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Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Women/mothers are GOLD.Women are to be treated like 🥚 not waste.Appreciate them.

PS. I'm NOT praising the useless ones that chase ready-made men/boys and later got battered, punched.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child

Leave the confused ppl alone.

If you think a woman giving birth is "sacrifice", then I believe there must be a new meaning to the word "sacrifice" ...

I am not trying to downplay the severities surrounding pregnancy, however, it's no news that women are biologically wired to give birth ...

So a woman giving birth is just her fulfilling her biological role, nothing much ...

Op you are right but the ways they behave and reacts sxore them below,what men go through daily too are not beans o

OP have you ever been to an oil rig make you see how men dey risk their lives DAILY to put food on the table?

Simp wan lecture us

let love lead I mean the selfless kind of love and not all this selfish love littered everywhere.

Everyone should be appreciated in a relationship. It is so much sacrifice on both parts and abuse of any form should never be encouraged.

So the thrusting of the man that leads to the pregnancy isn't a sacrifice on its own abi na wetin you wan try dey talk,you op?

A man's life is always filled up with bunches of bills...So it's expected of every sensible woman to be a part of anything that hits the family's table.....At least,make see-finish for no dey.

Hmmmm

Good

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

With 1.5 million, a surrogate can do same for you... So?

I dey read comments.

The both parties make a lot of sacrifice to complement themselves to become one in marriage.
Problems arise when one don't know their role to play. Worst is if it's the man. Because if it is the woman, the man can discipline her to lead her in the right step.

A reason why I always laugh at feminism because last last na your body go still tell you how far.

Fahvvy:
If you think a woman giving birth is "sacrifice", then I believe there must be a new meaning to the word "sacrifice" ...

I am not trying to downplay the severities surrounding pregnancy, however, it's no news that women are biologically wired to give birth ...

So a woman giving birth is just her fulfilling her biological role, nothing much ...

Don't mind the simp. Don't they do that same thing for their baby daddys?

So because they give birth, we should not ask what they bring to the table. Feminine men

I see

Ok

t.

ZIMDRILL:
their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child

RingRoadCartel:
OP have you ever been to an oil rig make you see how men dey risk their lives DAILY to put food on the table.

Are they not compensated for the risk adequately? What is the compensation for this risk? Since a job is the same as birthing.

I don't blame them na, it's the ladies that get stupidly overly excited once marriage is being proposed to them not knowing they will be making the most sacrifice.....I rather lose millions of my money than go through that pain

Another mumu spotted! Simp lasan lasan!!
Sacrifice ko, sacrificial ni!!
No worry, your eye go soon clear!!!
You better go do DNA test before you begin train the child!
I don talk my own.

BRATISLAVA:
Are they not compensated for the risk adequately? What is the compensation for this risk? Since a job is the same as birthing.

The child is the compensation.

For men who are capable and reasonable, they get their wives push gifts.

BlaqFaze:
Simp wan lecture us

If you don't want the lecture you could try to give birth to a baby yourself. And nurture it. Then tell us what you are bringing to the table while doing all that.

Hmmm..

If we are to prioritise the relevance of women to childbearing, are we not going back to our forefathers time?

Hmmmm

Ok

How many children grow up to remember their father? She went through that pain to bring to this world HER child.

Nature made childbearing business a woman thing. Men are not responsible for it. Mothers do a lot and so do men.

So many women opt for CS because they don't want to go through the stress of pushing and all. If they had their way, they would rather lay eggs.

BRATISLAVA:
Are they not compensated for the risk adequately? What is the compensation for this risk? Since a job is the same as birthing.

Apart from that, how many men work in oil rigs compared to number of women both married and single that give birth?

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

So all your wife needs to bring to the table is her pussy for fuccking and for baby production. I am sory for you.