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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by XAUBulls: 12:04am On Nov 29, 2023 |
beekind: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by XAUBulls: 12:06am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Lorazepam:Impressive. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sandygechy(f): 1:10am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Devil incarnate!!!!!! humilitypays: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Besuccesful: 1:11am On Nov 29, 2023 |
My friend just walked away from 8 years marriage of no kids. It’s not easy emotionally and psychologically to be with a partner without your own children. Even if it is one. Bro, think go sit in a quite place and think deeply about this issue. Once you are in fully bro you are in and must be ready to carry all her challenges with her. So, now is the best time for you to decision. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 1:45am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Besuccesful:So in all 8 years, not once did your friend even think of adopting? If e no is his DNA, it is a fake child, abi? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 3:04am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla:You are a dullard. Where was it stated that pills cause PCOS? There was not even a single mention of PCOS in the article you dumbly quoted. Please go back and read my post again, this time more slowly because you really are slow in understanding. I'll repeat this again because I am kind and patient, but I do not suffer fools for long. PCOS HAS HORMONAL IMBALANCE AS A SYMPTOM. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CAUSE AND SYMPTOM. HORMONAL IMBALANCE IS NOT A CAUSE OF PCOS, RATHER, IT IS A MANNER BY WHICH PCOS MANIFESTS IN A FEMALE. THERE IS NO KNOWN/ CONFIRMED CAUSE OF PCOS. FOOL, I am NOT discussing pills and hormonal imbalance, I am disputing the fact that you mentioned pills as cause of PCOS. All I have asked is for you to post an article or link stating that pills and abortion cause PCOS. I thought you couldn't be more stupid but I am wrong. You can deceive yourself but I will not let you get away with deceiving other people. If you cannot provide an article stating that pills and abortion cause PCOS, do yourself a favor and keep "kwayet". You are becoming a nuisance. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 3:09am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Did you just mention respect? Agbaya, park one side. Respect for who/what? Person wey dey make a fool of himself on internet and still dey confident. Olodo forming funky professor. Post link to verify your claims, you can't. Oya shut up and rest, you refuse. Now you are talking of respect. You no kuku well before. Elder dudubor. E pele sir. Agbaya radarada. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jetbound: 3:32am On Nov 29, 2023 |
beekind: Don’t create problems that don’t exist in your head. If she’s a good match for you, go ahead and marry her. Life’s a gamble like that. You could end up with another woman who will bring problems bigger than this to you. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by ademola2017: 3:33am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I had a similar case. My wife and I separated after 8years. We were a misfit, she had PCOS too and we had no kids. At some point I doubted I will ever father a child.... Do you even think it is easy to adopt a child?? The process is not from here .... Do yoi know the psychological effect of not having your own flesh and blood?? 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 3:52am On Nov 29, 2023 |
ademola2017:1. So for 8 years you and your wife could not settle for adoption? 2. 8 solid years you no try at all and now you are attempting to pretend the reason had to do with adoption being hard?? 3. Oh, OK. So children who do not carry your own personal DNA are no children at all.... they are fake children, abi? And those who do end up adopting are a lesser breed of humans compared to your person abi?? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by cococandy(f): 4:33am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla: This is false information. PCOS can lead to spontaneous abortions AKA miscarriages. PCOS itself is a syndrome. Not caused by anything we know of…yet. There’s a possible genetic link. The syndrome CAN lead to other conditions like insulin resistance, diabetes, infertility, miscarriages, obesity etc. Abortions do not cause PCOS. It’s the other way around. I know a lot of you enjoy guilt and sex shaming women. That’s why you look for any opportunity to blame anything a woman is going through on the sex she had with someone that wasn’t you. Because all women owe you some idealized state of purity. I understand. But you are not entitled to your own set of facts. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by uchechuka: 4:58am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Don't worry brother. I was once in your position to either marry my wife or not because of the condition. I choose to marry her and got a good gynecologist. I later realized that it is a very common case among ladies and can be easily managed. I had two kids in the space of 3 years after marriage. The first we consulted a gynecologist while the second came like a surprise. Educate your girl about the condition so she can properly manage it. Don't lose a good thing for you don't know where you will enter next. Women body are so complicated and there are many condition worse that PCOS that makes it impossible for a lady to bear children 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 5:59am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Royalcrusset:Shut your silly trap you nitwit. PCOS is a generic name for hormonal imbalance. What other cause is there for PCOS other than hormonal imbalance? Are you daft or you're doing it cause you think it naira you look good? I repeat again. Hormonal imbalance leads to PCOS. If you're not a complete nitwit you should get it right already. It's just like a HIV lead to AIDS. You can only get AIDS after you've contacted HIV. Same for hormonal imbalance and PCOS you dingbat. Stop drooling all over my mention. Go back and read the screenshot and see irregular menstruation and hormonal inbalance being mentioned as one of the side effects of postinor 2. Keep wallowing in defence of rubbish. Go and continue telling your fellow prostitutes to keep swallowing drugs then come back and blame the devil when time reach. Nincompoop. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 6:05am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Stop forcing your standard and bias on others. He never said adopted kids are fake. He simply says he prefers having his own flesh and blood. How is that a crime? It's his preference. Respect it and stop guilt-tripping him. Folks like you sleep with your fellow women under the guise of sexual preference and orientation but you have a problem with people do have preference for biological relationship with their kids. You feminists are just a bunch of comedians and hypocrites. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 6:08am On Nov 29, 2023 |
cococandy:PCOS cause abortion. And where did you get that from? How can you abort what does not exist? Why are you people like dis for God's sake You sha want to be doing all your wayward things and blame something else for that |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 6:09am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Royalcrusset:You're the one making a caricature of yourself online. Anyone reading can already see what you think you're hiding. I mentioned causes of PCOS like five. Only two is giving you sleepless night because we all know..... Rest Sha stop doing abortions and encouraging it for others. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sharone21(f): 6:29am On Nov 29, 2023 |
On this issue of HORMONAL IMBALANCE cos some are shouting it, do u know a lot of married women have it, especially those who married early and use pills, injects etc to prevent pregnancies? This is because you are most likely constantly living with a MAN and not that u are single to dictate the pace of sex. Many women bear the brunt of family planning more than men even causing obesitythat could be harmful to her health( increased BMI), that is why some men especially abroad, go for vasectomy but not many African men would do this to help their wives..... Some cancers are traceable to this too.... Reason why women need to welcome detox programs more to keep their system and body working well..... Men don't know that the female reproductive system is complex and sometimes 'mere' stress can prevent one from taking in.... That is why you care well for your wives. Some men just like bashing women at the slightest opportunity. Thank God the Op said that she is a virgin. Nothing is impossible with the right knowledge, gynecologist, prayers especially when you start early. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Basiliun: 6:30am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Children are blessings from God It might not always work out as you think |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by cococandy(f): 7:05am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla: What is it that doesn’t exist? The PCOS or the pregnancy? People with PCOS can and do get pregnant. In such cases, If you have PCOS and get pregnant, it can cause abortions (not always). Where did I get that? How about every scientific journal on women’s health ever published. Have you ever read one? Yes I do want to be doing my wayward things. It’s irrelevant to the discussion. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:45am On Nov 29, 2023 |
cococandy:PCOS does not lead to abortion. That's a blatant lie |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 8:13am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla: I said I won't reply you but I saw you mentioned me I know you don't know ,in the western world miscarriage is been referred to as abortion (spontaneous abortion) Pcos is one of the leading cause of miscarriage in most women , I know people that suffer from pcos that has had multiple miscarriages Why not just do your research, I pity your friends and people around you , you are a very difficult person , 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by cococandy(f): 8:22am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Okay I guess https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3659904/
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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jeyun: 8:31am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Cromagnon:first wife for what? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jeyun: 8:33am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Kelvinofficial:so virgin is by age? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by temit22: 8:56am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Send me an email here frednel4luv@gmail.com let me have a word with you. I was in similar situation as yours but my wife later conceived. Today baby is 5 months. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by zoomzoom(m): 9:08am On Nov 29, 2023 |
[quote author=Lorazepam post=127201139]Because she has PCOS doesn't mean she won't be able to conceive. It just may be more difficult. PCOS is one of the most treatable causes of infertility. Most women with PCOS will eventually be able to carry and complete a pregnancy although some will need some medical help ranging from interventions like weight loss, ovulation induction meds, other meds, etc. It's good you already have a diagnosis now, that way, you're able to start working on it as soon as you marry, that's if you decide to proceed with the wedding. She's still in her 20s so age is on your side. I suggest you read up more about it to make an informed decision. At the end of the day sha, na your choice. Abeg go and ask her to use Parlodel (bromocriptin) and the pcos is history. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jeyun: 9:12am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Greenfaces:you are a Yoruba Muslim youbn't you? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jeyun: 9:22am On Nov 29, 2023 |
omotolly22:we the UN of naira land we are calling for immediate ceasefire between this two waring party, to enable the purpose of this topic to get it results as expected by op. Please off your mic it is ok two of u please. We cannot be experiencing war in Gaza and be experiencing same here in nairaland |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Greenfaces: 10:04am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Jeyun:I'm hausa actually not yoruba |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Versal: 12:24pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
beekind:Stop birthing children. Human specie is not endangered... |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by MarketDispatch: 1:57pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
beekind: The stress is better imagined. You are close to someone already undergoing the stress why not make that your learning point. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 3:13pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
omotolly22:Keep quiet and stop telling lies. Pcos is not a leading cause of miscarriage. Keep quiet!!
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