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Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

Nuggets for rest of mind.

Thanks for sharing sir.

Better

Nairaland now promotes write-ups from twelve year old boys. The train of thought derails after every sentence. Unserious platform with equally unserious visitors.

Cheating is bad, but it can never be old-fashioned.

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Bleep

Say no to broke ladies, the leech on you and bring pains and destruction later

Man is not Poverty alleviation program. Poverty is rife in the land, shine your eyes
Mothers don't help matters too

You as a man will think is smart but they are smarter They want to know how much you earn and start bringing bills that her father can't entertain and foot

They will never contribute a dime to your family celebration but will expect you to contribute . Sponsor her younger ones, put her mom on monthly allowance, send Christmas/festivities package. Man no be donkey.

Child birth crew, am waiting for you

For no reason.... Dony try it ... You may regret it forever ...
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Was speaking with a 60+ man recently & you could see the pain & hear regret in his voice as a result of marying out of pitt or guit...
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There are some regrets you shouldn't remember everyday of your life & still carry to hour grave.

Jacksonk222:
Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

Advising a typical Nigerian girl on issue concerning dating a man because of money will fall on deaf ear

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Settling down has never, even up till this point, my mind cross.

Very true

opulent

My friend is about marry out of pity.

It is well.

Normally na.

And especially to the ladies, don't marry just because of money, because, what happens if something goes bad and that man doesn't have money again?

Thank God for making best decisions by Jilting my ex and am now enjoying my marriage

Well said.

Take note of the message for today:

Always pray for those around you and for God to take control of everything around you.

If you don't pray for those around, the devil can easily manipulate them to hurt you.

So in a way, praying for others is to your gain besides the obvious fact that you are obeying God's command.

1Tim.2.1 - I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. As you make your requests, plead for God's mercy upon them, and give thanks. (NLT)

Praying for others too is a way to unlock our blessings:

Job.42.10 - When Job prayed for his friends, the LORD restored his fortunes. In fact, the LORD gave him twice as much as before!

Say a prayer for someone today.

I pray for everyone reading this, May the LORD bless you and keep you in all your endeavours in Jesus name. Amen.

Am a victim o, I need another wife now

Sincerely...I am scared for marriage....b like I won't marry sef

No
There's this rich dutch lady that am currently dating. She's 39 and begging me to marry her. I'm gonna marry her because of the obvious...

No, never because it doesn't end well in most cases..

But I know of a man who broke up with his fiancé because of a misunderstanding. After series of serious begging from her and family, he still didn't yield. Only for the lady's father to call him and sent him photos/videos of the lady being hospitalized and persuaded him to come at least to visit her. After several thoughts given, he went to visit her in the hospital and saw the sorry state she was in. He had compassion on her, started paying frequent visits to her in the hospital. She began to recover eventually and long story short, they're happily married with kids now..

Even me, I once had a serious issue with my gurl for arguing (raised her voice which I don't tolerate) with me. I ended the relationship on the phone. Few days later she called (I stopped taking her calls until she sent me a message on WhatsApp telling me how sick she was with evidence). I went to her house with some medications from the pharmacy. On getting to her house, few moments later, she started doing those things she couldn't do; gaining strength, getting off the bed, etc. So I saw everything and forgave her, we've been cool ever since ..

When a lady loves you with her all, my brother it's a rare blessing. And every of your action affects her mentally, socially and otherwise...

Most Nigerian girls see marriage as a poverty alleviation system. That's why they will always fall victim to bad marriages.

Jacksonk222:
Once you place your value in money as a lady,
There are men who are willing to pay to mess you up.
Be guided!

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Having a female as a best friend is like having a chicken as a pet,
You will definitely eat it one day.🤣

Cheating is old fashion, the new style is to settle down with one partner, get close to God and make money together.

You only focused your advice on ladies, what about the guys?


Don't marry any lady out of pity just because she claimed to stood by you right from when you weren't financially buoyant. She herself was she financially buoyant when she started dating you as a broke man?


She can only lay claim to standing by you from when you were financially broke if and only if she was doing financially better than you and still lowered her standards to accept to date you, love you, assist you financially, psychologically, emotionally, etc till you stood up, only then can you ever consider her as standing by you from the time of your little beginning.



But if her claim to have stood by you from when you were nobody is based on the fact that she being a broke girl herself accepted to date you and only offered you occasional or constant sex and nothing more, my brother never you marry her out of pity because you believe she started dating you right from when you were broke.

You must learn to accept your man's financial capacity,
else you will end up sleeping with every man that has money 👌👌

Nicely put but the above should only apply to disciplined men because if a woman must accept a man's financial capacity, the man too must be loyal and faithful to only that woman and never cheat on her.

Marrying out of pity is not a good idea because you'll end on hurting the other party. No matter the pressure mounted on you don't give in. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured.

Anyone marries out of 3 ingredients that can make Marriage work and blissful would surely going to regret it last last.

Love
Income
Understanding.


Beauty, Handsome, Famous, Wealthy, Elite etc can not guaranteed marriage to work, if the 3 above listed ingredients are substantially lacking.

Thanks for sharing sir.

Toosure70:
Am a victim o, I need another wife now

Sad one

Zaku chi ubanku if una try am