₦airaland Forum

remzor:
I was friends with one since 2021 and we started dating in 2022 before I left naija for the uk. She’s an American. She came to the uk in April and we got engaged. I loved her to death. But unfortunately, she called it off last month cos her ex came back into her life. Majority of these white folks are mentally messed up. They are not stable o. I was so pained and heartbroken. I’m now with this columbia lady, her mom is from Switzerland but I am not feeling her. She can’t even compose two sentences together. I wish y’all luck in your search sha

ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

VULCAN:
Lollzzz.

E be like say you be Armchair Psychologist with a Psych course from Udemy.

Let me attempt to carry this your warped logic a bit further.

If all those Africans who desire biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem

Then those Africans who detest biracial kids are suffering from an over bloated ego.

Does that sound right to you?

Lol

Where do you place someone like me who have never wanted a biracial child for a very personal and specific reason.

The children of a full African man and a full Caucasian woman will rarely ever resemble the man.

I am a spitting image of my father and I didn't want a son who didn't look like me.

So my reason isn't because I am a Narcissist with an over bloated ego but I just enjoy when people say
"Your son/ daughter resembles you so much"

On Instagram and FB there are a number of Caucasian and Asian women married to Black men who look like they are having a blast. You can feel the friendship and love through their interactions.

To sully such beautiful relationships with such a nasty blanket statement like you made is reprehensible.

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

CandyOps:
Which blog is that? Can you recommend?

gameova:
Good afternoon sir, compliments of the season. Please can you assist me with any amount to buy foodstuffs please I'm starving 🥺. God bless you.

ScalesDemy:
In what language because Colombia speaks Spanish, Switzerland speaks Swiss French and German.

ShoeGetSize:
Your standards are so low that after I read your thread, I felt the need to reply.

I have nothing against interracial marriage, but making light skin the most important criteria for a life partner says a lot about your low self esteem, lack of emotional and spiritual depth and self loathing.

I know marriages that have stood the test of time (30, 40 years of marriage and above) and some of these marriages are interracial, but the one thing that all these marriages had in common regardless of whether they were interracial or between members of the same race is that both husband and wife could easily communicate, laugh together, share together, trust each other, accommodate each other's faults etc.

Personally, from what I have read in your post, If I had to form an opinion about you, I would say that you are too shallow to venture into something as profoundly important as marriage.

Dpaulie:
If I had known you well and your intention, I could introduce u to one( maybe older though) but fear who no fear Nigerian youths
Yahoo! Yahoo! Intentions everywhere

franchasofficia:
Start a relationship blog on an international blogging platform


Through this way, I met hundreds if not thousands of real foreign ladies from all continents of the world, many fell in love with me from afar but I never fancied marrying a foreigner because I know people that did and at old age, it doesn't always end well cos most will never want to retire back to Nigeria with you, and even your kids are likely to deny you and Nigeria and adopt their mother's country.


When I weighed these options, I had to stand my ground and rejected all of them I met even though one from Australia refused to let go and this was when I was still struggling financially and she was ready to file for us to relocate to Adelaide together, I couldn't imagine myself marrying a white lady and she being my sponsor. I have ego a lot, I have always prayed and wished to be completely in charge of my marriage financially, and when I read their stories they shared with me about their past relationships and culture, I knew I cant cope.



So my advice is if you are good in writing, start a relationship blog on foreign blogging platforms that will give you international audience and from there start publishing books on relationships online. From there you will meet a lot of foreign ladies genuinely interested in marrying black guys but make sure you are truly ready to marry a white lady cos it's not always as easy as you may think considering our cultural difference and family style.



Yes mixed kids do look adorable, I cherished them too growing up, and wished to have one but as I grew older, got more exposure and life experiences, I realized it was all a child fantasy. And I thank God, I am happily married now and my kids look so adorable you might mistake them for mixed kids. I married a Naija hot chick though

BloomingDale:
I don’t know why you want your kids to inherit recessive and animal DNA. You are carbon based, they are sulphur based. Hope your kids won’t spontaneously combust as the UVC and UVB rays are increasing. Check out how white/biracial people can spontaneously combust.

kaycome:
I don't think anything is wrong in having a desire for biracial kids. But my concern is are you looking for someone to love or someone to help you japa from nigetia via marriage. If it is the former then you don't need to limit your looking to caucasian ladies. Marry to build a godly home and kids. Infact you might have a lady close to you right now trying to get you attention but since your mind is already fixated on oyinbo, you may miss God's best. My wife is an American. We met through my Aunty who lives in usa. I never for once in my life desire to marry an American. No desperation while we dating. I was just trusting God for a life partner and gbam i giot the most amazing lady i ever met. She will be here with me in Nigeria today and we will celebrate our one year wedding anniversary this month. Cheers

bensky:
I met my husband ( An European) never been married , no kids currently 45 years through an interracial dating site, he sent me a message October ,2019 of his intention based on my profile and qualities I was looking for . He asked certain question, can i drive, my profile already says I'm independent, I am open to relocation etc. he came to Nigeria in 2021 we got married. I moved to join him October this year . before him the first guy i met was an American 40 years divorced with 2 kids and doesn't want kids anymore. we met in Dubai April 2019 Easter . we remained friends since he doesn't want kids.

L1TTLE:
Please, please sir, my intentions are really pure, I want to get married asap, and I really love to end up with a white person, please help if you can.

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our Naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

remzor:
N
She speaks more of Spanish bro

pansophist:
Location bros. Meeting foreigners is not hard, and if your plan is to meet whites, then do the following.

Travel to Gambia, or Cape Verde, and live there. As an Ecowas citizen, you dont need a visa to enter and establish residence in these countries. These two countries boast the highest numbers of western visitors in West Africa.

Then work in the tourist industry, maybe start selling blended juice in a popular tourist spot, or be teaching some afro dance like zumba, bachata or kizomba. Westerners love this very well, and it will put you in a position of authority since they will come to you.

Also, be fit. As in, your body fat should be less than 10%. You must be able to see your six packs. Attractive men do not toast or talk much, women will come, not most women for sure, but you need just one right?

For example, most flights entering Sal (Cape Verde) are from the west, only a few are from within Africa. And also, native Cape verdians for example are like Brazillians, or mulattos, due to centuries of ethnic mixing.

So native Cape verdians themselves are almost like whites, and they are your geographical neighbors. The world is very big, leave Nigerian and get lost somewhere. It will get hard as you grow older, and more responsibilities piles up.

So dont just wish for something, work towards it and fight to have the kind of life you want. That is why you are a man with tetesterone, and have legs not roots like a tree. Move.

tensazangetsu20:
I don't think a lot of Nigerians are risk takers. That fear of failure is very high but then again I rather live with failure than regret. If I fail I can always try again and again so long as I am alive but sitting down years from now and regretting on what could have been on indecisive actions is a very useless way to feel.

tensazangetsu20:
I don't think a lot of Nigerians are risk takers. That fear of failure is very high but then again I rather live with failure than regret. If I fail I can always try again and again so long as I am alive but sitting down years from now and regretting on what could have been on indecisive actions is a very useless way to feel.

L1TTLE:
All this na hardwork, abeg post about me and anyone interested should link up

L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.

BigDawsNet:
Social media I guess..

You need to have different mentality before it's works out... have dated a white lady while I was in University.... I'm currently with a new white lady here in America...

If you don't change ur mentality...they will stop talking to you... you can't possibly date them same wey you date an average Nigerian lady

Dpaulie:
I can but honestly I can't help
I'm sorry
I don't know u
This is a faceless forum where u don't know who's who

pansophist:
For example, most flights entering Sal (Cape Verde) are from the west, only a few are from within Africa. And also, native Cape verdians for example are like Brazillians, or mulattos, due to centuries of ethnic mixing.

So native Cape verdians themselves are almost like whites, and they are your geographical neighbors. The world is very big, leave Nigerian and get lost somewhere. It will get hard as you grow older, and more responsibilities piles up.

So dont just wish for something, work towards it and fight to have the kind of life you want. That is why you are a man with tetesterone, and have legs not roots like a tree. Move.

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

pansophist:
Location bros. Meeting foreigners is not hard, and if your plan is to meet whites, then do the following.

Travel to Gambia, or Cape Verde, and live there. As an Ecowas citizen, you dont need a visa to enter and establish residence in these countries. These two countries boast the highest numbers of western visitors in West Africa.

Then work in the tourist industry, maybe start selling blended juice in a popular tourist spot, or be teaching some afro dance like zumba, bachata or kizomba. Westerners love this very well, and it will put you in a position of authority since they will come to you.

Also, be fit. As in, your body fat should be less than 10%. You must be able to see your six packs. Attractive men do not toast or talk much, women will come, not most women for sure, but you need just one right?

For example, most flights entering Sal (Cape Verde) are from the west, only a few are from within Africa. And also, native Cape verdians for example are like Brazillians, or mulattos, due to centuries of ethnic mixing.

So native Cape verdians themselves are almost like whites, and they are your geographical neighbors. The world is very big, leave Nigerian and get lost somewhere. It will get hard as you grow older, and more responsibilities piles up.

So dont just wish for something, work towards it and fight to have the kind of life you want. That is why you are a man with tetesterone, and have legs not roots like a tree. Move.