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Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 8:34pm On Jan 28
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by BOSSkesh(m): 8:36pm On Jan 28
Aunty nobody cares tbh
Youโ€™ve been making noise about marriage since and up till now youโ€™re still not married
Change your character or allow us to hear word

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 8:38pm On Jan 28
BOSSkesh:
Aunty nobody cares tbh
Youโ€™ve been making noise about marriage since and up till now youโ€™re still not married
Change your character or allow us to hear word
This is not for you kid, how did you know my marital status and character?

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by advanceDNA: 8:42pm On Jan 28
Iyaebe

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by chiefolododo(m): 8:42pm On Jan 28
Whenever I see a 92 year old man looking for a wife , I will alert you

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 8:44pm On Jan 28
chiefolododo:
Whenever I see a 92 year old man looking for a wife , I will alert you
My last statement is for comments like this.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by chiefolododo(m): 8:45pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
My last statement is for comments like this.
92 is not old enough?

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 8:50pm On Jan 28
chiefolododo:
92 is not old enough?
Don't derail, go back to my last statement

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by Visocrate(m): 8:59pm On Jan 28
You have said it all likewise older women in fact maturity in relationships or marriage comes with age and experience

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by chiefolododo(m): 9:00pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
Don't derail, go back to my last statement
derail ? I don't understand, what is your definition of an old man ? Or older man? 92 not old enough?

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 9:02pm On Jan 28
Visocrate:
You have said it all likewise older women in fact maturity in relationships or marriage comes with age and experience
This doesn't apply the other way ooo. A young man looking for older women is nothing but leeching and laziness

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by JONSYN7154: 9:02pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own
ok.

Are you talking from experience?

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 9:03pm On Jan 28
JONSYN7154:
ok.

Are you talking from experience?
Talking from people's experience

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by JONSYN7154: 9:06pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
Talking from people's experience
you can't use people's experience to judge. Everyone have a page in his or her life to flip.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 9:07pm On Jan 28
JONSYN7154:
you can't use people's experience to judge. Everyone have a page in his or her life to flip.
women that got married to older men have more successful marriages

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by JONSYN7154: 9:09pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
women that got married to older men have more successful marriages
you think so?

My dear if you no go there u no go no how e be

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 9:15pm On Jan 28
JONSYN7154:
you think so?

My dear if you no go there u no go no how e be
That's what research is saying. Check around you to confirm

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by ezechi24(m): 9:33pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
women that got married to older men have more successful marriages

What age range are you talking about

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by Nazgul: 9:38pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own
What's your age definition of older men?

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by tommy589(m): 9:51pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own

These qualities also make them better sugar daddies grin

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by JONSYN7154: 10:00pm On Jan 28
EreluRoz:
That's what research is saying. Check around you to confirm
researchers did it base on their own. Some research are false.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by Cassandraloius: 10:04pm On Jan 28
There's this friend of mine, her dad married another woman because he lost his wife. This man is old and poor, he nags at every slightest mistake, and the new wife is sick and tired of the 2 yrs marriage already, complaining here and there. Infact this is not the only man, they're many. So the choice is yours. What could work for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B



Give me your Research writing jobs.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by lordnkem000(m): 11:21pm On Jan 28
You really need this marriage and i wonder why the proposal ain't coming, could it be that you are the problem? I guess feminist ideas are affecting your real life

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by FRANCISTOWN: 12:14am On Jan 29
EreluRoz:


Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own
In fact I agree with you on this. This post makes a whole lot of sense.
This is what many guys have been preaching on this platform that men themselves should marry young ladies.
Any lady who is above 25 years of age is in fact an old lady. They are not to be considered for marriage at all. The underground passage does not lead to the city again but now leads to the carnal.

So I don't care, whether the man is 90 years old or 1000years. Once he marries a woman of above 25, that's two old people.
Therefore, getting married to an older man is for ladies below 26.Once you are 26 and above, you are already an oldie.

NB: Extremely ugly, duckling godforsaken old ladies who are very poor and unfortunate with bad shape and are very old themselves are the ones who go for older men. Sollu Alan Nobi Kareem.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:17am On Jan 29
FRANCISTOWN:

In fact I agree with you on this. This post makes a whole lot of sense.
This is what many guys have been preaching on this platform that men themselves should marry young ladies.
Any lady who is above 25 years of age is in fact an old lady. They are not to be considered for marriage at all. The underground passage does not lead to the city again but now leads to the carnal.

So I don't care, whether the man is 90 years old or 1000years. Once he marries a woman of above 25, that's two of people.
Therefore, getting married to an older man is for ladies below 26.Once you are 26 and above, you are already an oldie.

NB: Extremely ugly, duckling godforsaken old ladies who are very poor and unfortunate with bad shape and are very old themselves are the ones who go for older men. Sollu Alan Nobi Kareem.
Gender war mindset will not let you read and digest.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:20am On Jan 29
Nazgul:

What's your age definition of older men?
For me there should be at least ten years age difference. I mean an early 20girl should marry someone in their early 30s and above. This is not me saying a young lady should marry a 90year old man as they are insinuating above

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:22am On Jan 29
lordnkem000:
You really need this marriage and i wonder why the proposal ain't coming, could it be that you are the problem? I guess feminist ideas are affecting your real life
So you know me so well to arrive at all these?

My bad character is chasing thousands of men away from me, hope you are satisfied with this response.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:24am On Jan 29
Cassandraloius:
There's this friend of mine, her dad married another woman because he lost his wife. This man is old and poor, he nags at every slightest mistake, and the new wife is sick and tired of the 2 yrs marriage already, complaining here and there. Infact this is not the only man, they're many. So the choice is yours. What could work for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B



Give me your Research writing jobs.
The problem here is money and the aspect of financial stability already tackles that. The man has anger
issues because there's no money and the woman is sick and tired because there's no money she can't manage his condition.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:25am On Jan 29
ezechi24:


What age range are you talking about
Like 10years difference
Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by Yugoslavia247(m): 6:37am On Jan 29
EreluRoz:
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own

When a woman starts saying older men are the best especially when unmarried.

Know one thing

She is no longer marketable to younger men

Women love strong men.
Agile men.

My bro will always say this.
Any woman that has ever dated a married man or an older man can hardly date a young guy.

She wants a place with little or no commitment because this older men are either to busy with their families or just willing to pay for sex without worrying.

That is why many women who have done hk up in past or dated older men hardly find a husband

They feel those men are good but these men don't see a future with you. Not as a wife or a mother of their children.

You will keep living a life without commitment thinking is good life until your character is so spoilt that young men are irritated.

At 33 to 35 the kind of offers changes. Younger men at 35 to 45 don't want you. They see you as old cargo. Besides women age faster. Some will think you already have a family.

Men love you young except you have money they love you older...

As a coping mechanism older women like you will work with the available offers by saying older men are good.

Why not? No young man wants you.

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by EreluRoz: 6:38am On Jan 29
Yugoslavia247:


When a woman starts saying older men are the best especially when unmarried.

Know one thing

She is no longer marketable to younger men

Women love strong men.
Agile men.

My bro will always say this.
Any woman that has ever dated a married man or an older man can hardly date a young guy.

She wants a place with little or no commitment because this older men are either to busy with their families or just willing to pay for sex without worrying.

That is why many women who have done hk up in past or dated older men hardly find a husband

They feel those men are good but these men don't see a future with you. Not as a wife or a mother of their children.

You will keep living a life without commitment thinking is good life until your character is so spoilt that young men are irritated.

At 33 to 35 the kind of offers changes. Younger men at 35 to 45 don't want you. They see you as old cargo. Besides women age faster. Some will think you already have a family.

Men love you young except you have money they love you older...

As a coping mechanism older women like you will work with the available offers by saying older men are good.

Why not? No young man wants you.
Find him for me ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Re: Why Older Men Are Best For Marriage by Yugoslavia247(m): 6:51am On Jan 29
EreluRoz:
Find him for me ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Why u dey find him?

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