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Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:04pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
When you take money out of relationship what else is remaining? That's the biggest contributor to any relationship, with it most relationship will die a natural death. Whoever brings money already brings more than 70 percent of the relationship, all other attributes has 30 percent. 5 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by rickleye: 2:06pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Uyi2017: Besides money the following 1. Leadership - On average men are better leaders. 2. Authority & discipline - ask kids on average who are they afraid of more ? 3. Protection - never heard of gang of female robbers. A man offers protection. 4. Security - many families rely on the man’s income. A lot of woman prefer to be home managers. 5. Love and Affection - Despite what feminism brings , it cannot be replaced with vibrator . Vibrator can’t say “ I love you dear “ or makes love to you the way you want . 6. Companionship - he that findeth a wife finds a good thing . So that you don’t spend your later days alone. 7. Encouragement - You need it … we both need support when the world decides to frown on us. You need someone to pick you up when you are down. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Starboytwo(m): 2:10pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Ponran!! |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by 1Sharon(f): 3:29pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1: Yup 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Kobojunkie: 4:14pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1:What you described is a man who is an eejit! |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by reddingtonblack: 4:22pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Uyi2017: Asides Money, a man can bring emotional support, security in real sense and class to woman's Life. Married women are given more respect than single ladies in our society, who no want Respect. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by adaugo59216: 4:48pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Make I come dy go Make I come dy go ... |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 4:50pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
reddingtonblack: Now you are talking |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 4:50pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
rickleye: May the oil on ur head never runs dry 3 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Greatzeus(m): 6:11pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Uyi2017:Besides money? What else in the world is beside money? After money is money,and money and more money, don't play, you'll learn . 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Offkey: 6:48pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
He brings money,affection,time(2 minutes)😂😂😂 |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 7:16pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
[quote U_12230817671318 post=127432141] Besides money? What else in the world is beside money? After money is money,and money and more money, don't play, you'll learn .[/quote] Be calming down |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Samsunny99: 8:00pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Dickoledion That's what men can give Hitting it hard So they scream harder harder harder What else do you wish for 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
kkins25:😔😔 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by adewale408: 9:49pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Check my own. Check my own. ... |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 9:59pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
If you examine kids that grew in a two-parent household, a single mom household or a single dad household, the kids that grew up with their mum alone are the worse performer in all areas of life compared to the rest. Prison is filled with them, the poorest neighbourhood, gangs, and those who just hate life. The absense of strong men was the reason behind how bad things turned out for those kids, and their mother also. Only a person that doesnt have a strong father figure will think that mens usefulness ends only with cash. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 10:11pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
A household without masculine leadership is like bank without security. Forkboys will come, fake prophets also, the boys will grow not knowing what a man is, and the girl will grow not knowing what love from a good man looks like. Every masculine attack will mostly hit target, because femininity cant defend against masculinity. Only masculinity can defend feminity. What a monster fears the most is another monster, not a good woman. An evil man will fear another man, not another woman. I have a friend who didn't grew up with her father, and I see how she suffers relationally. Although she says she likes good men, but in reality, she fall for the worst kind of men. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by iamsense(m): 2:32am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Never in my life have I heard such a dumb question. Some humans don't deserve phone and data 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Uyi2017(m): 4:05pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
iamsense: You think it's a dumb question? Read through the comment to see how distorted the views of some people. |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by EmperorCaesar(m): 4:32pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
pansophist: CaveAdullam: rickleye: The ladies trolling on this group suddenly disappeared and scattered Magnoliaa, Folake4u and Persephone1 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:36pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
EmperorCaesar:Lol sometimes I ignore egoistic male responses especially ingrained ones whose level of knowledge/ articulation failed to hide. The question says " What else can a guy bring aside money" one would expect to see lists, I mean convincing short and concise points unfortunately I am forced to read articles on "Why women can't live without Us" Lol please count me out of this discourse, I am in a very GOOD and JOLLY mood T for Thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:06pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
EmperorCaesar: If you had sense like Caesar or even as a man who rose to becoming an Emperor, just one-tenth of the senses of the historical men you admire, you would know that that is exactly the point of 'trolling', if at all that was what we were doing. Who cares? When I made my comment, was there any meaningful comments? And even after they've made their comments, what exactly should I come and do?? You're lucky we did not come back to "trolling" for any reason, because for me as a person, I am sure there are many reservations I'll hold about their submissions if I go through it. But if I engage them on it, if they are not calling me unintelligent, they are calling me emotional in response. Any opinion that does not echo all they've said is nonsense. So why should I be like y'all attention-seeking asses who try to create arguments where there's none? You should be thankful you people's thread is peaceful and uneventful. Imagine if the question was thrown to the ladies (which I would have even found demeaning), and imagine what levels of cyberbullying would have been happening if a woman said what any of those guys said. I would have been called a talkative, too, if I wrote anything remotely as long as Cave's response. I just saw one point attacking feminism and talking shxt about vibrators up there sef . But I should go and give myself headache and respond. Please, please, please, don't be mentioning me back to things like this again, I take God beg you. Borrow yourself b***n. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:09pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Like imagine. 🤣 Iru oro katikati wo niyen na? "Despite what feminism says, a vibrator cannot replace a man." Which feminist scholar, in what feminist book was it written that vibrators can, and should replace men? Which feminist 'thought leader' actively encourages women to dump men for vibrators --as a feminist act? Abi cococandy, you're not seeing what I'm seeing? Come and help me o. These people will create arguments out of their asses and start debunking it, and go away claiming "they've totally floored those feminists" lmaooo. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:18pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: Persephone, ehn. 🤣🤣🤣 It is you that even has a way of articulating your points. It's admirable. I did not realise it until I read this your response, and I can put a finger to it now. I just knew there was something off about the guys' responses, especially if you contrast it with the kind of responses women will give. If women answer this question, most of them will frame it as if they're auditioning for the men; the men are answering now, and still they're still framing it as if the women should audition for them. I recall I have seen your response(s) on question threads like this, too, and you're right. Your replies never come across as if you're doing anybody a favour or something by being in a relationship with them. Abeg, na real mood killer being called back here. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Thank you for the compliment jare... I take am with full chest and pride because it's from you . You are right these guys are yet to master the art of articulation. There's a difference between writing and articulation, most of their responses gives the impression that their thoughts are everywhere. Long talk dey make person misyarn Cave started the misyarn . At some point I stopped reading and went on to Pan Lol that was when I vex commot thread... Why the permutation and combination? Question reads A, my guys are telling me how Z is connected to A. Kilode? . It's because nah them sha... If it were to be Luminouz he for don hear am from me I for drag am reach Ogbomosho abi Oyo today Lol Men are the PRIZE according to them so them suppose respond that way nah . Any other way will make them seem like they are "selling" themselves. Lol They don't want to tell us "I get containers on seas, I be importer exporter, I be caring and gentle guy" like they do offline . They have to package and make themselves indispensable Katikati. I hope redpill no go cost them sha . Nah them type dey fail interview. Life is not hard nah Likeeeeeeee thank you oOoOO. The truth is no one is doing anybody a favour, you both decide to do life together. No matter how loaded you think you are there will always be someone better out there. The fact that you are choosen doesn't mean you are the best but the most appreciated. That's it! Nobody should feel high and mighty, las las with all one think he or she has, you may not be able to love that person right and still have to break up. So what's with the ego? Abegggiii Sorry I brought you back... Nah our bros cause am I think Rickleye gave a balanced opinion though, what do you think? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
kkins25:So I had to read this after i was brought back by emperorceaser. Lol in all, men enjoy the privilege of being men in a society created by men to make men important not necessarily what men contribute but because men are men and they make the rules . Interesting Even if una no add value, women have no choice but to accept you. I'm jeloxz! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:03pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: That's it! They don't want to 'sell' themselves. They are not even personalising it. No 'I'm a gentle guy, I'm caring guy, I am the best support partner. I'm considerate. I pay attention to details.' Na so so authority, masculinity, order, strength person dey see. Is that tender loving care? They will be doing as if our forefathers have not been there and done that, and as if relationships where the man shows all of those "hard" stuff turn out well than one with intimacy and friendship. No, really, life no be war na. Who also cares what was happening in the olden days? And, say marriage long nor mean say e sweet na. Okay, you believe women are more to the emotional side, and that is how you want to be relating with them? Who doesn't also like to be emotionally cared for? Rather than change the way they approach relationships, they'll rather blame women for their being "unlovable" or say they are not meeting their standards. Let me just assume they are saying all these for the boys sha. Godspeed to them in their offline relationships, if any. 2 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Sheybi una wan see trolling and female responses ni 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:04pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: Na that one worse pass. I swear!! Which Rick leye? Which one? The same one for this thread abi where? 🤣🤣🤣 2 Likes |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:08pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: Don't even get me started, girl. 😂😂 Make I just dey like this. 1 Like |
Re: Besides Money, What Else Can A Guy Bring Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Tender loving care? Does the average Nigerian guy know Tender? Loving let alone Care It takes a level of emotional intelligence (positive intelligence) unfortunately this is not present in average Nigerian guy's genetic and societal make up rather more focus is placed on the negative/stoic emotional intelligence which after careful analysis turns out to be unintelligent. The fact that one is not moved by tears or lack empathy doesn't make one emotional intelligent. But trust our redpill brothers to twist things . Back to point, demanding Tender loving care is going extra for the Nigerian guy, it's a deliberate effort to be that attentive. It doesn't follow them come so if you want it, you may have to nurture and teach them. It's not their fault either. So I'm not surprised seeing military zone qualities flying everywhere on the thread See ehn... Sometimes I wish all of them strength and muscle. They will be alright. Like Poco would always say and I have finally come to terms with, "focus on the man that matters" . God will be with everybody 3 Likes |
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