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Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by LastProphet: 9:04pm On Feb 01
Fiscus105:
Sex is like imaginary fulfilment, the more you crave for it within you, the more your body would be seeking to make it comes to reality.

The less you give room for it in ur heart, the the less you crave for it physically.

Anything you train ur body to master, it would definitely adjust itself automatically.


Go and ask men that sleeping with their daughters, they started by not seeing anything wrong in sleeping with 2 close friends, then, 2 or more sisters , later daughter and mother, it would graduate to wife's siblings.

....... before you know, they start sleeping with daughter.


Gbam! Invaluable truth
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by LastProphet: 9:10pm On Feb 01
toujurs:
Most women you see are just sexual objects. And some men know, especially, high valued men. that's why a guy can knack a woman today and ghost her the next day. Women are very selfish and calculative, and any woman who opens her legs for you. has a motive to gain something either money or help, it's never out of love or affection. That's why i don't involve myself with all these girls crying over heartbreak. it's till you date her you will understand why the guy who dated her, dumped her. Either she was too selfish and disrespectful or greedy, or twas oo demanding, or never appreciated what she was given. yet from a broke family.

I will always advice guys to go for young girls in their early 20's, anything 30's please run. Most of these girls in their 30's are mentally and emotionally traumatized, and has trust issues.

Their greed to settle for a rich guy, while being broke, got them dumped at 35.

Men are the prize, Be wise!

completely disappointing
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Crossbow(m): 9:41pm On Feb 01
Eunoiaa:
A woman's libido is something of an astronomical nature, and therefore cannot be 'tamed.' Women only get married to fulfil all righteousness, and just to, you know, satisfy the primordial urge of a man for a fulfilment found only in marriage.

So there's nothing like managing temptation for a married woman. This is a truth all men must accept to have a happier, healthier marital life. So the best you can do when you notice that your wife has started looking outside is to pick the young men she frolics with yourself. I mean, she's not doing it for the emotional benefits, she's doing it for the physical release which you alone can not supply.

So your best bet as a man is to help her pick men who are only interested in sex, too, not a man who will want to snatch her from you.

This is the secret of men of old to their long-lasting marriages, but somehow men of nowadays did not have it handed down to them, and now they have the redpill deceiving them that they should not accept a cheating woman. Hahahahahaha. See as a man, your honor is in celebrating a cheating wife, let me tell you. Don't allow bitter young men to mislead you in losing your marriage. Stay with a cheating wife, cherish her, have her needs met by different men, and you'll glow. To marry a promiscuous woman is to marry well.


So, anyway where was I? Yes. The sexual urges of a woman to mate with as much males as possible cannot be repressed. To get married to a woman who doesn't have this urge is a recipe for disaster. So your best bet as a man is helping her to select the playing fields that she plants her juices in.

Let me stop here for now. When I remember more green pills for managing cheating as a married man, I'll edit this comment and add them.

You are funny, which kind yeye reply be this cheesy cheesy
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 9:41pm On Feb 01
smokinloud:

Galatians 5:17
[17]For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.


Hebrews 4:14-16
[14]Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession.
[15]For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
[16]Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.

You can't act rightly on your own. You need to Christ to act right
Oga, this is talking about flesh n spirit. The battle within.
Paul described such battle in Rom 7:16-20

I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16 And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17 As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18 For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.[a] For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.


It's different from the battle brother Joseph experienced.
If you are dealing with battle without, prayer won't work, just FLEE
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by smokinloud(m): 10:08pm On Feb 01
femi4:
Oga, this is talking about flesh n spirit. The battle within.
Paul described such battle in Rom 7:16-20

I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16 And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17 As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18 For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.[a] For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.


It's different from the battle brother Joseph experienced.
If you are dealing with battle without, prayer won't work, just FLEE
I'm glad we are on same page. Thanks. My emphasis is on the fact that the battle starts from within before it becomes a without thing.
You quoted the context of my point gan gan but the only thing you're missing is that the battle always starts from within and without the "willpower" to flee nobody can flee
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by femi4: 10:17pm On Feb 01
smokinloud:

I'm glad we are on same page. Thanks. My emphasis is on the fact that the battle starts from within before it becomes a without thing.
You quoted the context of my point gan gan but the only thing you're missing is that the battle always starts from within and without the "willpower" to flee nobody can flee
We no dey same page. You dey quote Bible wrongly
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Spiff20(m): 11:28pm On Feb 01
LalastiklaIa:



The world is truly ending soon. Wonders shall never end
she's joking. Can't you see the sarcasm in her write-up? Infact she was referring to men. So anywhere you see "she" replace with a "he"
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Eunoiaa(f): 11:43pm On Feb 01
Crossbow:
You are funny, which kind yeye reply be this cheesy cheesy

Ah. Finally. cheesy

A man who's a good sport.

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Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Maysdevices(f): 11:50pm On Feb 01
Spiff20:
she's joking. Can't you see the sarcasm in her write-up? Infact she was referring to men. So anywhere you see "she" replace with a "he"

What’s very funny is that they don’t know they just sound like kids to responsible men and women. There is ABSOLUTELY NO difference between you that pays for sex and you that receives money for sex. Can you tell your parents or elders you carry prostitutes as a man and they will not caution you? But no they come online to brag about it like it’s a thing to proud of


So embarrassing thay the moniker advanceDNA couldn’t see the sarcasm and still can’t in her write ups

She wrote one message and he literally had a meltdown typing several paragraphs while calling a person who never mentioned him pained while looking extremely pained himself.

Men that have access to different pussies aren’t bragging about it online, they better than to let the community know they patronize prostitutes

Keep letting everyone know you’re irresponsible and don’t know what to do with your money, one day you will grow up and realize life is not about your dick and what you dip it into cheesy


Eunoiaa kiss

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Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by YourGFsnatcher: 11:56pm On Feb 01
Eunoiaa:
A woman's libido is something of an astronomical nature, and therefore cannot be 'tamed.' Women only get married to fulfil all righteousness, and just to, you know, satisfy the primordial urge of a man for a fulfilment found only in marriage.

So there's nothing like managing temptation for a married woman. This is a truth all men must accept to have a happier, healthier marital life. So the best you can do when you notice that your wife has started looking outside is to pick the young men she frolics with yourself. I mean, she's not doing it for the emotional benefits, she's doing it for the physical release which you alone can not supply.

So your best bet as a man is to help her pick men who are only interested in sex, too, not a man who will want to snatch her from you.

This is the secret of men of old to their long-lasting marriages, but somehow men of nowadays did not have it handed down to them, and now they have the redpill deceiving them that they should not accept a cheating woman. Hahahahahaha. See as a man, your honor is in celebrating a cheating wife, let me tell you. Don't allow bitter young men to mislead you in losing your marriage. Stay with a cheating wife, cherish her, have her needs met by different men, and you'll glow. To marry a promiscuous woman is to marry well.


So, anyway where was I? Yes. The sexual urges of a woman to mate with as much males as possible cannot be repressed. To get married to a woman who doesn't have this urge is a recipe for disaster. So your best bet as a man is helping her to select the playing fields that she plants her juices in.

Let me stop here for now. When I remember more green pills for managing cheating as a married man, I'll edit this comment and add them.
Hahahaha. Have u bn cheated on?
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by kolanpas(m): 12:12am On Feb 02
It's definitely not easy, but if see cheating as a sin against your God and not against your partners, you will be more cautious, because God can see you when your partner can't. Second if you understand the punishment that awaits fornication, you will be scared of the not fall into it just for the enjoyment of 10minute.
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 2:01am On Feb 02
Eunoiaa:
A woman's libido is something of an astronomical nature, and therefore cannot be 'tamed.' Women only get married to fulfil all righteousness, and just to, you know, satisfy the primordial urge of a man for a fulfilment found only in marriage.

So there's nothing like managing temptation for a married woman. This is a truth all men must accept to have a happier, healthier marital life. So the best you can do when you notice that your wife has started looking outside is to pick the young men she frolics with yourself. I mean, she's not doing it for the emotional benefits, she's doing it for the physical release which you alone can not supply.

So your best bet as a man is to help her pick men who are only interested in sex, too, not a man who will want to snatch her from you.

This is the secret of men of old to their long-lasting marriages, but somehow men of nowadays did not have it handed down to them, and now they have the redpill deceiving them that they should not accept a cheating woman. Hahahahahaha. See as a man, your honor is in celebrating a cheating wife, let me tell you. Don't allow bitter young men to mislead you in losing your marriage. Stay with a cheating wife, cherish her, have her needs met by different men, and you'll glow. To marry a promiscuous woman is to marry well.


So, anyway where was I? Yes. The sexual urges of a woman to mate with as much males as possible cannot be repressed. To get married to a woman who doesn't have this urge is a recipe for disaster. So your best bet as a man is helping her to select the playing fields that she plants her juices in.

Let me stop here for now. When I remember more green pills for managing cheating as a married man, I'll edit this comment and add them.

Say no more pls, am already in fear of your vomits
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Kingson28: 3:16am On Feb 02
[quote author=smokinloud post=128234489][b]Pray and fast as often as you can. That's the only escape route from the flesh.


Early Church Christians FASTED TWICE every week, on Wednesday and Friday.
The Jews fasted twice weekly too, on Tuesday and Thursday.
Looking to become like Jesus Christ is the antidote to sexual sins and other sins.
Why most people don’t feel disgusted by sex baffles me.
The unsightly looks of the female private parts should restrain men from craving to dive into that black, dark PIT, not to imagine putting their mouths to lick and suck it.
Some men are really beasts.
Please, let me stop here.
Don’t make me VOMIT.
If you lick plate or blow male pipe, you’re somewhat SUB-HUMAN.
You belong in the zoo, in the wild.
Whew.
Repent.
Receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour today.
Hell is real.
Jesus Christ is coming soon.

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Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Eunoiaa(f): 9:06am On Feb 02
Maysdevices:
Eunoiaa kiss

kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by drlateef: 9:45am On Feb 02
Eunoiaa:
A woman's libido is something of an astronomical nature, and therefore cannot be 'tamed.' Women only get married to fulfil all righteousness, and just to, you know, satisfy the primordial urge of a man for a fulfilment found only in marriage.

So there's nothing like managing temptation for a married woman. This is a truth all men must accept to have a happier, healthier marital life. So the best you can do when you notice that your wife has started looking outside is to pick the young men she frolics with yourself. I mean, she's not doing it for the emotional benefits, she's doing it for the physical release which you alone can not supply.

So your best bet as a man is to help her pick men who are only interested in sex, too, not a man who will want to snatch her from you.

This is the secret of men of old to their long-lasting marriages, but somehow men of nowadays did not have it handed down to them, and now they have the redpill deceiving them that they should not accept a cheating woman. Hahahahahaha. See as a man, your honor is in celebrating a cheating wife, let me tell you. Don't allow bitter young men to mislead you in losing your marriage. Stay with a cheating wife, cherish her, have her needs met by different men, and you'll glow. To marry a promiscuous woman is to marry well.


So, anyway where was I? Yes. The sexual urges of a woman to mate with as much males as possible cannot be repressed. To get married to a woman who doesn't have this urge is a recipe for disaster. So your best bet as a man is helping her to select the playing fields that she plants her juices in.

Let me stop here for now. When I remember more green pills for managing cheating as a married man, I'll edit this comment and add them.



I am 100% sure you are being sarcastic. It is a rarity for any woman to have the urge for more than one man. Except if the man is absent both physically and emotionally to her.
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by Mummiesboy: 10:09am On Feb 02
The way I have been scaling through this temptation of a thing is, any time I crave for sex aside my wife l always think of the harsh economy
Re: Married Couples: How Do You Cope With Temptation To Cheat? by ArcToyin(m): 11:37am On Feb 02
By staying rooted in Jesus.

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