Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!

For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.

I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

Very good question. I think some cheat, some masturbate, some patronize prostitute, some keep it going.

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!
For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months. I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the Middle East ?

This is a joke right?

There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

It depends on how you've programmed your mindset.

Carcholce:


This is a joke right?

I tot authorities there are quite strict with stuffs like that.

Onyiiobi7735:
There's no magic formula there and never will be.Only responsible,self disciplined and self controlled men out there in the diaspora will focus on their hustle and not bother much on satisfaction of sexual urges.They won't allow those urges control them and lead them to adultery, because they have a target to meet, which is financial security for life.
Such men will wait to satisfy their urges only when they return to their wives .
All men cannot be sexually loose dogs with no self control.

If this is how they do, then big thumbs up. Because it's not easy o

A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

Is true. The biology of a hustler becomes like an iron, just like some so-called men of God but behind the scene ....

Olosho for middle East pass that of South East

amnesty7:

Is true. The biology of a hustler becomes like an iron.

No mind am.

Authoreety:
A real hustler, hustling for his family with target no dey think abt sex o.

Sure bro, it's seems as if you're talking about me in particular

SIXTEENTH:


Sure bro, it's seems as if you're talking about me in particular

Lols. So, how do u do it? U keep urself celebate all thru or manage the situation?

Jayboi:


Lols. So, how do u do it? U keep urself celebate all thru or manage the situation?

I'm tryna keep it through, though it' ain't that easy but my mind's off the grid

Na lazy and idle mind dey get time for sex always.. e get hustle or job you go dey pursue na once in a blue moon your mind go dey sex.

it's a lie, majority masturbate, some have side chick, that's very easy to get, some are married there without letting their family know. it is not appropriate for a man not to have sex for like 5 years. that's one of the reasons marriage fails. Why can't him try to bring his wife there since he's been there. Once you are married, you and your wife must be together, unless sooner or later you guys will be in adultery. But if you can hold sexual urge for like ten years, your type might not need marriage self.

They won't tell the truth... They're just talking about hustling this and hustling that as if they won't be having sex with their wives if they were hustling in Nigeria.

Even a hustler needs some time to rest and recoup every now and then... Especially men because they're sexual beings and they would use sex to unwind after a long day at work.

Smitaro100:
Na lazy and idle mind dey get time for sex always.. e get hustle or job you go dey pursue na once in a blue moon your mind go dey sex.

Wealthy people have more time for sex than an average poor man. Go and ask davido.

If your money is working for you as a man you can afford to do anything you want.

That mindset of an idle man who doesn't have a job is who has time for sex is a wrong idealogy.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Wealthy people have more time for sex than an average poor man. Go and ask davido.

If your money is working for you as a man you can afford to do anything you want.

That mindset of an idle man who doesn't have a job is who has time for sex is a wrong idealogy.

Read through my write up slowly again, if you no get the point, then ask a more intelligent person to put you through and thank me later.🙄

Samantha124:
They won't tell the truth... They're just talking about hustling this and hustling that as if they won't be having sex with their wives if they were hustling in Nigeria.

Even a hustler needs some time to rest and recoup every now and then... Especially men because they're sexual beings and they would use sex to unwind after a long day at work.

As in these guys de enter club, drink beer etc but that sex part is what I don't get. They even have time for freebies because even tho they hustle they still have time to relax and unwind.

I just laughed when I read the comments... They make it seem as if they never have time to relax and unwind...😂😂😂... Like they work for 350 days without rest and the remaining 15 days is for when they visit home to finally have sex with their wives...😂😂😂

Side chicks are a part of these hustles that they're talking about.

Jayboi:


As in these guys de enter club, drink beer etc but that sex part is what I don't get. They even have time for freebies because even tho they hustle they still have time to relax and unwind.

It depends on how you've programmed your mindset...

Samantha124:
I just laughed when I read the comments... They make it seem as if they never have time to relax and unwind...😂😂😂... Like they work for 350 days without rest and the remaining 15 days is for when they visit home to finally have sex with their wives...😂😂😂

Side chicks are a part of these hustles that they're talking about.

Come Samantha were is your profile pics

A man who has made enough man for himself and his family so much that they live in comfort and relative luxury definitely know how to take care of his sexual needs

Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!
For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months. I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?

They mostly cheat over there and their wife cheat over here! Q.E.D

I stopped uploading them because one nairalander used one of the pictures to open a thread while he posted my last picture on one thread on the romance section.

Olawade24:


Come Samantha were is your profile pics

Samantha124:
I stopped uploading them because one nairalander used one of the pictures to open a thread while he posted my last picture on one thread on the romance section.

And I wanted to unwind tonight, what do you advise me do now? God will punish that nairalander.

What's stopping you from unwinding?

Olawade24:
And I wanted to unwind tonight, what do you advise me do now? God will punish that nairalander.

Samantha124:
What's stopping you from unwinding?

How can I unwind when your pics ain't there?

Celibacy all the way

Hook up with LATAM women, pipe and dump as usually



They love BBC af, I got multiple LATAM chicks hitting me up like mac

Samantha124:
They won't tell the truth... They're just talking about hustling this and hustling that as if they won't be having sex with their wives if they were hustling in Nigeria.

Even a hustler needs some time to rest and recoup every now and then... Especially men because they're sexual beings and they would use sex to unwind after a long day at work.

Samantha124 ooh Samantha124.