Different strokes for different folks.
I have a daughter who will be 6 month by December. It hasn't even occurred to me that i have to make plans for her Christmas clothes as i am still tasked or concerned with pampers and baby foods.

How bout you get them desktop computers so they can learn other things aside being on their tablets.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

God bless you for standing in for your children if you can afford the world buy it for them. Remember me as a family man that cant even buy a path. Things are bad. Bros anything God wil increase you

olabrinks:
what did your wife do to you?

Amebo, focus on the advice he seeks

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

Come follow adopt me too..

Country hard

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

That's where their mother comes in. Ask their mother, don't ask us. She is closer to them than you or any nairalander

oliverwrites:
My way of saving for them is buying lands for keeps for them. I intend to buy another plot of land in their names before end of June and they already have one each in good locations which I plan to develop for them and save the rent from there but this doesn't stop me from buying them a gift for Christmas. The future should not affect the now.

dont trust lands investment only. Sticking it in One Direction is not wise. Try buying USDT and keeping it in their names too. If the federal government were to declare that no one should own lands again; the land becomes worthless. It's very possible bro. Just channel your investments in different areas. My 2 dollar!

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

For the 3years and 4years buy them rechargeable toy cars with remote, buy the G wagon type , it's about 12k I saw at a mall , make sure it has a rechargeable battery inside not the ones with finger batteries,
That's what I am buying for my 3 year old,
The car is not small o!!!
But there's larger ones and more smaller ones.
They will love it...thank me later or buy one extra for me

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

Get them the thing most girls of their age want: Toy sets. It could be dolls and dollhouse sets, Lego sets or any other playsets depending on individual preference. If you want them to be more active you could get them bicycles or musical instruments.

englishmart:
My very close friend bought his child clothes instead of buying us alcohol. I feel betrayed. How could you choose someone you just knew over someone you've known all your life?
He obviously doesn't value the friendship. I'm out.

Buy them chocolate and biscuits sweets and finally put the rest of the money in their savings account


When i was in their age i don't know anything above 50naira

oliverwrites:
If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

You mean your wife is so bad she made you kolo?

betshopagent:
dont trust lands investment only. Sticking it in One Direction is not wise. Try buying USDT and keeping it in their names too. If the federal government were to declare that no one should own lands again; the land becomes worthless. It's very possible bro. Just channel your investments in different areas. My 2 dollar!

Why would the federal government suddenly declare that no one should own lands in the whole country?

I think you should sit with your girls and ask them what they want, they may have outrageous responses but it will give you an idea of what they would like, that is if you can't ask their mum.

SavageResponse:


Why would the federal government suddenly declare that no one should own lands in the whole country?

I am not saying that they would do it but they can and has the power.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

Waiting for your wife to be remorseful isn't the best idea sir. People like her don't get to be genuinely remorseful.

You don not deserve to stay under the same roof with a woman who made you spend a month in a mental asylum.

Once your kids get to reasonable age, please try to move them out from the manipulative and toxic reach of their mother until they are mature enough to handle narcissism and toxicity.

Take this advice for someone who stayed with a toxic woman (mother) for 17 years

I'll be glad sir, If I can obtain favour and get financial assistance from you sir.

1. bicycle
2. Video gaming set up.
3. Karaoke set up
4. Play house toy
5. A pet ( dog preferable)
6. A portable kids size swimming pool.
7. A camera.
8. Portable speaker (JBL and the likes)
9. A musical instrument to start learning.( Piano or guitar preferably.)
10. A kids car.

Weldon sir.... You are doing well keep it up.


You can
1. Change their curtains/Bedspread
2. Paint their rooms with another beautiful color (let them pick the colors)
3. Buy them a new mug/plates with their faces printed on them.




P.S. We have lands and houses for sale on the mainland and island sir.

You can reach out to us on WhatsApp, when you are ready to get them new lands.
Eunice 08029562694

Your best gift to them is to bring back their mother home, nothing pleases a child like the meal and love of a mother. you cant play that role better than their mum, no matter the amount of gift you buy for them. My 10k advice

PinkNature:


Waiting for your wife to be remorseful isn't the best idea sir. People like her don't get to be genuinely remorseful.

You don not deserve to stay under the same roof with a woman who made you spend a month in a mental asylum.

Once your kids get to reasonable age, please try to move them out from the manipulative and toxic reach of their mother until they are mature enough to handle narcissism and toxicity.

Take this advice for someone who stayed with a toxic woman (mother) for 17 years

I'll be glad sir, If I can obtain favour and get financial assistance from you sir.

I will be glad to help. I see you sent emails, drop your phone number.

And re my wife, I am a firm believer that she will change but until then I will stay away. Na she lose not me.

SavageResponse:


You mean your wife is so bad she made you kolo?

Get some education, not everyone who is at the pyscharitic hospital is mad. I was badly depressed and forgetful.

LordReed:


Get them the thing most girls of their age want: Toy sets. It could be dolls and dollhouse sets, Lego sets or any other playsets depending on individual preference. If you want them to be more active you could get them bicycles or musical instruments.

They have bicycles but I like your ideas and may be using them. Thanks.

betshopagent:
dont trust lands investment only. Sticking it in One Direction is not wise. Try buying USDT and keeping it in their names too. If the federal government were to declare that no one should own lands again; the land becomes worthless. It's very possible bro. Just channel your investments in different areas. My 2 dollar!

Thank you for this. I have big plans for them unfortunately most of them involves their mom who I firmly believe will be mine forever, just a matter of time.

captainamiedi1:


i feel your pains and the love for your kids. i suggest you look at spending time with them in ur current location for some days. they miss their dad. they might be coping well but deep down they miss u and you seems to miss them so much. you 100% right to the kids. it must not be with the mom you can be the dad and mom for some days.

They were with me for midterm and will be back for Easter. I doubt I can have them for Christmas as I am not willing to force anything but my kids will always be in my life, I work hard and try my best to stay healthy for them so that posterity will be kind on me and I have zero intention of changing regardless.

Get them their favorite cartoon characters, it could come in anything either toys, books or anything.
May God bless you for not neglecting your kids because of their mother.

McLizbae:
Hmmm... Despite the loud Sapa in the land, you dare come out with such narration as this!? You are even seeking advice from a people, majority of who are not certain of 50k for Christmas&newyear celebrations for their entire family!

This you post and everything attributed is kind of insensitive. I for say show off, but this nah faceless forum.

Noy everyone is myopic.

Take them out.....Children love that and maybe visit a Mall or their favorite place.

bassdow:
No matter how EXPENSIVE the GIFTs are, it could never fill the void your ABSENCE creates. Spend more time with them, and give them reason to always want you around.

Hopefully they're with you, and not with their mom, OR the situation of things between You annd their Mom, isn't so bad because Women have a way of turning KIDs away from their DAD, and it's always often a success, because She SPENDs more time with them.

Your own TASK should bbe ensuring that no matter how HARD she might TRY, She never succeeds.

Thank you. I am doing the best I can.

oliverwrites:

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

If u don't mind, check the pix. I am getting the 2 for my boy

DeAnonymousGuy:
Different strokes for different folks.
I have a daughter who will be 6 month by December. It hasn't even occurred to me that i have to make plans for her Christmas clothes as i am still tasked or concerned with pampers and baby foods.

How bout you get them desktop computers so they can learn other things aside being on their tablets.

I thought of computers but that would have worked better with me being around to teach them. I work online which would have made it even more interesting.

I will strongly consider this.

femi4:
That's where their mother comes in. Ask their mother, don't ask us. She is closer to them than you or any nairalander

And you think I would not have tried this first?

Vickyeze:
I think you should sit with your girls and ask them what they want, they may have outrageous responses but it will give you an idea of what they would like, that is if you can't ask their mum.

I did this morning before starting this thread. They have been ringing it into my ears that their christmas clothes this christmas clothes that, I decided to sort that today but I feel me and their mom have not been fair on them ( I insist not my fault but their mother's ) and want to try to make them happy by buying them gifts. Unfortunately, their mom has obviously instructed them to say money.