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Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by sslcrypt: 11:15pm On Dec 12, 2023
Offpointng:
5years Just for a lady?? not even for ah million dollars?? you don't even know if she's gon give you peace. Dang, that nigga is a shame to whatever he represents

If I was a Military HOS a decree will be given that simps be shot dead just immediately cuz they a pollution sad

Very shameful, very weak man.
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by ufuosman(m): 11:17pm On Dec 12, 2023
Congratulations to them
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by pansophist(m): 11:55pm On Dec 12, 2023
The strength of a person's spirit would then be measured by how much 'truth' he could tolerate, or more precisely, to what extent he needs to have it diluted, disguised, sweetened, muted, falsified.”― Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil

But I also think knowing the truth is not enough, but acting it, even if its difficult. When you accept yourself, you become at peace when some people do not find you desirable.

Then accept it. It just makes your life easier, and you do not postpone your agony to the future, which makes the remedy much difficult.

Like the other thread where a British man was accusing a Nigerian girl for marrying him for British passport. Merely looking at them, you can tell that their marriage is one of convenience.

But the man would rather sacrifrice periodical comfort for future destruction. He would rather be with a gold digger, than accept that his so called wife doesnt not give a shit about him.

He knows the truth, but he refused to accept it. Burying your head in the sand becuse the truth is too harsh is not remedy, its just putting plaster on a deep wound. You only postpone the problem, which is worse.

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Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by pansophist(m): 12:05am On Dec 13, 2023
Reject him once, your fault, reject him twice, his fault. But ignore him for five years, then he is stupid and deserves such rejection.

Since he has begged his way into a marriage with her, he will keep begging to sustain that marriage.

The kind of insult men insults themselves by their actions only goes to show the severe lack of love men feel. The average man grows up without knowing what it means to be loved truly by a woman.

For the lucky ones, only their mum or sisters they experienced love from, but its not the same, since its not romantic love. And for this very reason, men humiliate themselves just to get love.

A man may swallow the punishment he receives from women, afterall, they control access to sex, but a man that sells his commitment for cheap has insulted his masculinity. It worth nothing.

A mans commitment is powerful, and the most expensive currency he can give to a woman. Its a comprehensive insurance policy, to put it lightly. You dont give it to a woman that ignored you for five years.

What a bad deal.

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Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by HussenAdul: 2:04am On Dec 13, 2023
Last option. All available means utilized. Still no way!
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Benoxvals(m): 3:27am On Dec 13, 2023
From the text messages,it all happened in 2019 for couple of months and if the last message was sent this year,it will still be 4 years.

I didn’t see any reply from the lady to justify the duration of the claim so OP where are u getting ur facts from
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by jattopeter(m): 11:02am On Dec 13, 2023
The guy suppose face firing squad. He is a big disgrace to us . Alady after 5 years for weting? Common!
Nwaokunkpara:




Bro am madder than you when it comes to simps

Simps are created the rot in our society that has made these women see it that they have power over men
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Kaycee54321(m): 11:42am On Dec 13, 2023
pansophist:
The strength of a person's spirit would then be measured by how much 'truth' he could tolerate, or more precisely, to what extent he needs to have it diluted, disguised, sweetened, muted, falsified.”― Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil

But I also think knowing the truth is not enough, but acting it, even if its difficult. When you accept yourself, you become at peace when some people do not find you desirable.

You're a man of culture, Sir.

Nietzsche is my favourite philosopher...your comment reminds me of one of the opening scenes in GOT where Tyrion the dwarf basically forced Jon Snow to embrace the fact that he is indeed, a bastard...

In his words, "... Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you."

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Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by terrezo2002(m): 11:44am On Dec 13, 2023
excanny:


Who wants to be a miserable old witch? grin
Lol. I can imagine how the members of his family relate with him
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by terrezo2002(m): 11:52am On Dec 13, 2023
eepeepook:
Don't believe everything you see on the Internet, unless you're Kobojunkie, of which everything is a reason to stir up unnecessary arguments.
Kobo that behaves like malfunctioned robot at times. At times reasonable though. Like a bipola being. Behaving like a Christian and a Satanist at the same time. Such a human!
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Gamesmart: 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2023
Maria96:
Thoughts

Any woman who does not like me and does not show interest in me within a short while of knowing me, is not for me and not my own.

There are other men she would not be able to control herself in front of, she should go for those men.

This is as foolish as telling a girl to marry a man that when he saw her, he was not interested in her. He chased over 200 other girls and when dem no gree, he decided he would try her. She is aware of this, do you think she would like it?
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Nwaokunkpara: 12:58pm On Dec 13, 2023
jattopeter:
The guy suppose face firing squad. He is a big disgrace to us . Alady after 5 years for weting? Common!


Unfortunately to those monthly bleeding people simps are the real men... what a delusion
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by jattopeter(m): 1:58pm On Dec 13, 2023
Imagine , Somebody that constantly ignore your message for 5years only for you to go and marry that same person. Hope this is not done out of pity?
Nwaokunkpara:



Unfortunately to those monthly bleeding people simps are the real men... what a delusion
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Poleski: 7:40pm On Dec 13, 2023
For a lady to reject you for 5yrs meant she wasn't into you. And for you to still marry her means you're a big mumu.
Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by pansophist(m): 10:53pm On Dec 13, 2023
Kaycee54321:


You're a man of culture, Sir.

Nietzsche is my favourite philosopher...your comment reminds me of one of the opening scenes in GOT where Tyrion the dwarf basically forced Jon Snow to embrace the fact that he is indeed, a bastard...

In his words, "... Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you."

Also read Arthur Schopenhauer works, you will love him too. I even think Nietzsche low keep copy Arthur. Reading both of their works, I can see so many similarities.

But yes, hence the first rule cardinal rule in igbo philosophy (actually all philosophy) is ''mara onwe ghi'', to know thyself.

As an example, lack of self-acceptance is the cause for trans surgery, liposuction, butt expansion, and all the expensive treatments these people cough out just to be who they are not. And because they couldnt accept themselves, the world refuses to accept them.

Charity begins at home.

You accept yourself first, then the world will accept you. You respect yourself, then then the world will respect you. You dont get it by shouting and expecting me to call a nigga with a pole a ''she''.

For you shall know the truth, and also accept the truth, then you shall be free, and be powerful.

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Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by armadeo(m): 10:36am On Dec 14, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
If she cheats on you don't complain. Someone who rejected you for five years does not only dislike you but detest your whole existence. Maybe now because the man she was praying so hard to pop the question didn't come forth and age is no longer on her side, she decided to settle for the available. There's no true love here.

Some years later .....



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