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I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 7:48am On Jan 04
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we started living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will I say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Thundafireseun: 7:50am On Jan 04
The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody

The moment I saw this I knew it’s an imaginary story

But you traced her to her sister’s house before?? And you can’t plead with her sister again to give you directions to the village….

Mstheeeeeeew

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Jeon(f): 7:52am On Jan 04
.😀😀😀😀

Some men do bring troubles with their own hands into their lives. I feel no pity for them.



God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind.
But God didn't tell you to abstain from sex with her, and he also told you that you should not be scared to commit ur sperm which is ur future into her eggs.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Exceed15: 8:02am On Jan 04
There's always a starting point. Its not over for you bro. Just try get access to your daughter but if she's making it difficult for you don't fight it because it will hit you back emotionally and health wise. Thank God nothing happened to her while she was with you . May be u for dey jail now

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by tochez24(m): 8:03am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please


You need to get your daughter outta there bro else she will turn out to be a prostitute just like her mother... But you have to use wisdom, visit your baby mama and discuss with her, calmly get her village address and her father's compound name and track your daughter down there⚠️

Obviously, you made a baby with the kind of girls we are always here warning guys about♂️ Bleep and pass to the next brother... And you foolishly privatized her instead!!!! Now you will bear this scar all your life💯

Good luck as your take your journey to rescue your daughter shaa✅✅✅

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Alphamentips: 8:04am On Jan 04
More reasons why I can only cohabitat with someone I see as a wife mat

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Fidecoo(m): 8:05am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please
,

You Don go carry tiv lady ba?
The sex will be very very good,
But, the character ,,,,,,,,hmmmmm.
Sorry en.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by zed7: 8:06am On Jan 04
Any man who can tame his sexual urges has solved half of his problems. While it's easy to blame a woman for a man's misfortune, it's much easier for a man to blame himself for his indiscipline.

You can't control another person but you can control your own discipline.

Abandon that woman now for your own sanity and wellbeing, you will always reunite with your daughter in future.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by tochez24(m): 8:11am On Jan 04
zed7:
Any man who can tame his sexual urges has solved half of his problems. While it's easy to blame a woman for a man's misfortune, it's much easier for a man to blame himself for his indiscipline.

You can't control another person but you can control your own discipline.

Abandon that woman now for your own sanity and wellbeing, you will always reunite with your daughter in future.


He will have nothing to reunite with in the future other than a LovePeddler of a daughter....

He needs to bring her out of that village now and train her well⚠️

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Barbiturate(m): 8:35am On Jan 04
There's no village in Nigeria that is not accessible. Just meet with her sister and plead with her(or settle her) to give you directions to their village. You can go with some police or soldiers, so the villagers don't descend on you.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by luminouz(m): 8:43am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

If your story is real, track the village she is from....take your child back from the grandmother. That's the unofficial route.

Officially, involve a lawyer and try to see if you can get custody of the kid.

No matter how you feel about the mum, that child must never be allowed to suffer!!!

N.B: I didn't abuse you on how simpish you are because the priority for me right now is your child. Get her back ASAP.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Natbrowny: 8:49am On Jan 04
New Track

Yanga sleep trouble go wake am Ft Fela Anikulapo Kuti
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Zaheertyler(m): 8:53am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please
I've never had children so I won't advice you on that
Before we marry or say we want something intimate with anyone
Be friends with them for 2 years
Not like you don't have feelings
But it will help you decide with common sense
As for your child and mental health maybe focus on yourself now and heal... learn from your mistakes and grow...forgive yourself for your mistakes
You will have more children and wealth
If they ask for your help with training the child
Don't hesitate to do...but focus on yourself King...and if she chooses to side with her mother tomorrow life and experience go teach am
Focus on yourself 5 years from now you'll look back and laugh
Who knows if the mother too will grow and change and you'll still end up together lol

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by franchasofficia: 8:55am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please
And considering the high level of insecurity in the Middlebelt where she comes from, visiting her village will be too risky and your daughter's life is also at risk because those Muslim Jihadists disguising as Fulani herdsmen on a mission to wipe out Middlebelt Christians can strike at anytime, kai.



You need to find a way to get your daughter out of her village, even if it means paying her handsomely to do that, that's if you can afford to.



Life, what men's dick cannot put them into does not exist cry

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by FRANCISTOWN: 8:58am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
your advice please

If this story's true.

The day she scarred your face. What did you do?
The day she broke your things. What did you do?
The fact that you didn't do anything gave her the effrontery to send your kid to the village.

Most times in life. Patience spoils things. You can only cure madness with madness.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by talk2hb1(m): 9:06am On Jan 04
Jeon:
.😀😀😀😀

Some men do bring troubles with their own hands into their lives. I feel no pity for them.




But God didn't tell you to abstain from sex with her, and he also told you that you should not be scared to commit ur sperm which is ur future into her eggs.
You don't know how to enjoy stories sha, you too over think
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 9:37am On Jan 04
Thundafireseun:
The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody

The moment I saw this I knew it’s an imaginary story

But you traced her to her sister’s house before?? And you can’t plead with her sister again to give you directions to the village….

Mstheeeeeeew

A village where you will have to park your car and continue with the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 9:39am On Jan 04
tochez24:



You need to get your daughter outta there bro else she will turn out to be a prostitute just like mother... But you have to use wisdom, visit to your baby mama and discuss with your her, calmly get her village address and her father's compound name from her and track your daughter down there⚠️

Obviously, you made a baby with the kind of girls we are always here warning guys about♂️ Bleep and pass to the next brother... And you foolishly privatized her instead!!!! Now you will bear this scar all your life💯

Good luck as your take your journey to rescue your daughter shaa✅✅✅

The mistake have been made already
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 9:40am On Jan 04
Zaheertyler:

I've never had children so I won't advice you on that
Before we marry or say we want something intimate with anyone
Be friends with them for 2 years
Not like you don't have feelings
But it will help you decide with common sense
As for your child and mental health maybe focus on yourself now and heal... learn from your mistakes and grow...forgive yourself for your mistakes
You will have more children and wealth
If they ask for your help with training the child
Don't hesitate to do...but focus on yourself King...and if she chooses to side with her mother tomorrow life and experience go teach am
Focus on yourself 5 years from now you'll look back and laugh
Who knows if the mother too will grow and change and you'll still end up together lol

I appreciate and understand you. I so yearn for that strength.
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 9:41am On Jan 04
zed7:
Any man who can tame his sexual urges has solved half of his problems. While it's easy to blame a woman for a man's misfortune, it's much easier for a man to blame himself for his indiscipline.

You can't control another person but you can control your own discipline.

Abandon that woman now for your own sanity and wellbeing, you will always reunite with your daughter in future.

So some friends adviced
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Westerhoffe(m): 9:42am On Jan 04
Like, some of you guys have mind sha!
You just find a girl, bring her home and start living with her to the extent of impregnating her without knowing her family members?

Why take such huge risk? Over what?

GOD save you nothing happened to her… you'd not have been given the chance to see prison, but that grave is very sure.

Never attempt to spend your life with a man or woman who once threatened your life. They could be serious about it in the future.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by abba190: 9:43am On Jan 04
Jeon:
.😀😀😀😀

Some men do bring troubles with their own hands into their lives. I feel no pity for them.




But God didn't tell you to abstain from sex with her, and he also told you that you should not be scared to commit ur sperm which is ur future into her eggs.
this is not a trouble at all, the man is just weak@ss motherfvckr. if i were the man i will ignore her and daughter nd move on with my life untill she sue me for not caring for my daughter.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by abba190: 9:45am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:


A village where you will have to park your car and continue with the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it
man forget about that ur daughter for now, she is using her to make you uncomfortable, ignore them and act like u dont give a fk about the daughter she will look for u.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Nicepoker(m): 9:51am On Jan 04
You left another single mother roaming the surface of the earth waiting for another simp she will devour. grin

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by PerfectJUSTICE: 9:54am On Jan 04
abba190:
man forget about that ur daughter for now, she is using her to make you uncomfortable, ignore them and act like u dont give a fk about the daughter she will look for u.
Is there a possibility? What if she's brainwashed
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by seetomorrow: 9:57am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.


I'd this you post here is true, that means you are a compound fo ol. Okay.
You are reasoning with your useless third leg, ode
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by abba190: 9:58am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:

Is there a possibility? What if she's brainwashed
she is not, just follow my advice u will be suprised
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by muller101(m): 10:01am On Jan 04
Follow the official route. Involve a lawyer.
Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by zikter(m): 10:09am On Jan 04
Thundafireseun:
The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody

The moment I saw this I knew it’s an imaginary story

But you traced her to her sister’s house before?? And you can’t plead with her sister again to give you directions to the village….

Mstheeeeeeew
What do you mean? Do you think it is everywhere in Nigeria that has network? D play

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Starboytwo(m): 10:26am On Jan 04
Boat keh embarassed

I no dey climb boat go anywhere.

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by orohbirodeysmel: 10:28am On Jan 04
Barbiturate:
There's no village in Nigeria that is not accessible. Just meet with her sister and plead with her(or settle her) to give you directions to their village. You can go with some police or soldiers, so the villagers don't descend on you.

If he dare go there alone, they go whip am 2 by 2 wood... grin grin

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Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Farrason: 10:40am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.

Firstly bro... Thank God that you both parted ways in good health and she is fine. My advice for you now is to disappear from her reach!!.

I know that a daughter is involved but you don't know the plan she has for you and trust me you can't lay an easy claim on that child. Try to move on... Life will sort itself!!

Even most likely, another you will meet her and the sex will be so sweet and same circle will repeat itself.

Open ya ear now: FLEE NOW WHILE YOU CAN.

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