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Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by Proserpina:
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Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by Odebayo4010(m): 9:42pm On Mar 04, 2024
SenecaTheYonger:
Has he ever helped you in the past? If he has, then you’re not entitled to his money all the time. Also if he’s helped you in the past and you’re coming to talk about him like this, then I guess you’re jealous of the house be rented for the girl. You’re not his GF, you’re not his child, you’re not his family. He’s not obligated to continue rendering help to you every time you need it.

Men will take care of a woman before they take care of another man that’s not their blood. It’s biology.
Am not a science student but am curious to know what the biology role play in that scene
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by 1Sharon(f): 9:59pm On Mar 04, 2024
Odebayo4010:
You lack manner,you fail to realize unexpected expenses may show up that if you don't settle it with immediate effect it will laps without recovery
So why is it that most of them end up not paying back?
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by Mcslize: 4:49am On Mar 05, 2024
Don't mind him. Na stingy fellow him be. But the price of that redmi note 12 is way more than that price you quoted though. When I bought my redmi note 9 in 2020, it was 117k. Redmi note 12 should be more than 140k if that incidence happens this year, except it's not the note series you are talking about.

Pass through the girl to bill him if you want. But I won't advise that though. Just focus on your life. Na woman wrapper him be. He will empty his account for a lady just like MrCork, but he cannot help his fellow friend.

TrustNone
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by Odebayo4010(m): 9:16pm On Mar 05, 2024
1Sharon:
So why is it that most of them end up not paying back?
I don't believe it because I do borrowed and I do pay back
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by PastorOlokonla: 9:27pm On Mar 05, 2024
1Sharon:
So why is it that most of them end up not paying back?
The bigger question is why the entitlement to other people's money? I don't get it.
They are the most stingiest and love to complain.
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by 1Sharon(f): 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2024
Odebayo4010:
I don't believe it because I do borrowed and I do pay back
That's great for you. But most times friends borrowing money ruins the relationship.
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by DKM123: 8:44am On Apr 02, 2024
TrustNone Victor Omerigwe, the entitled biaatch. When will you be a grown up man and start giving to others. Must you always beg like a little baby biatch and be entitled to other men's money? Then cry when they give a lady but don't give you any crumbs. Is that why you became a g@y fcuuker, Victor? Just so real men can dash you money?!

You no get sh@me o. Old man like you! Spiiittts in d!sgust! That's why you have stayed a Nairaland begg@r for over a decade now cos you only want to take but never give! Ole buruku!


TrustNone , the 40 year old expelled teacher named Victor Omerigwe, a paedoph!le g@y rap!st and Ch!ld molester, resident Nairaland beggar and perpetual internet scammer also known as HellVictorinho6 aka abba190 aka EbenezerTriumph aka keet13 aka MrsAminaBello and 40 other monikers.... I will keep coming for you until you are arrested for scamming a p00r widowed mother of 4 and scouting for underaged kids on the internet to m0lest. You must pay for all your evul doings.
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by We4all: 9:04pm On Nov 03, 2024
TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.
Begi...begi...JobAndVacancies, so begging for 5K is your hobby? Jobless and broke niggar trolling on Nairaland. Ode...
Re: Why Are Guys So Heartless To Their Fellow Men? by Polynek(m): 10:26pm On Nov 03, 2024
TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.
So sorry for ur experience Bro.
I have been in ur shoes but I don't regret it bcox I always do things that I can afford to lose, I help people for the sake of mankind not for their immediate reward. You might get ur reward in another form from another person.
Besides don't generalize okay, some uneducated people are still good while some educated people are bad.
No b education dey make person good or bad
It is inborn.
Life na teacher
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