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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by BabbanBura(m): 5:23pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂

I have a strong feeling I know this ya girl, is she working for aviation?
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Massivedick: 5:34pm On Nov 24, 2023
BabbanBura:


I have a strong feeling I know this ya girl, is she working for aviation?

Not at all. grin
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by BabbanBura(m): 5:46pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:


Not at all. grin

Okay Bro
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Qatar2022: 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂
Please do a prank test on her , Beside she's cheating on you but don't dump her without prove
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Massivedick: 6:12pm On Nov 24, 2023
Qatar2022:

Please do a prank test on her , Beside she's cheating on you but don't dump her without prove

What other proof again do I need? There is no way the married guy will accept that he is sleeping with her and she can’t accept as well. The military Major? How do I start with that one? I don’t literally listen to hearsay, but when the dealer said” you seem to be the only one in this girl’s life that is reasonable “. I had to calm down for the guy. And get the info I needed. Girls are very smart. Very smooth in operation.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by bigiyaro(m): 6:30pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:

I have told her to let me be for now. But some friends say I am not married to her I shouldn’t be concerned.
But, I don’t think so. I suspected as she is into marketing of insurance policies. But I was like at least she is doing something. But that job exposes her to men and you know men. Before anything, they Will want to do something. It is what it is. But I don’t have any evidence before now. Hence, I did all those introduction things.
You should be concerned o, no females comes close to whoring like over ambitious female marketers, they mostly only focus on earning the promotions and commissions, hence they can do anything to get thier way. Though personally, I trust no human being when it comes to issues of money and sex. Just trust you instinct. The bottom line is, if there is no peace in your heart concerning going ahead with the relationship, then by all means just quit.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by bigiyaro(m): 6:36pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:


What other proof again do I need? There is no way the married guy will accept that he is sleeping with her and she can’t accept as well. The military Major? How do I start with that one? I don’t literally listen to hearsay, but when the dealer said” you seem to be the only one in this girl’s life that is reasonable “. I had to calm down for the guy. And get the info I needed. Girls are very smart. Very smooth in operation.
I don't know how old your girl is, but I know a major in the army is not in her age bracket to keep as 'friend' if not for money and sex issues. I can give you 98% guarantee that, male military personnel, bankers and church choir masters, fvck all thier female 'friend'

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by DND069: 6:44pm On Nov 24, 2023
Peace of mind is priceless. You don't have to monitor grown ups like toddlers.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Juliearth(f): 6:50pm On Nov 24, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂





Clearly, bringing this here is a wrong move as you know what the outcome would be.


You have every right to think she is cheating, but then again, what if there is nothing going on between your woman and these men?

Consider this as a tiny glimpse of what marriage looks like. I believe challenges are bound to occur. Challenges that only your love and/or trust for your partner would enable you thrive through. Consider this as one of such.


Peradventure, you are not convinced, you could still continue with your findings.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Nonexisting1: 7:28pm On Nov 24, 2023
For you to have confronted her on an issue you should have handled discreetly, I don't think you are emotionally strong enough to hear the brutal truth. I'm glad you already know that men don't invest time and money for free especially Nigerian men so all the clues you need are there. Just pay a private investigator to satisfy your curiosity, you can afford that I believe.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by oneman2k7: 7:39pm On Nov 24, 2023
Should we tell him??
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Titan12(m): 8:02pm On Nov 24, 2023
OP you Bleep up sha
You didn’t even have to let her know that you know what’s going on
You just withdraw slowly from her.
Now she will call you all sort of names, insecure etc.
Dem no need tell you wetin Dey sup for Lagos na.
No matter what, she won’t confess
Just go with the flow. You no fit monitor woman doings.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Massivedick: 8:07pm On Nov 24, 2023
Titan12:
OP you Bleep up sha
You didn’t even have to let her know that you know what’s going on
You just withdraw slowly from her.
Now she will call you all sort of names, insecure etc.
Dem no need tell you wetin Dey sup for Lagos na.
No matter what, she won’t confess
Just go with the flow. You no fit monitor woman doings.

I just want to let her know why I am leaving. Simple.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by jom28gy(m): 8:08pm On Nov 24, 2023
Honestly, leave her alone, come home and find a better girl to marry
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by RealEzee(m): 8:32pm On Nov 24, 2023
We rise by deceiving others

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by GerraMeh74(m): 9:11pm On Nov 24, 2023
Bro if you are willing and ready to pay,hire me as an invistigator and I will follow her in this Lagos and get you details.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Clinghton: 9:54pm On Nov 24, 2023
If I were you I would suspend the tourist visa, maybe frustrate her and the truth would be revealed.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Clinghton: 10:25pm On Nov 24, 2023
Provoke her by suspending the tourist visa, and the truth might be revealed.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Gggjhhj: 10:40pm On Nov 24, 2023
Ones Wey dae same street with us SEF DAE cheat, talk more of abroad
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:15am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂
see ,let me tell you sonething .I will be real with you, dont trust your babe 100 percent, most ladies who have guys overseas are not faithful .you need to do more checks and set up.since you have the guy who drove here there,his number.do more findings and I assure you that she is cheating. Dont ask me how I know. I have vast experience in things like this. She never informed you that she has used her friends to intimidate the dealer, you had to hear it from the dealer.Broda be more wise

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by loswhite(m): 2:43am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:


Bro, no be everybody like white women ooo. Most blacks here are just crazy. They are literally everywhere. Home is still the best.
Lol and you don dey get heart attack already.....wasting energy dey investigating a girl...you get time.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by advanceDNA: 4:19am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:

Pardon my moniker, guys!😂

Long distance relationship na Handicap bet against you


Btw....... dey use ur head .......na guy man like u pay for car.......stay there dey call "our" girlfriend your fiancé
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:52am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:


Bro, no be everybody like white women ooo. Most blacks here are just crazy. They are literally everywhere. Home is still the best.
ah.. I no fess see this your comment before I type long advise dey give you.goodluck Mr home is still the best.lol.Be expecting a massive shock from her.If dem advise una based on experience. You no wan listen.enjoy
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Massivedick: 6:25am On Nov 25, 2023
Aaaaarghmed:
ah.. I no fess see this your comment before I type long advise dey give you.goodluck Mr home is still the best.lol.Be expecting a massive shock from her.If dem advise una based on experience. You no wan listen.enjoy

When you date an African that was born and raised overseas, you will understand. She breaks up with you for some strange fellow liking your post on IG. Then, you will know that our locally bred Nigerian “good “ girls are better. Or is it Oyinbo. That one falls out of love when she wakes up from her sleep. Mehn, even the once that are married to our African brothers. We know how this our brothers struggle to keep the marriage. It is not something I can do. I don’t have the strength to struggle just to be keeping marriage for 40years plus or less even.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:30am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:


When you date an African that was born and raised overseas, you will understand. She breaks up with you for some strange fellow liking your post on IG. Then, you will know that our locally bred Nigerian “good “ girls are better. Or is it Oyinbo. That one falls out of love when she wakes up from her sleep. Mehn, even the once that are married to our African brothers. We know how this our brothers struggle to keep the marriage. It is not something I can do. I don’t have the strength to struggle just to be keeping marriage for 40years plus or less even.

oya na..marry your Naija babe then.No disturb us with question again.many of my guys ,relations married foreigners ,no issues.good foreigner dey,bad foreigner dey.same with Naija girls.when u dey yankee.forget Naija babe.peaceout
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Massivedick: 6:54am On Nov 25, 2023
Aaaaarghmed:
oya na..marry your Naija babe then.No disturb us with question again.many of my guys ,relations married foreigners ,no issues.good foreigner dey,bad foreigner dey.same with Naija girls.when u dey yankee.forget Naija babe.peaceout

I wish I Dey Yankee, I no Dey there. In the US, there is a very huge African and Nigerian population. Which makes it cool. You must see your choice. Where I Dey, it’s a 27hrs flight from lagos. You can imagine, Nigerians are not much here.Black community is small.
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:44am On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:


I wish I Dey Yankee, I no Dey there. In the US, there is a very huge African and Nigerian population. Which makes it cool. You must see your choice. Where I Dey, it’s a 27hrs flight from lagos. You can imagine, Nigerians are not much here.Black community is small.
ok,I get now.If you dey yankee,you go forget Nigerian girls.you will really want to have a baby with oyibo.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Chygoz01: 9:25am On Nov 25, 2023
Have dated girls in this life once my instinct start telling me you are cheating it will only take time before I will find out
Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 9:29am On Nov 25, 2023
Chygoz01:
Have dated girls in this life once my instinct start telling me you are cheating it will only take time before I will find out
no so e dey always be 98 percent of the time.If doubts don creep in,only a matter of time before the main bomb go explode

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Uptheante(m): 2:32pm On Nov 25, 2023
Na like this them dey pound your woman for Lagos grin cheesy grin

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by drmikeadams(m): 2:38pm On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂


Your epistle long.....naija girls dey cheat naija men for here,na u wey dey Yankee them no go cheat on? grin


The greatest quote from the legendary nairalander"mosdii"


"Nigerian girls are useless,all of them.







Read that quote every morning.

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Re: Do You Think She Is Cheating? by Evolutionism: 2:43pm On Nov 25, 2023
Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂

The Female Dog belongs to the Streets.

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