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Orubebe01:
See someone's future wife, Ooh chim

Hope you de save for lawyer? Because very soon you go get police case. If you like yourself flee 😜

It is an established fact that if 20% of married men decided to become faithful, 98% of females over age 15, both married and single, will loose 99.9% source of thier lively hood. Hunger alone will eradicate 98% of them, 97% of them will drop out of school.

We4all:
Dey play. Some mumu Nigerian men even give more than that. I used to know a babe whose sugar daddy would drop money like he plants it. .

500K weekly for just groceries, 100K for fuel, and other expenditures. Girls are cashing out!

Maybe it happens. Never seen it though. Except where I heard they later killed the girls (a terrible crime).

Jewessgratitud3:
LoL.. if I talk now, na my own Dem go see.

Married men are generous sha .

Stop dating married men ooo... LoL.

Your story doesn't shock anyone again.

Spill it mbok

U go fear fear😂

gare:
Hope you de save for lawyer? Because very soon you go get police case. If you like yourself flee 😜

Hanty, Am not trying to spoil your business

Kunle, Deji and Soji are making up stories again.

NBAjunior:
Are you not part of the country why not fix it? Olosho don drop quote 😏 na Una

It's a man's job. Is that not how you guys want it? Even your president said a woman's place is in the kitchen and bedroom. Oga, fix your country and stop the tomfoolery.

hmmmmmmmmmm

Zooposki:
It's a man's job. Is that not how you guys want it? Even your president said a woman's place is in the kitchen and bedroom. Oga, fix your country and stop the tomfoolery.

Abi what a man can do a woman can’t do better again 😂😂

Keep defending rubbish ozwor😏

humilitypays:
Without sugardaddies, most ladies will live a miserable life and will never be where they are today in life; financially, career wise, business wise, Japa wise.


Married men keeping single girls as side chicks is one of the major ways Nigeria's wealth is circulating, because without that, tell me how Bola Tinubu, Adam's Oshiomhole, Yahaya Bello, Governor Dickson, Governor Ben Ayade, Dangote, Femi Otedola, Orji Uzo Kalu, Obi Cubana, E-Money, Davido, etc money will reach the poor Nigerians?



Yes promiscuity maybe bad because religion, society and civilization painted it as bad, but it is sure playing positive roles in Nigeria and around the world in making sure wealth circulates.


As a single girl dating and sleeping with one broke boyfriend whose only contribution to your life is I love you, baby I cannot live without you, and hoping he marries you tomorrow while he fvcks you weekly freely, you are committing the same sin of immorality with the single lady sleeping with a married man that helps her life financially, helps her career with promotion, job offers, helps her business with capital, help her academic dreams with financial funding and help her Japa dreams with funding and visa connections.



In this life, be wise, if you are wise and use your wisdom, you will be at the top without minding what people say.


Any sex outside marriage is the same sin.


If you are having sex with a guy you call boyfriend or fiance' in the name of he is your boyfriend or fiancee and another lady is having sex with a married man she calls sugar daddy who helps her life get better, both of you are committing the same sin of immorality so ladies choose your own sin and immorality wisely

It's not about morality alone.
IT IS ABOUT DOING WHAT IS RIGHT AND NOT HURTING ANOTHER.
Someone is going to be hurt when you sleep around with married men. When his wife finds out, she will be hurt and you are a part of the hurt. The family could crash and you are a part of that crash.. The kids could have a divorced parents and may have psychological effects on them and you are a part of that divorce....

Do not hurt another for your selfish gains. Unless ofcourse the wife or husband doesn't care and it's business as usually in thier home when either partners cheat. For example in open marriages or marriage that has already gone to the dogs.

Gadafii:
An average Nigerian girl wishes and prays she’s this girl, having sex with an ancestor and gettin paid handsomely low key

At the end of the day they ask you to forget their past, or wait for sex till wedding night, and one mvmv brother too agree to that nonsense

why they see nothing wrong with Regina Daniels being an nth wife

Omoapena:
No let these girls bobo you
No sugar daddy will pay 500k for a round sex...

Hmm, guy, just as ₦5k-₦10 is to some people, to others that is how 5-10m is to them ohh.
Oga, I know men that nack babes and minimum they drop is $5k, $10, $20k etc.
How do you think those actresses, chicks etc afford to drive fancy cars, own or rent houses in lekki, Abuja etc. Abi you think it is by cooking food to break record or acting film that pays the money?
To some people dollars is what they spend not naira.

DKM123:
It's not about morality alone.
IT IS ABOUT DOING WHAT IS RIGHT AND NOT HURTING ANOTHER.
Someone is going to be hurt when you sleep around with married men. When his wife finds out, she will be hurt and you are a part of the hurt. The family could crash and you are a part of that crash.. The kids could have a divorced parents and may have psychological effects on them and you are a part of that divorce....

Do not hurt another for your selfish gains. Unless ofcourse the wife or husband doesn't care and it's business as usually in thier home when either partners cheat. For example in open marriages or marriage that has already gone to the dogs.

How many people on earth do things by considering if it hurts others or not? Does your President, Governors, Senators, Reps, The Dangote's of this world, the Banks of this world, the governments of this world; which of them cared about how their actions affect others?



For your information, life is selfish, and to succeed in life you must be selfish in many things, it is the bitter truth.


People who follow the rules like you are portraying usually end up at the bottom of the ladder of life, that's fact.

Ladies keep sugar daddy not for anything but the money they get from them.

ukaface:
If y’all are judging this one sided then y’all are bias

Wetin concern married men with dating?
Why can’t married men stay faithful to their spouse?

Blame the side chick and married men biko

Married men can still marry naa. I mean, a man can marry more dan one wife.

Half the time women don't know what they are saying. They always in trance.

Reasons, i ensure i respond timely when my niece in university hostel send me financial requests to prevent her from loitering scavengers.

Lie to your fellow women for your advertisement. I do not understand why she is not happily married to her sugar daddy. Some women be chasing clouts and attention since time immemorial.

Zooposki:
The one wey single guys dey fvck steady with no benefit except stress nko? No be una go still marry them.

🤣🤣

Gadafii:
An average Nigerian girl wishes and prays she’s this girl, having sex with an ancestor and gettin paid handsomely low key

At the end of the day they ask you to forget their past, or wait for sex till wedding night, and one mvmv brother too agree to that nonsense

I can relate bro, one miserable girl manipulated me to accept her back after she dated a married man she lied to me about that his her uncle. The man use to beat her heavily, she actually confessed that me and there are bruises on her skin. I forgave her and we started dating again. But......the girl has become toxic in character, kind of sex freak and pretends a lot. When she went for NYSC, her eyes opens more and started to intimidate and threatened me by keep emphasizing about how she's been toasted by many guy whenever we have misunderstanding. I just borrowed myself sense and breakup with her. She cried for months saying she thought she had gotten to her final destination. After messing up thier body with single and married men, they'll now be looking for responsible young man to marry them and thier ill-mannered character.
Imagine a married man that had dated and messed up a lady's body now see a young man getting married to her, no be shame be that for the young man

As a rich fine married man, you don't need to stress yourself to get fine innocent girls.

I was in my office one day when a very fine SUG vice president back then walked to me and said "you fine oo. Tall and cute. I go like do something with you but definitely not in this town"

We eventually met in another state the following year and the rest is history. That lady was very innocent and sweet.

Another one walked up to me in the church after visiting my office the previous week and whispered to me that she admired me so much even when I was in the church with my family. She was a virgin and she was begging me to deflower her. We did every other thing but I refused to deflower her.

So many innocent ladies will chop married men and clean their mouth.

For your information, those innocent ones also target those married innocent looking men.

To me, I feel they know that the secret would be highly protected.

When some of us young guys go married-women-hunting, I hope everyone else would be as understanding as they are with these ladies-with-no-moral-compass

Karma is also a merciless bitch... Just a matter of time.

I want to believe that most of you reading through are old enough to know that unmarried Nigerian women have been dating married men from time immemorial, and should not act like it's a new expository content.
It is what they do. It is the norm to them. Their consciences have long been scarred, and they do not see it as evil. The ones amongst them who feel it is evil still shut down, or turn off their conscience to allow them be able to continually sleep with other women's husbands in exchange for money.

Going by the comments on the platform from the OP's uploads, you can see where a few of the ladies mentioned things like God, not being able to continue in sin anymore, bla, bla , bla...
They are very well aware of God and what he stands against, but the love of money which they have is far more greater than their love for God and will to have self-control, by not sleeping with people's husbands to fund their fake lifestyles. 🙂

Have you ever wondered why some young ladies who were presumed to have been healthy and going about their lives just die all of a sudden?
You'll here things like " she just slept and didn't wake up, oh "
" Eh...it was a brief illness "
" She complained of headache that morning and passed away after some hours "


And so on.

It is because of the consequences of the evil they had been doing, commiting adultery so shamelessly and brazenly, damning the feelings of the man's wife. Their fellow woman, whom then always act like they love and " ride for " Not until when they are put to the test and money is the prize, will you now discover that they don't care about their fellow woman, and will secure the money by all means , even if it means screwing her friend's husband. Even if she isn't a friend, just another woman's husband.

In the same vein, I don't get surprised when men suddenly die without any prior underlying factors at play. The way it is for the adulterous woman is the way it also is for the adulterous man. God's patient sometimes runs out and he leaves then at the mercy (non-existent) of Satan who can't wait to do the honors of murdering them spiritually or physically.

Yet again, a wife's fervent prayers to God, rebuking and cursing whoever is sleeping with her husband, if there be such a person, can also lead to deadly consequences for the ladies sleeping with her husband. Especially if she is a faithful wife herself. You just hear things like:
'' young lady crushed to death by a hit and run driver in Owerri "

" Stray bullet from a trigger-happy police officer kills lady in Kafanchan "

" Maggots found in lady's private part, eating her to death "

It may be repercussions, not necessarily as a result of a man using her spiritually for rituals.

The evil they do without conscience is what causesemost of their prolonged sufferings. They will still not gain financial independence, making them fall back into more sinful ways to earn a living and thus, more prone to atracks.

They will still contact diseases, for those who go the skin-to-skin way. They will have issues conceiving a child later in their own marriages. Some won't even find a man who wants to marry them. Some will even develop ovarian cancer (as a punishment for thier adultery )
Some, breast cancer. Some their babies when given birth to will be deformed, some will have serious physical challenges, others will be " gifted " asthma, blood diseases, all of which may not have been in the parents gene make-up.
So, I usually just watch things happen without being too surprised or moved by unfortunate circumstances most people are caught up in. God hates cheating in marriage to the core. As in eh...He hates that thing the way he hates when you worship a foreign god in place of Him. Just like the ancient Israelites did, which God referred to as adulterous. They lusted after other gods. Marriage is a similar spiritual union.

Mind you, you think Nairaland doesn't have women who sleep around with multiple married men? Oh, you feel it's just those people on X , on Instagram, those other platform, abi? Lol. You deceive yourself. It's the same people here who own accounts on those platforms. Some of thier comments are the ones the OP posted up there.

People always have this funny viewpoint that all the nonsensical news we read here don't involve actual Nairalanders. You think they will oe up to it?? Joke. Ok, because they act all calm here and don't reveal their secrets, so you feel it's the more liberal women on other sites that speak about their dirty secrets? Lol. Of course they know the bashing culture on Nairaland. They know that the gender war on Nairaland is enough to make them think twice before divulging such personal secrets here. To avoid dragging that will last months.

Anyways , me, I talk it as I see it. For those commiting adultery and are heartless, continue to do so oh. For the men who do it , continue oh, till your light runs out. The side chick is tasty, abi? Your wife is boring shey? You cannot love your wife abi? I say continue. You will give account and no plea of forgiveness will save you form the reward. Because you are aware of what you are doing. You may feel forgiven, but whatsoever anyone sews, they have to reap the consequence of that sewing. Now or later. Even if you feel forgiven.
Same goes to the ladies. He's caring for your needs, innit? He's not " stingy " ko? He's a mumu, you have him wrapped around your finger, right? Keep heaping curses and spiritual death upon your life and head. The end will justify the means. 😉🤷
After, you'll gather on social media sites and blogs and talk about how your past doesn't matter and should not be used to judge you. Can you eat your cake and have it ? Not when there are spirits that govern the earth. You always pay in some way.

An advise for the men here who keep on saying they are scared of ending up in a marriage with those types of women. Know who you are marrying. I know most can't do this, but do your best to avoid any one who has tasted sex. But will you be able to resist? Are you not lustful? The ass? The face ? The family background she has? The connections that marrying into her family may bring to you?
So you compromise on your standards (if you even have any ) and then you start living in fear and doubts after the marriage, because you don't know if she would go back to sleep with someone she has slept with before.
Self-control is the key to peace of mind. No amount of curves, tushness, exposure of a lady should push you into compromising on decency. Unless you are ready to bear all the consequences, then pls go ahead. I won't be the one bearing it. I won't even know what you are going through in your home. 🤷
But seeing your never-ending comments on Facebook, on Nairaland, and elsewhere on ladies being all the same, slüts, opportunists, vane, materialistic, golddiggers, this and that, is tiring and annoying, since you cannot apply wisdom and avoid them. Then why complain? If you have chosen to be used and played for life? Duh...You signed up for it all. 🤷

If I am to sound more eccentric here, I'll say just stay without marrying anyone who you cannot vouch for. But can you do it? Can you stay without sex? 98% of you cannot. The remaining 2% of us can. As of now.
No one is worth interrupting your peace of mind (not faux or fake peace oh. True peace of mind that is bereft of self-deceit) .
No one should be tolerated if they are manipulating you. Don't be afraid to say goodbye to them. Do it in a civil way. You won't die, stop thinking you can't live without them.
I'm telling you what will help you now oh. If you wish not to be wise, then by all means don't be. Not even virgins can guarantee you peace of mind. Not even them can be trusted. Some are practicing lesbianism while keeping their vaginâ's virginity, oh. Only the hymen is intact, but other females have sucked, fingered, Love Machine'd the place for her. I've seen first-hand experiences of this. One of such girl's even told me during a WhatsApp chat. So why should I be a victim of anyone's lies?
But I understand that most of you have to get married and fit into society, like your brothers and sisters before you. Like your mummies and daddies too.
Your choice. Just don't die inside and in silence. Love your space if you can learn or adopt this survival trait. If you are single, see the perks of it and learn to love and appreciate it. You don't need to depend on anyone else to feel ' complete ' To feel like a man or a woman. At the expense of your values and sanity? Your peace of mind? Never. Not me, though. ;DLove yourself, but still be a source of joy and strength to other people you ocme across. Just guard your heart with all diligence. Shikena. Don't be a fool in love.
Sometimes I think about all the things going on in society. The girls that have been banged by multiple boys at a time. Or, the ladies who have been cum'd on, or the way they have sucked multiple manhood's, moaned about it, the way they have practice lesbianism in their various highschools, universities too, and I just cringe and say ' how can I ever love anyone in the romantic sense of the word love '
I am sensitive to all this disgusting memories, and no lady will ever tell you the full truth of what she has done. So why even put myself in that dicey position? When I can avoid it. Lol. Selfish, some might say. Well, I'd rather be selfish than be manipulated and deceived and loved with a love that doesn't really exist in the human sense of it. It's all a delusion.

Before anyone comes over here with that narrative or mentality of ' this one has had his heart recently broken, yada yada yada ' Let me authoritatively state that that is not the case. I've been fortunate to not have ever been a victim, and now that I've been celibate (I'm not asking u to believe it or even care) for a while, it's too late to be a victim. Lol. I'm in the safe zone, and will stay in it till thy kingdom come. You know why? Because the hearts of humans are continually planning evil. He or she may think they love you but will still hurt you. If they won't do it soon, the devil will keep working on them, tempting them using other people to make sure they succumb and hurt you. Then he will also make sure you get to somehow find out about it. So that you and your wife will grow apart, and the lack of trust will be till the day the world ends.
I don't have that time. I have goals to pursue, and a life to live in the most peaceful way possible. The world is already in chaos to add lack of peace arising from a so-called love life that the world has proven overtime to be conditional. Conditional love. Managing you, managing me. Bound to hurt you. Bound to hurt me. God forbid. I jump over this one.
Don't ask me about having children. Not everyone is wired that way. Our western counterparts who gave us the English language refere to us as antinatalists. Tor...so be it.

PS: I don't see the need of responding to or answering any mentions form anyone on the above lengthy write-up (if you like call it an epistle ) of mine. Trolling is welcome, but pls be aware that I won't be back here to read most of them. Maybe just a few ( emphasis on few). Not to talk of even responding to any. My writeup is precise and detailed enough for those who want to understand it. I don't think I should have to further answer anything, or react to trolling from anyone here.

Enjoy your reading. Have a wonderful day.

This is why Nigerian money is being spent on.

Zooposki:
As it should be. All they get from you young guys are insults, stress etc with no benefits.

Fix your country and maybe they will stop running after sugar daddies for money

So are we the ones that are supposed to fix the country or those old men at the helm of affairs? Abi u no get wetin u wan comment.