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"How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by johnnywalker131(m): 3:19pm On Apr 22
Wickedness also lies in the hearts of little children, you would be surprised what these kids are capable of doing

This just brings back memories of an ugly incident that happened many many years ago when I went for holidays at my aunts place , there was this little girl who happened to be the daughter to my aunt’s friend , can’t even remember her name …she was so playful and outspoken for her age and everybody commended that , she would say things you would never expect her to say being the little girl that she is and everybody liked her. On this fateful day, this girl had tried being playful around me and I really was in a bad mood at the time so I shunned her. Out of the blues, My aunt and this girl’s mother summoned me for a talk, I got in the room and the girl was there, my aunt asked "what have you been doing with her(the girl)"

I was taken aback by the question cause it didn’t make sense to me ..I answered and said , "I don’t understand Ma", then she asked the little girl to repeat what she just told them and when she started talking, I just stared In disbelief cause I couldn’t wrap my head around what I was hearing and immediately I knew I was in trouble …her words “this uncle came into our room and locked the door, he pushed me on the bed and started touching me and told me not to tell anybody that he likes me" Haaaaaa!!! was the only thing I could say because I was dumbfounded and scared at the same time, I almost burst into tears �, they thought I wanted to cry because I was guilty… I was teary because how on earth was I going to convince anybody that this little girl was lying. She gave such specific and exact details that I was almost doubting myself, if I were a random person listening to this , I would 100% believe this girl, I just went on my knees and I was swearing by everything I believed in but I could see from their faces that nobody believed me.

Till date I’ve not yet figured if someone put her up to it or she came up with that herself , that was the last time I saw my aunt, the little girl and her mom , I never visited again…she’s dead now, she died of cancer …May her soul Rest In Peace ….it’s sad that she died having it at the back of her mind that I was that kind of person, pretty sure that little girl would be way grown up probably in the university by now, a lil note if she ever comes across this story which she probably wouldn’t remember, “you almost ruined my life“ From that day to this day, little kids scare me more than adults …the devil lives in little children!!!! Never forget!

source: Twitter @InvestorKpk

https://twitter.com/InvestorKpk/status/1517492718645174272?t=9miAe-vRHJNXp9q8uKQQSw&s=19

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mummytoo: 3:25pm On Apr 22
Quite unfortunate, forgive her from the bottom of your heart

Thank God the matter didn't escalate

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by bmdmix11: 3:44pm On Apr 22
Wat a hoe she was

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by RSVP: 3:47pm On Apr 22
Same thing happened to me long time ago .

A neighbor daughter said I molested her and the story has circulated around almost half of the people in our neighborhood was looking at me somehow but I never knew until her father came to tell my pman one faithful morning... Oboy! I was shocked and couldn't believe a lil girl would came up with such story... I carried the stigma for many years cuz I don't even know what to say to defend myself...Those little demon can lie oo.... Someone may have done that but NOT ME!
That's why I casually play with kids especially those little jezebel.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Benki003(m): 3:47pm On Apr 22
Had a similar experience angry angry

Lemme not talk before them go call me………….

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kimiso(m): 3:52pm On Apr 22
johnnywalker131:
Wickedness also lies in the hearts of little children, you would be surprised what these kids are capable of doing

This just brings back memories of an ugly incident that happened many many years ago when I went for holidays at my aunts place , there was this little girl who happened to be the daughter to my aunt’s friend , can’t even remember her name …she was so playful and outspoken for her age and everybody commended that , she would say things you would never expect her to say being the little girl that she is and everybody liked her. On this fateful day, this girl had tried being playful around me and I really was in a bad mood at the time so I shunned her. Out of the blues, My aunt and this girl’s mother summoned me for a talk, I got in the room and the girl was there, my aunt asked "what have you been doing with her(the girl)"

I was taken aback by the question cause it didn’t make sense to me ..I answered and said , "I don’t understand Ma", then she asked the little girl to repeat what she just told them and when she started talking, I just stared In disbelief cause I couldn’t wrap my head around what I was hearing and immediately I knew I was in trouble …her words “this uncle came into our room and locked the door, he pushed me on the bed and started touching me and told me not to tell anybody that he likes me" Haaaaaa!!! was the only thing I could say because I was dumbfounded and scared at the same time, I almost burst into tears �, they thought I wanted to cry because I was guilty… I was teary because how on earth was I going to convince anybody that this little girl was lying. She gave such specific and exact details that I was almost doubting myself, if I were a random person listening to this , I would 100% believe this girl, I just went on my knees and I was swearing by everything I believed in but I could see from their faces that nobody believed me.

Till date I’ve not yet figured if someone put her up to it or she came up with that herself , that was the last time I saw my aunt, the little girl and her mom , I never visited again…she’s dead now, she died of cancer …May her soul Rest In Peace ….it’s sad that she died having it at the back of her mind that I was that kind of person, pretty sure that little girl would be way grown up probably in the university by now, a lil note if she ever comes across this story which she probably wouldn’t remember, “you almost ruined my life“ From that day to this day, little kids scare me more than adults …the devil lives in little children!!!! Never forget!

source: Twitter @InvestorKpk
be thankful to god

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by yanabasee(m): 4:09pm On Apr 22
I would say... how old was this girl?

No little girl will know such a thing to say if it never happened ...

And if she's a little girl of about 10yrs below I believe her....

If she's a little girl of above 14yrs.. then I believe the Op....


I fear women alot... They have that evil thought of accusing anyone of rape.....


I fact, there was a time that any girl I met and wants to get serious with, will always have a story of how she was raped by her uncle or relative or neighbor or a male friend she trusted or even her ex boy friend....


A simple story...

In my estate, there this security guard that would stop one teenage girl from visiting one single lawyer.... The security guard is an old man... He will always embarrassed the girl in front of her school mates when they're returning from school... And will always threatened to report her to her parents...

One day, while she was returning from church with her parents, they stopped and called the police and the security guard was picked...

The case was reported to me and I mediated on it...

Believe me, she accused this man of always asking her out and even showed her pants that he tore on one occasion when she went out to buy something and he stopped her and dragged her.. ..


She humbled the man and he was ridiculed... Truthfully, he never did any of those things... Investigation set in, all the accusations were followed... the days she mentioned, the man wasn't on duty... And the lawyer was arrested and he was the one that told the girl to frame the man up so he'd let her be....

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by DoctorOlasDesk: 4:31pm On Apr 22
johnnywalker131:
Wickedness also lies in the hearts of little children, you would be surprised what these kids are capable of doing

This just brings back memories of an ugly incident that happened many many years ago when I went for holidays at my aunts place , there was this little girl who happened to be the daughter to my aunt’s friend , can’t even remember her name …she was so playful and outspoken for her age and everybody commended that , she would say things you would never expect her to say being the little girl that she is and everybody liked her. On this fateful day, this girl had tried being playful around me and I really was in a bad mood at the time so I shunned her. Out of the blues, My aunt and this girl’s mother summoned me for a talk, I got in the room and the girl was there, my aunt asked "what have you been doing with her(the girl)"

I was taken aback by the question cause it didn’t make sense to me ..I answered and said , "I don’t understand Ma", then she asked the little girl to repeat what she just told them and when she started talking, I just stared In disbelief cause I couldn’t wrap my head around what I was hearing and immediately I knew I was in trouble …her words “this uncle came into our room and locked the door, he pushed me on the bed and started touching me and told me not to tell anybody that he likes me" Haaaaaa!!! was the only thing I could say because I was dumbfounded and scared at the same time, I almost burst into tears �, they thought I wanted to cry because I was guilty… I was teary because how on earth was I going to convince anybody that this little girl was lying. She gave such specific and exact details that I was almost doubting myself, if I were a random person listening to this , I would 100% believe this girl, I just went on my knees and I was swearing by everything I believed in but I could see from their faces that nobody believed me.

Till date I’ve not yet figured if someone put her up to it or she came up with that herself , that was the last time I saw my aunt, the little girl and her mom , I never visited again…she’s dead now, she died of cancer …May her soul Rest In Peace ….it’s sad that she died having it at the back of her mind that I was that kind of person, pretty sure that little girl would be way grown up probably in the university by now, a lil note if she ever comes across this story which she probably wouldn’t remember, “you almost ruined my life“ From that day to this day, little kids scare me more than adults …the devil lives in little children!!!! Never forget!

source: Twitter @InvestorKpk



I've been there. A 16 year old house help went on ranting rampage to the police station. I slept in the cell self. We must grant people the opportunity to defend themselves regardless of the info about them

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by dominique(f): 7:42pm On Apr 22
yanabasee:
I would say... how old was this girl?

No little girl will know such a thing to say if it never happened ...

And if she's a little girl of about 10yrs below I believe her....

If she's a little girl of above 14yrs.. then I believe the Op....


I fear women alot... They have that evil thought of accusing anyone of rape.....


I fact, there was a time that any girl I met and wants to get serious with, will always have a story of how she was raped by her uncle or relative or neighbor or a male friend she trusted or even her ex boy friend....


A simple story...

In my estate, there this security guard that would stop one teenage girl from visiting one single lawyer.... The security guard is an old man... He will always embarrassed the girl in front of her school mates when they're returning from school... And will always threatened to report her to her parents...

One day, while she was returning from church with her parents, they stopped and called the police and the security guard was picked...

The case was reported to me and I mediated on it...

Believe me, she accused this man of always asking her out and even showed her pants that he tore on one occasion when she went out to buy something and he stopped her and dragged her.. ..


She humbled the man and he was ridiculed... Truthfully, he never did any of those things... Investigation set in, all the accusations were followed... the days she mentioned, the man wasn't on duty... And the lawyer was arrested and he was the one that told the girl to frame the man up so he'd let her be....

It's the way you men absolve yourselves of any wrongdoing for me. You said fear women then went on to say it was the lawyer that made the girl set the security man up. If there's anybody we should be fearing, it's the pedophile lawyer who wants to ruin the lives of both the girl and the security guard but you passively mentioned him as if what he's doing is not out of the ordinary. For every wayward corrupt girl out there, there's a man that made her that way. Swallow that with your red pill

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Rootprof(m): 9:53pm On Apr 22
My own case is a bit different.. in the year 2004 I was staying in a big church compound, my mom, I and 4 small children aged between 3-7. Also an envagelist was staying in the next room opposite us, the house is actually a 4 bedroom flat, we occupied 3 rooms and the man use the remaining one room.
One faithful day my mom travelled on Thursday morning, the youths of my church do have vigil every last Friday of the month and there was this girl that do come to assist my mom at times. So after the vigil that day she came to our apartment to sleep till day break, when she woke up she clean the house and left. Getting to school on Monday the girl came to me crying that the evangelist told her parents that he saw us nacking shocked . After school I went home and told my mom what the girl said ( me knowing fully nothing like that happened ).
Brethren I was dumbfounded when my mom confront the man and he claimed yes he saw us, he even carried bible to swear. I was confused like abi I did it I don't know ni, my mom was like my boy tell me the truth did you do it cos you can see the man swearing with bible. I insisted that nothing like that happened. Then my mom told the man she will take the matter to the authorities.

Then the man kneel down and said he is sorry he never saw us only thought I was with her when he returned home in the morning and couldn't find anyone around except me. Girl wey don comot our house since around 6am fa. Till we leave that house me and the man no gree at all. Proper investigation needs to be carried out all the time before conclusion.

Taiye where ever you are, though I'm not responsible for the pains you pass through then but like Akon said you can put the blame on me. I wish you best of life.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Lamanii22(f): 10:25pm On Apr 22
Rootprof:
My own case is a bit different.. in the year 2004 I was staying in a big church compound, my mom, I and 4 small children aged between 3-7. Also an envagelist was staying in the next room opposite us, the house is actually a 4 bedroom flat, we occupied 3 rooms and the man use the remaining one room.
One faithful day my mom travelled on Thursday morning, the youths of my church do have vigil every last Friday of the month and there was this girl that do come to assist my mom at times. So after the vigil that day she came to our apartment to sleep till day break, when she woke up she clean the house and left. Getting to school on Monday the girl came to me crying that the evangelist told her parents that he saw us nacking shocked . After school I went home and told my mom what the girl said ( me knowing fully nothing like that happened ).
Brethren I was dumbfounded when my mom confront the man and he claimed yes he saw us, he even carried bible to swear. I was confused like abi I did it I don't know ni, my mom was like my boy tell me the truth did you do it cos you can see the man swearing with bible. I insisted that nothing like that happened. Then my mom told the man she will take the matter to the authorities.

Then the man kneel down and said he is sorry he never saw us only thought I was with her when he returned home in the morning and couldn't find anyone around except me. Girl wey don comot our house since around 6am fa. Till we leave that house me and the man no gree at all. Proper investigation needs to be carried out all the time before conclusion.

Taiye where ever you are, though I'm not responsible for the pains you pass through then but like Akon said you can put the blame on me. I wish you best of life.
omoooor, such a cruel evangelist ooo

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Lamanii22(f): 10:30pm On Apr 22
Omooor…. Even boys have their own ordeal…. I have never experienced anything rape not even in my neighborhood cause we grew up with strict parents and we turned out good…. If a neighbor sees you with any boy lasan they would quickly go and give your mom info…. What would come next won’t be funny at all….. It’s not easy to forgive someone who accused you wrongfully but find it in your hearts to forgive…

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by victons(m): 7:15pm On Apr 23
Uhmmm...this is shocking.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by BoluwatifeNG(f): 7:15pm On Apr 23
Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by simpleseyi: 7:16pm On Apr 23
Too bad.

You should have dragged everybody to the shrine. When the little witch sees the gods, she will start peeing on her self. Maybe Fulani herdsmen have finally raped her to death as she wished several years back or she might have aborted a pregnancy for one of her Sugar daddies and end up in the grave.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by inoki247: 7:16pm On Apr 23
Wahala jus too much for this world....


innocent kid wey u think say you jus wan play with don turn witch wey wan ruin your life and re arrange your journey....


You avoid adult na war you play with kids na war this wahala don dey too much for human being...

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Valkan(m): 7:16pm On Apr 23
The truth is girls nowadays grow up so fast but everyone has forgotten the main issue here, how can a little girl like that narrate stuff like that with plenty attention to detail

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by ImoleNaija: 7:16pm On Apr 23
Kids, as lovely as they are, could be deadly at times. That's why I am always careful around them, because people would (except in some cases) take whatever they say over yours.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by We4all: 7:16pm On Apr 23
Hmmn.. The greatest liars are children and it pisses me off when people say that they don’t lie.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by emaxjey(m): 7:17pm On Apr 23
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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mustiboy(m): 7:17pm On Apr 23
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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by emmabest2000(m): 7:17pm On Apr 23
I don't know why some people are surprised about all this kind of news / stories
Even that s"x video of 10 years old girl ,
It's not about this present generation
It has been happening since God knows when ,
The only difference is that, we have social media now which make it easier for people to come across this kinds of stuffs

In those days it hardly make it to the newspapers or radio stations

Social media has it advantages and disadvantages

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Realists(m): 7:17pm On Apr 23
Hmm

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Lemmy123(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23
Honestly the stories up there are deep... Kids can be malicious sometimes, but we can't stop playing with them because of that, we should be very careful however...

I've never been a victim of false molestation or rape accusations.
But back then in Lagos, where I lived with my sis and her family.

Their little daughter came to my room without pants on.

I swear I was busy on my phone to even notice someone was in, and when I did, no matter how I tried to chase her, she just kept running around and wouldn't budge.

Then her father came in caught her by the arm and whipped her in a way he had never done before.. I was shocked. I knew he whipped her because she came that way into my room, but I couldn't say anything lest I validated his assumptions

In all, I just hope you guys up there find a way to forgive the little ones, it might have not been their intentions



Peace

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by GloriousGbola: 7:18pm On Apr 23
How soon before the red pillers start telling stories about fetuses that accused them?

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by akmath: 7:18pm On Apr 23
Today na the day of evil minded children?


I read one wey children lie on top their papa head earlier because him no allow them to go de chop prick outside.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by qtguru(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23
I don't stick around young brats not related to me, no one would believe anything for you.

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Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Simplelion: 7:18pm On Apr 23
i can relate, but in my case, it's was my uncle wife, she tried setting me up with her house help but thank jah it's didn't work out the way she plan it. the girl herself told me later.

I know someone that's also currently In jail because of a case like this, and I can swear with my life he is innocent of it

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