Lack, mostly basic needs, is not something that anyone ought to experience, but in life; majority of the things that happens, are those we didn't plan for.

I seriously wonder how a lot of people (mostly the poor and not well to do) see bringing many children into this world as something reasonable.

This as many assume, is because of illiteracy and unexposure, but i always counter people with the fact that, illiteracy is not an excuse for someone not to have common sense.

Imagine a world and this part of life where a lot of people earning even 400k monthly, are still struggling to cater for family of 5, you will still see majority earning even 30k; bringing children into an already sorry state, to inherit their mess. I see this as wickedness because, a good parent ought to bring up his/her children to live a more better and comfortable life.

When i was young, my parents always make sure all the children are comfortable, both in school or @ home, before thinking about themselves.

A country where majority of the millionaires are having less than 5 children while parents that can barely feed themselves; procreating like cockroaches; is very alarming.

I have seen a lot of ungrateful fools that picked offences against their brothers or relatives because they failed to help them and their family.
Which reasonable person brings a child to this world, with the hope of heaping the load on someone else, who is carrying his/her own?

Taking care of children is VERY expensive and a lot of caution and calculations ought to be taken when procreating.

Just imagine the cost of feeding, not to talk about basics, like; pampers and health care, school fees sef na blast and a lot won't take time to put the life and comfort of their children into consideration. That is wickedness and not illiteracy!.

I can't imagine me that can't stand seeing someone suffering or lacking basics, procreating anyhow.

__Changing generation of poor or middle class to rich lineage, takes a lot of sacrifice, time and planning the lives of children, even before they are born.

IRMC

Boom Dig_It!!!

My buddy and I had a talk about this the other day, Most guys we know that are not financially stable are getting married, I mean Men that are susceptible to billing at any given time.
I wonder the type of moral they have to do this, the other day one was grateful praising a Man for gifting him free Xmas chicken, a family Man that can't afford ordinary Xmas chicken which happens once a year can you imagine.

The worst part is that most of them are even below the earnings of their parents that couldn't give them basic human needs yet they have gone ahead to bring into this world kids that will get less than what they even got.

Nobody said you shouldn't marry, on the other hand try and pity the society don't bring more menace to mankind, If you can't handle your shit please suck it in.

You talk sense, most of these people are irresponsible. Parents who want the best for themselves and the kids wont go around making babies anyhow. Funniest part they go say one child no be child. i go just burst into laugh

Na government suppose enlighten people , con add laws join am. Cos na menace majority of the untrained kids become.

If you have ever been broke you'll know that the next thing to being broke is having a very long lasting erection.......

Being broke and penile erection is like 5 and 6.

No amount of preaching will change that.

Rich people enjoy their lives with many social activities like clubbing, drinking, travelling and taking hot Olosho, where do you want poor people to test their microphones? This is where I don't see anything bad in masturbating if you are poor. No excuse of bringing children that will curse you in the future. MASTURBATE

OP, you are still a juvenile learner. You have no idea what this world is about.

But really people earning 400k n can't take care of family shows they

married a useless husband/wife

Brought up spoilt

Cant manage wanna b living above spending means

besayag:
But really people earning 400k n can't take care of family shows they

married a useless husband/wife

Brought up spoilt

Cant manage wanna b living above spending means

400K is not such a large amount...when you start earning big money you'll realise this

Op when a poor man is about to cum. Its always different from a rich Man's cum.

besayag:
But really people earning 400k n can't take care of family shows they

married a useless husband/wife

Brought up spoilt

Cant manage wanna b living above spending means

I laugh u in Arab... You think 400k is OK in this bulaba economy

Nicepoker:
Op when a poor man is about to cum. Its always different from a rich Man's cum.

You're obviously talking from experience @ the former.

Kobicove:


400K is not such a large amount...when you start earning big money you'll realise this

if u end up with woman wen no dey contribute u end up spending all without saving.

If u dey earn 400k atleast 2 month rent don dey, unless u dey womanize drink gamble buy unnecessary things then u go end up spending any how

caesymore:
Boom Dig_It!!!

My buddy and I had a talk about this the other day, Most guys we know that are not financially stable are getting married, I mean Men that are susceptible to billing at any given time.
I wonder the type of moral they have to do this, the other day one was grateful praising a Man for gifting him free Xmas chicken, a family Man that can't afford ordinary Xmas chicken which happens once a year can you imagine.

The worst part is that most of them are even below the earnings of their parents that couldn't give them basic human needs yet they have gone ahead to bring into this world kids that will get less than what they even got.

Nobody said you shouldn't marry, on the other hand try and pity the society don't bring more menace to mankind, If you can't handle your shit please suck it in.

Like, i see a lot of children below 10, already suffering. What kind of heart does these parents have 2 put children in such mess and the funniest part is; The wife go born another one next year.

The other day, a former neighbor's son was running like a mad dog, just to get common 15k to discharge his 2nd wife from hospital, after putting to birth.
This is someone that has 2 children from his first wife and the current on already has 2, before the last one now.
Just imagine how people bring children to inherit their mess, this is someone that struggle seriously to even feed, not to talk of taking care of the children.
Tommorrow these same people would heap all the blames on the government, without even putting themselves into consideration.

Look at 2face, as numerous as his children; He is giving them the best in life, thats how it ought to be, if one is the type that loves large family, not the nonesense we are seeing.

Defeating poverty and brokeness nor b childs play and one must be very careful the kind of load (mostly children) he /she brings to this life.

Jewessgratitud3:


You're obviously talking from experience @ the former.

I am now born again. It happened some minutes ago. If not.

YeyeGbami:
You talk sense, most of these people are irresponsible. Parents who want the best for themselves and the kids wont go around making babies anyhow. Funniest part they go say one child no be child. i go just burst into laugh

Na government suppose enlighten people , con add laws join am. Cos na menace majority of the untrained kids become.

Many people nor deserve pity wahalai.
I was advising a semi - colleague few months ago, that was saying; he need extra 2 kids to make up his family of already 3 kids (2 girls and a boy).

I was advising him to stop for even 5 years before things get better, this guy nor gree, telling me to go and get married and start giving birth, i just look d mumu laugh, me that is planning to change the story of my unborn child, in order to change posterity's story.
This is someone that earns 30k + a small laundry business he is managing, this is a graduate and youth o.
Now, can even 300k salary take care of 5 children in this era?.
Look at problem a lot of people are creating on top of the already mess we are in.

I wasn't born in a poor home and i have never lacked anything any middle class family could afford, but i have struggled a lot in life and i can never wish my child to pass through any financial stress.
DAVIDO, CUPPY AND CO. LIFE NOR DE SWEET ALL THESE MUMU SEF?

Till when you realise that the toughest, most innovative and long living people are people who had a limit to what they were provided for.

Let your children grow, stop working yourself out to provide everything for them, let them sort out themselves on some life issues

Franzese:
If you have ever been broke you'll know that the next thing to being broke is having a very long lasting erection.......

Being broke and penile erection is like 5 and 6.

No amount of preaching will change that.

Na wickedness sir.
When i was visiting my late G pa, i have 2 niggas (brothers) that the Dad married 3 wives, from pry. School to secondary level, this man refused to give his children shi shi, those boys were the one that made me see independent life as good freedom.
There is no kind of manual jobs those boys didn't do to scale through in life.

MAJORITY OF THEM PROCREATING LIKE DOGS ARE VERY WICKED AND DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN'S WELFARE, I KNOW AND HAVE SEEN A LOT.

holocron:
OP, you are still a juvenile learner. You have no idea what this world is about.

Oga sir, please tell me what the world is about.

besayag:
But really people earning 400k n can't take care of family shows they

married a useless husband/wife

Brought up spoilt

Cant manage wanna b living above spending means

Sir, u don't dictate the kind of life someone intend giving his/her children.
400k is nothing for a family of 4 that intend living a middle class and comfortable life.

Is it a good life seeing your children crying of heat and heat rashes because of lack of electricity and no money for fuel?

Personally, i planned for just a child, reason because, i have seen how life ought to be and i intend giving that to my posterity.
Steady vacations, good health care, good school, good meals, good enviroment and getting at least 95% of needs; IS NOT TOO MUCH TO GIVE POSTERITY, Not all these rubbish we are seeing.

Imagine a father unable to pay fees of 5k, i know a lot and they keep procreating like idiots.

Someone MUST sacrifice and break the yock of lack/poverty and i am the one to do that, I can't stand seeing my blood suffering.

NA PERSON BREAK DEM CUPPY,DAVIDO AND CO. YOCK.

Kobicove:


400K is not such a large amount...when you start earning big money you'll realise this

Leave am make e dey play.
400k wen nor fit give only husband and wife reasonable comfort.

caesymore:
Boom Dig_It!!!

My buddy and I had a talk about this the other day, Most guys we know that are not financially stable are getting married, I mean Men that are susceptible to billing at any given time.
I wonder the type of moral they have to do this, the other day one was grateful praising a Man for gifting him free Xmas chicken, a family Man that can't afford ordinary Xmas chicken which happens once a year can you imagine.

The worst part is that most of them are even below the earnings of their parents that couldn't give them basic human needs yet they have gone ahead to bring into this world kids that will get less than what they even got.

Nobody said you shouldn't marry, on the other hand try and pity the society don't bring more menace to mankind, If you can't handle your shit please suck it in.

Marriage is a blessing from God.
As a man if u can feed yourself comfortably, and u see a woman who can build ur home, my dear go for her.
When u will know a bad wife is after all your years of working, u now have a soft life, u marry her and boom she abandons you like Emeka ike's wife.
My issue is raising kids that you can't take care of.
Now in Nigeria, immediately u buy snacks beside any kid(not ur own) and u are eating it, the child will look at u in a pitiable way.
Some will even beg u in there parents front.
And d parent will not caution d child

Nicepoker:
Op when a poor man is about to cum. Its always different from a rich Man's cum.

This issue nor be joke at all.
Majority of those children a lot of fools brag, they fvck with bread and indo mie are products of these homes, of useless parents procreating children they can't care for.
Is it a reasonable person that would be happy hearing his daughter was fvcked because of hunger.

You can't really blame the child, they think according to their age and status.
Every reasonable father ought to provide for all the needs of their kids, if not, u won't blame society and government.

Mayzie:

I laugh u in Arab... You think 400k is OK in this bulaba economy

Leave that guy, e think say na everybody one use Eba, Eba, Eba destroy their kids destiny.

Ask him to tell u d cost of ONLY school fees and lunches in school per month.

besayag:
if u end up with woman wen no dey contribute u end up spending all without saving.

If u dey earn 400k atleast 2 month rent don dey, unless u dey womanize drink gamble buy unnecessary things then u go end up spending any how

Bros. It costs to live a semi comfortable life.

Me, i rather nor born than to bring my kid to come they lack common decent 3 square meal and medium comfort.

Do u know d cost of middle class school fees and lunches per child?

ITbomb:
Till when you realise that the toughest, most innovative and long living people are people who had a limit to what they were provided for.

Let your children grow, stop working yourself out to provide everything for them, let them sort out themselves on some life issues

So, the lineage of poverty continues?

If u see shege to make am, u go know say; Nor be everybody dey scale through shege; A LOT DEY DIE FOR SHEGE.
A lot of girls would pay severly with their body, why a lot of guys would do a lot of illegal, which could end a lot's life.

Select the kind advice u give people please, is only an unreasonable father that watches his children suffer.
Shege nor b wetin person suppose see

@op you are very correct. Worst still is dat we are in the hands of a very terrible government and people just don't care despite the obvious signs. You can get married and do child planning. Mba them no go gree, here in the north you see street beggars giving birth anyhow mai ruwa and co having more than one wife who do not do anything but just give birth. Pathetic lifestyle I must confess sometimes I wonder why God give them children.

MSN1:

Leave that guy, e think say na everybody one use Eba, Eba, Eba destroy their kids destiny.

Ask him to tell u d cost of ONLY school fees and lunches in school per month.

Lol... That 2 na die. And na 2 kids I get. To get another one dey fear me.

MSN1:

Sir, u don't dictate the kind of life someone intend giving his/her children.
400k is nothing for a family of 4 that intend living a middle class and comfortable life.

Is it a good life seeing your children crying of heat and heat rashes because of lack of electricity and no money for fuel?

Personally, i planned for just a child, reason because, i have seen how life ought to be and i intend giving that to my posterity.
Steady vacations, good health care, good school, good meals, good enviroment and getting at least 95% of needs; IS NOT TOO MUCH TO GIVE POSTERITY, Not all these rubbish we are seeing.

Imagine a father unable to pay fees of 5k, i know a lot and they keep procreating like idiots.

Someone MUST sacrifice and break the yock of lack/poverty and i am the one to do that, I can't stand seeing my blood suffering.

NA PERSON BREAK DEM CUPPY,DAVIDO AND CO. YOCK.

someone cant pay 5k school fees but d one with 400k can shey, holiday n all, na onces dem dey know who never start life, when u start u go know say 400k is okay, na people det 3 children on teacher or less than 50k them dey survive

kabius:
@op you are very correct. Worst still is dat we are in the hands of a very terrible government and people just don't care despite the obvious signs. You can get married and do child planning. Mba them no go gree, here in the north you see street beggars giving birth anyhow mai ruwa and co having more than one wife who do not do anything but just give birth. Pathetic lifestyle I must confess sometimes I wonder why God give them children.

Leave dem, government dey wen dem go blame.
These useless parents put children in the street, making the girls pay with their body and the boys taking to crime.

A lot of parents ought to be arrested for this country to move forward.

MUMU DEY ALWAYS LEARN D HARD WAY, AND A LOT WOULD JOIN THE IDIOTS TO BLAME GOVERNMENT FOR THEIR RECKLESSNESS.

besayag:
someone cant pay 5k school fees but d one with 400k can shey, holiday n all, na onces dem dey know who never start life, when u start u go know say 400k is okay, na people det 3 children on teacher or less than 50k them dey survive

Sir, 50k with 3 children na USELESS LIFE.
Nor b everybody like suffer head.

400k is a very big money, my salary is not even up to 20% of that money but the truth is;
NOBODY CAN GIVE 3 CHILDREN COMFORT WITH 2OOK SALARY IN 2024.

There are levels to life.
I have a friend that spends close to 200k monthly for just provisions and others, for a family of 4.
Everybody get their quality of life but what i am saying is;
Parents giving birth to children they can't cater for.

Our parents (and grand parents) erroneously believed that Children are ASSETS. The more you have them, the 'richer' you become.
Thank God for civilization, even Muslims are now sensitizing adherents against giving birth to children you can't take care of...