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CaptainFM1:
It's both ways, just that men's phycological enchantment/entrapment is often done with flaunting money, husky voice, smelling nice, dangling car key or even calling a business partner and start discussing projects/talking about huge sums of money.

It's a reverse psychology but men don't often know that they are the best at it.

I was in a bar yesterday when this fine babe entered. It was at that point, I quickly bring my two phones and car key from my pocket and place them on the table. Infact, not just placed them, I arranged them in such a way that she must see them.

I wasn't lucky or fast enough. I was taking 33-larger. Meanwhile, one small boy rushed to sit not too far from her table, asked for a bottle of Hennessy. Obviously he couldn't finish it alone, so he asked her to join in the drink. On a normal day, he probably would take his small plastic Alomo bitters.

The wooing game is played by both genders.

Gentlelox:
Some time ago, i was in a public place and a lady sitting next to me was obviously staring at me and drawing his face out anytime I turn.

Eventually, she took her phone and started a call with a guy. Discussing over love. I had the feeling the girl was doing it because of me and that it not to drive me away but to show interest in her.

Happened again at the airport. A girl I was sitting next to asked me to get her something politely as i took permission to go get something. When I arrived, she was obviously into me. But then, she brought her phone out and started a video call with another guy. She does it in a way that will make me notice by fire by thunder. After the call, my demeanor changed and I avoided her and I could see the girl somewhat disappointed. From her looks, she was expecting another type of reaction from me.

A lady friend met me and we talked. She wanted relationship and she was into me But then I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said yes. Then i changed the topic and she could see my interest has changed. So she said it not a serious relationship and she doesn't even know if it a relationship because she doesn't love the guy... She started telling tales. Las las i nor give am line.

These things happened alot. Maybe because they are all up to marriage age. If a girl thinks that chatting or calling another guy would make a guy interested in them, then they need to rethink. Or maybe she just doesn't like me.

What's your opinion on this.

chucks185:
don't waste time on women they ain't worth it

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Hahahaha we call it green and red signal. We use it to test a man's CONFIDENCE.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
The reality of life says otherwise. Make an objective survey about who we women end up getting married to. Boyfriend or a serious man who comes into the picture from out of the blue who is ready to settle down and responsible enough to build a family. We understand you are a weak gender full of INSECURITIES lol. Hence the test.

Emaprince:
And those men that came out of nowhere to marry you are the reason the first born in Nigeria are mostly bastards that belongs to the woman's exes.

When a man will just come out of the blue to propose to a girl who is in relationship. He doesn't care. He just want marriage. And the women in this part are only waiting for an already made man to take. Hence, she will agree but still sleeping with her other boyfriends even on a a night to her wedding, she will still fukcc one of her BFs. The mumu husband will have his first kid as a bastard.

Nobody takes what comes out una mouth serious. You want a confidence man? Well, in a man's world, that type of confident man you described is a foolish and weak man. A very unfortunate man. Check the stats and tell us why over 50% of first kids in Nigeria are bastards. It is because of foolish men like the one you described..who will marry a woman he doesn't have prior knowledge of. That is....he will just come out of nowhere and Marty a street promiscuous woman and believe he is marrying a wife.

Any man that knows you have a man and still coming for you, only wants to fukc you. Nothing else. No man will know that you have another man in your life and take you serious...stop over rating yourself. Well unless such man is the type I described above

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

Zxcvbnmghtr:
The reality of life says otherwise. Make an objective survey about who we women end up getting married to. Boyfriend or a serious man who comes into the picture from out of the blue who is ready to settle down and responsible enough to build a family. We understand you are a weak gender full of INSECURITIES lol. Hence the test.

Nazgul:
If you didn't meet her as a virgin, she's definitely in a relationship or a situationship.

Her loyalty towards you should determine how serious you should take her.

Where I would have problem with such girl is if after we've officially agreed to date, she still keep tabs with her ex. That's when I'll cut off.

But if you're expecting to find a girl of about 26 and above without any connection to a man. Bro, it's impossible. Unless you want her to lie to you.

Angelfrost:
OP... You really need to quit overrating and overestimating yourself... It is unmanly and highly irritating.

If a girl directly and/or indirectly indicates interest in you, the respectable thing is to humbly see it as a compliment, and absolutely nothing more... It shouldn't even get into your head, especially to this narcissistic point of creating a thread about it just to feel good about yourself and debase women.

Make una dey use this thing called Brain well for this Social Media. Mtchewwww!!!

shedy03:
There must be something about your physical look that attracts them to you, and those fake calls to their guys were like shooting their shots.

naturefellow:
Misconception. Change your thinking and circle.

Dybala11:
And confidence entails entering a rat race because of a woman??
Can never be me sha, once I know that you're in a romantic relationship with another guy then I disengage sharp sharp.

Gentlelox:
when a guy observes this. He feels the gal has been taken already and wouldn't want to indulge in a conversation with the gal. Guys like me just naturally get pissed and change sit.

To be honest, most guys think it herculen for them to drag a woman with another man. They would rather just avoid the lady.

chucks185:
don't waste time on women they ain't worth it

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Most of you men are kids and irresponsible and immature. The reason why there are too many single mothers this days.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Who wastes time chasing ladies already dating someone else? If she can do that to the guy she is dating then she can do that to me , I[b] will just pass unless I don't want to take her serious[/b].

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Hahahaha we call it green and red signal. We use it to test a man's CONFIDENCE.

storm001:
How has it worked out for you ladies.

I can't tell why ladies are always in the mood to manipulate.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It's the reality which you don't want to embrace.

Gentlelox:
maybe it my dreadlock and ear rings

Gentlelox:
Some time ago, i was in a public place and a lady sitting next to me was obviously staring at me and drawing his face out anytime I turn.

Eventually, she took her phone and started a call with a guy. Discussing over love. I had the feeling the girl was doing it because of me and that it not to drive me away but to show interest in her.

Happened again at the airport. A girl I was sitting next to asked me to get her something politely as i took permission to go get something. When I arrived, she was obviously into me. But then, she brought her phone out and started a video call with another guy. She does it in a way that will make me notice by fire by thunder. After the call, my demeanor changed and I avoided her and I could see the girl somewhat disappointed. From her looks, she was expecting another type of reaction from me.

A lady friend met me and we talked. She wanted relationship and she was into me But then I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said yes. Then i changed the topic and she could see my interest has changed. So she said it not a serious relationship and she doesn't even know if it a relationship because she doesn't love the guy... She started telling tales. Las las i nor give am line.

These things happened alot. Maybe because they are all up to marriage age. If a girl thinks that chatting or calling another guy would make a guy interested in them, then they need to rethink. Or maybe she just doesn't like me.

What's your opinion on this.

frank317:
Who needs a non-confident potential suitor?

Jewessgratitud3:
Don't be quick to jump into conclusion like that. Do you even know if the girls did that just to discourage or turn you off because they noticed the way you were starring at them and felt you wanted to ask them out?

This is not true.

Gentlelox:
unfortunately many ladies will loose their potential suitors from this.