed "entitlement mentality ". Stay with me.
Now back to the situation. I won't say that friend refusing to lend his friend money is a "bad" person. Why? He made a choice and chose what he thinks is beneficial to him. It all comes down to human nature. Selfishness.
There's a reason why he gave the girl the money and refused to lend his friend whom is in dire need of the money. Because there is something he clearly desires! I'll stop here...

In One word: it called COVERED CONTRACT
a secret Desire to get something in Return. The friend can not give him that thing

ExudeLoveToAll:



You have a sane mindset

You are doing well, never have an opinion that is antithetical to societal development just because a female is involved. Always make your decision devoid of emotions.

The only place I am not happy with you is that you have not developed a thick skin with respect to this type of issues. Don't give a hoot about anyone especially females when they start shaming you for having an independent thought process, show zero emotions in such scenarios. If you keep showing emotions like getting angry you may breakdown and do their bidding which may not be right.

Remember that most ladies are hypocritical, they will support an idea to take resources out of a man but turn around to negate that same idea when the culprit becomes their brother or father.

Remain sane as you have shown today, keep doing the right thing irrespective of shame tactics used by women. Keep it up pal.

Legend

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

U are right bro ... pls bro can I get a little token frm u?? Pls am realli in need of it

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