So you’re using just one case to generalize. Do you know millions of couples it favored ? As a man if you know wetin this girls Dey do you won’t regret asking her to get pregnant first

Immediately i read the last part where the OP mentioned God, i knew it was one of those religious brainwashing nonesense.

So it was God that terminated the baby because he didn't approve of the sex before marriage or he didn't approve of them marrying?

The way people use religion as proof/,excuse for their shallow thinking or ignorance is one of the fundamental problems of Nigerians.

op you are funny. I can not take sure risk to marry a lady without her conceiving first. The ladies of today are not like those in the olden days. What I have seen my mouth can not talk.
OP YOU DEY PLAY

Just Bleep your wife and let God finalize the rest.

Once upon a time the pic below broke the internet 😂

reddingtonblack:




It is a guarantee as a matter of fact, the scenerio you gave is very rare and the tendencies of a woman having delaying after miscarriage is low as well.

If you meant not 100% maybe you have a point, but impregnating your bride before marriage is a guarantee with 90% score.

Can a man play God? If you think na your alarm clock by your beside na him wake you up every day, you goof. God's standard for man remained the same over the ages,its unfortunately that man often think they they are clever.The Bible says, He that create ears,can He not hear? Every secret of man is an open scandal in the court of heaven.Men and brethren flee fornication.

You don't need to blame guys on this too.

Most of these ladies have damaged their ovary grand with drugs.

Sparmatozoa can't chill and fertilise for goodness sake.

Dont be deceived if you know youbare reasy to settle down and all is set pls o give her belle before anyting wedding abeg o

Dem no se trust woman body o like dat

In my hometown, the marriage wount be conducted during the girl's pregnancy but after she has given birth. And the child will belong to the girl's family. It's afterwards that the guy can come and the girl. And take only the girl away, the child remains with the girl's family.

Over 70% of Nigerian women were already pregnant on their wedding day.

Infact, by the day of the wedding, the guy don already chop everything for her body finish due to excessive Fornication.

That's why I laugh when kids on social media talk about wedding night whenever they see a wedding.

Which yeye wedding night? Wetin Dem never do before?

guobe:

Most churches won't allow a pregnant woman to be wedded before the church wedding as pregnancy test is done to confirm the bride is not pregnant.

If you church refuses to wed you because the bride is pregnant you go to another church, simple!

guobe:
A trend nowadays is guys making sure their bride are pregnant before they get married.
You won't really blame them as they have seen other couples struggling to have kids to no avail after getting married.

In retrospect,impregnating the bride is not a guarantee.

I know of a guy that impregnated the bride before marriage as she was very heavy.
The marriage ceremony was concluded and they both started living as husband and wife but unfortunately the wife lost the baby in her womb.

Four to six years down the line they were still battling to have kids.

The marriage eventually broke up with both couple going their separate ways.
In summary no one is smarter than God as God knows best.

Before getting married? Which of the marriages do you refer to, Traditional or English?
After traditional marriage, any couple is good to go ahead and start making babies. Go and verify!

reddingtonblack:




It is a guarantee as a matter of fact, the scenerio you gave is very rare and the tendencies of a woman having delaying after miscarriage is low as well.

If you meant not 100% maybe you have a point, but impregnating your bride before marriage is a guarantee with 90% score.

It's 99% bro, not 90

What about, if she was already pregnant, before you thought you got her pregnant.........😜😁

Desusi:

Can a man play God? If you think na your alarm clock by your beside na him wake you up every day, you goof. God's standard for man remained the same over the ages,its unfortunately that man often think they they are clever.The Bible says, He that create ears,can He not hear? Every secret of man is an open scandal in the court of heaven.Men and brethren flee fornication.

Bro you are blowing these matter out of proportion, the world as so much change and evolve, Nobody is playing God and i don't see how getting a bride pregnant before marriage denote "playing God" ... so many things are happening and no one deserves to be trapped into another person punishment

before making a Life commitment it is best to be sure of "compatability" and among other things is fruitfulness.
The dividend of marriage are children, however life is choice those that want to wait i encourage them to wait.

You people always try to use your fictional God to justify everything. If you like don't test your woman's fertility before marriage and keep shouting God knows best.

GboyegaD:
My advice is for those who are religious, don't play God. Conduct every necessary tests if that will calm down.

Test is not a guarantee. Getting her pregnant is the sure bet. Op should intelligent enough to consider statistics.

Zooposki:
Women should stop renting their wombs cheaply to men all in the name of marriage which benefits men the most

But how do we get totally safe, satisfying, peaceful sex without marriage?

guobe:
A trend nowadays is guys making sure their bride are pregnant before they get married.
You won't really blame them as they have seen other couples struggling to have kids to no avail after getting married.

In retrospect,impregnating the bride is not a guarantee.

I know of a guy that impregnated the bride before marriage as she was very heavy.
The marriage ceremony was concluded and they both started living as husband and wife but unfortunately the wife lost the baby in her womb.

Four to six years down the line they were still battling to have kids.

The marriage eventually broke up with both couple going their separate ways.
In summary no one is smarter than God as God knows best.

So your GOD killed an innocent baby..... Your GOD is cruel

guobe:
A trend nowadays is guys making sure their bride are pregnant before they get married.
You won't really blame them as they have seen other couples struggling to have kids to no avail after getting married.

In retrospect,impregnating the bride is not a guarantee.

I know of a guy that impregnated the bride before marriage as she was very heavy.
The marriage ceremony was concluded and they both started living as husband and wife but unfortunately the wife lost the baby in her womb.

Four to six years down the line they were still battling to have kids.

The marriage eventually broke up with both couple going their separate ways.
In summary no one is smarter than God as God knows best.

It's so worrying how you linked God to your nonsense story...quite disturbing!

You people always know of a guy or a lady that something happened to, WHY NOT YOU.

Nonsense and APC.

Premarital sex still remains a sin.

guobe:

So true but they may feel those tests can be manipulated . Just my thought.

That's it, it's all in your head.

faithfull18:
Premarital sex still remains a sin.

This is an interesting subject matter.

guobe:

Most churches won't allow a pregnant woman to be wedded before the church wedding as pregnancy test is done to confirm the bride is not pregnant.

This is an 'Intrusion of privacy' but majority of Nigerians don't even know their rights.

thatigboman:
In my hometown, the marriage wount be conducted during the girl's pregnancy but after she has given birth. And the child will belong to the girl's family. It's afterwards that the guy can come and the girl. And take only the girl away, the child remains with the girl's family.

Just read your comment again and check if it makes any sense.

Ballzproblem2:
you used one couple as example,lol this the problem with black people they see one scenario and make conclusion.

meanwhile the situation is something that happens once in a blue moon

The Black Man is lazy in the head.

GboyegaD:
My advice is for those who are religious, don't play God. Conduct every necessary tests if that will calm down.

Sometimes tests say yes but the reality says opposite.

If you dont want to live in this age of tech, you are just stupid. Lol. With many options to get babies, Nigerians esp those on the front page are still advocating for assurance via pregnancy before marriage. Mehn! Many people are stupid. Ha ba!

And I dont get it...how people see having children as the main reason for getting married. Nigerians with wrong reasons for life activities. Mehn! No wonder the population is close to 300 million now.

Very wrong set of people.

omooba969:


Just read your comment again and check if it makes any sense.

bounce, yoruba muslim that doesn't have culture

thatigboman:
bounce, yoruba muslim that doesn't have culture

Yours is a culture that promotes the deprivation of rights.

Nonsense culture.