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Wealthoptulent:
it DOESNT matter anymore in the MARRIAGE if e no FOLLOW EFFECT of MARRYINGHER in the fess PLACE.

ibinaboonline:
In other words, she loves the idea of you, but not you. When that thing about you is gone, there goes the love.

absolutely bro

You dey see wetin I dey see? Problem dey o.

Starboytwo:
Na wa ooo

Married people no fit answer simple question?

Sha aiye ma marry bayi

LoL. Sounds like things went a bit downhill after the wedding. Now, "I love you" is laced with suspicions of ulterior motives. 😀

ravensckar:
I and my wife did say it to each other a lot before marriage, but thinking of it now, it's kinda weird just waking up in the morning and telling her that I love her. She'll definitely know that I'm up to something.

And if she on her part says the words to me, then I'll suspect too that she's up to something. Perhaps, she wants to empty my wallet.

In summary, saying I love you isn't just our thing in Africa. But for those of us who love our spouse, we always have a way of showing it.

PS- below is what I love you in marriage sounds like in Africa.

Yep, keep telling yourself that.

RaySimran:
It's respect not love; that's what men need.

She didn't. SHE DIDN'T.

Dtruthspeaker:
No she didn't. but i knew, she did.

Love is the least factor when considering a partner for marriage. Like them and be attracted to them but love is not compulsory. What is even love?

This comment shows how messed up things are.

zed7:
Love is the least factor when considering a partner for marriage. Like them and be attracted to them but love is not compulsory. What is even love?

ibinaboonline:
This comment shows how messed up things are.

You're a child, love is not required in marriage. Only children think this way. What you need is compatibility, respect, tolerance, shared values and attraction.

Women don't love men

Depends on your perception of love. Even many adults think of love as some sentimental feelings. Love is value. With all your compatibility and respect, your woman doesn't value what you have together at the level where she can freely open her mouth and say, "I love you." Am I been childish? Maybe. But any thinking person knows this is a big deal. Why can't our women open their mouths and say to a man, I love you?

zed7:
You're a child, love is not required in marriage. Only children think this way. What you need is compatibility, respect, tolerance, shared values and attraction.

What question lol

So says Agba Twitter 😀

Vintage9999:
Women don't love men

ibinaboonline:
Depends on your perception of love. Even many adults think of love as some sentimental feelings. Love is value. With all your compatibility and respect, your woman doesn't value what you have together at the level where she can freely open her mouth and say, "I love you." Am I been childish? Maybe. But any thinking person knows this is a big deal. Why can't our women open their mouths and say to a man, I love you?

What the media sold to you as love is a scam. Stop watching romance movies. We like people and are attracted to them. If we loved them, then we wouldn't have break ups and divorce.

Love doesn't fade. Love for kids is innate from birth, that's undying love, we can't control it. Any other love is not love, it's just likeness and attraction. I don't need anyone to tell me they love me, except my kids. So called love by the opposite sex isn't love.

zed7:
What the media sold to you as love is a scam. Stop watching romance movies. We like people and are attracted to them. If we loved them, then we wouldn't have break ups and divorce.

Love doesn't fade. Love for kids is innate from birth, that's undying love, we can't control it. Any other love is not love, it's just likeness and attraction. I don't need anyone to tell me they love me, except my kids. So called love by the opposite sex isn't love.

love fades, dies, cam be killed etc.

Parents dont actually love their children God just forces patents to do the good to them which is why immediately the child is grown, they both become free.

But love is a gift given by God which.is why.we.say "when love comes". But people can manufacture their own love and when they are tired of producing it, it would go away like GSK.

ibinaboonline:
So says Agba Twitter 😀

its true! women dont love men. Actually, they hate men as jennyclay and co clearly show you but all others are hiding it.

And women hate men because they found that the bible was right for they saw God left them in the very day they lost their virginity (thats why you must have seen or heard about some girls running to church and praying desperately after sex). But God never answered them and after that they became the evil whorrs you see.

Meanwhile, the man looks like he has not yet fallen after the same sex, so they think God is unfair, and that is why they.hate both God and men.

zed7:
You're a child, love is not required in marriage. Only children think this way. What you need is compatibility, respect, tolerance, shared values and attraction.

U only ended up listing the attributes of a person thats in love .....
Person wey no love u cannot truly tolerate you, cannot truly respect you, cannot be attracted to you........ They can fake it either becos of money they are getting from you or other gains but it will only be for a while......

U are likely being short changed if u are living with a man or woman that has no feelings for you....

It's a self assembling time bomb waiting for the right ingredient to explode....

I don't need anyone to tell me they love me, except my kids. So called love by the opposite sex isn't love.

Whatever gives you peace of mind 😊.

love is a scam... We like people and are attracted to them...

Here, you might've just explained why your wife never said she loved you and vice versa.

Love for kids is innate from birth, that's undying love, we can't control it.

And in your mind, a woman can't love you this way. Why am I not surprised?

zed7:
What the media sold to you as love is a scam. Stop watching romance movies. We like people and are attracted to them. If we loved them, then we wouldn't have break ups and divorce.

Love doesn't fade. Love for kids is innate from birth, that's undying love, we can't control it. Any other love is not love, it's just likeness and attraction. I don't need anyone to tell me they love me, except my kids. So called love by the opposite sex isn't love.