Honestfrend:


If giving birth is the natural responsibility of the woman.. Y is it that providing for the family is not the man's natural responsibility and if it is why the "What re u bringing to the table?"

mariahAngel:


Whose name do the children bear?
Whose descendants are they?
Whose lineage do they keep alive? 🙄

If a woman bore 5 sons for her husband, and her own father had no son, will her husband give up one of the sons to her father?
Will her father demand to have at least one of the sons of his daughter bear his own name?

So yes! They're more your children than hers.

translux:
Any Husband that is asking the wife for what she's bringing to the table isn't yet matured for a marriage, This is the 14th year that I got married to my wife and for the fact that I have been footing 100 percent of the bills till date, I have never for a day asked my wife for what she's bringing to the table, for the facts that we have somany responsibilities, I aways encourage her in the past that things will get better with time but we thank God Almighty that he has blessed our marriage with everything in life.

BlaqFaze:
Simp wan lecture us

airsaylongcome:


Brati, nothing against motherhood. But the OP coming to tell us stories of how they sliced someone's abdomen open blah blah blah is bunkum for me. I've seen soldiers brought from the battle field, operated on without anesthesia in bone wrenching pain. So all that talk of abdomen sliced open is waffling

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

ExudeLoveToAll:


I only heard of this word for the first time within the last one year.

In order words husbands who don't give their wish push gifts are either not capable or reasonable

This is how it's starts and it becomes a norm in the society, women will start putting unreasonable pressure on their spouses to provide them with gifts their spouses can't financially provide.

Not giving your wives push gifts has nothing to do with men been reasonable and capable. Ask long as you are there at all times for your family as a man you are reasonable and capable.

Evolutionism:


Mumu do you know how many men who risk their life and die everyday trying to meet daily needs??

Go to Hospitals and Igbobi and see who plenty pass there.

Go to Prisons and see who plenty there pass. Check the Crimes most of them committed? It still boils down trying to make PROVISION!!!

You usvless eediots probably still being FED by your lucky CRIMINAL Parents who where lucky to get away with their crimes and have stacked some money for you somewhere will come on here and start Vomiting rubbish and nonsense.

EconFinance:


Lmao

The kind of men that the world is breeding these days is really worrisome
That's all I'm gonna say on the matter

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

RingRoadCartel:
OP have you ever been to an oil rig make you see how men dey risk their lives DAILY to put food on the table?

BRATISLAVA:


If you don't want the lecture you could try to give birth to a baby yourself. And nurture it. Then tell us what you are bringing to the table while doing all that.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Lovelyn451:
I don't blame them na, it's the ladies that get stupidly overly excited once marriage is being proposed to them not knowing they will be making the most sacrifice.....I rather lose millions of my money than go through that pain

BRATISLAVA:


If you don't want the lecture you could try to give birth to a baby yourself. And nurture it. Then tell us what you are bringing to the table while doing all that.

RingRoadCartel:


Will you die if you spoil your woman every once in a while? And what better time is there for you to spoil her? Abeg shift if you have nothing to say.

And BTW, yes. If you've never gotten your woman a gift for putting her life on the threshold to birth your child, you're either financially incapable or just general an unreasonable person. None of which is a bad thing.

GO0DHardDick:


Post like this gets me extremely angry..

Like dude are you ok? Is a man supposed to give birth before? Does he have a womb? Oga there's nothing like SACRIFICE for something that's supposed to be natural. It is natural for a woman to give birth whether through CS or other means.

Which kind SIMP you be ?

Do you know what it takes for a man to go out there hustle and make money to take care of his family? What sacrifice could be more than that? Are these things not supposed to be naturally? Oga take this post down ASAP!

Apart from sex, what are Nigeria women bringing to the table? Even the sex sef na dem dey enjoy am pass! So wtf are you saying

Karlifate:


The guy is obviously pussy-whipped.

He's simply implying that his mother made a "sacrifice" by giving birth to him (her biological responsibility), but his father was practically nothing but a figurehead in his family.


These are the type of kids that exalt their deadbeat mothers, while neglecting the father that denied himself of worldly pleasures to ensure that they become successful.

Honestfrend:


So providing for one's family is the husband's responsibility and it's natural too..

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

ExudeLoveToAll:


If you think this is about me then you need to think again. This has nothing to do with me been capable of gifting someone in a relationship with me or not, I am very comfortable. I am making this assertion as a generalization of what happens in the society and disposable income available to men in our society maybe you are delusional and ignorant to know the actual stats.

Gifting push or no push and any name you may call it has nothing to do with been reasonable and capable. Been reasonable and capable has everything to do with standing for your family in good and in bad times irrespective of wether you have money to buy so called push gifts that to you makes one capable and reasonable.

yewit37486:
Nairaland, if it's not tribal war, it's gender war, smh. A man came here to appreciate HIS wife which he is entitled to do but they've turned the thread upside down.

benqo01:
The OP is appreciating his wife which i find very good but the Sacrifice he his talking about is what i dont really understand.

But it is natural for women to give birth

In marriage both parties makes sacrifices

Kilometres:



1. You also forgot that a woman can choose not to give birth?

2. If giving birth was that natural... women will naturally give birth like they do menstrual periods... no control or choice

mariahAngel:


With men like you that are abound in this generation, ladies need to be very very careful in choosing their life partners so that they don't enter one chance.

Karlifate:





If it was truly an appreciation, he should've left it as a comment on a post, not opening a thread to shove his appreciation down Nairalanders' throat.

Karlifate:





If it was truly an appreciation, he should've left it as a comment on a post, not opening a thread to shove his appreciation down Nairalanders' throat.

ZIMDRILL:


their is nothing called SACRIFICE on things that you are meant to be doing, giving birth is not a sacrifice it nature their is no two ways about it if you want a
child