SoNature:
No reasonable and responsible girl, no matter hor.ny she is, should let a man sleep with her on their first date. This is unthinking!

In fact, if a man tries that, know that it's a red flag because he'll use and dump you when he's tired of your V.

Are you currently married?

The fact that 81% of the people on that survey you posted see nothing wrong in should tell you something. There is no big deal in it

SoNature:
No reasonable and responsible girl, no matter hor.ny she is, should let a man sleep with her on their first date. This is unthinking!

In fact, if a man tries that, know that it's a red flag because he'll use and dump you when he's tired of your V.

Rubbish, here in the states, it's nada, girls asks guys out, and have sex on the 1st date, damn men.

There is no sensible reason against sex on first date,its all hog wash and hypocrisy.

It does not determine how long or sweet a relationship would be.

It depends on how u see that person you had sex with on the first date. If you think it devalues the person's worth,that's yours but everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Moreover, having sex on the first date does define the relationship or the person. Ticket wey wan cut go still cut....

SoNature:
No reasonable and responsible girl, no matter hor.ny she is, should let a man sleep with her on their first date. This is unthinking!

In fact, if a man tries that, know that it's a red flag because he'll use and dump you when he's tired of your V.

Dey play.Fantasy.

So the man that have sex with you on a later date ,cannot use and dump you?

[/b]First date is different from first visit to the house na[b]


If you're just meeting for the first time why will you go to a stranger house you haven't met before

First date is outside in public

But on first visit

It is compulsory you have sex

Because the sexual tension is high as you two are new lovers
And the girl coming over to your house unless na church girl or church brother relationship

There's sex in her mind already
Also the guys mind is full of sex

So sex on first visit is 90%

Sex on first date is for perverts because that's hookup

Anything else is irrelevant

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

During my dating days that aint a news , thou i engaged on some and tried not to on some, but do you know some girls will not even give you a second date or chance if you dont smash them on the first date? im talking from experience. one have told me , she came all the way to waste time talking and no smashing that i should not expect her to come again. na there you go fear fear .

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

Balderdash!
What reduce your worth is sleeping with the person that isn't your husband.

There is no difference between sex on first date or tenth day......Its still fornication

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

What does it matter when you have the sex if you're going to have it anyway

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

It depends on the maturity, understanding and respect between the two people involved, and how long and how close and freaky they have known each other. A couple (friends) might have been very close to each other for a very long time such that having sex on a first date is almost a given, especially if the lady is comfortable with the guy.

femi4:
Balderdash!
What reduce your worth is sleeping with the person that isn't your husband.

There is no difference between sex on first date or tenth day......Its still fornication

Correct.

If you must eat frog,eat it fast and fat,if you have the appetite(in the mood).

That would never determine whether you keep the relationship or not.

As a matter of fact,whether you have it on first date or not,it is your sexual and other compatibility factors that would determine how far or sweet,the relationship would be.

The girl is cheap. Move!

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew





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Blitzking:
Depends on what going on in ur mind..both of u find urself attractive and decided to go for it doesn't give u the right to call someone else cheap...so u can sleep with a cheap gal or cheap boy...if u choose to sleep with a so-called cheap person that mean u don't mind taking the risk to contract what that so called cheap individual is carrying...ogbeni both of u are cheap simple if u choose to see it that way.

If you like stay 10 years, you would catch what you will catch

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

That you can't doesn't make it absurd or stupid.. sexual attraction is one of the main reason people date

First date or first visit?

Bullman:


Sex on the first date doesn't make you wh0re,
Waiting after three to six months won't make you a wife either.

Thank you, help me educate them

[quote author=SoNature post=127262901]No reasonable and responsible girl, no matter hor.ny she is, should let a man sleep with her on their first date. This is unthinking!

In fact, if a man tries that, know that it's a red flag because he'll use and dump you when he's tired of your V. ..... I dont agree with that, i had sex with a lady on our very first date 12 years ago thou she initially refused but today, shes my wife with 3 kids infact i love n cherish her till date... Man that's not serious, will not serious if you like zip up for 2 years....

My gf of 3 years was sex on the 1st date not just 1st date, 1st meeting

A305:
If I invite you and you begin to tell me no sex on the first date; you will be excommunicador and dis-membered from my WhatsApp like Jehovah withness Kingdom Hall.

So far so good, Have had like 15 girls visited me this year and sex on the first date happened with about 13 of them.

Majority of them told me no sex on the first visit but when they arrived — it's usually a total change of atmosphere and mood for them until the sex happens.

You do your first dates inside your home?

Sex on the 1st date is actually important if you plan on long term relationship.

Premarital sex is not fun
It is fornication


A very big sin in the sight of God

Africans and pleasure

My feedback will be strictly based on your write up and not morals.

You showed a chart that depicts people’s opinion about it. The nature of your population and sample space was not disclosed. Who are those you considered? What are their age ranges mostly - teens, young adults, or middle aged? Is this a feedback from 10, 50, 100 or 1000 people? You also didn’t say. Are your respondents mostly men or women? You didn’t say. Their “why” would they or not do it isn’t checked.

On this basis, you may want to reconduct your survey, state your parameters and assumptions and they’ll help us understand the facts more, beyond your own obvious opinion.

Well done, and your topic is worth the read.

Cortexhills99:
Is your opinion but I know someone who had sex with a lady on their first date and they are over a year in their relationship and their Saturday rice will be served soon.

And does that make it reasonable?
Will you like your daughters to be 4ked on their first date with guys they go out with?
Make una dey use una SENSE...

duduade:
One man's meat is another man's poison

Let everyone follow their hearts

Trash doesn't have two names...

lordnkem000:
I had sex on my first date and it was the best relationship I ever had. Depends on how u guys feel about yourself and what you think about each other

So what's your bodycount now?
Are you proud of it?
And do you mind your daughters too beind 4ked on their first dates?

Moral cards may not matter much here.

There's one thing with sex: once it's done, be it on the first or umpteenth date, you both start seeing each other differently.

What matters is if there's much more to be desired in each other.

I had this girl that came over when I was still a bachelor,the conversation we had before she came was no sex and bla bla bla, but when she came,the environment was all cozzy,she was so free to the extent she wore a t shirt of mine,rushed to the kitchen and cooked,to cut it short we smooched and kiss the hell out of each other,but never cross the boundary,as in I was forming the good guy,it was later in the night when I was seeing her off that she told me I really turned her on and I refused to bang her,omo I wan craze,ever since that day ehn, I removed the germent of respect for all doz no sex on the first date .

I made love with my wife on our first date and today we are happily married!!
Waiting for 10 years before having sex won't make him stay after you finally give in..he go Japa after e get werin e dey find.
Having sex on a first date doesn't make you cheap...
It all boils down to maturity and what both of you want and also the purpose for the relationship...

I have been chatting with her for over 3 years, already developed emotions and sorts with her. Sex chatted and all that.

The first time we met, we already know the deed would be done.
It didn't change what we feel for each other.


What i would consider as Sex on first date is when you go to an occasion or a party, see a girl for the first time, carry the girl from there to your house and lash her that day.

It still depends, but initially I would think she's cheap.
Infact she is...