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| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by rafcrown(m): 5:21pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
With code? MightySparrow: |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by slymansun: 5:22pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Personally, I have been married for over 12 years and I have never cheated on my wife. But I must confess that it is not easy especially when you find yourself not in the same location with your wife( which I once experienced for about a year and half). It takes discipline, determination and the fear of God( as a Christian) to abstain. Also your premarital sexual life and preferences also matters. A man or woman that cheated premaritally is very likely to cheat in marriage. And it is more likely to happen with an ex. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by gratefulheart(m): 5:29pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Why should couple should be tempted to cheat? ebubeson: |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 5:41pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
ebubeson:Avoid over familiarity and unnecessary convo |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 5:42pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
gratefulheart:Temptation is inevitable. Even Jesus was tempted Several temptation in this life To steal, Cheat in exam hall, fight etc |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Yinkus057: 5:42pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
smokinloud:This is not the only thing I should do. There are so many men of God who have fasted and prayed all their lives yet they fall. The key word here is ur ability to be contented with what u have |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 5:45pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
smokinloud:and FLEE Prayers and fasting isn't enough |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by oluxy(m): 5:47pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
ebubeson:You are only looking for like-minded fellas with a cheating mind. Let your likeness answer you. If you are of such cheating mindset about marriage, it will be hard for you to overcome it. It's ok to know and have it in mind that, one man, one woman. A good man sees everything in his wife. In his mind, the wife is the most beautiful of all woman, Most intelligent of all, The most lovely of all, Etc.. that's if you married a good woman. I'm out. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by smokinloud(m): 5:47pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Yinkus057:asked those men of God. They'll tell you they became lazy on fasting and prayer at some point that made them fall. Christianity is a practical life not some hypothesis. The moment you stop fasting and praying the moment you start to drift back. It's very simple |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by smokinloud(m): 5:49pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
femi4:prayer and fasting is like fuel, it gives you the energy to flee. Nobody can flee on the power of the flesh |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Dminister(m): 5:50pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
toujurs:Chop knuckles bro.. This is the true reality of girls. Where will you see a girl dating a guy who has nothing in our society. They are going into relationship with the concept of what they will gain from guys. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 5:51pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
smokinloud:Which fuel You better read your bible. Even Joseph japa, and forgot his coat of many colours 1cor 18:19 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by SPAMBOX7: 5:53pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:If you can give this type of advice to your son then God will bless you. But if you can't then you dey mad and he no go better for you ![]() |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by smokinloud(m): 5:57pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
femi4:I didn't argue the fact that you have to flee with you. I only said the flesh can not flee from fleshly pleasure without spiritual force. Gal 5:17 For the flesh craves anything that opposes The Spirit and The Spirit craves whatever opposes the flesh, and they both are contrary one to another, lest you would be doing whatever you want. You have to subject the flesh to the spirit first before you can even think of fleeing |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by LastProphet: 6:10pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:NL teenagers cant understand this piece |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by freeborn02: 6:19pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:You son too should be ready to pick a boyfriend for his wife, the same way your dad helped your mom to pick a boyfriend |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by pussyphilia(m): 6:19pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:WOW... you're definitely an Alpha Female! I like you already because you understand how mother nature designed female's sexuality to be. Women are not meant to mate with one male. Men in the other hand are designed to mate with one female. Proof is that men can only ejaculate once and get tired while women can take multiple orgasms again and again and again without getting tired or having post nut clarity like men. It is patriarchal society who turned things around just to massage men's ego. They now conditioned women to believe that they shouldn't have multiple men. But alpha females who truly understand the true nature of women's sexuality don't take such rubbish from men. Polyandry is the real thing naturally while polygamy is an abberasion. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Nolevel666: 6:25pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:Profound But thing is, women easily attach sex to love. Unless you’re that man who has everything a woman would desire such that she always returns back. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by judedwriter(m): 6:25pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
smokinloud:And do not forget to read the Bible.... It's your spiritual food. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by CockPit(m): 6:26pm On Feb 01, 2024*. Modified: 7:44pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
As a married man who has had countless sex encounters over the years and realized no big deal in sex. It's not a profitable interaction for me. Don't get me wrong, if a lady is very beautiful/clean/disease-free and ready to pay me $500 for an interaction, sure, I might be tempted to re-consider but mostly I don't see what I stand to gain from random sex. Sure, body nor be firewood but I gat to use my brain to think and when the d*Ick wan rise at the sight of a beautiful girl, I use my brain to control it. many men are unfortunately controlled by their joystick, not me. I cheated twice, once with a beautiful Taiwanese girl with a big breast who came unto me and the other time with a fine white girl. I broke it off when they started loving up and wanted permanent relationships. The mumu Taiwanese girl was even trying to google Nigerian recipes on YouTube, she don find husband. I was just trying to conduct an experiment, comparing and contrasting sexual experiences with different races of women to include in a book I was writing at the time. Nothing personal Ok. Now, I am more mature and would rather hang out with my male friends where we drink, eat, and talk business all night at a bar than be tempted to hang out with a lady for sex where I give everything and get nothing in return. My life is mostly productive that way. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 6:32pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
smokinloud:Fleeing has nothing to do with spiritual forces. That's my point You don't pray n fast when you're supposed to act. More reason why Nigeria is in chaos, more focus on spiritual gymnastics without living right |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by toujurs: 6:38pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Dminister:Never deprive yourself to please a woman.
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| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Eunoiaa(f): 6:59pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
advanceDNA:I should be saying the same thing about you if we're keeping it real. .. But if it's all fun....why do u still sound so pained....Keep saying this, and maybe you'll finally convince yourself of it. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by EvangelistChuks(m): 7:04pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
THE SPIRIT OF JESUS IS THE SOLUTION.GET BORN AGAIN. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Jimafe31: 7:06pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:Oloshi |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by smokinloud(m): 7:07pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
femi4:Galatians 5:17 [17]For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. Hebrews 4:14-16 [14]Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. [15]For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin. [16]Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need. You can't act rightly on your own. You need to Christ to act right |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by CockPit(m): 7:10pm On Feb 01, 2024*. Modified: 12:59am On Jul 02, 2024 |
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| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by MightySparrow: 7:48pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
rafcrown:Yeah, you get it. No other woman has it. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by guvna(m): 7:51pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:Complete and total harlortt, LovePeddler, you should have a brothel ! If you have a man, what a pity. Stay in the brothel, you'll do well there!! |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Eunoiaa(f): 8:27pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
guvna:You think this is a gag? ![]() A brothel is a slaughterhouse for men's destinies, and a whôre's bed is an altar of purpose exchange. The only people who lose in a coven of virtue carriers are the men and I'm all for it. |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by pocohantas(f): 8:29pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:Touché! |
| Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by folake4u: 8:43pm On Feb 01, 2024 |
Eunoiaa:Proverbs 7:26 comes to mind. For she hath cast down many wounded: Yea, many strong men have been slain by her. |
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