Ballzproblem2:
is he not a human being? na una type they push youths into crime

Truth is bitter and besides this is Nigeria not abroad. No girl as a banker will agree to date a cleaner, every girl is low key gold digger. Hustle up

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

May God forgive you. So a bank cleaner is not a human? If they are not there, who cleans the bank? You àbi?

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Go and look for food make you chop, stop watching telemundo because you have been totally cut off from reality.
Then focus on your life and how to improve it

Don't tell her your intention, kill the feelings, it won't work for now. You're looking for a woman to marry or where to bury your penis? Kill that thought. If I were her, I will fire you immediately. Get another job maybe a hard job that pays better then come back for her in later years.

Why he go chop slap! Is the lady mad ni? Patapata nah no am not interested.

TheFreshVanilla:
This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

TheFreshVanilla:
This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

If I’ve not seen this happen, I’d have thought it’s not possible. Na so this cleaner boy that use to run some errands back then in the office, the big use to do fine boy, going to gym and all. His fine boy don confuse am and because my colleague use to be nice to him. Baba got motivational speaker vibes come ask am out, this my colleague couldn’t hold the embarrassment. She ensured he was fired from the office.

Weere Nollywood dey deceive this one. Women generally love it when boy/girls run errands. So don't assume anything special. You are already showing symptoms of lack of focus. Focus boy!!

Should this be the most pressing need and the important thing consideration for now?

Misplaced priority is when one places his heart on things less important and which will make pursuit of goals much more difficult.
Take your eyes away from matters that does not have the capacity to take you to where u want to get to.
Beautiful women no de finish.

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Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Should this be the most pressing need and the important consideration for now?

Misplaced priority is when one places his heart on things less important and which will make pursuit of goals much more difficult.
Take your eyes away from matters that does not have the capacity to take you to where u want to get to.
Beautiful women no de finish.

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Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Bro at this point in your life, focus on making a better life for yourself...

Bro, do your job and keep that bank extra clean. It may lead to other side hustle cleaning jobs, some in private residences of single career women too busy or uppity to clean. Therein is your ticket to get lucky and put your stamina to work without having to go out and socialize. Happy smashing! 😆
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P.S. pls don't forget about your education!!!!!

Honeydenz:

YOU BROUGHT HER DOWN BELOW YOUR LEVEL....the exact implication of her choice I wanted to hear u say, she's not wise nor classy enough in d first place, she is someone from a poor background privileged to hangout with big boys, that's why u were able to get her. If she's a classy girl from a rich background, you need to be extremely handsome or rich also to get her, d later is already out of the options. Quote me anywhere

Lol.
There is no rich and classy woman on Earth that cannot fall in love with the right pauper that gat d vibes and qualities she craves, QUOTE ME ANYWHERE.

OP don't make the mistake of toasting her, the last time I toasted a woman was when I was in junior secondary school.

Since I understood women I no longer stress myself, you can bang any woman as long as both of you are communicating. I have banged even older women before because of how I operate, this formula has been working for me.


My marriage is around the corner, I didn't toast my fiancè, one thing led to another and we................*Some text missing*



OP be smart, you must not say anything. Let your body language do the talking.

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

such an insane comment.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Bro, You don't have Stamina Yet
Don't even dare

Build Yourself, Skill up, and get a better paying Legit Job.
and get ladies Outside your Office.

illicit:
U wan toast d person wey dey send u errand?

U get mind o

What if she no gree?

She go use errand frustrate u

You will Hear:
Boyfriend Come here....(in a very embarrassing Manner)
Go and Wash this my Plate and make sure it is very Clean....

Your Body go shake!!

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

No mind am . ...he does not know he has to hustle until they tell....."come inside,no need to take off your shoes".He has a misplaced priority.

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

No mind am . ...he does not know he has to hustle until they tell him....."come inside,no need to take off your shoes".

Perish that idea

Bros, hustle hard. I mean hustle real hard I was once a cleaner @ecobank okota there was a girl I really loved Rita omo my eye clear when she gained admission, all the calls and I miss you I miss love stopped.

I made a big decision to sponsor myself to sch, right now I'm done schooling im working in a good company I have a side hustle have landed properties {will buy more soon and open more businesses}

So my bro hustle and leave woman for now.

Mr Seyi, Mr Sampson, madam IJeoma, Sunday, Isreal, Rita, mopol. if you you guys are on Nairaland I greet you all.
Change is constant

RIP madam chioma.
These are people I loved back then when I was a cleaner boy (Godwin)

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
[/b]Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?[b]

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

Don't look down on someone hustling, for you can also be in dat same position or even lower , tomorrow...
Don't "Reject" it coz he himself didn't "Accept" such fate from life....
It can happen to anybody

garriAndsugar:
I'd advice you shoot your shot, highest you will get a no.

Talking about she casting you, if she's the kind that talks too much you can abort mission

LOL

outoftheworld:


Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

Onuku, where are your own billions or how much your papa get,
If dem check well na op is doing better than you
Everybody claims millionaire on nairaland. Well to do, getting the money and getting the babes

ikeno:
Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.

Please read about hypergamy.

Young men should focus on themselves rather than chooking head everywhere in the name of relationship. I never fancied office relationships. You don't sheet where you eat unless you control the entire environment.

illicit:
U wan toast d person wey dey send u errand?

U get mind o

What if she no gree?

She go use errand frustrate u

He is still a kid despite his age, i guess he watches a lot of Indian love films but don't worry he will learn, he will understand difference between film and real life, Asia and Nigeria.

LooneyLester:
Use ways to secretly collect her number and text her yuur thoughts


If she no gree , find where she lives



If she lives alone, best to break into her house when she's not around and wait for her then you do the needful



Remember to disguise your appearance

Exactly, U mean rape her abi, as a form of payback!

She'd never settle for you, women places the worth of their men based on their capacity and social standing, what would her friend think of her to be dating a cleaner..

Weyrey better wake up, you think this life na bollywood movie , I once knew a cleaner where I worked for, during spare time the guy bought himself a laptop and was learning to do graphic designs and excel, not long he applied for teller job, got it now he's gone to do his education and still in full employment. You're there listing after a staff and running errand..

Chibuzoripob:
face front and mind yo biz.Hope you won't go commit SUICIDE wen she tell Ngozi and Ngozi tell Sarah and Sarah carry am knack funmi and funmi gist Bayo/Philip.Banking Hall is the Hqtr of gossip ..Some will use/spend 40 mins to makeup 💄, adjust etc.I'm insider.Mind ya biz

Hahaha this is cracked me up imagine the whole office gisting that he went to toast his oga i doubt he can stomach it, he doesn't even look like someone that's outspoken he will just go and drink sniper.

You have to focus on your future as you barely have no advance certificate but your secondary education. But know this we are the architect of our problem. You have to get to where you are going to before you put woman in your agender else. Disruption is what comes with this wrong move be wise okay

Flesh and Blood hasn't revealed this to you, I hope he listens.

Jewessgratitud3:
😂 😂 😂 24 yrs old boy, instead of planning to go back to school na to embarrass yourself dey hungry you.

Let me advise you. That lady will not accept you number one, because of class. Her class is higher than yours and she'll be looking for someone with same or higher class not you who's just a school cert holder worse is you're even working in her office as a cleaner and errand boy.if you were working somewhere else, it would have been better.

Lastly, if you still love your job, just abort mission because it might take a bad turn and affect your job.

Please work on going back to school or at least learn a skill. Just develop yourself before talking about relationship.

SonofGod231:

His advice was very lucid.
The Op should work on himself first before chasing women and should be able meet the requirements of what he requires. Poor guys always come last. It's not like the lady in question was giving him greenlight. He should better wash this jonsin off his eyes.Smh

Thanks bro. I didn't see where you shamed the guy for working as a cleaner in your submission which I considered valid . People are already going a lot . We shouldn't plunged them into depression by our words.

Gerrard59:


Please read about hypergamy.

Young men should focus on themselves rather than chooking head everywhere in the name of relationship. I never fancied office relationships. You don't sheet where you eat unless you control the entire environment.

They are buying into the Disney world narrative of the beauty and the beast, or Ogre and Princess Fiona. E go shock them.

The moment a woman, naija woman for that matter, thinks her standard of living is better than yours, you're basically another human walking the planet. She has a lot of boundaries for such people that you dare not break. Somebody might want to say "Don't women marry poor men?" To that I respond, No. Poorer women marry poor men.

If you want to play the Beauty and the Beast game, you might be lucky in the West. Not here!

It's time extremely successful men to start dating successful women. If you're earning 100k, you potential spouse should be at least 50k. But, Naija man has a larger brain in between his legs.