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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by finni(m): 5:09pm On Nov 22, 2023
Your lost, hookup gains.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by RichAbujaGuy: 5:10pm On Nov 22, 2023
Good for this husband that has the moral discipline to save his Sampson strength for building, thinking, and spiritual fortitude.

No comment a gender that has repudiated her marital duties and is trying to weaponised her kpekus. 😉

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Segxydube: 5:11pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...


Where the Bible talk say marrying 2 wives na sin?

Na only leaders in the church are not allowed to marry more than one wife.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Obasempiree(m): 5:11pm On Nov 22, 2023
AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
Reading family section on nairaland is very dangerous, stories like this might make single people scared of marriage. Read post about marriage on nairaland at your own peril
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
casualobserver:


The Bible does, there is nowhere in the Bible that says im1 man 1 wife.

Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Manna4Gurls: 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
You this gender and troublesome... You started it same you is asking your online in-laws for advice..

Tufiakwa
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by abba190: 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:


Pls don't blaspheme..

Don't cross the redline
you are the one crossed the red line by calling others head slammers. wise up
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Teymanhenry(f): 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...

The Bible does not stop you from marrying more than one wife. Our doctrines tend to make us believe it's a sin when God created more women than men.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Sparrk007(m): 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
FuckingMachine:
You thought you were indispensable?

And of all things to weaponize you chose sex which means that's all you have to offer and he should see you as an olosho.

You couldn't send him packing, couldn't seize the car you bought him or shut down the business you opened for him because you are broke and worthless, you denied him sex because that's all you have.

You are a leech.
Oga be calming down the matter never did level Na
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Ayodeoba: 5:13pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:


Pls don't blaspheme..

Don't cross the redline
lol it’s a simple question now
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by SAMBARRY: 5:14pm On Nov 22, 2023
FuckingMachine:
You thought you were indispensable?

And of all things to weaponize you chose sex which means that's all you have to offer and he should see you as an olosho.

You couldn't send him packing, couldn't seize the car you bought him or shut down the business you opened for him because you are broke and worthless, you denied him sex because that's all you have.

You are a leech.
lmaooo I wanted to say this but In a nicer way.


Aunty lady sope otilo.he don go grin

You don open the door wide open for him to go out and he don taste banana, pineapple,pawpaw, lemonade,Na only miracle go make him touch you again grin

You think the girls outside are smiling? Do you know the amount of Hot gez outside grin

In one word Oko retilo.he is now your roommate cheesy

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by nkwoemeka(m): 5:15pm On Nov 22, 2023
Between man and woman who enjoys sex pass.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Sholaco: 5:16pm On Nov 22, 2023
Your husband is married to Jesus, so, no need to worries

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:16pm On Nov 22, 2023
Segxydube:


Where the Bible talk say marrying 2 wives na sin?

Na only leaders in the church are not allowed to marry more than one wife.

Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by GreatOchuks: 5:16pm On Nov 22, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Not true. I don't touch my wife unless she forces me to. Of all the challenges men think of nowadays, sex is the least. Only those who are still single and randy, those who don't have a sense of reasoning would be chasing wife or women outside cos of sex.

At it stands now, I can stay for up to 5 months or more, without sex. If you want me to smile at you, bring business ideas that can fetch me money, not sex

I have children school fees, home upkeep, business success so money wouldn't stop coming, career, parents, dependents, etc to take care of. If I even dare touch your skin as a wife, be happy

I understand how you feel , I have allowed a girl live with me for months before and it was awkward, it got to a time I started seeing her like a sibling, I refused her advances constantly, whenever we manage to lash , I don't do well but if I happen to bring another girl when she's not around I find myself lashing like a raving Tiger .

At a time , I will need to go flirt with another girl outside or watch porn to put me in the mood for her .

That's why it's not too good for husband and wife to Always live in one room or bedroom,,, it breeds lack of interest and see finish.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by egunna(m): 5:17pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...

says someone who flushes the toilet with water and uses tissue to wipe his ass.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Julesrimet(m): 5:18pm On Nov 22, 2023
You don't need any advice, just assent to his conjugal rights and peace will reign.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Joy2dworldxyz: 5:18pm On Nov 22, 2023
Ijaya123:


Before any advice, why do you usually turn him down in the first place? Besides, why are you bothered that he doesn’t disturb you again after? Isn’t that what you want by turning him down?
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Where in the Bible did you see that you are not allowed to marry two wives?

He can't show you anything cos the Bible never said so
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:20pm On Nov 22, 2023
Christianity is one man, one wife. All these polygamy preachers should stay off Christ's Church.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by EvangelistChuks(m): 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2023
The word of God said not to deny yourselves of your body(married I mean).The scripture said that we should not give place to the devil. Many especially women that tried it are regretting that foolishness till today.A brother in the fellowship was always being denied of sex by his wife.He begged,cried and masturbated in the presence of the wife but to no avail.He even reported to the Church but nothing came of it.
RESULT:That brother has three Children(his wife had 5 for him) with another woman that he is living with now.And who is the woman he is living with?One of the sisters in the fellowship that he impregnated(she had pity for him).
WOMEN/MEN PLEASE DON’T LEAD YOUR SPOUSE TO SIN.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2023
Joy2dworldxyz:


He can't show you anything cos the Bible never said so

Preacher please, can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by salam8528: 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:
I wish the Bible allowed men to married two wives...

This our Christian women wahala too much ..

Head slammers women no dey bhave this way...

hope it's okay if they call Christians another name? Y can't u just say Muslims? Will will u guys grow up. Anything anyone hold sacred should be respected even if it doesn't make any sense to u. FYI, God did not stop u from marrying more than one wife u chose not to. We have have seen many acclaimed Christian with many wives no pretence.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by DND069: 5:24pm On Nov 22, 2023
obaidan:
the man no get ur time again. and i'm super proud of him on this level.
the next stage now, u will ask for the sex, e will start turning you down. and that's the boss level, he's getting there soon


And the moment the husband starts turning her down is the end game. She is just physically present but she is gone.

Women's weapon should be diverse.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by MadamExcellency: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2023
salam8528:
hope it's okay if they call Christians another name? Y can't u just say Muslims? Will will u guys grow up. Anything anyone hold sacred should be respected even if it doesn't make any sense to u. FYI, God did not stop u from marrying more than one wife u chose not to. We have have seen many acclaimed Christian with many wives no pretence.

Christians don't marry two wives because it contradicts the teachings of Jesus Christ himself.

Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by LeeSmart: 5:26pm On Nov 22, 2023
Shinjawestside:

Pls don't blaspheme..
Don't cross the redline
You see daht mod.? if u do anyhow him go wan ban u for 10yrs, so just allow am with his ignorance.
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by vikstandon(m): 5:27pm On Nov 22, 2023
Mugu! You want him to bow down and worship you, because you are the giver of life.

Your bottomless pit has become life.
You don become giver of life!

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Dennisochampa: 5:27pm On Nov 22, 2023
So u want him to buy you a gift and beg you each time he asks for his right as a married man?
This one head don dey inside her anus tey tey...
Go and check well... Someone less prettier and sexier than you is already banging the man.... And he cares not because all he wants is the pussy.... U fit still dey inside river make soap enter your eye!!!

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Way4orward: 5:28pm On Nov 22, 2023
This Gender.... no comment.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Clazzone(m): 5:28pm On Nov 22, 2023
What do women really want You said you aren't doing, oga rest himself, and you still come to Nairaland to rant.

It means you don't have anything to offer than sex, and the sex itself has been rendered useless for you.

Get busy ok!
Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Johnholt909: 5:28pm On Nov 22, 2023
Good that he never bothered about it. wink

Women would always think that they are smarter than the men.

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Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Myer(m): 5:28pm On Nov 22, 2023
AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness
Have you realised your wrong now?
If yes, then pray about it and apologise to him.
Make his favorite meal before you do.

If you're believers, please seek counselling from respectable marriage counsellors.

May Christ become the Head of your home in Jesus name.

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