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Viral 2 spoons story in Nigeria: A man’s female coworker cooks & brings extra homemade lunch & 2 spoons so they can share everyday.

Man’s wife started cooking & packing his lunch to stop that.

A social media user, MumZee Debbie, who shared the 2 spoons story wrote:

I've always been too lazy to wake up and get his lunch ready. But the day he told me a colleague brought two spoons so he'll eat with her, was the day I set my alarm for 4:50am.

Another lady, Ms. Nadi Madisha shared:

There’s a lady that wakes up at 5am to make her husband lunch for work. 🥲

What's your response to this?

That's laziness on her part and her husband tolerated it as well.

I can't be married and be suffering to eat food in my house

Mtcheww . A woman should not have problems cooking for her man as long as he provides.

Competition always brings out the best in people, businesses and many other things. Monopoly has never helped any country. This woman saw a potential competition and suddenly brought out her best to nip an inexistent competition in the bud

From using two spoons to spooning!

Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

EreluRoz:
Mtcheww . A woman should not have problems cooking for her man as long as he provides.

A woman has no problem cooking for a man she loves. They will do it anytime with gladness. If a woman doesn't cook for a man, she simply doesn't rate him

Tallesty1:
A woman has no problem cooking for a man she loves. They will do it anytime with gladness. If a woman doesn't cook for a man, she simply doesn't rate him

Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

She should have waited a lil bit till the spoons become full time food flask for her husband. Rubbish

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

You don't do things for the one you love because you enjoy doing it. Sacrifices and compromises are among the things that fuel beautiful relationships.

Tallesty1:
You don't do things for the one you love because you enjoy doing it. Sacrifices and compromises are among the things that fuel beautiful relationships.

Can you sacrifice what you ain't good at ? There are other ways to show love and why do you assume all women can cook? There are homes where the man is in charge of the cooking and they are waxing stronger

Polygamy brings the best out of women



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So she cook now...

Abi she no cook?

Maybe the man even fabricate that story to his wife to make her sit up.

All is well... That ends well!

Lol. You ma wife, you cook. ✌️

😲😲

No gree for any woman!

later she go enter facebook as "anonymous",dey complain,"my husband s cheating on me"

She quickly upped her game. So many Judys out there.

Make her story no be like May own.

It's sad that the wife had to hear something going on before her brain reset to know her role in her husband's house.
The thing is women are no longer taught how to behave and maintain wifely duties in their husband's house. I don't know if they were taught but choose not to listen because of the modern culture of equality, or they just weren't raised properly. But if you ask me, I will say it's the former.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

Not all men enjoy going out to hustle to provide for the family, but they do it regardless. We don't get to do things because we enjoy doing them, we have to do things because it is our role to do it.
This is not an excuse. Change this attitude if you're speaking for yourself.

GreatAchiever1:
Not all men enjoy going out to hustle to provide for the family, but they do it regardless. We don't get to do things because we enjoy doing them, we have to do things because it is our role to do it.
This is not an excuse. Change this attitude if you're speaking for yourself.

Why do you think I'm speaking for myself?

Dark side of ambition. The wife is simply jealous.

EreluRoz:
Why do you think I'm speaking for myself?

I believe you saw the if clause. And you making a reference to women who don't enjoy cooking can also imply that you see nothing wrong in that. Well, I'm telling you it's wrong.

oz4real83:
Competition always brings out the best in people, businesses and many other things. Monopoly has never helped any country. This woman saw a potential competition and suddenly brought out her best to nip an inexistent competition

By the time she starts experiencing a receding hairline, depression, and maybe weight gain as a result of all that stress she is putting herself through thinking she has to compete with others for her husband, be sure to tell her it is all worth it too.

GreatAchiever1:
I believe you saw the if clause. And you making a reference to women who don't enjoy cooking can also imply that you see nothing wrong in that. Well, I'm telling you it's wrong.

I know it's wrong and I did acknowledged that in my first post. But then women have other ways of showing love. I know some few women who doesn't cook and their marriages are still intact while those great cooks have lost theirs due to other qualities they lack. So we have to learn how to find a balance with our partners, we must learn to overlook that side they are lacking. Cooking is what every
Woman should master but then it shouldn't be a strong factor in disqualifying her as a good wife

Nicepoker:
Dark side of ambition. The wife is simply jealous.

Exactly!

EreluRoz:
I know it's wrong and I did acknowledged that in my first post. But then women have other ways of showing love. I know some few women who doesn't cook and their marriages are still intact while those great cooks have lost theirs due to other qualities they lack. So we have to learn how to find a balance with our partners, we must learn to overlook that side they are lacking. Cooking is what every
Woman should master but then it shouldn't be a strong factor in disqualifying her as a good wife

Ok, I know some marriages where the husband is not the breadwinner but their marriages is still intact. The thing is, is that a good thing for me to bring up as an excuse as an opposition to a husband being the provider of the family? There is no balance when it comes to things like this, what we need to do is to work on ourselves to improve for the benefit of our union. Let us not give give room for laziness or nonchalance. I wouldn't disqualify a woman because she doesn't know how to cook, but I will disqualify her as being good if she is not ready to change and be eager and ready to learn.