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Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 7:54pm On Feb 15
Good evening all,
pls someone should me because I can't think straight again since morning. I met a girl month ago, she has been on neck to have s*x with her for the past month but I always declined, at times I do reach the point but I always stop, but today's own was different cus I couldn't hold it any longer. Though it was not upto 2 minutes sex before I realized that the economy is not smiling but everything was inside already. After the s*x I contacted some people on what she can take, they recommended beecham and teem solar including the said girl, now she is feeling lizzy.
Pls I don't know what to do, I can't think straight at the moment.

This is my first time having sex and it will be the last for now

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by MidasTouch15: 8:02pm On Feb 15
You are the one that needs drugs because you are sick

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by guyboss: 8:03pm On Feb 15
you dont have any problems for now chief.

Go and sin no more.

Let the words of Ezekiel 18:21 guide you.
But ponder on verse 20 fess make you for get small sense.

all the same, you got no problems.
Thought someone died.

Thinktwiceb4:
Good evening all,
pls someone should me because I can't think straight again since morning. I met a girl month ago, she has been on neck to have s*x with her for the past month but I always declined, at times I do reach the point but I always stop, but today's own was different cus I couldn't hold it any longer. Though it was not upto 2 minutes sex before I realized that the economy is not smiling but everything was inside already. After the s*x I contacted some people on what she can take, they recommended beecham and teem solar including the said girl, now she is feeling lizzy.
Pls I don't know what to do, I can't think straight at the moment.

This is my first time having sex and it will be the last for now
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by GboyegaD(m): 8:08pm On Feb 15
I am trying to understand the challenge. You had unprotected sex and you are concerned about what she should use? I will say you should be hopeful she isn't planning to pin a baby on you. Keep the calendar date and should she come in another 2 to 3 weeks that she missed her period, you can take it from there.

Please, do not create any complications for the future. The deed has been done, just relax.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 8:08pm On Feb 15
guyboss:
you dont have any problems for now chief.

Go and sin no more.

Let the words of Ezekiel 18:21 guide you.
But ponder on verse 20 fess make you for get small sense.

all the same, you got no problems.
Thought someone died.



Boss is just that I don't want to get any body pregnant at the moment, and I'm so scared that even the girl is still laughing at me but I'm the only one that knows the consequence
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Blackestjunior(m): 8:11pm On Feb 15
grin

Bleepp

Most of these girls are s3x starved, that was how 1 that toasted me the first day she came to my apartment, lol she was literally begging me to bang her, she asked if I had CD I said no, she insisted we do F2F...most of em are s3x starved. So thread with caution nxt time before they damage ur life

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 8:13pm On Feb 15
GboyegaD:
I am trying to understand the challenge. You had unprotected sex and you are concerned about what she should use? I will say you should be hopeful she isn't planning to pin a baby on you. Keep the calendar date and should she come in another 2 to 3 weeks that she missed her period, you can take it from there.

Please, do not create any complications for the future. The deed has been done, just relax.

I just want to know whether the beecham can work well because from my research, is for antibiotics and at the same time I don't want to give someone's daughter hard drugs
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Caaz: 8:39pm On Feb 15
Gboskii
GboyegaD:
I am trying to understand the challenge. You had unprotected sex and you are concerned about what she should use? I will say you should be hopeful she isn't planning to pin a baby on you. Keep the calendar date and should she come in another 2 to 3 weeks that she missed her period, you can take it from there.

Please, do not create any complications for the future. The deed has been done, just relax.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by misreal(m): 8:52pm On Feb 15
Oga they want to pin pregnancy on you grin
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Abcruz(m): 9:09pm On Feb 15
Start saving for baby food and pampers.

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Foodqueen(f): 9:56pm On Feb 15
She's feeling "Lizzy".... Meaning

Is she pregnant already, just after the 2mins sex.

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by SUPERPACK: 10:00pm On Feb 15
Thinktwiceb4:


I just want to know whether the beecham can work well because from my research, is for antibiotics and at the same time I don't want to give someone's daughter hard drugs
Becham or whatever doesnt work. Go to a good pharmacy and ask them to give you MORNING AFTER PILL. Take note, the effectiveness depends on how soon she takes it.

Go and sin no more.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by GboyegaD(m): 10:04pm On Feb 15
Thinktwiceb4:


I just want to know whether the beecham can work well because from my research, is for antibiotics and at the same time I don't want to give someone's daughter hard drugs

Do not complicate your issues. It is unfortunate the act has been done. If she chooses to do anything, so be it. That said, have you heard of Postinor2? If the intercourse is less than 72hours and your religious belief permits you to, then you can suggest it to her to use it as an after the act measure of preventing pregnancy.

That said, I am still surprised you are not bothered about the health implications of diving raw with someone you have no idea what her background is.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by GboyegaD(m): 10:05pm On Feb 15
Caaz:
Gboskii

Ma, how and where have you been?

Foodqueen:
She's feeling "Lizzy".... Meaning

Is she pregnant already, just after the 2mins sex.

She might be and be trying to push it to our Obote brother. The best he can do is to give it time and see what she is up to.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Caaz: 10:08pm On Feb 15
GboyegaD:


Ma, how and where have you been?



She might be and be trying to push it to our Obote brother. The best he can do is to give it time and see what she is up to.
Gboskii I de Sha....
The food thread nor be fun again because of e'jo🪱🪱🪱 and his multiple alternates.

Trust you all are doing great.
Warmest regards.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by GboyegaD(m): 10:15pm On Feb 15
Caaz:

Gboskii I de Sha....
The food thread nor be fun again because of e'jo🪱🪱🪱 and his multiple alternates.

Trust you all are doing great.
Warmest regards.

We are doing our best, living it a day at a time. I usually post on the food thread on weekends when I am home. I cook on weekdays but not sure I have the luxury of posting on there during the week. That said, you can always breeze in and not respond to mentions you feel you don't want to.

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by liveyourlife007(m): 10:26pm On Feb 15
We all Live a Life of Sin . Nobody's perfect. But learn from your mistake IMMEDIATELY AND MAKE AMENDS.

What Op experienced is nothing new. I have a similar experience.

One day, Like Six months ago. I met one girl in a Beer parlour ( worst place to meet a life partner) I toast this girl, with Highness, then she said yes. Immediately. I was not surprised. I'm extremely good looking.

Then the next day she came to my apartment. We had sex. The next thing she started complaining about her boyfriend, she had told me she's in a relationship but she's not in Love with the guy.

My plan is just to have sex with this girl and move on with my life, but all of a sudden this babe started catching feelings ( who get time for relationship)

Sometimes after work, she will lie to her guy that she won't be coming home that she will sleep at her friends. Thats whenever I wanna have an overnight with her.

Then one day she called me around 11:00pm , that she's coming to my side. That she had a misunderstanding with her guy. When she came i asked her what happened then she explained that her man usually drink alcohol and when this guy gets high they always quarrel and sometimes the guy hits her.
Then she said she wants to be staying with me for sometime. I said no problem

Gradually she started moving in , few clothes today, and some more tomorrow.

I was already feeling uncomfortable, I'm used to my solipsistic life.

T.B.C.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by sonssyo: 10:27pm On Feb 15
Thinktwiceb4:
Good evening all,
pls someone should me because I can't think straight again since morning. I met a girl month ago, she has been on neck to have s*x with her for the past month but I always declined, at times I do reach the point but I always stop, but today's own was different cus I couldn't hold it any longer. Though it was not upto 2 minutes sex before I realized that the economy is not smiling but everything was inside already. After the s*x I contacted some people on what she can take, they recommended beecham and teem solar including the said girl, now she is feeling lizzy.
Pls I don't know what to do, I can't think straight at the moment.

This is my first time having sex and it will be the last for now

Think twice grin u no use your name well oo,I for tell you oo but can't at the moment ooo.
That babe wan pin you down,I be woman,she just want to use belle nail you down.
Think twice before using your device next time. If she come around saying she is pregnant,tell her to run a scan, but before that tell her you marked the date you had intercourse with her, so that she will know that you are on ground.
Women are terrible cheesy

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by KanuSE: 10:35pm On Feb 15
Caaz:

Gboskii I de Sha....
The food thread nor be fun again because of e'jo🪱🪱🪱 and his multiple alternates.

Trust you all are doing great.
Warmest regards.

Lol 🤣 Gboyega asked you 'how & where have you been', instead of you to say you're serving a long ban for being naughty, you begin dey yarn okpata....olodo! grin

Attention seeker oshi! grin
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 10:42pm On Feb 15
SUPERPACK:
Becham or whatever doesnt work. Go to a good pharmacy and ask them to give you MORNING AFTER PILL. Take note, the effectiveness depends on how soon she takes it.

Go and sin no more.


Thanks boss
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Caaz: 10:52pm On Feb 15
GboyegaD:


We are doing our best, living it a day at a time. I usually post on the food thread on weekends when I am home. I cook on weekdays but not sure I have the luxury of posting on there during the week. That said, you can always breeze in and not respond to mentions you feel you don't want to.
Aptly said gboskii.
Towncriers are Gon cry ceaselessly cheesy cheesy
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 10:59pm On Feb 15
sonssyo:


Think twice grin u no use your name well oo,I for tell you oo but can't at the moment ooo.
That babe wan pin you down,I be woman,she just want to use belle nail you down.
Think twice before using your device next time. If she come around saying she is pregnant,tell her to run a scan, but before that tell her you marked the date you had intercourse with her, so that she will know that you are on ground.
Women are terrible cheesy


Noted, thanks

According to her now, the test that she took this early morning shows that she is pregnant
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Tayorshd87: 11:00pm On Feb 15
MidasTouch15:
You are the one that needs drugs because you are sick
grin

He is really sick 😷🤢 and unhealthy I swear 😂
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 11:00pm On Feb 15
GboyegaD:


Do not complicate your issues. It is unfortunate the act has been done. If she chooses to do anything, so be it. That said, have you heard of Postinor2? If the intercourse is less than 72hours and your religious belief permits you to, then you can suggest it to her to use it as an after the act measure of preventing pregnancy.

That said, I am still surprised you are not bothered about the health implications of diving raw with someone you have no idea what her background is.


Boss, I'm concern about both
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Tayorshd87: 11:05pm On Feb 15
liveyourlife007:
We all Live a Life of Sin . Nobody's perfect. But learn from your mistake IMMEDIATELY AND MAKE AMENDS.

What Op experienced is nothing new. I have a similar experience.

One day, Like Six months ago. I met one girl in a Beer parlour ( worst place to meet a life partner) I toast this girl, with Highness, then she said yes. Immediately. I was not surprised. I'm extremely good looking.

Then the next day she came to my apartment. We had sex. The next thing she started complaining about her boyfriend, she had told me she's in a relationship but she's not in Love with the guy.

My plan is just to have sex with this girl and move on with my life, but all of a sudden this babe started catching feelings ( who get time for relationship)

Sometimes after work, she will lie to her guy that she won't be coming home that she will sleep at her friends. Thats whenever I wanna have an overnight with her.

Then one day she called me around 11:00pm , that she's coming to my side. That she had a misunderstanding with her guy. When she came i asked her what happened then she explained that her man usually drink alcohol and when this guy gets high they always quarrel and sometimes the guy hits her.
Then she said she wants to be staying with me for sometime. I said no problem

Gradually she started moving in , few clothes today, and some more tomorrow.

I was already feeling uncomfortable, I'm used to my solipsistic life.

T.B.C.



You don marry without bride price be that congratulations 👏🎉
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by CHRISTFUCKER: 4:46am On Feb 16
Fork her again but rub aboniki balm on her preek before doing the do
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 7:46am On Feb 16
Foodqueen:
She's feeling "Lizzy".... Meaning

Is she pregnant already, just after the 2mins sex.

According to her this morning, that she is pregnant According from the result she did this early morning, I don't know how possible
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Kajaard: 7:57am On Feb 16
Thinktwiceb4:


According to her this morning, that she is pregnant According from the result she did this early morning, I don't know how possible

Are you this dumb or naive? You had sex with a girl not up to a month and she tells you she is pregnant?
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thinktwiceb4: 8:00am On Feb 16
Kajaard:


Are you this dumb or naive? You had sex with a girl not up to a month and she tells you she is pregnant?

I don't know her own reason of trying to do this, this should be 24hrs
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:06am On Feb 16
Thinktwiceb4:



Boss is just that I don't want to get any body pregnant at the moment, and I'm so scared that even the girl is still laughing at me but I'm the only one that knows the consequence

The good thing for you is that the girl may be experiencing her ovulation this period grin, congratulations papa junior grin

If it has past a certain period there is nothing you can do, just wait and see what happens. No matter r the sweetness of sex never you insert your penis raw to any woman you are not interested in having babies and have not vetted her sexual cleanliness through medical evaluation. This is to help protect you from unwanted pregnancy and STDs.

See how she is laughing at you but when it happens and you can't take care of the baby and her she will be the first to eat you raw, that's how life is.

Always think when it comes to issues with ladies because most are alien to accountability and that accountability will fall on you alone.

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Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by liveyourlife007(m): 9:25am On Feb 16
Tayorshd87:



You don marry without bride price be that congratulations 👏🎉

I'm not done with my story.
So this girl started moving in gradually and she spent almost a month in my house.
The things I noticed about her.
Few days after she moved in , she stopped working at the beer parlour. That she had issue with her boss. And me thats managing one Small Job in a supermarket. I will leave early in the morning when I come back at night I will meet her smoking ICE. Then she will start disturbing me that she wants sex.

Me that just want to sleep, wake up the next day and go to work. She won't let me sleep with " baby please come and bleep me"
With all these , my regard for her dropped to Zero.
Then the next morning I told her to give me space that she should Leave my place. It's fine if she wants to come once in a while, but staying together as couples is not a good idea. She felt offended, but I had to reason with her that it is for the best.
I took the spare key from her and told her to leave, then I went to work.

Surprisingly when I came back from work at night, she was still around. My neighbor had accommodated her.
Immediately I placed her on block list. Especially the one that took her in too, cos I learnt it was a planned work.
What's my business with them, they are all bird's of same feather. jobless fools.
Re: Help, My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Tayorshd87: 10:57am On Feb 16
liveyourlife007:


I'm not done with my story.
So this girl started moving in gradually and she spent almost a month in my house.
The things I noticed about her.
Few days after she moved in , she stopped working at the beer parlour. That she had issue with her boss. And me thats managing one Small Job in a supermarket. I will leave early in the morning when I come back at night I will meet her smoking ICE. Then she will start disturbing me that she wants sex.

Me that just want to sleep, wake up the next day and go to work. She won't let me sleep with " baby please come and bleep me"
With all these , my regard for her dropped to Zero.
Then the next morning I told her to give me space that she should Leave my place. It's fine if she wants to come once in a while, but staying together as couples is not a good idea. She felt offended, but I had to reason with her that it is for the best.
I took the spare key from her and told her to leave, then I went to work.

Surprisingly when I came back from work at night, she was still around. My neighbor had accommodated her.
Immediately I placed her on block list. Especially the one that took her in too, cos I learnt it was a planned work.
What's my business with them, they are all bird's of same feather. jobless fools.

Good idea I love your style because if u didn't try to stop such moves my brother if she eventually pregnant for u ehn it is finished 😢

Just don't dull

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